BradM, how did you get so jaded so fast? - GoFuckYourself.com

StuartD · 06-17-2005, 01:43 PM

You know, back in the day you wouldn't have said "boo" to someone for fear that they may think badly of you and now....

well, you seem to have a rather huge "I don't care" attitude that allows you make some rather rude, outlandish and vulgar attacks and statements.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing to learn.... I could use some of that myself. But I think there should be some moderation and to be honest, you've really gone from one side of the spectrum to the other.

I'm sure it's just an "online personality" for the most part, and that you're still the good guy I know but man... sometimes it's hard to believe it's still you posting behind that nick.

What happened? What caused the change? (just curious)

KMR Stitch · 06-17-2005, 01:44 PM

Flame on!

TDF · 06-17-2005, 01:45 PM

I think he has just come from the realization that you dont have to get most of your affiliates from messageboards

BradM · 06-17-2005, 01:46 PM

I am sick of people. I am sick of being nice, simply because society thinks everyone should be. I am sick of the 2 faced crap. I am sick and GOD DAMN tired of idiots.

I'll speak my mind and say what I really think. I don't care if I hurt feelings along the way. Maybe they will wise up and stop being dumbasses.

StuartD · 06-17-2005, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by TDF

I think he has just come from the realization that you dont have to get most of your affiliates from messageboards

no, he knew that before hand I'm pretty sure. But I do think the message boards may have had something to do with it.

TDF · 06-17-2005, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by NichePay - StuartD

no, he knew that before hand I'm pretty sure. But I do think the message boards may have had something to do with it.

lack of sex does strange things to men

Pipecrew · 06-17-2005, 01:48 PM

Lose your job?

BradM · 06-17-2005, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Pipecrew

Lose your job?

Decide to stop being a sack of shit?

I'll help you out - no to both questions.

StuartD · 06-17-2005, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

I am sick of people. I am sick of being nice, simply because society thinks everyone should be. I am sick of the 2 faced crap. I am sick and GOD DAMN tired of idiots.

I'll speak my mind and say what I really think. I don't care if I hurt feelings along the way. Maybe they will wise up and stop being dumbasses.

I'm sick of people and sick of being nice too.... but I still can't help it even if I want to. It's just who I am. Used to be who you were too.... or at least, still is I think... to an extent.

I just think that you're value (self and otherwise) goes up by being well balanced... not one or the other.

To give up caring or to give up not caring... you are still giving something up and losing a part of you.

JFK · 06-17-2005, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by TDF

lack of sex does strange things to men

good one TDF

BradM · 06-17-2005, 01:51 PM

I have a lot of things I care about. 1 is the success of the company I work for right now and 2 is my family.

I really am tired of the shit in the world, and I do plan on doing my little part to help fix it.

CDSmith · 06-17-2005, 01:53 PM

Lay off BradM aka: thundershits you guys, he's been struggling with some bad gastrointestinal problems lately, probably some horrid stomach cramps too.

Haven't you been feeling the tremors lately?

shit, cut the guy some slack :D

MetaMan · 06-17-2005, 01:53 PM

i think you are both avoiding the real issue here:

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...light=NichePay

are you both having trouble adjusting?

StuartD · 06-17-2005, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

I have a lot of things I care about. 1 is the success of the company I work for right now and 2 is my family.

I really am tired of the shit in the world, and I do plan on doing my little part to help fix it.

Well, I'm sure you won't care, infact... may even upset you, but the truth is that I liked you better the other way.

Over weight, happy, cheery, always having fun and treating people right is better, in my opinion, than being skinny, jaded, always pissed off and treating people like dirt.

I'm sure I'll get chastized for that though, since it's obviously not "the GFY way"

StuartD · 06-17-2005, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

i think you are both avoiding the real issue here:

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...light=NichePay

are you both having trouble adjusting?

You try finding out you have a 20+ year old son, it's tramatizing!

BradM · 06-17-2005, 02:03 PM

Nah Stuart I respect you a ton and I appreciate your caring what I am up to I really do.
Fact is - me on GFY is not who I am. I come here to vent and piss people off. I guarantee you I have become a lot quieter in person than you remember. I've toned down a lot and rarely talk these days.

I am vocal here because I know there is no recoil. No one here sends me traffic and if they do - they know it doesn't matter what I say here they will receive a huge check every 2 weeks and can't make more with other sponsors so who cares.
The ones who will bitch have nothing to provide for me, so why not poke them a bit and stir the pot? It entertains me. ;)

There is a ton of love I have for a lot of you. Meta... CD... you guys I love a ton. In reality there is only one thing that annoys me in life.
IGNORANCE. That usually gets an outburst out of me.

That's pretty much it.

StuartD · 06-17-2005, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

IGNORANCE. That usually gets an outburst out of me.

That explains a lot. If it's ignorance you hate, then you are in the wrong industry!

BradM · 06-17-2005, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by NichePay - StuartD

That explains a lot. If it's ignorance you hate, then you are in the wrong industry!

No kidding. The combined IQ here equals that of the amount of times I shit per day. It's like god created porn people by scraping what he had left from the genetic pot and just saying "Uh... well I didn't have everything I needed with this one, but I still have a few hundred left to make so fuck it."

MetaMan · 06-17-2005, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

There is a ton of love I have for a lot of you. Meta... CD... you guys I love a ton. In reality there is only one thing that annoys me in life.
IGNORANCE. That usually gets an outburst out of me.
.

o brad they willl find out this quote is about us:

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

when i sit on top of my boyfriends cock and spin around in a circle, we call that a "latte with irish cream" (he is irish).

brad i like the new you, its an extreme part of your personality, some extreme is always needed here and there.

Thurbs · 06-17-2005, 02:30 PM

his penis prolly just so big that he got an attitude.

BradM · 06-17-2005, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SilverCash Thurbs

his penis prolly just so big that he got an attitude.

You would know.

CDSmith · 06-17-2005, 02:31 PM

"BradM's fresh face, rosey boyish complexion and tight butt cheeks belie his edgy 'fuck you' hardcore demeanor.

He IS the perfect man-date"

~ Charlie Sheen.

Manowar · 06-17-2005, 02:32 PM

I think i can speak for the board when I say:

Penis.Penis.Penis.

chadglni · 06-17-2005, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

I am sick of people. I am sick of being nice, simply because society thinks everyone should be. I am sick of the 2 faced crap. I am sick and GOD DAMN tired of idiots.

I'll speak my mind and say what I really think. I don't care if I hurt feelings along the way. Maybe they will wise up and stop being dumbasses.

Welcome to the club.

http://askabastard.blogspot.com/2005...-about-me.html

Thurbs · 06-17-2005, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

You would know.

rofl .. I should have put a fastsize link in, thats what I was hinting at

slapass · 06-17-2005, 02:36 PM

I met BradM in Vancouver and he was this great guy witha little naivete. Now he is totally bitter and burnt out.

BradM · 06-17-2005, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by slapass

I met BradM in Vancouver and he was this great guy witha little naivete. Now he is totally bitter and burnt out.

Burned out? Man I am just getting started.
As for being bitter - aren't we all a little bitter about things we hate the most?

eroswebmaster · 06-17-2005, 02:40 PM

I noticed the change too...and I think it has something to do with "success."

It does change people...especially if they think it's never going to end.

It takes that one time for a success to turn into failure and you realise that sometimes you have to network with the idiots to keep those bridges open.

BradM · 06-17-2005, 02:41 PM

eros,
I will be the first to admit I am in no capacity successful.

chadglni · 06-17-2005, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

I noticed the change too...and I think it has something to do with "success."

It does change people...especially if they think it's never going to end.

It takes that one time for a success to turn into failure and you realise that sometimes you have to network with the idiots to keep those bridges open.

What's your ICQ bitch!

eroswebmaster · 06-17-2005, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

eros,
I will be the first to admit I am in no capacity successful.

Well not going to define success for you...but I'm speaking of even minor successes.

You have a "job." you feel like you're going to continue to have that job so no need to be concerned about the affect of your behavior on the board.

That's more or less what I'm referring to.

However, if something happened tomorrow and you no longer had that job it's these ignorant pornographers you'd be looking to, to do biz with. ;)

eroswebmaster · 06-17-2005, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by chadglni

What's your ICQ bitch!

127027910

chadglni · 06-17-2005, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

127027910

Thanks.

Pipecrew · 06-17-2005, 02:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BradM

I really am tired of the shit in the world, and I do plan on doing my little part to help fix it.

Sounds like you're ready to climb.

BradM · 06-17-2005, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

However, if something happened tomorrow and you no longer had that job it's these ignorant pornographers you'd be looking to, to do biz with. ;)

Not true in the slightest. If for whatever reason I was not here tomorrow, I would be happy to work at starbucks and never have to deal with these pieces of crap ever again.

Thurbs · 06-17-2005, 02:50 PM

yo pipecrew .. did you ever respond to my last email ?

eroswebmaster · 06-17-2005, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

Not true in the slightest. If for whatever reason I was not here tomorrow, I would be happy to work at starbucks and never have to deal with these pieces of crap ever again.

Thing is man, you're going to find that the "pieces of crap" are everywhere.

Seriously..the world is just a fucked up place right now. A place that rewards bad behavior, ignorance, greed, aggression etc consistently.

chadglni · 06-17-2005, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

Thing is man, you're going to find that the "pieces of crap" are everywhere.

Seriously..the world is just a fucked up place right now. A place that rewards bad behavior, ignorance, greed, aggression etc consistently.

I tried to drop you a line in case you didn't get it. Just hit me up when you get a chance.

Pipecrew · 06-17-2005, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by SilverCash Thurbs

yo pipecrew .. did you ever respond to my last email ?

Yeah, i will send it again.

StuartD · 06-17-2005, 03:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

Thing is man, you're going to find that the "pieces of crap" are everywhere.

Seriously..the world is just a fucked up place right now. A place that rewards bad behavior, ignorance, greed, aggression etc consistently.

Yup, the world sucks... but as I always said, hatred can't be combated with hatred.

Why hate people for hating? You only make yourself become the ones you hate.

GiantGnome · 06-17-2005, 03:40 PM

I agree with Stuart. Brad you arent going to like this, but you come across to me as another Boobmaster. I know you are much nicer than you act on the board lately.
There is nothing wrong with being nice. Please do not consider niceness a weakness.

J-$ · 06-17-2005, 04:50 PM

you guys are so GAY
sounds like young & restless

Rich · 06-17-2005, 04:57 PM

BradM doesn't like me.

fuzebox · 06-17-2005, 05:02 PM

Brad: *hugs*

nofx · 06-17-2005, 05:05 PM

BradM rocks, its that fucking simple

love him or hate him , he will still stab you regardless

uno · 06-17-2005, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by NichePay - StuartD

I'm sick of people and sick of being nice too.... but I still can't help it even if I want to. It's just who I am. Used to be who you were too.... or at least, still is I think... to an extent.

I just think that you're value (self and otherwise) goes up by being well balanced... not one or the other.

To give up caring or to give up not caring... you are still giving something up and losing a part of you.

Of course you guys can't help it. You are canadians.

I remember the exact night I became jaded. Too bad it was only at 15.

StuartD · 06-17-2005, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by uno

Of course you guys can't help it. You are canadians.

I remember the exact night I became jaded. Too bad it was only at 15.

Hmm.. you may be on to something. Brad's attitude changed greatly once he left Canada and took up residence in the US.... hmmm....

MetaMan · 06-17-2005, 06:48 PM

eroswebmaster shave your beard, you look like a short penile farmer.

Sassy Girl · 06-17-2005, 07:28 PM

Someone post in here so I can get my first 50 post. lol

wargames · 06-17-2005, 07:33 PM

Brad is one of the nicest people i have met online and in person.

06-17-2005, 01:43 PM	#1
StuartD Sofa King Band Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Outside the box Posts: 29,903	BradM, how did you get so jaded so fast? You know, back in the day you wouldn't have said "boo" to someone for fear that they may think badly of you and now.... well, you seem to have a rather huge "I don't care" attitude that allows you make some rather rude, outlandish and vulgar attacks and statements. I'm not saying it's a bad thing to learn.... I could use some of that myself. But I think there should be some moderation and to be honest, you've really gone from one side of the spectrum to the other. I'm sure it's just an "online personality" for the most part, and that you're still the good guy I know but man... sometimes it's hard to believe it's still you posting behind that nick. What happened? What caused the change? (just curious) __________________ This is me on facebook This is me on twitter

06-17-2005, 01:45 PM	#3
TDF Triple OG nigga on GFY Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: in the BP4L family compound Posts: 27,296	I think he has just come from the realization that you dont have to get most of your affiliates from messageboards __________________ Sig heil

06-17-2005, 01:53 PM	#12
CDSmith Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Location: My network is hosted at TECHIEMEDIA.net ...Wait, you meant where am I located at? Oh... okay, I'm in Winnipeg, Canada. Oops. :) Posts: 51,460	Lay off BradM aka: thundershits you guys, he's been struggling with some bad gastrointestinal problems lately, probably some horrid stomach cramps too. Haven't you been feeling the tremors lately? shit, cut the guy some slack :D __________________ *Promote Wildmatch, ImLive, Sexier.com, and more!!* ALWAYS THE HIGHEST PAYOUTS: Big Bux/ImLive SIGNUP ON NOW!!! Put some PUSSYCA$H in your pocket. ICQ me at: 31024634

06-17-2005, 02:31 PM	#22
CDSmith Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Location: My network is hosted at TECHIEMEDIA.net ...Wait, you meant where am I located at? Oh... okay, I'm in Winnipeg, Canada. Oops. :) Posts: 51,460	"BradM's fresh face, rosey boyish complexion and tight butt cheeks belie his edgy 'fuck you' hardcore demeanor. He IS the perfect man-date" ~ Charlie Sheen. __________________ *Promote Wildmatch, ImLive, Sexier.com, and more!!* ALWAYS THE HIGHEST PAYOUTS: Big Bux/ImLive SIGNUP ON NOW!!! Put some PUSSYCA$H in your pocket. ICQ me at: 31024634

06-17-2005, 02:40 PM	#28
eroswebmaster March 1st, 2003 Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Seat 4 @ Venetian Poker Room Posts: 20,295	I noticed the change too...and I think it has something to do with "success." It does change people...especially if they think it's never going to end. It takes that one time for a success to turn into failure and you realise that sometimes you have to network with the idiots to keep those bridges open. __________________ For rent - ICQ 127-027-910 Click here for more details

06-17-2005, 01:44 PM	#2
KMR Stitch I am cool Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 14,494	Flame on!

06-17-2005, 01:46 PM	#4
BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	I am sick of people. I am sick of being nice, simply because society thinks everyone should be. I am sick of the 2 faced crap. I am sick and GOD DAMN tired of idiots. I'll speak my mind and say what I really think. I don't care if I hurt feelings along the way. Maybe they will wise up and stop being dumbasses.

06-17-2005, 01:48 PM	#7
Pipecrew Master of Gfy.com Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 14,887	Lose your job?

06-17-2005, 01:51 PM	#11
BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	I have a lot of things I care about. 1 is the success of the company I work for right now and 2 is my family. I really am tired of the shit in the world, and I do plan on doing my little part to help fix it.

06-17-2005, 01:53 PM	#13
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	i think you are both avoiding the real issue here: http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...light=NichePay are you both having trouble adjusting?

06-17-2005, 02:03 PM	#16
BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	Nah Stuart I respect you a ton and I appreciate your caring what I am up to I really do. Fact is - me on GFY is not who I am. I come here to vent and piss people off. I guarantee you I have become a lot quieter in person than you remember. I've toned down a lot and rarely talk these days. I am vocal here because I know there is no recoil. No one here sends me traffic and if they do - they know it doesn't matter what I say here they will receive a huge check every 2 weeks and can't make more with other sponsors so who cares. The ones who will bitch have nothing to provide for me, so why not poke them a bit and stir the pot? It entertains me. ;) There is a ton of love I have for a lot of you. Meta... CD... you guys I love a ton. In reality there is only one thing that annoys me in life. IGNORANCE. That usually gets an outburst out of me. That's pretty much it.

06-17-2005, 02:30 PM	#20
Thurbs The Thrilla in Manila Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Thurbs' Lagoon, Christmas Island Posts: 4,785	his penis prolly just so big that he got an attitude.

06-17-2005, 02:32 PM	#23
Manowar jellyfish Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 71,528	I think i can speak for the board when I say: Penis.Penis.Penis.

06-17-2005, 02:36 PM	#26
slapass Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Earth Posts: 14,625	I met BradM in Vancouver and he was this great guy witha little naivete. Now he is totally bitter and burnt out.

06-17-2005, 02:41 PM	#29
BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	eros, I will be the first to admit I am in no capacity successful.

06-17-2005, 02:50 PM	#36
Thurbs The Thrilla in Manila Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Thurbs' Lagoon, Christmas Island Posts: 4,785	yo pipecrew .. did you ever respond to my last email ?

06-17-2005, 03:40 PM	#41
GiantGnome Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Nebraska Posts: 4,344	I agree with Stuart. Brad you arent going to like this, but you come across to me as another Boobmaster. I know you are much nicer than you act on the board lately. There is nothing wrong with being nice. Please do not consider niceness a weakness. __________________ NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO-Darth Vader

06-17-2005, 04:50 PM	#42
J-$ Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 2,090	you guys are so GAY sounds like young & restless

06-17-2005, 04:57 PM	#43
Rich So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 11,486	BradM doesn't like me.

06-17-2005, 05:02 PM	#44
fuzebox making it rain Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: seattle Posts: 22,141	Brad: hugs

06-17-2005, 05:05 PM	#45
nofx Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Virgin Mary's womb Posts: 16,826	BradM rocks, its that fucking simple love him or hate him , he will still stab you regardless __________________ Often times I wonder why There's love and hate, theres live or die. When sickness comes I must decide: When feelings go, theres suicide.

06-17-2005, 06:48 PM	#48
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	eroswebmaster shave your beard, you look like a short penile farmer.

06-17-2005, 07:28 PM	#49
Sassy Girl Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 410	Someone post in here so I can get my first 50 post. lol

06-17-2005, 07:33 PM	#50
wargames Kliris Join Date: May 2003 Location: ca Posts: 10,423	Brad is one of the nicest people i have met online and in person. __________________ ICQ 212-115-582 Email Steve at Vas Media Group .com