Broke up w/Girlfriend tonight... - GoFuckYourself.com

04-26-2005, 07:24 PM

Happened about an hour ago. Damn it hurts. I was an ass to her for awhile and we worked through that, but her parents were 100% overbearing and the situation just couldn't last any longer without someone going off the deep end. I had to stop it before it got any worse.

I'm here asking for some SAFE coping strategies...

1) meditating
2) business

Let me know... damn it sucks.

BVF · 04-26-2005, 07:25 PM

The only solution is TIME.

wes · 04-26-2005, 07:25 PM

Give it time. You will feel better. I've been down that rode.

wes · 04-26-2005, 07:25 PM

road. typo.

Spunky · 04-26-2005, 07:26 PM

You'll be back together tomorrow

Tango · 04-26-2005, 07:26 PM

a good vacation to a warm place ;)

Holly · 04-26-2005, 07:28 PM

I was gonna tell you to try guys, but they're all assholes too. Sorry, I have nothing.

Screaming · 04-26-2005, 07:28 PM

time and distraction, well after you have let it hurt for a while then dive into stuff that will pass the time and hopeful make you money

SomeCreep · 04-26-2005, 07:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pimp Dough

Happened about an hour ago. Damn it hurts. I was an ass to her for awhile and we worked through that, but her parents were 100% overbearing and the situation just couldn't last any longer without someone going off the deep end. I had to stop it before it got any worse.

I'm here asking for some SAFE coping strategies...

1) meditating
2) business

Let me know... damn it sucks.

It sucks right now, but tomorrow, get a hooker and have her suck you off. You will feel better. Then drink booze before you go to bed and that will help too. Do this same routine at least once a week for 6 weeks and you will heal yourself.

xenigo · 04-26-2005, 07:29 PM

She'll be over for more hot beef injections later this week. Don't worry about it. My ex is riding my salami now, too. Broke up with her 3 weeks ago.

mal · 04-26-2005, 07:31 PM

congrats! you're a free man now. go to a club/bar tonight and get laid.

EddiePulp · 04-26-2005, 07:31 PM

This may sound silly... but dont see her for a while(3+monhts).. not as friends or anything.. if you hang out with her, you'll end up getting back with her.. unless thats what u want

ProjectNaked · 04-26-2005, 07:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xenigo

She'll be over for more hot beef injections later this week. Don't worry about it. My ex is riding my salami now, too. Broke up with her 3 weeks ago.

that's great poetry -

Rob · 04-26-2005, 07:32 PM

She probably is already fucking some dude down the street. Get over it, you broke up with her. Rub some dirt on it and get back into the game.

Hearts were meant to be broken. It only makes them stronger when they heal. Or resiliant...one or the other.

04-26-2005, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by HighOnAcid

She probably is already fucking some dude down the street. Get over it, you broke up with her. Rub some dirt on it and get back into the game.

Hearts were meant to be broken. It only makes them stronger when they heal. Or resiliant...one or the other.

She has no time to fuck anyone else... her parents keep their hands over everything she does.

Is she talking to other guys? Probably so... but that isn't sex. LOL!

04-26-2005, 07:39 PM

I need to step up my game, lose about 60lbs, and get out and socialize more. Not to mention, make a few more bucks.

04-26-2005, 07:44 PM

How the hell is time going to heal me? I do not want to give up my time to feel better... I don't want this slowing me down in anyway whatsoever. Just because I loved her more than anything doesn't mean I can't love again.

WHAT CAN I DO TO MOVE ON (forget time)...

PlayaPlaya · 04-26-2005, 07:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HighOnAcid

She probably is already fucking some dude down the street. Get over it, you broke up with her. Rub some dirt on it and get back into the game.

Hearts were meant to be broken. It only makes them stronger when they heal. Or resiliant...one or the other.

That is an awesome sig!!! LOL

Pimp Dough,

Keep your self distracted and you'll be fine. Hurts like a bitch but things always work out for the best.

swedguy · 04-26-2005, 07:46 PM

A lot of time for yourself. Don't just bury yourself with work, time will catch up sooner or later.

If you bury yourself with work, give yourself some time to think about things every day.

04-26-2005, 07:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by swedguy

A lot of time for yourself. Don't just bury yourself with work, time will catch up sooner or later.

If you bury yourself with work, give yourself some time to think about things every day.

What types of things? I would rather not think about the pain I am about to go through. It seems weird... after over a year of loving someone to just dropping them like a wet cigarette.

toddler · 04-26-2005, 07:54 PM

a year? fuck you. Thats nothing, really. get over it.

go buy yourself a nice dinner, preferably at a place she wouldn't eat. There is lots to be said about being single, for one it lets you oggle the ladies in the next booth without your GF kicking your ass.

buh, 'over a year'...pussy.

Dildozer · 04-26-2005, 07:56 PM

I got dumped a few months ago after a 3 and a half year relationship. It hurt bad, but I stopped contacting her right away and I was doing alright. Til i contacted her again and it went downhill from there, I was near suicidal. So i cut contact again and now I'm doing much better. Today I saw her and she wants me back, now i'm not sure about it.

Here's a good way to get over it:

WOMANIZING!!!!!!

04-26-2005, 07:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by toddler

a year? fuck you. Thats nothing, really. get over it.

go buy yourself a nice dinner, preferably at a place she wouldn't eat. There is lots to be said about being single, for one it lets you oggle the ladies in the next booth without your GF kicking your ass.

buh, 'over a year'...pussy.

My last was 4 years, and I love this 1 year way more than I ever did the 4 year. You are the pussy. I'm just having some heartache.

Dildozer · 04-26-2005, 08:17 PM

We need to get you some bitches man

hydro · 04-26-2005, 08:19 PM

lucky for me im always the heartbreaker....

DWB · 04-26-2005, 08:21 PM

You need to get on a plane... fly to a place like Rio, Bangkok, Cartegena, AC, Havana or anywhere else where the girls are waiting for you and fuck your brains out for 2 weeks. Get back into the groove of being with other women who will make YOU feel good. Fuck 3 and 4 of them at a time. Make them do ass to mouth with each other. Pee on them. Get peed on. Whatever floats your boat... it's time to be all about YOU for a while.

Sure it will cost you a little, but you can you really put a price on pure hedonistic pleasure? No.

2HousePlague · 04-26-2005, 08:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pimp Dough

I need to step up my game, lose about 60lbs, and get out and socialize more. Not to mention, make a few more bucks.

Focus on the last item. Success on that point has a way of making the others irrelevant --

j-

tony286 · 04-26-2005, 08:22 PM

time is a great healer and keep busy

04-26-2005, 08:22 PM

well... the routine (habit) i have of talking to her on the phone all the time and seeing her a certain amount every week (almost same every week) and on the same days is just a bit addictive. i guess i will have to replace the habit with a new one

jonesy · 04-26-2005, 08:25 PM

amsterdam helped me with my divorce.

Dildozer · 04-26-2005, 08:26 PM

The routine is hard to crack, so are the random thoughts that will come to you. Don't speak to her, don't see her, don't write her or things are NOT gonna get better.

04-26-2005, 08:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dildozer

The routine is hard to crack, so are the random thoughts that will come to you. Don't speak to her, don't see her, don't write her or things are NOT gonna get better.

I'm sure she will go a few days without speaking, but will probably eventually give me a call.

Should I listen to what she has to say?

OR

Should I just tell her I cannot talk and I must go?

DWB · 04-26-2005, 08:33 PM

Bro,
If you broke up with her then you have to be strong and not allow her to sneak back in with calls and shit like that. Stay busy man, work hard, play hard and go to the gym and get yourself back into shape.

XPays · 04-26-2005, 08:35 PM

if she sucked as bad as most of the domains you advertise for sale here then you are better off without her

Holly · 04-26-2005, 08:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pimp Dough

well... the routine (habit) i have of talking to her on the phone all the time and seeing her a certain amount every week (almost same every week) and on the same days is just a bit addictive. i guess i will have to replace the habit with a new one

Hookers and meth.

04-26-2005, 08:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by XPays

if she sucked as bad as most of the domains you advertise for sale here then you are better off without her

Go fuck yourself buddy...

- I didn't ask your opinion about the domains I post.

Stacey_JoinRightNow · 04-26-2005, 08:49 PM

getting over it is not an over night thing, its a process where you need to undergo all the steps...at first you'll get hurt, next you'll deny, then you'll accept & soon....you'll forget, lastly you'll move on, that's it! you can't skip any of those steps or else you'll just fool yourself...actually its not the end of the world sweetie but its the start of the new beginning, maybe it all happened for u to have the chance to try out other things, to explore more, to earn more, to get more time for yourself & to be happier even without her...get your ass out from the burden & live life to the fullest...

goodluck mate, u can do it! cheer up & smile

swedguy · 04-26-2005, 08:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pimp Dough

What types of things? I would rather not think about the pain I am about to go through. It seems weird... after over a year of loving someone to just dropping them like a wet cigarette.

After I broke up with my ex (lived together for 4,5 years) I tried to think of everything else than what had happened. The only thing I did was to delay my own feelings for what had happened.
Today, two years later I have finally pretty much gotten over it.
Now when I look back at it, there's a lot things I would have done differently.

So do yourself a favor and don't surpress your feelings. If you feel like shit one day, lets yourself feel like shit and don't push yourself into something where you don't need to think about it. If you want to talk to someone, do that.

It's always hard to break up with someone. Lots of emotions are involved, no matter how long or short you have been together with the person. I wish you the best

04-26-2005, 08:57 PM

thank you all who gave constructive feedback

XPays · 04-26-2005, 09:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pimp Dough

Go fuck yourself buddy...

- I didn't ask your opinion about the domains I post.

when you get over this emotional public episode, we all have them, and you realize that you are starting off with some low-end domains and face the facts, then one day when you land a doozy, which i am sure you will if you are persistent, you will understand this and maybe I will even be the lucky buyer.

brizzad · 04-26-2005, 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BVF

The only solution is TIME.

you're black, you should know that answer is 100% un true

04-26-2005, 11:18 PM

This sucks... she just signed online to pretty much rub in my face that she is online @ almost 1:30am... hmm, trying to make me jealous.

So I wrote her parents an email saying they control her so much that she gets online @ weird times of the morning to talk to strange guys. LOL

I need to just let her be and not care if she's online (even though she is usually in bed at 10pm).

DirtyDanza · 04-26-2005, 11:22 PM

fuck whores look at them as dollar signs

wargames · 04-26-2005, 11:23 PM

Put it in the past where it belongs
i just got done with a 4 year relationship
the only way you gonna get over it is to
finally put it in your head that it is over
and move along with your life. Your ex
aint sitting there thinking about you so
why you wasting your time and life thinking
about her when you can move on a get your
shit in order.

Babagirls · 04-26-2005, 11:26 PM

breakin up sucks....well, it only sucks when you actually love the other person (or care alot for them).

time will heal ya back to normal, but till then, just cut off contact with her. think of her as a posion that you cant touch till you're not "sick" anymore. and LIVE LIFE! go out, and live life!

tree · 04-26-2005, 11:37 PM

I just got over ending a 6 year relationship in under a month.
It hurts like hell but things seem to happen for a reason.

I could give a fuck less now women are like sandwiches, and I dont like just one type of sandwich.

And whoever said she aint sitting around thinking about you....is 100% correct. So dont waste your fucking time thinking about a bitch.
Drink and work and lift weights. thats what i did and it worked great.

Feel bad?....Drink. Feel sad?....Drink

Use the anger as fuel son

good luck

hydro · 04-26-2005, 11:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pimp Dough

This sucks... she just signed online to pretty much rub in my face that she is online @ almost 1:30am... hmm, trying to make me jealous.

So I wrote her parents an email saying they control her so much that she gets online @ weird times of the morning to talk to strange guys. LOL

I need to just let her be and not care if she's online (even though she is usually in bed at 10pm).

Oh man ive been there, its almost sad how some woman try and make you jealous after they breakup with you. Just remember that whatever pain your in she is most likely 3 times as bad. Alot of women get addicted to their emotions really fast.

Traphic · 04-27-2005, 12:14 AM

i just broke up with my girlfriend last friday. seriously the best thing to do is stop talking to her, go out as much as possibel and keep your mind off it. don't let her get to your head, you'll feel like you want to go back to her a few times.. but don't do it, or else you'll fuck and be right back into your old problems. so either, find yourself another girl, get back with this one and work things out, or go get yourself some kind of new hobby and stay away from the girlfriends.. but not the girls. right now is just as good as miss right.

Adultnet · 04-27-2005, 12:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BVF

The only solution is TIME.

try to Go out and have some fun dude

hydro · 04-27-2005, 12:23 AM

50 evil bitches

04-26-2005, 07:24 PM	#1
Pimp Dough Guest Posts: n/a	Broke up w/Girlfriend tonight... Happened about an hour ago. Damn it hurts. I was an ass to her for awhile and we worked through that, but her parents were 100% overbearing and the situation just couldn't last any longer without someone going off the deep end. I had to stop it before it got any worse. I'm here asking for some SAFE coping strategies... 1) meditating 2) business Let me know... damn it sucks.

04-26-2005, 07:25 PM	#2
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04-26-2005, 07:31 PM	#12
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04-26-2005, 07:32 PM	#14
Rob I'm a great bowler. Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Right Outside of Normal. Posts: 13,309	She probably is already fucking some dude down the street. Get over it, you broke up with her. Rub some dirt on it and get back into the game. Hearts were meant to be broken. It only makes them stronger when they heal. Or resiliant...one or the other. __________________

04-26-2005, 07:39 PM	#16
Pimp Dough Guest Posts: n/a	I need to step up my game, lose about 60lbs, and get out and socialize more. Not to mention, make a few more bucks.

04-26-2005, 07:44 PM	#17
Pimp Dough Guest Posts: n/a	How the hell is time going to heal me? I do not want to give up my time to feel better... I don't want this slowing me down in anyway whatsoever. Just because I loved her more than anything doesn't mean I can't love again. WHAT CAN I DO TO MOVE ON (forget time)...

04-26-2005, 07:46 PM	#19
swedguy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 7,981	A lot of time for yourself. Don't just bury yourself with work, time will catch up sooner or later. If you bury yourself with work, give yourself some time to think about things every day.

04-26-2005, 07:54 PM	#21
toddler Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: austin, tx Posts: 1,911	a year? fuck you. Thats nothing, really. get over it. go buy yourself a nice dinner, preferably at a place she wouldn't eat. There is lots to be said about being single, for one it lets you oggle the ladies in the next booth without your GF kicking your ass. buh, 'over a year'...pussy. __________________ http://www.flickr.com/photos/zoddler/

04-26-2005, 07:56 PM	#22
Dildozer Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 7,519	I got dumped a few months ago after a 3 and a half year relationship. It hurt bad, but I stopped contacting her right away and I was doing alright. Til i contacted her again and it went downhill from there, I was near suicidal. So i cut contact again and now I'm doing much better. Today I saw her and she wants me back, now i'm not sure about it. Here's a good way to get over it: WOMANIZING!!!!!! __________________ Spam link here

04-26-2005, 08:17 PM	#24
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04-26-2005, 08:19 PM	#25
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04-26-2005, 08:21 PM	#26
DWB Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Encrypted. Access denied. Posts: 31,779	You need to get on a plane... fly to a place like Rio, Bangkok, Cartegena, AC, Havana or anywhere else where the girls are waiting for you and fuck your brains out for 2 weeks. Get back into the groove of being with other women who will make YOU feel good. Fuck 3 and 4 of them at a time. Make them do ass to mouth with each other. Pee on them. Get peed on. Whatever floats your boat... it's time to be all about YOU for a while. Sure it will cost you a little, but you can you really put a price on pure hedonistic pleasure? No.

04-26-2005, 08:22 PM	#28
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04-26-2005, 08:26 PM	#31
Dildozer Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 7,519	The routine is hard to crack, so are the random thoughts that will come to you. Don't speak to her, don't see her, don't write her or things are NOT gonna get better. __________________ Spam link here

04-26-2005, 08:33 PM	#33
DWB Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Encrypted. Access denied. Posts: 31,779	Bro, If you broke up with her then you have to be strong and not allow her to sneak back in with calls and shit like that. Stay busy man, work hard, play hard and go to the gym and get yourself back into shape.

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04-26-2005, 08:49 PM	#37
Stacey_JoinRightNow Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Montreal Posts: 6,269	getting over it is not an over night thing, its a process where you need to undergo all the steps...at first you'll get hurt, next you'll deny, then you'll accept & soon....you'll forget, lastly you'll move on, that's it! you can't skip any of those steps or else you'll just fool yourself...actually its not the end of the world sweetie but its the start of the new beginning, maybe it all happened for u to have the chance to try out other things, to explore more, to earn more, to get more time for yourself & to be happier even without her...get your ass out from the burden & live life to the fullest... goodluck mate, u can do it! cheer up & smile __________________

04-26-2005, 08:57 PM	#39
Pimp Dough Guest Posts: n/a	thank you all who gave constructive feedback

04-26-2005, 11:18 PM	#42
Pimp Dough Guest Posts: n/a	This sucks... she just signed online to pretty much rub in my face that she is online @ almost 1:30am... hmm, trying to make me jealous. So I wrote her parents an email saying they control her so much that she gets online @ weird times of the morning to talk to strange guys. LOL I need to just let her be and not care if she's online (even though she is usually in bed at 10pm).

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04-26-2005, 11:23 PM	#44
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04-26-2005, 11:26 PM	#45
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04-26-2005, 11:37 PM	#46
tree Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 1,601	I just got over ending a 6 year relationship in under a month. It hurts like hell but things seem to happen for a reason. I could give a fuck less now women are like sandwiches, and I dont like just one type of sandwich. And whoever said she aint sitting around thinking about you....is 100% correct. So dont waste your fucking time thinking about a bitch. Drink and work and lift weights. thats what i did and it worked great. Feel bad?....Drink. Feel sad?....Drink Use the anger as fuel son good luck

04-27-2005, 12:14 AM	#48
Traphic Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Southern California Posts: 117	real quick i just broke up with my girlfriend last friday. seriously the best thing to do is stop talking to her, go out as much as possibel and keep your mind off it. don't let her get to your head, you'll feel like you want to go back to her a few times.. but don't do it, or else you'll fuck and be right back into your old problems. so either, find yourself another girl, get back with this one and work things out, or go get yourself some kind of new hobby and stay away from the girlfriends.. but not the girls. right now is just as good as miss right. __________________ GET RICH OR DIE

04-27-2005, 12:23 AM	#50
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