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Centurion 05-26-2005 11:50 PM

It's one thing to burn your bridges behind you.
It's another to burn them while you are still standing on them.

uno 05-26-2005 11:50 PM

Sigh. That's it?

Steve 05-26-2005 11:50 PM

cock knocker, I'm too slow

Mako 05-26-2005 11:50 PM

Damn...I will miss Amp's endless e-penis contest posts with their hilariously subtle names, such as "What is your FICO score?" or "Who here lives in a $2M house?"...

What a loss.

Back to business, enough drama from people who are simply bored, and think GFY is their own reality soap opera. Someone fire up the 2257 thread-spammer v2.0 and get posting.

SmokeyTheBear 05-26-2005 11:50 PM

lol damn 50 bandits

Turboface 05-26-2005 11:50 PM

Missed 50.

:disgust

MCP_Cristina 05-26-2005 11:50 PM

Lensman, All I can say is sorry that happened to you. I've been victim to this type of treason before myself within our organisation. I can tell you that Karma is a bitch and he'll get what's coming to him in the end. WE all know you're good people here, and keep your finger on that Ban-Trigger. Don't let losers like that get to you.. :thumbsup

Fucksakes 05-26-2005 11:50 PM

sig spot :( I got nothing wise to say about him.

DWB 05-26-2005 11:50 PM

Wow......

DWB 05-26-2005 11:51 PM

self delete...

Tala 05-26-2005 11:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pleasurepays
Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Diagnostic Criteria

A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
3. believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
4. requires excessive admiration
5. has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
6. is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
7. lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
8. is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her
9. shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

I know several people who fit this. :disgust

uno 05-26-2005 11:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pleasurepays
Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Diagnostic Criteria

A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
3. believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
4. requires excessive admiration
5. has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
6. is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
7. lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
8. is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her
9. shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

That sounds like everyone I've ever met who was born post 1980ish.

aflex 05-26-2005 11:51 PM

I'm handicapping this thread as a 7 pager.. who wants to do over/under?

Tala 05-26-2005 11:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DirtyWhiteBoy
100...

Checkin in early?

Brujah 05-26-2005 11:53 PM

AMP wasn't alone in this, you fucking vultures should be ashamed of yourself. You're just as much the problem. God damn lemmings.

D-Money 05-26-2005 11:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by uno
That sounds like everyone I've ever met who was born post 1980ish.

That's a good one!

Tala 05-26-2005 11:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brujah
AMP wasn't alone in this, you fucking vultures should be ashamed of yourself. You're just as much the problem. God damn lemmings.

Damn, now I'm going to go cry. You bad man. :(

Makingcoin 05-26-2005 11:54 PM

Let me grab a beer!

jonesy 05-26-2005 11:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pleasurepays
Narcissistic Personality Disorder

add to that sociopath


behavioral characteristics of a sociopath?

an outstanding ability to charm and seduce followers. Since they appear apparently normal, they are not easily recognizable as deviant or disturbed. Although only a trained professional can make a diagnosis, it is important to be able to recognize the personality type in order to avoid further abuse. These traits also apply to a one-on-one cultic relationship.

Glibness/Superficial Charm
Language can be used without effort by them to confuse and convince their audience. Captivating storytellers that exude self-confidence, they can spin a web that intrigues others. Since they are persuasive, they have the capacity to destroy their critics verbally or emotionally.

Manipulative and Conning
They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They dominate and humiliate their victims.

Grandiose Sense of Self
Feels entitled to certain things as "their right." Craves adulation and attendance. Must be the center of attention with their own fantasies as the "spokesman for God," "enlightened," "leader of humankind," etc. Creates an us-versus-them mentality

Pathological Lying
Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and able to pass lie detector tests.

Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.

Shallow Emotions
When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion, it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.

Incapacity for Love
While they talk about "God's love" they are unable to give or receive it. Since they do not believe in the genuineness of their followers' love, they are very harsh in testing it from their devotees and expect them to feel guilt for their failings. Expects unconditional surrender.

Need for Stimulation
Living on the edge, yet testing the beliefs of their followers with bizarre rules, punishments and behaviors. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal.

Callousness/Lack of Empathy
Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them. Their skills are used to exploit, abuse and exert power. Since the follower cannot believe their leader would callously hurt them, they rationalize the behavior as necessary for their (or the group's) own "good" and deny the abuse. When devotees become aware of the exploitation it feels like a "spiritual rape" to them.

Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others. The followers only see them as near perfect.

Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency
Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.

Irresponsibility/Unreliability
Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blame their followers or others outside their group. Blame reinforces passivity and obedience and produces guilt, shame, terror and conformity in the followers.

Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
Totalist leaders frequently practice promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts. This is usually kept hidden from all but the inner circle. Stringent sexual control of their followers, such as forced breakups and divorces, removal of children from parents, rules for dating, etc.

Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future. Many groups claim as their goal world-domination or other utopian promises. Great contrast between the leader's opulent lifestyle and the followers' impoverishment. Support by gifts and donations from the followers who are pressured to give through fear and guilt. Highly sensitive to their own pain and health.

Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
Changes their image and that of the group as needed to avoid prosecution and to increase income and to recruit a range of members. Is able to adapt or relocate as needed to preserve the group. Can resurface later with a new name, a new front group and a new twist on the scam.


Other Related Qualities:

1. Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them

2. Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them

3. Authoritarian

4. Secretive

5. Paranoid

6. Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their
tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired

7. Conventional appearance

8. Goal of enslavement of their victim(s)

9. Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim's life

10. Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim's affirmation (respect, gratitude and love)

11. Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim

12. Incapable of real human attachment to another

13. Unable to feel remorse or guilt

14. Extreme narcissism and grandiose

15. May state readily that their goal is to rule the world

Mefo 05-26-2005 11:55 PM

shit just woke up and now this.... :( why do I always miss all the drama

Wizzo 05-26-2005 11:55 PM

As a Ex-employee, just glad to know that me grabbing your sweet buns in Vegas was not concidered a personal attack...:pimp

XPays 05-26-2005 11:56 PM

it's a lot worse when you have an issue with an ex-employee and they have vested "x" amount of shares.

Hornydog4cooter 05-26-2005 11:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RAM
You will find the truth here:
http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=471428

The amount of supervision that has to go on to run this thing is HUGE :thumbsup


Something you take alot off advantage of dont you?

sicone 05-26-2005 11:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PornGeneral
Popcorn! Get your fresh hot popcorn... :pimp

strike 1 and 2

FACT: Lensman does not like the smell of popcorn

Hornydog4cooter 05-26-2005 11:57 PM

So is p1mpdog gonna be banned as well?

Juicy D. Links 05-26-2005 11:57 PM

I would like to point out I was not part of this drama. My teeth are killing me. I just popped 4 advils. Sat i am getting 2 of em pulled I am in pain now.

Donny 05-26-2005 11:57 PM

Christopher Reeve wouldn't have sat for this!!

Tala 05-26-2005 11:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links
I would like to point out I was not part of this drama. My teeth are killing me. I just popped 4 advils. Sat i am getting 2 of em pulled I am in pain now.

Oy. Go to bed, juicykins. :(

aflex 05-27-2005 12:00 AM

im going with the under of 7 pages.

CDSmith 05-27-2005 12:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DonovanPhillips
Christopher Reeve wouldn't have sat for this!!

He lives!!!!!!


http://www.thewinnipegpages.com/foru...1112567954.jpg

Juicy D. Links 05-27-2005 12:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tala
Oy. Go to bed, juicykins. :(

I tried to but the pain was killing me , when the advils kick in i am out.


Side Note:

I do agree with Lensman on several points.
For example like me if you want to call me fag or whatever on the board its all good. But for example if you start posting shit about personal life and so on then its over the line.
-JDL

aflex 05-27-2005 12:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links
For example like me if you want to call me fag or whatever on the board its all good. But for example if you start posting shit about personal life and so on then its over the line.
-JDL

fag :pimp

sextoyking 05-27-2005 12:05 AM

No I see what -JDL means - Jewish Defence League :)

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Tala 05-27-2005 12:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links
I tried to but the pain was killing me , when the advils kick in i am out.


Side Note:

I do agree with Lensman on several points.
For example like me if you want to call me fag or whatever on the board its all good. But for example if you start posting shit about personal life and so on then its over the line.
-JDL

Poor Juicykins. :( Hope the Advil kick in soon.

sextoyking 05-27-2005 12:11 AM

Is it even worth me posting my opinion on shit like this?? Dunno. I have been working in adult online since 1994 before that bbs systems.. Damm even my drama filled 60 line adult chat bbs never got this hot and heavy ALL THE TIME..

So we got on Ynot in what 96 or 97, was lots of pissing there too but nothing like I see here. Mind you I like GFY, some good reading and biz to do, but alot of it - most of the time is BS. I know, I know - Freedom of Speech, Ad Sales, etc. I get it.....

After We all left Ynot we pretty much hit Netpond up. It was pretty cool in those days. Lots of biz, making of some relationships, etc. There of course was Drama there, I got pissed on like everyone else, Even Lensman will remember those Pisses on us and him :)

I dunno guys, past my bedtime and rambling.. With more gov. crackdowns coming, blah, blah, mabey less Keyboard warrior threats / fighting and mabey - just mabey a little more biz talk. I mean we are in business right???

Hugs and always Loves,

Todd

Steve 05-27-2005 12:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sextoyking
Is it even worth me posting my opinion on shit like this?? Dunno. I have been working in adult online since 1994 before that bbs systems.. Damm even my drama filled 60 line adult chat bbs never got this hot and heavy ALL THE TIME..

So we got on Ynot in what 96 or 97, was lots of pissing there too but nothing like I see here. Mind you I like GFY, some good reading and biz to do, but alot of it - most of the time is BS. I know, I know - Freedom of Speech, Ad Sales, etc. I get it.....

After We all left Ynot we pretty much hit Netpond up. It was pretty cool in those days. Lots of biz, making of some relationships, etc. There of course was Drama there, I got pissed on like everyone else, Even Lensman will remember those Pisses on us and him :)

I dunno guys, past my bedtime and rambling.. With more gov. crackdowns coming, blah, blah, mabey less Keyboard warrior threats / fighting and mabey - just mabey a little more biz talk. I mean we are in business right???

Hugs and always Loves,

Todd


YNOT and Netpond (back in the day) was mainly the program owners
these days the boards are mainly the unwashed masses - and you see what it's like all over

you cant single out any board, shit like this goes on all over

lazycash 05-27-2005 12:31 AM

Its really not that complicated. Amp is bi polar manic depressive and every time he has an episode on the board like this you can bet he ran out of lithium today. He'll get a refill in the morning and all will be well and gfy can return to a happy little community.

baddog 05-27-2005 12:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tala
News reader?
:helpme

RSS reader

TexasDreams 05-27-2005 12:43 AM

SIGH!!! Is it a full moon or something?!?!


:helpme :Oh crap :helpme

CDSmith 05-27-2005 12:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog
RSS reader

I can type with my nipples.

MicroChick 05-27-2005 12:46 AM

Lensman, I hope you will remember what it felt like to have personal information posted on the screen.

I have been going through the same hell with Oprano Gonzo, Nick, and Serge posting social security numbers of my family on the boards along with phone numbers, addresses, license plate numbers, work numbers, and even the family names of pets. There are also video urls being posted by Gonzo that are friends and family.

These people should be sent to Dante's Inferno.

I like Amp. I'm sorry the confrontation occurred. Most of us didn't read the threads, but I'm assuming from what you have said that it was very personal information.

Amp may have an excuse. His prescribed drugs may have turned against him which often happens with bi-polar people. However, Gonzo posts his material when sober and alert with the sole intention to harass and cause harm.

S P A N N O W 05-27-2005 12:46 AM

Where's my dancing GIF?

TexasDreams 05-27-2005 12:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith
I can type with my nipples.

Pics?!?! :Graucho

The Other Steve 05-27-2005 12:48 AM

Funny you should say that because it has just gone full moon :2 cents:

TexasDreams 05-27-2005 12:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by S P A N N O W
Where's my dancing GIF?

Need a headshot pic! :Oh crap

Tala 05-27-2005 12:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog
RSS reader

You can be hired to do that?




Okay, I'm being silly. I'm going to bed. :)

KRL 05-27-2005 12:50 AM

Joe, I give you a lot of credit. I don't know how you have the patience for some of the antics folks pull on this board.

You go out of your way to run a really exceptional forum and GFY gets shit on so much by idiots.

uno 05-27-2005 12:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sextoyking
Is it even worth me posting my opinion on shit like this?? Dunno. I have been working in adult online since 1994 before that bbs systems.. Damm even my drama filled 60 line adult chat bbs never got this hot and heavy ALL THE TIME..

So we got on Ynot in what 96 or 97, was lots of pissing there too but nothing like I see here. Mind you I like GFY, some good reading and biz to do, but alot of it - most of the time is BS. I know, I know - Freedom of Speech, Ad Sales, etc. I get it.....

After We all left Ynot we pretty much hit Netpond up. It was pretty cool in those days. Lots of biz, making of some relationships, etc. There of course was Drama there, I got pissed on like everyone else, Even Lensman will remember those Pisses on us and him :)

I dunno guys, past my bedtime and rambling.. With more gov. crackdowns coming, blah, blah, mabey less Keyboard warrior threats / fighting and mabey - just mabey a little more biz talk. I mean we are in business right???

Hugs and always Loves,

Todd

Wasn't Netpond the C.O.N.D.O.M. Project back then?

S P A N N O W 05-27-2005 12:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TexasDreams
Need a headshot pic! :Oh crap

http://www.profuzion.com/spannow.jpg

xxxice 05-27-2005 12:51 AM

I will not comment on any of this.


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