Originally Posted by NichePay - StuartD

I'm sick of people and sick of being nice too.... but I still can't help it even if I want to. It's just who I am. Used to be who you were too.... or at least, still is I think... to an extent.

I just think that you're value (self and otherwise) goes up by being well balanced... not one or the other.

To give up caring or to give up not caring... you are still giving something up and losing a part of you.