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Playa-Deak · 06-23-2005, 12:10 PM

For the past few months. I've been making approximately $2000+/Month. I've been contemplating all year on quitting my physically abusive job. I mean, I've been frequently missing lots of days and going in late. So yesterday morning. They hinter around about firing my for all those infractions. The boss along with 2 other managers called me in the office talking to me about my attendance. I FINALLY broke out and said "I really want to quit this job". I told them I'm financially stable cuz I sell porn memberships on the internet. So they got all the paperwork and I resigned. When 2 of the managers left and one of em stayed. He started whispering to me on how to get in on the online porn business. I just told him to keep buying memberships to the sites and he'll get an invite eventually... lol

But now, I've hinter around to my girlfriend that I want to quit my job. She said if I did, she'll quit me. But she knows I still make money on the net. she just don't like the fact of me staying around the house while she goes to work. I didn't go to work this morning and when she asked why I said I had the day off. Now, next morning is gonna come and I was thinking of leaving for a few hours to make her think I was going to work. But of course I can't do that everyday...

Should I just str8-up tell her that i've quit my job or make up a good excuse like saying I got fired or something? All in all, I just wanted to get some of this off my chest...

Fletch XXX · 06-23-2005, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Playa-Deak

I told them I'm financially stable cuz I sell porn memberships on the internet.

But now, I've hinter around to my girlfriend that I want to quit my job. She said if I did, she'll quit me.

those two lines are funny as hell

vas · 06-23-2005, 12:12 PM

say you got into an argument with the manager.. and he fired your ass...

bringer · 06-23-2005, 12:14 PM

say you got caught jacking off in the managers egg salad and got fired

Holly · 06-23-2005, 12:14 PM

lol

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AdultInsider Cloner · 06-23-2005, 12:16 PM

If she is into you just because you have a job, dump her ass and get a better girlfriend man! Beautiful women are a dime a dozen, but if you get one that is really into YOU then she won't care

ricks · 06-23-2005, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Playa-Deak

she just don't like the fact of me staying around the house while she goes to work.

grow up

Mr Pheer · 06-23-2005, 12:19 PM

first of all, any woman that gives you an ultimatum like that, should have been shown to the door and told not to return

second of all, you shouldnt have lied when she asked why you didnt go to work, now you're in more shit when she discovers the truth.

just be a man in control of your own life. If she dont like it, there are others out there.

willysbirthday · 06-23-2005, 12:20 PM

If your worried about telling a girlfriend you quit a job, she shouldnt be your girlfriend

SirMoby · 06-23-2005, 12:20 PM

Either tell her the truth or upgrade to a woman that you can talk to.

NickB. · 06-23-2005, 12:21 PM

tell her straight up..... always the best way 2 go

Sosa · 06-23-2005, 12:22 PM

just tell her..

xNetworx · 06-23-2005, 12:24 PM

kick her to the curb if you can't show her who is boss

tranza · 06-23-2005, 12:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Playa-Deak

But now, I've hinter around to my girlfriend that I want to quit my job. She said if I did, she'll quit me.

WHAT???

How fucked up is that?

Dump the bitch, she doesn't support you.

wdsguy · 06-23-2005, 12:27 PM

tell her u got fired.

chase · 06-23-2005, 12:27 PM

Coming from a woman who's ex-husband used to "pretend" to go to work instead of just telling me he quit..

TELL HER! I was way more pissed that I was deceived then pissed that he quit his job!

If you are still able to meet your half of the household financial obligations, and she would only be jealous that you get to work from home, she needs to grow up, lol. Or else quit her job and start working with you.

DaddysGirl · 06-23-2005, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by willysbirthday

If your worried about telling a girlfriend you quit a job, she shouldnt be your girlfriend

I agree....just tell her

MickeyG · 06-23-2005, 12:35 PM

you should have let them fire you then you could have collected unemployment.

LittleSassy · 06-23-2005, 12:36 PM

tell her slowly....

"honey, i quit my J-O-B..."

Rochard · 06-23-2005, 12:37 PM

There's no money in internet porn.

Jay · 06-23-2005, 12:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrPheer

first of all, any woman that gives you an ultimatum like that, should have been shown to the door and told not to return

second of all, you shouldnt have lied when she asked why you didnt go to work, now you're in more shit when she discovers the truth.

just be a man in control of your own life. If she dont like it, there are others out there.

Here is your answer....

BigasMoe · 06-23-2005, 12:38 PM

How bout this have her leave your balls at home for the day , by the time she gets home you will have familiarized yourself with your balls again and tell her to. Be sure to look out for a low blow though cause there fair ame then.

Manowar · 06-23-2005, 12:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fletch XXX

those two lines are funny as hell

chase · 06-23-2005, 12:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MickeyG

you should have let them fire you then you could have collected unemployment.

As much as it pains me to say so, you're 100% right, lol.

SinSational · 06-23-2005, 12:41 PM

pretend to go to work for another week then just come home after she leaves. it will give you some more time to think of a scheme.

xlogger · 06-23-2005, 12:42 PM

Its great you're doing that man. Also if you want to make good $, forget the girlfriend/wife/kids bullshit. Those things (i think) are distractions. Dump the bitch and focus 100% on you're online biz.

What are you with her anyway? Sex? Get some hookers or escorts - problem solved.

modF · 06-23-2005, 12:42 PM

Just tell her and assure her that you are making decent money. Now that you rae home, you should be able to do better. How could she really argue with that?

Hardlinks · 06-23-2005, 12:45 PM

You sitting at home = working.

Not like your sitting on your ass all day doing nothing, if she dont like it, tell her fine, ill kick in my half of the bills....and all your extra bling goes into seadoos and bassboats, nice rides...etc

Show her shes a fool.. dont tell her.

loverboy · 06-23-2005, 12:47 PM

she should accept you for who you are, else date someone else

tranza · 06-23-2005, 12:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xlogger

Its great you're doing that man. Also if you want to make good $, forget the girlfriend/wife/kids bullshit. Those things (i think) are distractions. Dump the bitch and focus 100% on you're online biz.

What are you with her anyway? Sex? Get some hookers or escorts - problem solved.

You must have a sad life.

Dirty D · 06-23-2005, 12:50 PM

Time to firm up the pimp hand...

2257-Ben · 06-23-2005, 12:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Playa-Deak

For the past few months. I've been making approximately $2000+/Month. I've been contemplating all year on quitting my physically abusive job. I mean, I've been frequently missing lots of days and going in late. So yesterday morning. They hinter around about firing my for all those infractions. The boss along with 2 other managers called me in the office talking to me about my attendance. I FINALLY broke out and said "I really want to quit this job". I told them I'm financially stable cuz I sell porn memberships on the internet. So they got all the paperwork and I resigned. When 2 of the managers left and one of em stayed. He started whispering to me on how to get in on the online porn business. I just told him to keep buying memberships to the sites and he'll get an invite eventually... lol

But now, I've hinter around to my girlfriend that I want to quit my job. She said if I did, she'll quit me. But she knows I still make money on the net. she just don't like the fact of me staying around the house while she goes to work. I didn't go to work this morning and when she asked why I said I had the day off. Now, next morning is gonna come and I was thinking of leaving for a few hours to make her think I was going to work. But of course I can't do that everyday...

Should I just str8-up tell her that i've quit my job or make up a good excuse like saying I got fired or something? All in all, I just wanted to get some of this off my chest...

Shit no! Make her a model and have her stay home with you too!

Manga1 · 06-23-2005, 12:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Playa-Deak

For the past few months. I've been making approximately $2000+/Month. I've been contemplating all year on quitting my physically abusive job. I mean, I've been frequently missing lots of days and going in late. So yesterday morning. They hinter around about firing my for all those infractions. The boss along with 2 other managers called me in the office talking to me about my attendance. I FINALLY broke out and said "I really want to quit this job". I told them I'm financially stable cuz I sell porn memberships on the internet. So they got all the paperwork and I resigned. When 2 of the managers left and one of em stayed. He started whispering to me on how to get in on the online porn business. I just told him to keep buying memberships to the sites and he'll get an invite eventually... lol

But now, I've hinter around to my girlfriend that I want to quit my job. She said if I did, she'll quit me. But she knows I still make money on the net. she just don't like the fact of me staying around the house while she goes to work. I didn't go to work this morning and when she asked why I said I had the day off. Now, next morning is gonna come and I was thinking of leaving for a few hours to make her think I was going to work. But of course I can't do that everyday...

Should I just str8-up tell her that i've quit my job or make up a good excuse like saying I got fired or something? All in all, I just wanted to get some of this off my chest...

Sounds like you're looking for a mother figure, not a girlfriend.

angel_x3ws · 06-23-2005, 12:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chase

Coming from a woman who's ex-husband used to "pretend" to go to work instead of just telling me he quit..

TELL HER! I was way more pissed that I was deceived then pissed that he quit his job!

If you are still able to meet your half of the household financial obligations, and she would only be jealous that you get to work from home, she needs to grow up, lol. Or else quit her job and start working with you.

i agree with her.. you really need to come clean and tell her the truth.. if she leaves you it's her fucking loss.. i don't think the ultimatum she gave you was right.. i mean if she really loves you that shouldn't be the case..

Socks · 06-23-2005, 12:56 PM

I can't believe you're even thinking about this. Your girlfriend doesn't want you to stay home? Riddle me this... WHY?!

Because she doesn't want her friends and mom telling her that SHE is with someone who is lazy, or doesn't have a job, or has a job she can't talk about. It's ALL about her man. She doesn't give a flying fuck about YOU.

Some women are constantly relating stuff like this to how it affects them, and what kind of perceptions other people will have... of THEM! Not you.

See what her friends think when you kick her to the curb and she's living with mommy again because she's an idiot. Funny part is, it won't matter, because it will be all your fault anyways.

I could be all wrong, but I don't think so.

xlogger · 06-23-2005, 12:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tranza

You must have a sad life.

You must have a poor life.

Hornydog4cooter · 06-23-2005, 12:58 PM

man get some balls and tell her the truth she deserves it

hilly · 06-23-2005, 12:59 PM

What are you, a man or a mouse?

ElvisManson · 06-23-2005, 01:01 PM

... MAYBE IF I BREAK MY ARM AND SET IT TWICE SHE'LL COME BACK TO ME ....

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iwantchixx · 06-23-2005, 01:13 PM

I see a forthecomming relationship failure.

We all have it bad enought hat people think we nevera ctually work when we are homeand think we can drop everything like dropping a hat to go do what they want us to do.

Now add your "She doesn't want me being home all day while she is at work" issue you are in for some SERIOUS arguments, resentment towards you and being called lazy because you "don't work"

Good luck man.

justsexxx · 06-23-2005, 01:15 PM

Is the new AOL chatroom for stupid talk?

Fresh · 06-23-2005, 01:17 PM

Tell her you havnt had a job all this time and you felt that its time to break the news to her. Say you were making money trafficing guns and narcotics.

Then tell her the truth about quiting and she will feel much better.

Mrs. Lenny2 · 06-23-2005, 01:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hilly

What are you, a man or a mouse?

Yep, squeak up, dude.

Seriously though, you should be honest with her. Her utlimatum was completely out of line. I agree with Socks too. She's too worried about what others will think of her. You don't need a woman like that. She should be happy that you've been able to make enough money in this industry to be able to quit your regular job. Plus, now that you have more free time, it will only (hopefully) increase your monthly income.

Playa-Deak · 06-23-2005, 01:37 PM

Thnx for the great advice everyone. You're all right... Lemme man up and do what I gotta do...

Wiggles · 06-23-2005, 01:54 PM

fuck i'm in the same boat, hate my fucking job of 5 years, want to quit, make enough doing this but its never constant, my wife would be pissed though if i quit.

Rui · 06-23-2005, 01:55 PM

"But now, I've hinter around to my girlfriend that I want to quit my job. She said if I did, she'll quit me." -> If she really said that don't waste your time justifying your actions to her...

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Playa-Deak Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Chi-Town Posts: 1,065	Quit my job of 6 years. Now how can I break the news to my girl? For the past few months. I've been making approximately $2000+/Month. I've been contemplating all year on quitting my physically abusive job. I mean, I've been frequently missing lots of days and going in late. So yesterday morning. They hinter around about firing my for all those infractions. The boss along with 2 other managers called me in the office talking to me about my attendance. I FINALLY broke out and said "I really want to quit this job". I told them I'm financially stable cuz I sell porn memberships on the internet. So they got all the paperwork and I resigned. When 2 of the managers left and one of em stayed. He started whispering to me on how to get in on the online porn business. I just told him to keep buying memberships to the sites and he'll get an invite eventually... lol But now, I've hinter around to my girlfriend that I want to quit my job. She said if I did, she'll quit me. But she knows I still make money on the net. she just don't like the fact of me staying around the house while she goes to work. I didn't go to work this morning and when she asked why I said I had the day off. Now, next morning is gonna come and I was thinking of leaving for a few hours to make her think I was going to work. But of course I can't do that everyday... Should I just str8-up tell her that i've quit my job or make up a good excuse like saying I got fired or something? All in all, I just wanted to get some of this off my chest... __________________ I shoot Amateur Porn. Mostly Black Girls and Some White Gals... My site is www.FreakyDeak.com Check me out! ICQ: 205-608-095

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Rui web Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: On icq: 85-483-060 Posts: 9,533	"But now, I've hinter around to my girlfriend that I want to quit my job. She said if I did, she'll quit me." -> If she really said that don't waste your time justifying your actions to her...