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oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 11:22 AM

has your girl ever asked you to pay, (gas, hotel room etc) and told you that your a real gentleman if you do?
i don't mind paying for a dinner or a drink but if she asks you to pay for all i thinks it's a bit greedy. I told her that i needed to save some money but she insisted that i should pay "your a real gentleman"
Can't you be a gentleman if you don't pay all the time or

mrthumbs · 08-07-2005, 11:23 AM

only in a real shallow relationship stuff like that is an issue.

NickRac · 08-07-2005, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by mrthumbs

only in a real shallow relationship stuff like that is an issue.

I concur - what a bitch!

digi · 08-07-2005, 11:25 AM

I dont mind paying either but the day my girlfriend asks me to pay for all that shit is the day Im kicking her ass out of the door.

SouthernGirl · 08-07-2005, 11:26 AM

is she very broke?

TurboAngel · 08-07-2005, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by mrthumbs

only in a real shallow relationship stuff like that is an issue.

StuartD · 08-07-2005, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by NickRac

I concur - what a bitch!

I think he meant it for both of them... not just her.

imageman · 08-07-2005, 11:28 AM

Or bitches walk !!!

Do you want a bitch as a girlfriend ?

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 11:29 AM

we have'nt been seeing eachother for a long time but (1 month)
Last time i was out with a girl that i studied together with (she was 34 and i 25) she wanted to buy me dinner because i was short of money, and we where only friends. It does'nt seem to happen often that a girl want's to pay

SouthernGirl · 08-07-2005, 11:30 AM

is she barely pays the electric bill,and you make 6 figures, then it is YOU WHO IS THE BITCH to care about this

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 11:32 AM

in sweden we say "free tastes the best"

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by SouthernGirl

is she barely pays the electric bill,and you make 6 figures, then it is YOU WHO IS THE BITCH to care about this

So your only after the free stuff, don't you think it's abit old fashioned
that the man should pay everything.

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 11:37 AM

and i only ment the gas, hotel room, drink on our 2 day trip (holiday). but still it's not free gas is $1.50 here / liter

SouthernGirl · 08-07-2005, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by oberheimer

So your only after the free stuff, don't you think it's abit old fashioned
that the man should pay everything.

no, i pay my own way, but is she giving you free pussy? if so, then you need to stop being such a little bitch about what prolly amounts to a few hundred dollars.

beemk · 08-07-2005, 11:40 AM

sounds like you have a gold digger on your hands. i had a girlfriend a long time ago say "you're the guy, you're supposed to pay" about something, which i usually do. but after that i didnt pay for shit for her.

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by beemk

sounds like you have a gold digger on your hands. i had a girlfriend a long time ago say "you're the guy, you're supposed to pay" about something, which i usually do. but after that i didnt pay for shit for her.

Im about to do the same last time we where out she even told me she would walk with me to the ATM to get cash so i can buy her a drink, i did'nt do that.
Because i payed for her entry $14 (she did'nt have money on her and they did'nt take visa card)

escorpio · 08-07-2005, 11:44 AM

Dump that bitch NOW!

SouthernGirl · 08-07-2005, 11:45 AM

i love all these virgins who dont have girls telling you to dump yours.

consider the source.

Lace · 08-07-2005, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by SouthernGirl

no, i pay my own way, but is she giving you free pussy? if so, then you need to stop being such a little bitch about what prolly amounts to a few hundred dollars.

You're a worthless c unt. Free pussy? lol..

escorpio · 08-07-2005, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by SouthernGirl

no, i pay my own way, but is she giving you free pussy?

"Free pussy"? Is pussy something she should charge for? How much do you get for yours?

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by SouthernGirl

no, i pay my own way, but is she giving you free pussy? if so, then you need to stop being such a little bitch about what prolly amounts to a few hundred dollars.

Free pussy lol, do you really think i pay for that, so funny
If you can't come up with anything better, then eveyone is just going to laugh. That's what i think

Istrijan · 08-07-2005, 11:53 AM

Dump that chick and get another one. Damn, having a girl just for your money sucks.

Rhesus · 08-07-2005, 11:54 AM

I think she's going too far, you're right oberheimer. Just tell her it's ridiculous.

QuaWee · 08-07-2005, 11:56 AM

i roll dutch

Sosa · 08-07-2005, 12:02 PM

heh glad my gf isn't like that.

Downtime · 08-07-2005, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by SouthernGirl

is she barely pays the electric bill,and you make 6 figures, then it is YOU WHO IS THE BITCH to care about this

I agree, but i think we need to know who makes what in this relationship before anyone can judge.

The Other Sweetie · 08-07-2005, 12:06 PM

Aren't you the guy who made a thread about this girl already? The one you met in a club a few weeks ago, took her on vacation and now you like her friend better instead?

Quit making so many threads about her and dump her ass already. She's taking you for a ride.

DutchTeenCash · 08-07-2005, 12:12 PM

wow you know her one month and youre comparing this to lifetime relations AND youre talking bout spending $14? damn you must be the best bf there is...

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by thinkx

wow you know her one month and youre comparing this to lifetime relations AND youre talking bout spending $14? damn you must be the best bf there is...

That was just one of the things the gas and hotel was alot more, but the thing is that she want's alot free

Rhesus · 08-07-2005, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by oberheimer

That was just one of the things the gas and hotel was alot more, but the thing is that she want's alot free

No girl with a little class will ask for it

jt420 · 08-07-2005, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SouthernGirl

no, i pay my own way, but is she giving you free pussy? if so, then you need to stop being such a little bitch about what prolly amounts to a few hundred dollars.

how about some free dick

DutchTeenCash · 08-07-2005, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by oberheimer

That was just one of the things the gas and hotel was alot more, but the thing is that she want's alot free

ok the way I see it is:

1. shes trying to get you to pay for anything and will kick your ass afterwards
2. she loves you and thinks you have a serious problem talkin bout 14 bucks online

qwe · 08-07-2005, 12:36 PM

i pay everytime... but she needs to pass a test, like next time u go to bar or something, at the end say u forgot wallet in the car and if she says something like "it's ok i'll get it" then she's fine... after that i don't mind spending alot of $ on her....

JD · 08-07-2005, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by oberheimer

has your girl ever asked you to pay, (gas, hotel room etc) and told you that your a real gentleman if you do?
i don't mind paying for a dinner or a drink but if she asks you to pay for all i thinks it's a bit greedy. I told her that i needed to save some money but she insisted that i should pay "your a real gentleman"
Can't you be a gentleman if you don't pay all the time or

stuff your fist in her ass and say "Am I a real gentleman now!! HUH AM I! WHAT WHAT WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT!.....................owned"

phonesex · 08-07-2005, 01:12 PM

It depends on how deep the relationship is. If its my wife or fiance, no problem. If its a girl your banging and only intend on banging, keep it to a minimum on how much you spend on her. The less the better. Why spend your money on a hoe?

If she is a nice girl your dating/girlfriend, if she is cool, sometimes she would request to pay for the dinner. I guess if you guys went out 10 times, she might pay 1-2 times. If she never does, dump the bitch and find yourself a new one. Theres plent of fish in the sea.

boner 2.0 · 08-07-2005, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by escorpio

"Free pussy"? Is pussy something she should charge for? How much do you get for yours?

lmao

if she charge =

nikad · 08-07-2005, 01:46 PM

As a girl, I would say that those things are agreed " spontaneusly " it depends on the stability of the couple I guess, you are sharing everything with the other one, who cares who pays wot????????? Btw, it is a question of pride/class too, if he doesn't do it, I would never ask him to pay for stuff!
nik

pocketkangaroo · 08-07-2005, 01:48 PM

I've always paid for that kind of stuff when going out. I just think that's what a guy should do. However, it is nice to have the girl offer the first few times atleast.

pubenemy · 08-07-2005, 02:13 PM

Did you ask her to go on the trip? IMO if you asked her to go on the trip you should be footing the bill for everything. Now if she offered to pay for something that would be fine. Dont have enough information on this situation to tell really. Just my 2 cents. =)

Dirty Dane · 08-07-2005, 02:20 PM

Does she spit or swallow? Thats an important detail here.

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 02:40 PM

i guess we are all different but it would be nice if she could pay for once. And i told her i needed to save money that i could'nt afford to pay for all but she did'nt say anything about it (after i payed). And i don't earn 6 figure, im looking for new work or maybe study some more. I don't mind paying if they don't ask 6 times about it. If you don't have the money you don't.
I think it's abit greedy. If she asks 6 times then it's a money problem not dating problem

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 02:42 PM

if i would be earning 6 figure i would'nt be here now.

Sly · 08-07-2005, 02:45 PM

She's going to run you broke while not appreciating a bit of it. She probably does the same to every guy she dates.

Ditch the bitch.

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 02:47 PM

Next time she asks me out i tell her im out of money, then i think she will understand. Hopefully

Enema · 08-07-2005, 02:53 PM

It's better to be honest with her... If you can't be honest about this situation, it's really going nowhere anyway.

I had been with my gf for about 3 years and felt like it was just "expected" that I would pay when we went to dinner, movies or even got groceries...

I told her that I felt like she expected me to pay for stuff and she said that because I had been doing it for so long it did sort of just pan out that way, so we agreed to open a joint account.. (i guess if you're dating you could open a joint "jar")

We each put only $100 of our own cash in there each week and the jar is only to be used on stuff that we do together... like dinner, movies, groceries, holidays.

So you still get your own money in your regular account but now there's no feeling like you're getting jibbed.

Screw being a "gentleman".. if she wants you to conform to a 1950's definition of a man, she should conform to a 1950's definition of a woman and get the fuck back into the kitchen.

oberheimer · 08-07-2005, 03:01 PM

it's the same if we go to let say Asia or US then i don't pay 1k for the ticket + hotel etc i think it should be obvious. Other girls i have met before have been diffent, not likte this.
She keep saying that the guys in polen are more gentlemen not like here in sweden.

SouthernGirl · 08-07-2005, 03:01 PM

If you two are on pretty equal financial footing, then no it isn't right for you to have to pay all the time. You should suggest some cheap dates, like renting a movie and cooking at home.

tungsten · 08-07-2005, 03:02 PM

thats pretty fucked up if such a question arose

sleeves · 08-07-2005, 03:06 PM

You need to check your girl plain and simple. Nice guys always get taken advantage of. If I were you I'd tell her to fuck off and start seeing other women. Gold diggers are good for nothing more than a one night stand. I meet these types all the time, their attitudes are for shit and they think their owed something from men for their time. Best thing you can really do is put it on them and then dog them. If your game is tight they'll change their tune and come running, next thing you know you'll be the one demanding shit. Just remember to put yourself first, fuck a bitch!

JuiceMonkey · 08-07-2005, 03:08 PM

fuck that shit

08-07-2005, 11:22 AM	#1
oberheimer So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: sweden Posts: 791	has your girl ever asked you to pay, (gas, hotel room etc) and told you... has your girl ever asked you to pay, (gas, hotel room etc) and told you that your a real gentleman if you do? i don't mind paying for a dinner or a drink but if she asks you to pay for all i thinks it's a bit greedy. I told her that i needed to save some money but she insisted that i should pay "your a real gentleman" Can't you be a gentleman if you don't pay all the time or

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oberheimer So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: sweden Posts: 791	we have'nt been seeing eachother for a long time but (1 month) Last time i was out with a girl that i studied together with (she was 34 and i 25) she wanted to buy me dinner because i was short of money, and we where only friends. It does'nt seem to happen often that a girl want's to pay

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SouthernGirl So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: rural TN Posts: 615	is she barely pays the electric bill,and you make 6 figures, then it is YOU WHO IS THE BITCH to care about this

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oberheimer So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: sweden Posts: 791	in sweden we say "free tastes the best"

08-07-2005, 11:37 AM	#13
oberheimer So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: sweden Posts: 791	and i only ment the gas, hotel room, drink on our 2 day trip (holiday). but still it's not free gas is $1.50 here / liter

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SouthernGirl So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: rural TN Posts: 615	i love all these virgins who dont have girls telling you to dump yours. consider the source.

08-07-2005, 11:53 AM	#22
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Rhesus Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,009	I think she's going too far, you're right oberheimer. Just tell her it's ridiculous.

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oberheimer So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: sweden Posts: 791	i guess we are all different but it would be nice if she could pay for once. And i told her i needed to save money that i could'nt afford to pay for all but she did'nt say anything about it (after i payed). And i don't earn 6 figure, im looking for new work or maybe study some more. I don't mind paying if they don't ask 6 times about it. If you don't have the money you don't. I think it's abit greedy. If she asks 6 times then it's a money problem not dating problem

08-07-2005, 02:42 PM	#42
oberheimer So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: sweden Posts: 791	if i would be earning 6 figure i would'nt be here now.

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oberheimer So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: sweden Posts: 791	Next time she asks me out i tell her im out of money, then i think she will understand. Hopefully

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Enema Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: Australia Posts: 599	It's better to be honest with her... If you can't be honest about this situation, it's really going nowhere anyway. I had been with my gf for about 3 years and felt like it was just "expected" that I would pay when we went to dinner, movies or even got groceries... I told her that I felt like she expected me to pay for stuff and she said that because I had been doing it for so long it did sort of just pan out that way, so we agreed to open a joint account.. (i guess if you're dating you could open a joint "jar") We each put only $100 of our own cash in there each week and the jar is only to be used on stuff that we do together... like dinner, movies, groceries, holidays. So you still get your own money in your regular account but now there's no feeling like you're getting jibbed. Screw being a "gentleman".. if she wants you to conform to a 1950's definition of a man, she should conform to a 1950's definition of a woman and get the fuck back into the kitchen. __________________

08-07-2005, 03:01 PM	#46
oberheimer So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: sweden Posts: 791	it's the same if we go to let say Asia or US then i don't pay 1k for the ticket + hotel etc i think it should be obvious. Other girls i have met before have been diffent, not likte this. She keep saying that the guys in polen are more gentlemen not like here in sweden.

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sleeves Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 324	You need to check your girl plain and simple. Nice guys always get taken advantage of. If I were you I'd tell her to fuck off and start seeing other women. Gold diggers are good for nothing more than a one night stand. I meet these types all the time, their attitudes are for shit and they think their owed something from men for their time. Best thing you can really do is put it on them and then dog them. If your game is tight they'll change their tune and come running, next thing you know you'll be the one demanding shit. Just remember to put yourself first, fuck a bitch!

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