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sonofsam 03-15-2005 10:41 PM

100 bad situations....

Strife 03-15-2005 10:46 PM

HAHA...dumbass bitch...looks like she fucked herself. :glugglug

CybermedAndy 03-15-2005 10:49 PM

Let's finish this now-

See post #6.

sonofsam 03-15-2005 10:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AngelDollarsAndy
Let's finish this now-

See post #6.

hahaha best suggestion in the thread

Illicit 03-15-2005 10:54 PM

Why you ever turned down the $3500 I'll never know... Well you said you wanted experience, nows your chance to get it... put the site up and milk it for every dime you can. Stop crying about it like a baby.

.:St Ides:. 03-15-2005 10:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Illicit
Why you ever turned down the $3500 I'll never know... Well you said you wanted experience, nows your chance to get it... put the site up and milk it for every dime you can. Stop crying about it like a baby.

sadly I agree, he feels his time is worth more then 1k. he could have gotten 3500 and been back at a solid starting point to shoot a new site and learned what he could and could not do

sonofsam 03-15-2005 10:57 PM

its not like i was stuck on 4k...

i just threw it out there... like i said before i even started negotiating with lightspeed..... i told the web camming bosses that i would accept 3500.... this all happened in a matter of 2 minutes... they said 3500 i said 4000 and then they said no right away....

.:St Ides:. 03-15-2005 11:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sonofsam
its not like i was stuck on 4k...

i just threw it out there... like i said before i even started negotiating with lightspeed..... i told the web camming bosses that i would accept 3500.... this all happened in a matter of 2 minutes... they said 3500 i said 4000 and then they said no right away....

Put pride aside my friend. In many situations there is no negotiating. Especially in adult, most people tell you what they want to do and that's that. Not all the back and forth bull shit. Most i've dealt with get to the point, there is no time to nit pick and haggle.

kmanrox 03-15-2005 11:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sonofsam
its not like i was stuck on 4k...

i just threw it out there... like i said before i even started negotiating with lightspeed..... i told the web camming bosses that i would accept 3500.... this all happened in a matter of 2 minutes... they said 3500 i said 4000 and then they said no right away....


i usually side with the little guy, but i gotta tell ya... if you counter, that *is* a deal breaker... you declined his offer by raising.. i learned this the hard way too... i had a domain i valued at about $200, had some chick offering me $4500, i was like '5k' and she said 'no' and when I said 'umm ok I'll take 4.5k' she said 'no, you declined my offer, that's a deal breaker...

sucked ... i learned the hard way on this deal as it was right before XMas when i was a poor Marine and I could have used it...

SteveLightspeed 03-15-2005 11:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sonofsam
i told the web camming bosses that i would accept 3500.... this all happened in a matter of 2 minutes... they said 3500 i said 4000 and then they said no right away....


You just explained to everyone your mistake. Do you think I didn't hear from Steve that you were willing to accept $3500? Only when I asked for an NDA, you tried to jack me for another $500 --- so you fucked yourself. $3500 is too high too, $2500 is fair. But this is all moot now anyway, cause I'm such a "dick".


Steve Lightspeed

sonofsam 03-15-2005 11:14 PM

you know why i called you a dick... don't try and use that against me.

SteveLightspeed 03-15-2005 11:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sonofsam
you know why i called you a dick... don't try and use that against me.

Ok, $1500, take it or leave it.

Wanna go lower?

European Lee 03-15-2005 11:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lightspeed
Ok, $1500, take it or leave it.

Wanna go lower?

If i call you a dick will you lower it anyway Steve ;)

Regards,

Lee

sonofsam 03-15-2005 11:20 PM

hahha... 3500 :)

SteveLightspeed 03-15-2005 11:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sonofsam
hahha... 3500 :)

ok, $1250, take a negotiation class already.

.:St Ides:. 03-15-2005 11:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sonofsam
you know why i called you a dick... don't try and use that against me.

Calling someone a dick is not a good way to negotiate. Every post you make is another foot you dig deeper into the ground

.:St Ides:. 03-15-2005 11:24 PM

In about an hour Sam is going to end up owing Steve money for time and headaches.

Sly 03-15-2005 11:25 PM

Ok now this is getting funny.

sonofsam 03-15-2005 11:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sly
Ok now this is getting funny.

this has been funny the whole time lol

JoeA 03-15-2005 11:26 PM

ContentProducer
 
We agreed on the deal as we had been friends for so long, and I introduced her to the main producers in the adult biz over here, so 50/50 was a natural agreement. We spoke about me being her agent for a while, but we decided to build the site instead as I felt awkward taking money from her that way...

I shoot all the content except the b/g, as that's the one style she doesn't feel comfortable doing with me behind the camera. We have a friend who shoots that and he does it on a content share basis or he pays her, gives us the stills for the site and we promote the film when it's released on Dvd.

As I said, Sahara is a full time model and as well as the films she's shot so far, she also appears on UK satellite tv at least once a week in a hardcore g/g show. Any money she makes from the site is a bonus to her normal work, which earns her $11000-14000 a month. The only prob I have is explaining that what she see's on the CCBill stats as gross sales isn't what we get in the end... LOL. I wish CCBill would make the last column the amount we will receive after deductions.. AC/EGS Pay had that as a feature when they were processors, as we webmasters pointed it out while it was still in beta would be a good idea :)

In the UK there are a few webmasters who work with models successfully running a solo site on a 50/50 basis... Maybe it's just a UK thing. One friend of mine looks after quite a few of them and never has a problem. In fact he's now stopped taking on more models as he works all hours of the day as it is.

Doctor Dre 03-15-2005 11:29 PM

If you are stupid enough to shoot a model for a single girl website without getting her to sign an exclusivity contract, you deserve to loose that money.

Doctor Dre 03-15-2005 11:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JaceXXX
and now she won't shoot with you cause of that agreement?

sounds like she is the flat out idiot here...and sounds like she is the reason for your drama

fuckin women...

launch the site, no trials, promote the fuck out of it, make your money back

once you make your money back, sell the content in a blowout sale for some cheap price on some site like contentblowout.com...and let it ride for a few months...make more money back

not spending a couple hundread bucks to get a good and clear contract wrote is the problem right now

sonofsam 03-15-2005 11:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doctor Dre
not spending a couple hundread bucks to get a good and clear contract wrote is the problem right now

it was my first site.. i know i made that mistake.... i know now....

.:St Ides:. 03-15-2005 11:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doctor Dre
If you are stupid enough to shoot a model for a single girl website without getting her to sign an exclusivity contract, you deserve to loose that money.


My point exactly, only one person at fault here, all the others were just trying to do biz.

Kard63 03-15-2005 11:38 PM

Dude, launch the site already. Listen to ContentProducer. When the site doesnt make a buck anymore and she has a diferent job give that shit away for free.

sonofsam 03-15-2005 11:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kard63
Dude, launch the site already. Listen to ContentProducer. When the site doesnt make a buck anymore and she has a diferent job give that shit away for free.

trust me i have every intent to :) .. site will be up as soon as the design gets tweaked a little :)

BlueQuartz 03-15-2005 11:46 PM

start making free sites or galleries and work your arse off

you will make money and you will have to invest very little and will have nothing liek the responsibility of a paysite

this is such a common mistake peopke make - thinkin its real easy n shit - just open a paysite n youll be rich - anyways just read your post n thats it - all th best :)_

sonofsam 03-15-2005 11:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlueQuartz
start making free sites or galleries and work your arse off

you will make money and you will have to invest very little and will have nothing liek the responsibility of a paysite

this is such a common mistake peopke make - thinkin its real easy n shit - just open a paysite n youll be rich - anyways just read your post n thats it - all th best :)_

oh believe me, i will be working my ass off :)

James White 03-15-2005 11:56 PM

Launch the site, no trials, like Jace said. Just sell the fuck outa what you got now and make back your money as much as you can.

KMR Stitch 03-16-2005 12:03 AM

Very intresting read.

Illicit 03-16-2005 12:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lightspeed
ok, $1250, take a negotiation class already.


:1orglaugh :1orglaugh I think he is learning alot from you owning his ass

sonofsam 03-16-2005 12:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Illicit
:1orglaugh :1orglaugh I think he is learning alot from you owning his ass

http://www.2kstore.com/smb/images/20x38_ASP.jpg

venus 03-16-2005 12:08 AM

gonna throw my :2 cents: in on this real quick.
For starters, your not out as much money as your suggesting. The equipmnent is something you can use again and again and again with different models so you can't really include that in the loss. Your not out on money for the model because you have her content, and I can tell you this, its not the amount of content you have, its the quality of the content. I do not see where your out money.
The situation did not work out with that girl, get used to it and move on, launch the site, use her as the spokesperson, then add other content...its not hard. If you have good content use it, if you dont, toss it and start over. There is a million things you can do, dont focus on the one bit of content, this business is a bitch, like most businesses, stay in it long enough and your going to get fucked over, stabbed in the back and ripped off.

dont worry about lightspeed, dont worry about the model, dont worry about the cam place, focus on YOUR goal and get on with it, you sound like life is over, you do not have to follow other people examples of a "single girl site", do it your way and dont even look at other sites untill yours is done the way you want it to be.

Illicit 03-16-2005 12:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by venus
gonna throw my :2 cents: in on this real quick.
For starters, your not out as much money as your suggesting. The equipmnent is something you can use again and again and again with different models so you can't really include that in the loss. Your not out on money for the model because you have her content, and I can tell you this, its not the amount of content you have, its the quality of the content. I do not see where your out money.
The situation did not work out with that girl, get used to it and move on, launch the site, use her as the spokesperson, then add other content...its not hard. If you have good content use it, if you dont, toss it and start over. There is a million things you can do, dont focus on the one bit of content, this business is a bitch, like most businesses, stay in it long enough and your going to get fucked over, stabbed in the back and ripped off.

dont worry about lightspeed, dont worry about the model, dont worry about the cam place, focus on YOUR goal and get on with it, you sound like life is over, you do not have to follow other people examples of a "single girl site", do it your way and dont even look at other sites untill yours is done the way you want it to be.

Good Advice.... You should take it... :2 cents:

sonofsam 03-16-2005 12:12 AM

yah , thinking over it... i don't think it will be so bad... because of this situation i have made a lot of new contacts... i think i'll just launch her site and offer lifetime membership or something along those lines... a lot of very nice people have offered me free content.. i'm not going to use it because i dont want something for free... but everyones been really helpfull...

a big thanks to the people that have icqed me... and contentproducer for the free content offer...

i'm pretty much done with this thread.. :)

hydro 03-16-2005 12:18 AM

I ran into a problem like this too back in november and the best thing to do at this point is just promote the site with what you have and add in some filler content. I had about 30 pic sets and 13 videos from this girl then she got this new boyfriend and just flaked on me so i just used it.

venus 03-16-2005 12:20 AM

you should post a pic of this model, I am curious as to why she is so important to you. She does not seem to be a really big deal to lightspeed because he said he would not use her and for you to go for it, lets see who all this mess was over if you can do it.

sonofsam 03-16-2005 12:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by venus
you should post a pic of this model, I am curious as to why she is so important to you. She does not seem to be a really big deal to lightspeed because he said he would not use her and for you to go for it, lets see who all this mess was over if you can do it.

www.adultforum.ca/skinnymandy ... the designs not tweaked yet.. but that gives u an idea of what she looks like

webgurl 03-16-2005 12:23 AM

No offence sonofsam this time you should do some more research before getting into yourself into further issues . I'm only trying to tell u this cause you are still really fresh noobie and wish u don't waste anymore $$$ into this side of the business .
Learn more about this industry before you make another move . :2 cents:

Donny 03-16-2005 12:35 AM

If Steve has decided not to use the model make a site with that content you have, get back as much money as you can, and then put all of the content for sale on Ounique.com . They'll sell it for you to their huge database of webmasters and give you 50% of all sales forever. 4 years from now you'll still be making money on that content.

Of course, since you need money now your best bet is to sell your content to Lightspeed. Keep trying to negotiate until they say, "Absolutely not. We are not interested." At that point, see my first paragraph.

sonofsam 03-16-2005 12:41 AM

negotiations are over already, im just gonna go ahead and launch the site.. then when it doesnt sell anymore.. release it all for free lol :)

Pornwolf 03-16-2005 12:55 AM

This might be a cool time to think about using an AVS system. Deluxe Pass would probably make you a decent amount of money and provide you with the content that will keep the rebills flowing. Use their hosting too and you end up with no additional costs since that seems like an important thing in your case.

sonofsam 03-16-2005 12:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pornwolf
This might be a cool time to think about using an AVS system. Deluxe Pass would probably make you a decent amount of money and provide you with the content that will keep the rebills flowing. Use their hosting too and you end up with no additional costs since that seems like an important thing in your case.

i already have the CCBill thing covered but thanks for the suggestion :)

Donny 03-16-2005 01:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sonofsam
negotiations are over already, im just gonna go ahead and launch the site.. then when it doesnt sell anymore.. release it all for free lol :)

Don't forget to sell it on Ounique as well. It will still sell, I guarantee it. I'm talking from experience here. I sent some stuff to Ounique more than 3 years ago and STILL receive monthly royalties on it.

sonofsam 03-16-2005 01:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DonovanPhillips
Don't forget to sell it on Ounique as well. It will still sell, I guarantee it. I'm talking from experience here. I sent some stuff to Ounique more than 3 years ago and STILL receive monthly royalties on it.

i will put it on ounique for the beginning... but once it doesn't do so good... its being released for free :)

iwantchixx 03-16-2005 07:56 AM

I'm hoping that Sam and Lightspeed can at least reconcile any differences that arised from this situation. It would be a shame to not be able to do further business together down the road. This model fucked both of you guys over and pitted you against each other. Don't let that stupid whore ruin any possible business relationships. kiss n make up :)

adonthenet 03-16-2005 08:12 AM

damn i feel bad for you..
if you can please hit me up 162027899
good luck! lunch the fucking site! :)

Doctor Dre 03-16-2005 10:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sonofsam
it was my first site.. i know i made that mistake.... i know now....

You should do your homework before investing a lot of time in something ... people in this business are really helpfull ...

Spending big money on hotels, makeup artists and other b ullshit isn't gonna bring you far when you start a new site (unless you have a 150-200k to start up with) .

Doctor Dre 03-16-2005 10:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pornwolf
This might be a cool time to think about using an AVS system. Deluxe Pass would probably make you a decent amount of money and provide you with the content that will keep the rebills flowing. Use their hosting too and you end up with no additional costs since that seems like an important thing in your case.

greatest idea ever :)

Wizard-X 03-16-2005 10:50 AM

Been there, done that. My last roommate was a pornstar - a young one. The young sluts are the most unreliable people you will ever meet, and there is always an "ex" in the picture that makes your life a living hell.

The above mentioned girl just decided on a whim that she wants to go get an education - "makeup school". So she drops everything and moves away to do it (sacrificing her 10k-20k/month from porn). Out of all this money she of course has nothing.

I have maybe 10 vids of her and ~1000 pics. I begged and pleaded with her to not go. I specifically told her that she was not going to be able to continue her expensive life style if she left.

She called me up last night because she doesn't want to get a real job and expects a $2k a month 'allowance' until the website starts generating revenue. Her parents won't give her shit, so I should.

hahahahahahahahaahah

my advice to you Sam: hang in there bro :thumbsup


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