How many of you can admit to being a jealous type in relationships?
 

Comon everyone, spill....

i can admit i am the jealous type... but not to the point where i actually mention stuff.. i just keep it in because i know i'm being irrational

there is no such thing as "jealousy" in a relationship - its actually called "insecure"

:2 cents:

i've heard that before too... that its either insecurity or that there isn't really any trust...

but that hasn't proven true in my relationship, been with my girlfriend for 4 years and she has never been the type to act flirty with anyone or respond to guys who flirt with her... i trust her 100% but still get jealous over stupid shit sometimes, though im trying not to as much

it depends on what you mean by "jealous".

i think every guy who actually loves his girl, experiences some sort of a negative feeling when their girl is socializing in one way or another with a different male (who this male is, obviously plays a big role)..

I'll admit Ive been jealous. Its a normal instinct. Nothing to be ashamed of.

very good point

interesting, so far 100% of the people who voted are the jealous type... i'm assuming people like stewie/vanilla duke/ramona halycon/tassy newbreed/arika are going to vote no because they have really strong relationships.. in my opinion their type of relationship is one of the strongest because they are so open with eachother and are okay with other people looking at their loved ones... i give them props for being able to be okay with that, because that takes a REALLY strong relationship to be able to do that

what he said.

i think there is also basic male biology to content with. we are programmed to protect our mate from others just as any other animal on the planet is.

not jealous at all.

Yeah, I have played the part of the green eyed monster before. I admit it.

I admit it. i'm jealous.


Because peoples dint take care of me enought when i was a kid. I alway's have the fear that my lover would find someone else more interresting then me and will loose interrest.

That suck because i'm truly a nice person and loose many fine girls because of that. I still want to found a family and have kids.

you can't attribute tassy's & halycon's relationship to being strong simply on account of their open sexuality...

i'm jealous. not incredibly jealous, but pretty jealous.

I may have worded that wrong... what i was trying to say is that if they can both handle eachother getting hit on and stared at all the time, its pretty safe to say they have a really strong relationship..

(if halycon and tassy are reading this, sorry for using you guys as an example i know your relationship is none of my business, but just seemed like a good example of a strong relationship)

Iam not jealous at all, really could care less.
If my lady wanted to cheat on me, what right do I have to say anything except goodbye.
it is her life and she can do as she pleases.

Im a nightmare - so jealous its scary

But to be honest most of the people I have had relationships with have fucked around on me. I think its a "self fulfilling prophecy".

would you be able to keep that mindset right after finding out your girlfriend that you love cheated on you?

It almost ended a 6 year relationship with Ramona, I am extremly jealous with her. She has never given me a reason to be, she has been the most loyal and trustworthy girlfrind I've ever had, but I tend to say stupid shit to her when I'm drunk and excuse her of the most stupid things ever. And your right its my insecurities, I have always landed hot chicks and have never been ashamed of who I was with cuz I can pull fine bitches, needless to say all my relationships have ended because of my jealousy and insecurities, but I'm working on it and try and not act like a total ass with her as much as i did :thumbsup

Yes and as fucking ugly and short as I am the ladies just tend to melt in the Dukes arms;) Those of you who know me have seen it happen..LOL :winkwink:

i think the more jealous a person is, the more it pushes the other one away from you to the point where they end up DO cheating because the relationship has gone to shit..

i've noticed the more you act like you don't give a fuck, the more the girl clings to you

hahha i feel you, i'm ugly as fuck too :1orglaugh

I was a little bit in the begining of a long term relationship,but then later on I didn't care at all

Not jealous at all.

Not me . My girl does whatever the fuck she wants when she wants . Same for me ... if she's not happy, she can go to hell.

I just trust her ... a relationship is nothing without trust. I rather get cheated on then be insecure about everything.

yeah, i'm jealous in some way...it's healthy

I will admit to having the trust I have for my g/f being shaken at some point. Its because of some aroused suspicions and the ending, I was right about it.

Jealousy is just normal within a relationship. It will only shows that you love that person.

Yes, I'm jealous, insecure etc. I have no problem admitting that. I'm needy :)

I also find jealousy to be a 'turn on.' Deranged? Maybe. I think it's cute! As long as it's in a caring way and not in an angry/abusive way.

i admit, i do get jealous. eventhough you trust your guy and all, time will really come that you will feel something and you start to get jealous. and once you tell it to your partner and discuss about it, everyting will turn out right. nothing to be ashamed of being jealous...

me....I hate that shit.

I'm the jealous type...

But if he cheats on me just be honest and I will let it go...

Jealousy comes when the guy/girl doesnt feel secure to their partners...
that's it!

I'm not thank god.


:)

I admit it!!

Yep
I have been married 3 times and my last 2 wifes cheated on me.
But like I told them it is thier life if they want to be with someone else then who am I to stop them, I do not own them.
Of course I will not be with an unfaithfull woman. So now I am single until the next time

Do any of the people who are jealous think they aren't good enough for their other half?

I am a jealous person but I make sure I am not showing it to my someone.

I'm very secure but I've been jealous.
I only don't trust other men.

Jealousy is not bad at all.

it's mutual
girls hide it better

nope, i sure don't.

i am occasionally jealous - mostly for weird, random shit. i know arie has never given me cause, and it's not massive amounts of jealousy. i tell him calmly how i feel because i think holding it in is worse. he's had a few jealous moments, and let me know, too. neither of us flirt, but i think a tiny bit of jealousy is normal at times unless you're very stable stable people.