What do you get out of working with Adult? - GoFuckYourself.com

maxjohan · 01-02-2005, 03:13 PM

I seriously think about leaving COMPUTERS forever. There is absolutly no good in working in the biz or on the Internet by yourself. All you get is no social life and a messed up mind... scripts, tgps and all that mess of getting traffic and promiting the 22,000,000 built TGP on the planet. Stress...

I finally realised that this isnt for me and was never ment to be. I want to have a clear mind, a simple mind. I've been trolling this place and biz for such a long time and it really feels like a waste(I take the marketing tactics with me), now when I see the big picture. Without fear I can leave the Internet without thinking that I will miss something tomorrow.

Its time to look forward and archive something with people around me.

Happiness is tomorrow and not breathing and thinking about all the small things in life. Try to stop looking back for 10 minutes and forward instead. Can you do it?

.. So what have you got out of working with adult more than money?

Right now it feels rather pathetic to soround my life life again with Names like TGP's and MGP's and trolling in threads like "How much the Thumbzilla sell for?"

Im not that curious any more.

xclusive · 01-02-2005, 03:14 PM

Wow you need a break

0000000000000000000001000 · 01-02-2005, 03:14 PM

Goodbye.

smack · 01-02-2005, 03:15 PM

i can sit around, in my boxers, and make loot. why would i want to do anything else?

bdld · 01-02-2005, 03:16 PM

if i could make more money this easily i'd be somewhere else too.

maxjohan · 01-02-2005, 03:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xclusive

Wow you need a break

Lol, Already had one.. and that got me thinking. Anyone want my domains... ?

cyber_ninja · 01-02-2005, 03:17 PM

why leave porn?just work on it less if your stressed out.

mal · 01-02-2005, 03:18 PM

good riddance. more $$$ for me

maxjohan · 01-02-2005, 03:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smack

i can sit around, in my boxers, and make loot. why would i want to do anything else?

Because a computer is not your wife, friend or kid.

make sense?

0000000000000000000001000 · 01-02-2005, 03:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by maxjohan

Lol, Already had one.. and that got me thinking. Anyone want my domains... ?

Post them

NickPapageorgio · 01-02-2005, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by 0000000000000000000001000

Goodbye.

Bwahahahahaha registered in 2005. N00B!!!!

Stuff like that makes ya want to quit even more eh? Take a break man. Get out to the country for a week or two and just drive. Go until you run out of gas and then sleep wherever you can find a place. Hit a couple run down honkey tonk bars and get in a good scramble. Have an adventure. It'll cure what ails ya.

galleryseek · 01-02-2005, 03:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by maxjohan

Lol, Already had one.. and that got me thinking. Anyone want my domains... ?

sure.

Ross · 01-02-2005, 03:21 PM

Money and free porn.

cyber_ninja · 01-02-2005, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by NickPapageorgio

Bwahahahahaha registered in 2005. N00B!!!!

Bwahahahahaha registered in 2004. N00B!!!!

Funky Bastard · 01-02-2005, 03:22 PM

Nobody said it was easy! Just have to try real real real hard If you cant cut it go get a job!

0000000000000000000001000 · 01-02-2005, 03:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NickPapageorgio

Bwahahahahaha registered in 2005. N00B!!!!

QuaWee · 01-02-2005, 03:23 PM

You need a computer no matter what you are doing in the world.

BlackCrayon · 01-02-2005, 03:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by maxjohan

Because a computer is not your wife, friend or kid.

make sense?

no but you what job are you thinking of where you are working with your wife or kids? at least in this biz you can take time off when needed to look after your personal life, not chained to a cubical. and like others said, i can sit in my boxers and make more money than ppl who have to commute one hour to work and having to follow conduct, dress code, ect rules.

if you feel its not for you, good luck on whatever your next venture is.

maxjohan · 01-02-2005, 03:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cyber_ninja

why leave porn?just work on it less if your stressed out.

nah, Im seriously tired of booty. I want to find a girlfriend by looking her in the eyes and see the whole picture..

Tired of all the small details it brings.. maybe I come back with more loot to burn lol...

I seriously think that Im not made for this kind of stress. I want to build a business around people if anything.

mal · 01-02-2005, 03:42 PM

suicide will end your stress

Babagirls · 01-02-2005, 03:44 PM

i do both mainstream and adult, i just like building sites in general. doesnt matter what kind. i've always loved the internet and been "addicted" to it since i was like 14 yrs old. This is the job for me, but not the job for everyone, thats for sure!

i love working from home, taking vacations whenever i want, and just the complete freedom of having no boss to tell me what to do.

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 01-02-2005, 03:53 PM

Nothing else makes sense.

NickPapageorgio · 01-02-2005, 03:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cyber_ninja

Bwahahahahaha registered in 2004. N00B!!!!

I wasn't picking on him. Sarcasm goes a long way sometimes...

strobi · 01-02-2005, 03:55 PM

I'm outsourcing more and more... Will be gone in a year or so.. As soon as I get my income steady and outsourced -> off goes the computer.

TheMob · 01-02-2005, 03:57 PM

wow, maybe you just need a vacation

Dcat · 01-02-2005, 03:58 PM

Interesting. I felt exactly the same way, and actually left the adult biz for about three years. Now I'm back. While I was away, I did many other things, but I also did a LOT of reading during that time. I read everything I could get my hands on that related to business, and what it takes to really excel in it. I came to learn that I had made the HUGE mistake of working "IN" my business instead of "ON" my business. There's BIG difference! I was having no fun, working like a freak'n slave, and was always feeling like I was getting nowhere. I burnt myself right out. Now, all that has changed! I have never been more juiced about going to work everyday, and being a part of this industry. There is so much opportunity!

My prescription:

Take a long break, grab a copy of "The E-Myth Revisited" read it, and I promise you, if you get (and apply) the E-Myth message, everything will take care of itself. You will no longer be a slave to your business, your "systems" will take care of all that. You will be free to innovate, create, and dream about where you want to take your business, and what you want it to be. More free time, less stress, increased productivity, massive revenue growth, and above all, ..a more pleasurable and rewarding experience for you!

Anyone else here apply the E-Myth principals? Woot Woot!!

Giorgio_Xo · 01-02-2005, 04:01 PM

Sounds like you need to get laid.

You should hire Maru.

fl_prn_str · 01-02-2005, 04:02 PM

what do i get out more then ca$h........thats easy....PUSSY!!!

Nicky · 01-02-2005, 04:04 PM

Why give your domains away? If they make money just leave them or redirect them and still cash in on the checks a year from now, anyways, whatever you decide to do I hope its best for you!

Violetta · 01-02-2005, 04:11 PM

Nice thread. I can understand you. It can get very lonely and boring just sitting infront of the computer for 10 hours straight.

Manowar · 01-02-2005, 04:12 PM

i get AIDS

Kimmykim · 01-02-2005, 04:17 PM

Get out of the house more, and do things with people that aren't business related or that arent in this business. Charity volunteering, mentor a kid, spend some time giving back.

That's the best advice you'll get regardless of what industry and what tools of the trade you have, computers or not.

Manowar · 01-02-2005, 04:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Giorgio_Xo

Sounds like you need to get laid.

You should hire Maru.

Damn

DarkLord · 01-02-2005, 04:35 PM

probably you just should spend less time working?

maxjohan · 01-02-2005, 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

no but you what job are you thinking of where you are working with your wife or kids? at least in this biz you can take time off when needed to look after your personal life, not chained to a cubical. and like others said, i can sit in my boxers and make more money than ppl who have to commute one hour to work and having to follow conduct, dress code, ect rules.

if you feel its not for you, good luck on whatever your next venture is.

Yes, its not for me...

I have decided to announce a thread about my sell of 21 of my domains. I do that tmorrow. Its late here in Sweden.

nite and good luck to you.

Persius · 01-02-2005, 04:37 PM

take a vacation

maxjohan · 01-02-2005, 04:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kimmykim

Get out of the house more, and do things with people that aren't business related or that arent in this business. Charity volunteering, mentor a kid, spend some time giving back.

That's the best advice you'll get regardless of what industry and what tools of the trade you have, computers or not.

Yes, thats excellent advice. But I feel like the industry is no no right now. The thing is, I always end up without no real life. I have like three friends haha.

maxjohan · 01-02-2005, 04:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Persius

take a vacation

Jut had one.

FrankWhite · 01-02-2005, 04:48 PM

thats some funny shit

Theo · 01-02-2005, 04:55 PM

What skills did you acquire through the years working in this business? The internet is not just about 22mil TGPs.

Theo · 01-03-2005, 02:51 AM

bump bump

Pornwolf · 01-03-2005, 03:08 AM

Sorry to see you leave.

Post your domains please.

maxjohan · 01-03-2005, 03:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dcat

Interesting. I felt exactly the same way, and actually left the adult biz for about three years. Now I'm back. While I was away, I did many other things, but I also did a LOT of reading during that time. I read everything I could get my hands on that related to business, and what it takes to really excel in it. I came to learn that I had made the HUGE mistake of working "IN" my business instead of "ON" my business. There's BIG difference! I was having no fun, working like a freak'n slave, and was always feeling like I was getting nowhere. I burnt myself right out. Now, all that has changed! I have never been more juiced about going to work everyday, and being a part of this industry. There is so much opportunity!

My prescription:

Take a long break, grab a copy of "The E-Myth Revisited" read it, and I promise you, if you get (and apply) the E-Myth message, everything will take care of itself. You will no longer be a slave to your business, your "systems" will take care of all that. You will be free to innovate, create, and dream about where you want to take your business, and what you want it to be. More free time, less stress, increased productivity, massive revenue growth, and above all, ..a more pleasurable and rewarding experience for you!

Anyone else here apply the E-Myth principals? Woot Woot!!

Great thank you for sharing.. Im already more motivated.

Its damn hard to leave this biz and the Internet. Its almost like an addiction. On the otherside I know I need to leave this place for sometime and get a real job and more $$

I will not sell my domains, and give away my projects

Knowledge is king for shore. You are right about that.

If anyone wants some marketing advice for cheap-- just contact me.

Want to know how to grow a big TGP the best way?, I know how.... but I dont have the cash to do it myself.. Im flat broke right now lol.

flashfire · 01-03-2005, 04:02 AM

I get good money for working in my warm house in my underwear for a few hours a day...no job can beat that!

maxjohan · 01-03-2005, 04:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Soul_Rebel

What skills did you acquire through the years working in this business? The internet is not just about 22mil TGPs.

The thing is I have become an anti-social animal too. I know its more than that.

But for an outsider the Adult biz lcan look funny. What I mean is.. this business is very small and nothing new happens really. TGP's and MGP's is a little bit old fashion. No one really try to create a real business. A real business is something like CJ and everything like that.

Im not too worried about my own postion. I will make a lot of money in the future. I have studied hard.... and I have feeling on what works and not.

All I need is a little $$ and some LUV

maxjohan · 01-03-2005, 04:17 AM

I be back....

sean416 · 01-03-2005, 04:21 AM

my answer is pretty fucking simple: money. Show me another way I can make more money and I'll be all over it.

Wiggles · 01-03-2005, 06:23 AM

I don't think you had a social life before you started.

01-02-2005, 03:13 PM	#1
maxjohan Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Sweden Posts: 7,219	What do you get out of working with Adult? I seriously think about leaving COMPUTERS forever. There is absolutly no good in working in the biz or on the Internet by yourself. All you get is no social life and a messed up mind... scripts, tgps and all that mess of getting traffic and promiting the 22,000,000 built TGP on the planet. Stress... I finally realised that this isnt for me and was never ment to be. I want to have a clear mind, a simple mind. I've been trolling this place and biz for such a long time and it really feels like a waste(I take the marketing tactics with me), now when I see the big picture. Without fear I can leave the Internet without thinking that I will miss something tomorrow. Its time to look forward and archive something with people around me. Happiness is tomorrow and not breathing and thinking about all the small things in life. Try to stop looking back for 10 minutes and forward instead. Can you do it? .. So what have you got out of working with adult more than money? Right now it feels rather pathetic to soround my life life again with Names like TGP's and MGP's and trolling in threads like "How much the Thumbzilla sell for?" Im not that curious any more. __________________ I went from 100 to 313,000 satoshis in 2 days! Lots of daily freerolls... Last edited by maxjohan; 01-02-2005 at 03:14 PM..

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01-02-2005, 03:15 PM	#4
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QuaWee Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: boogers Posts: 5,791	You need a computer no matter what you are doing in the world. __________________ i luv mainstream

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Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	i do both mainstream and adult, i just like building sites in general. doesnt matter what kind. i've always loved the internet and been "addicted" to it since i was like 14 yrs old. This is the job for me, but not the job for everyone, thats for sure! i love working from home, taking vacations whenever i want, and just the complete freedom of having no boss to tell me what to do. __________________ Need a Text Writer? Blogs\|Reviews\|Descriptions\|Paysites\|TGP's\|Stories ICQ: 397892500

01-02-2005, 03:14 PM	#3
0000000000000000000001000 Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 243	Goodbye.

01-02-2005, 03:16 PM	#5
bdld $100,000 Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 11,452	if i could make more money this easily i'd be somewhere else too.

01-02-2005, 03:17 PM	#7
cyber_ninja Twerk That Ass Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Lincoln, California Posts: 2,197	why leave porn?just work on it less if your stressed out.

01-02-2005, 03:18 PM	#8
mal Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,899	good riddance. more $$$ for me

01-02-2005, 03:21 PM	#13
Ross Ik ben een aap Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Traffic Force Towers, Canada! Posts: 18,874	Money and free porn.

01-02-2005, 03:22 PM	#15
Funky Bastard So Fucking Banned Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: San Antonio, Texas Posts: 2,544	Nobody said it was easy! Just have to try real real real hard If you cant cut it go get a job!

01-02-2005, 03:42 PM	#20
mal Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,899	suicide will end your stress

01-02-2005, 03:53 PM	#22
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01-02-2005, 03:55 PM	#24
strobi Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Belgium Posts: 7,383	I'm outsourcing more and more... Will be gone in a year or so.. As soon as I get my income steady and outsourced -> off goes the computer.

01-02-2005, 03:57 PM	#25
TheMob Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: 2006 Posts: 8,584	wow, maybe you just need a vacation

01-02-2005, 03:58 PM	#26
Dcat Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Mexico Posts: 1,607	Interesting. I felt exactly the same way, and actually left the adult biz for about three years. Now I'm back. While I was away, I did many other things, but I also did a LOT of reading during that time. I read everything I could get my hands on that related to business, and what it takes to really excel in it. I came to learn that I had made the HUGE mistake of working "IN" my business instead of "ON" my business. There's BIG difference! I was having no fun, working like a freak'n slave, and was always feeling like I was getting nowhere. I burnt myself right out. Now, all that has changed! I have never been more juiced about going to work everyday, and being a part of this industry. There is so much opportunity! My prescription: Take a long break, grab a copy of "The E-Myth Revisited" read it, and I promise you, if you get (and apply) the E-Myth message, everything will take care of itself. You will no longer be a slave to your business, your "systems" will take care of all that. You will be free to innovate, create, and dream about where you want to take your business, and what you want it to be. More free time, less stress, increased productivity, massive revenue growth, and above all, ..a more pleasurable and rewarding experience for you! Anyone else here apply the E-Myth principals? Woot Woot!!

01-02-2005, 04:01 PM	#27
Giorgio_Xo Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Las Vegas, NV Posts: 4,263	Sounds like you need to get laid. You should hire Maru. __________________ Make Levees, Not War

01-02-2005, 04:02 PM	#28
fl_prn_str Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Tampa, FL Posts: 5,736	what do i get out more then ca$h........thats easy....PUSSY!!!

01-02-2005, 04:04 PM	#29
Nicky Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Sweden Posts: 30,069	Why give your domains away? If they make money just leave them or redirect them and still cash in on the checks a year from now, anyways, whatever you decide to do I hope its best for you! __________________ gfynicky @ gmail.com

01-02-2005, 04:11 PM	#30
Violetta Affiliate Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 28,735	Nice thread. I can understand you. It can get very lonely and boring just sitting infront of the computer for 10 hours straight. __________________ M&A Queen

01-02-2005, 04:12 PM	#31
Manowar jellyfish Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 71,528	i get AIDS

01-02-2005, 04:17 PM	#32
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	Get out of the house more, and do things with people that aren't business related or that arent in this business. Charity volunteering, mentor a kid, spend some time giving back. That's the best advice you'll get regardless of what industry and what tools of the trade you have, computers or not.

01-02-2005, 04:35 PM	#34
DarkLord Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: RU Posts: 370	probably you just should spend less time working? __________________ Stimul Cash - Just What The Doctor Ordered

01-02-2005, 04:37 PM	#36
Persius Tap into MOBILE! Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Hollywood Posts: 11,779	take a vacation

01-02-2005, 04:48 PM	#39
FrankWhite Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: nyc Posts: 3,540	thats some funny shit

01-02-2005, 04:55 PM	#40
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	What skills did you acquire through the years working in this business? The internet is not just about 22mil TGPs.

01-03-2005, 02:51 AM	#41
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	bump bump

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Pornwolf Drunk and Unruly Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Hollywood Posts: 22,712	Sorry to see you leave. Post your domains please. __________________ I've trusted my sites to them for over a decade... Webair, bitches.

01-03-2005, 04:02 AM	#44
flashfire ICQ 1 6 7 8 5 3 4 9 2 Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 13,098	I get good money for working in my warm house in my underwear for a few hours a day...no job can beat that!

01-03-2005, 04:17 AM	#46
maxjohan Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Sweden Posts: 7,219	I be back.... __________________ I went from 100 to 313,000 satoshis in 2 days! Lots of daily freerolls...

01-03-2005, 04:21 AM	#47
sean416 Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Toronto Posts: 3,633	my answer is pretty fucking simple: money. Show me another way I can make more money and I'll be all over it. __________________ ServerProvider.com

01-03-2005, 06:23 AM	#48
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