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Chris · 03-18-2005, 11:27 AM

My girl has her mom on her back account where all of our money is and our car loan is at

her mom fell for a 419 scam that we warned her about and she swore she would not do it but she did

She ewnt in the hole 10g's
sence her mom is a co signer on the loan / account the bank froze our account

All of our savings = gone
all of our bill money = gone
more th an likely our car = GONE

her moms responce toa ll this " Why are you not being supportive of me ? "

WTF SHE FUCKED US OVER ... we have a god damn new born here and now we have no money to our name and gonna lose our car because of her stupid fucking greedy ass looking to get rich quick

i am on the brink of buying a pack of ciggaretes and a bottle of jack and saying fuck it

Manowar · 03-18-2005, 11:32 AM

that sucks man.

Sosa · 03-18-2005, 11:32 AM

wow, that sucks. I would never have someone else on the bank account.

alexg · 03-18-2005, 11:33 AM

wow sorry to hear this..
hang in there bro

Chris · 03-18-2005, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Sosa

wow, that sucks. I would never have someone else on the bank account.

she never thought her mom would fuck up like this lol

FunForOne · 03-18-2005, 11:35 AM

sorry to hear it.

wahts the 419 scam?

Chris · 03-18-2005, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by alexg

wow sorry to hear this..
hang in there bro

yup - lol as soon as you think life is going good
you get hit hard

atleast i am not 10,000$ in debt like her mom is now

We told her and told her but yeah

loverboy · 03-18-2005, 11:36 AM

man, i hate such news. im sure you can recover
from all your losses. time can only tell. sorry bro

modF · 03-18-2005, 11:37 AM

Sorry to hear, that really sucks. What is a 419 scam though?

KittyLix · 03-18-2005, 11:37 AM

how does a bank account get 10 grand in the red? did she write a check for 10 grand that wasn't in there? if so why the fuck did the bank honor it?

Sly · 03-18-2005, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by JupZChris

she never thought her mom would fuck up like this lol

But why have the mom on the account anyway?

It isn't the end of the world. It seems that sticky situations always bring out the best in people. When I was first born my parents had absolutely nothing. I turned out fine.

It sounds ridiculously cheesey, but all you need is love.

cool1 · 03-18-2005, 11:39 AM

That sucks
Isn't there anything you can do to get your bank to releash the funds?

Yo Adrian · 03-18-2005, 11:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JupZChris

My girl has her mom on her back account where all of our money is and our car loan is at

her mom fell for a 419 scam that we warned her about and she swore she would not do it but she did

She ewnt in the hole 10g's
sence her mom is a co signer on the loan / account the bank froze our account

All of our savings = gone
all of our bill money = gone
more th an likely our car = GONE

her moms responce toa ll this " Why are you not being supportive of me ? "

WTF SHE FUCKED US OVER ... we have a god damn new born here and now we have no money to our name and gonna lose our car because of her stupid fucking greedy ass looking to get rich quick

i am on the brink of buying a pack of ciggaretes and a bottle of jack and saying fuck it

HOLY SHIT!!

Sorry to hear that bro, damn I don't know what I'd do if that happened to me, I can't even imagine how much you want to kill her lol

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her moms responce toa ll this " Why are you not being supportive of me ? "

fuck that!

Chris · 03-18-2005, 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by FunForOne

sorry to hear it.

wahts the 419 scam?

google it :/
hard to explain

Steve · 03-18-2005, 11:41 AM

Dude, that really sucks. I am sorry to hear this happened to you. Isn't there some way to recover the funds?

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Chris · 03-18-2005, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by KittyLix

how does a bank account get 10 grand in the red? did she write a check for 10 grand that wasn't in there? if so why the fuck did the bank honor it?

not sure on all the detials
she was cashing money orders and sending the guy cash
we just found out about all this a few hours ago

Steve - No what the bank did was collected the money from everyons account that was on her mom was a co singer on ( my sister in laws account ) to get the money they lost from what I know now

All the bank could tell us now is that our money is gone.

sly - her mom has been on her account sence she was 16

we are both only 20

Cassie · 03-18-2005, 11:46 AM

this is just horrible. i commend you on having restraint.

Babagirls · 03-18-2005, 11:49 AM

mom or not, i'd never have anyone on my bank account. hell, even when me and the boyfriend get married, we decided to keep our seperate bank accounts but just get a new joint account for bills and such.

my thoughts are "its my money, no one elses" and no one else is gonna protect my income like i can.

one piece of advice that i was told a couple of years ago (and this applies to every situation out there) is...
"Never put yourself in the position to be able to get fucked."
example: dont cheat on your partner in your own bed, dont co-sign a loan, dont let friends borrow your car, etc etc.

no one is gonna look at for your best interest in life BUT YOU.

I am really sorry this happend to you, i hope you and your family will get through this & be okay. I guess all you can do is take this situation as a lesson learned & try to fix the problem. I'd try to take her ass to small claims court, but im not sure if that would fly or not since her name is on the account as well.

Good luck with everything though.

Sly · 03-18-2005, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by JupZChris

sly - her mom has been on her account sence she was 16

we are both only 20

Only 20? Come on man, you're smarter than that.

Good luck. Get crackin' man!

Manowar · 03-18-2005, 11:50 AM

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TheSenator · 03-18-2005, 11:50 AM

That sucks!
Rule: Never mingle your money with family.

Have a few drinks, relax and start making money.

Fred Quimby · 03-18-2005, 11:50 AM

Mother in laws, can't live with em, can't kill'em either.

Furious_Female · 03-18-2005, 11:51 AM

Ouch... sorry Chris

Lesson learned though: money and friends/family doesn't mix... on any level.

Sly · 03-18-2005, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Babagirls

I'd try to take her ass to small claims court, but im not sure if that would fly or not since her name is on the account as well.

I pity those that jump to take family to court.

Good Lord.

Phoenix · 03-18-2005, 11:51 AM

keep fighting the good fight man...dont let some chicks actions no matter who s he is bring you down

lesson for the future..dont count on anyone except Jupzchris

Chris · 03-18-2005, 11:55 AM

just got done talking to the bank
they are " working " on it now and they will contact us to negitate about the money lost

witch is fucked because only people they can talk to about getting there money back is us as we are the only ones that had any money ( few grand ) in the bank and we have a car thru them and her mom doesnt own anything

How can someone be soooo fucking stupid to fallf or shit like this?????

JOKER · 03-18-2005, 11:56 AM

http://www.419eater.com

Sorry to hear that man...

Babagirls · 03-18-2005, 11:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sly

I pity those that jump to take family to court.

Good Lord.

sometimes family members dont think of how their actions can/will affect family & do whatever the hell they want anyways.

So because of the mom in law, Jupz probably wont have a car and is gonna have a time feeding his baby daughter. I think that would piss me off enough to take *anyone* to court.

MandyBlake · 03-18-2005, 11:58 AM

i still don't get why she had her mom on her bank account after she turned 18. that's insane. you can only depend on yourself.

Tom_PM · 03-18-2005, 11:59 AM

OH man, that sucks, sorry to hear it

Never, never ever never never ever ever never never get a joint bank account.

ssp · 03-18-2005, 12:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JupZChris

just got done talking to the bank
they are " working " on it now and they will contact us to negitate about the money lost

witch is fucked because only people they can talk to about getting there money back is us as we are the only ones that had any money ( few grand ) in the bank and we have a car thru them and her mom doesnt own anything

How can someone be soooo fucking stupid to fallf or shit like this?????

I can't believe that stupid hahahaha fucked you over. Get your money back and make her suffer.

DarkJedi · 03-18-2005, 12:00 PM

Why the fuck would you put your money in an account that your m-i-l can access ?

Chris · 03-18-2005, 12:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DarkJedi

Why the fuck would you put your money in an account that your m-i-l can access ?

you dont think fmaily will fuck you over tell they do

LittleMack · 03-18-2005, 12:02 PM

Damn dude, sorry to hear that.

Chris · 03-18-2005, 12:03 PM

thxn guys

money is easy to get back
but just really sucks to have everything vanish in a split second

Furious_Female · 03-18-2005, 12:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JupZChris

just got done talking to the bank
they are " working " on it now and they will contact us to negitate about the money lost

witch is fucked because only people they can talk to about getting there money back is us as we are the only ones that had any money ( few grand ) in the bank and we have a car thru them and her mom doesnt own anything

How can someone be soooo fucking stupid to fallf or shit like this?????

"Social engineering: Because there's no patch for human stupidity."

iwantchixx · 03-18-2005, 12:06 PM

oh myg od Chris, that's fucked up. I hope the bank will be good enough to let you keep the car and your savings. I think in a situation like this they may work something out.

Holy fuck, I'd be extremely pissed off and probably kill the woman.

Kudos to you for keeping yourself together,

bdld · 03-18-2005, 12:07 PM

each one of you should have separate accounts, that way if someone fucks up thats their problem not yours.

pornguy · 03-18-2005, 12:07 PM

man, I'm so sorry!!!
Kill the bitch! Bury her very deep!
But get a life insurance policy on her first.
the bitch = mother in law (not your g/f)
By the way, REMOVE HER NAME FROM YOUR ACCOUNT!! Or this will happen again!

DarkJedi · 03-18-2005, 12:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JupZChris

you dont think fmaily will fuck you over tell they do

Who the fuck trusts a woman with their money anyway ? I moved in with a chick a couple years ago, just out of college. Big mistake. She wanted a joint account, I said no. She asked if I trusted her with money, I said no. We broke up over financial matters.

The bitch found herself a sugar daddy and ran his ass into the red.

Chris · 03-18-2005, 12:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Furious_Female

"Social engineering: Because there's no patch for human stupidity."

omggggggggg
my mother in law just gave me all the info she had on the guy
the guy said he was from africa but she was sending the cash to a house in oregon

like 2 hours from me
I am so fucking taking a road trip soon

Chris · 03-18-2005, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by iwantchixx

oh myg od Chris, that's fucked up. I hope the bank will be good enough to let you keep the car and your savings. I think in a situation like this they may work something out.

Holy fuck, I'd be extremely pissed off and probably kill the woman.

Kudos to you for keeping yourself together,

they have already said the money is gone
they will negotate with us after they look into this more

realllyyyy shitty day lol

Babagirls · 03-18-2005, 12:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DarkJedi

Who the fuck trusts a woman with their money anyway ? I moved in with a chick a couple years ago, just out of college. Big mistake. She wanted a joint account, I said no. She asked if I trusted her with money, I said no. We broke up over financial matters.

The bitch found herself a sugar daddy and ran his ass into the red.

wow, ya dodged that bullet lol good call!

Chris · 03-18-2005, 12:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DarkJedi

Who the fuck trusts a woman with their money anyway ? I moved in with a chick a couple years ago, just out of college. Big mistake. She wanted a joint account, I said no. She asked if I trusted her with money, I said no. We broke up over financial matters.

The bitch found herself a sugar daddy and ran his ass into the red.

i never have a problem with money and my girl
sence we where 16 we have shared
it wasnt her that fucked us
it was her mom

Life is sooo unpredictable

BoNgHiTtA · 03-18-2005, 12:09 PM

Damn I am sorry you are poor. Maybe you could work for a living, instead of trying to do the 'webmaster' thing. I mean, 10k to wipe you out might mean your just not on that fast path to success.

Know what I mean?

Babagirls · 03-18-2005, 12:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JupZChris

omggggggggg
my mother in law just gave me all the info she had on the guy
the guy said he was from africa but she was sending the cash to a house in oregon

like 2 hours from me
I am so fucking taking a road trip soon

Trixxxia · 03-18-2005, 12:11 PM

JupZChris -
I'm wondering if it's the 'company' that contacted me through a Monster.com add I had. They get paid through you probably stolen checks or someone is giving them the info and they are microencoding & printing them - they send you the check, you deposit, cash and then send money to them and you keep 10% or 20%. I reported them to the RCMP when I got the offer and the 'human resources' person stopped responding to my pointed questions.

I would be pissed like mad if I warned her and she did it - her errors put her kids in financial trouble

Chris · 03-18-2005, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by BoNgHiTtA

Damn I am sorry you are poor. Maybe you could work for a living, instead of trying to do the 'webmaster' thing. I mean, 10k to wipe you out might mean your just not on that fast path to success.

Know what I mean?

did you even read this thread?
The money is NOT an issue ... the money is gone.. it will be replaced ... does not matter... just the fact that it was all taken ina split second
and it was more than money
it is our whole savings our car EVERYTHING

I am only 20 - i dont have millions

GO troll somewhere else.

Chris · 03-18-2005, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by TopBucksTrixxxia

JupZChris -
I'm wondering if it's the 'company' that contacted me through a Monster.com add I had. They get paid through you probably stolen checks or someone is giving them the info and they are microencoding & printing them - they send you the check, you deposit, cash and then send money to them and you keep 10% or 20%. I reported them to the RCMP when I got the offer and the 'human resources' person stopped responding to my pointed questions.

I would be pissed like mad if I warned her and she did it - her errors put her kids in financial trouble

who knows - it is a pretty popular scam so we wanred her and warned her

oh well - selfish people

03-18-2005, 11:27 AM	#1
Chris Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: icq: 71462500 Skype: Jupzchris Posts: 27,880	so the mother in law fucked up good and proper My girl has her mom on her back account where all of our money is and our car loan is at her mom fell for a 419 scam that we warned her about and she swore she would not do it but she did She ewnt in the hole 10g's sence her mom is a co signer on the loan / account the bank froze our account All of our savings = gone all of our bill money = gone more th an likely our car = GONE her moms responce toa ll this " Why are you not being supportive of me ? " WTF SHE FUCKED US OVER ... we have a god damn new born here and now we have no money to our name and gonna lose our car because of her stupid fucking greedy ass looking to get rich quick i am on the brink of buying a pack of ciggaretes and a bottle of jack and saying fuck it __________________ [email protected]

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03-18-2005, 11:32 AM	#3
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03-18-2005, 11:35 AM	#6
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03-18-2005, 11:36 AM	#8
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Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	mom or not, i'd never have anyone on my bank account. hell, even when me and the boyfriend get married, we decided to keep our seperate bank accounts but just get a new joint account for bills and such. my thoughts are "its my money, no one elses" and no one else is gonna protect my income like i can. one piece of advice that i was told a couple of years ago (and this applies to every situation out there) is... "Never put yourself in the position to be able to get fucked." example: dont cheat on your partner in your own bed, dont co-sign a loan, dont let friends borrow your car, etc etc. no one is gonna look at for your best interest in life BUT YOU. I am really sorry this happend to you, i hope you and your family will get through this & be okay. I guess all you can do is take this situation as a lesson learned & try to fix the problem. I'd try to take her ass to small claims court, but im not sure if that would fly or not since her name is on the account as well. Good luck with everything though. __________________ Need a Text Writer? Blogs\|Reviews\|Descriptions\|Paysites\|TGP's\|Stories ICQ: 397892500

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Chris Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: icq: 71462500 Skype: Jupzchris Posts: 27,880	just got done talking to the bank they are " working " on it now and they will contact us to negitate about the money lost witch is fucked because only people they can talk to about getting there money back is us as we are the only ones that had any money ( few grand ) in the bank and we have a car thru them and her mom doesnt own anything How can someone be soooo fucking stupid to fallf or shit like this????? __________________ [email protected]

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Trixxxia Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Montreal, Canada Posts: 5,600	JupZChris - I'm wondering if it's the 'company' that contacted me through a Monster.com add I had. They get paid through you probably stolen checks or someone is giving them the info and they are microencoding & printing them - they send you the check, you deposit, cash and then send money to them and you keep 10% or 20%. I reported them to the RCMP when I got the offer and the 'human resources' person stopped responding to my pointed questions. I would be pissed like mad if I warned her and she did it - her errors put her kids in financial trouble