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Old 12-12-2004, 10:57 AM   #1
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Whatever happend to good PR?

I realize everyone loves drama. Sure some claim they don't but they still read the threads. It's like a train wreck, you just can't help yourself. What I don't understand is how easily the drama can be avoided in most cases.

For example, a few weeks ago my board, the board I mod, made number one on Board Tracker. We were happy about that because we work hard to run a good board. At some point a fucktard from another board who is normally number one makes his fist post on our board. Was it to say, thanks for a job well done? Was it to say, keep up the good work? Nope, it was some bullshit about we only made number one because of a whore thread. I thought that was thoughtful

Because of his stupid first post he started getting slammed. I mean of course he would. Any board is gonna slam someone for bashing on them. Especially if it was just there first post. But it got better. His second post was implying that he was going to take back a prize given to one of their users because he posts on our board. After that, the thread really went to hell. When the other owner of the other board stopped in, he sounded like John Kerry, "I will look in to this and see what's going. But I don't see anything wrong." Well then why look in to dipshit?

Any ways, the whole thing could have been avoided with a simple post by the first idiot. Something like, "Hey I'm sorry. I was just giving you guys a hard time. Congrats on the number one spot, keep up the good work." But no, he started it. We finished it.

Then about the same time, a user on our board brings up, the fact that we weren't nominated for something that some thought we should be. Eventually a rep shows up from the place issuing the nominations. Now, I already know this place sucks at PR based on a party gone bad in Florida and the way that was handled. So now this guy shows up and again, could have diffused the entire situation in one post. A post like this would have been nice. "Hi, I'm from XXXX Company. I'm sorry you weren't in the nominations announced. You run a great board and I'm surprised you weren't. But, let me explain how it works. We don't pick who gets nominated and who doesn't. Anyone can nominate anyone they want. We only pick the top few with the most nominations. It's not a perfect system but then what is? Again, we're sorry you weren't nominated this time, but I'm sure you will be many times in the future."

But no, he comes to thread all defensive and cocky. The thread blows up. And now this Private Ivy shit. How hard is it to say, I'm sorry. I screwed up. What can I do to make this right? Take the content down? Get the linking codes right this time? Whatever it takes. Again, I'm sorry.

It's amazing how far a simple sorry will go. But no, people suck at PR. It amazes me how so many people can make so much money and be so absolutely clueless as to how to deal with the public and saving their name. But, no, a thread that should be just a page turns to five or more just because no one has any clue how to deal with the public.

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Old 12-12-2004, 11:53 AM   #2
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It's sad but true. Drama gets attention!
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Old 12-12-2004, 12:12 PM   #3
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Old 12-12-2004, 12:16 PM   #4
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Old 12-12-2004, 12:26 PM   #5
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And I quote AbulletAwayGoneBad:

"I posted this on gfy. I didn't expect anyone to respond because very few can actually read there. So I'm posting it on a couple of other boards to prove my point."

Full post here:
http://**********************/showthre...threadid=17251

Then why post here fuckhead?
Suggestion: Take your sob story to a board that gives a rats ass and stop whining to the people you insult.

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Old 12-12-2004, 12:31 PM   #6
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Old 12-12-2004, 12:37 PM   #7
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And I quote AbulletAwayGoneBad:

"I posted this on gfy. I didn't expect anyone to respond because very few can actually read there. So I'm posting it on a couple of other boards to prove my point."

Full post here:
http://**********************/showthre...threadid=17251

Then why post here fuckhead?
Suggestion: Take your sob story to a board that gives a rats ass and stop whining to the people you insult.

I posted here first fucktard. After this thread made it all the way to the bottom before anyone responded I posted it on another board. Then I posted it on MP. And guess what no one had still posted in this thread. So yes, I proved my point. Now what.

Go back to school learn something. And who's whining? Not me. My original post here was a question no cared to respond to because it was drama free. Thus proving my point twice!

But I have to thank you not only did you prove my point, you added some drama to it. It should really take off now.


Next time, try to stay on topic and maybe you won't look so stupid.
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Old 12-12-2004, 12:52 PM   #8
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I posted here first fucktard. After this thread made it all the way to the bottom before anyone responded I posted it on another board. Then I posted it on MP. And guess what no one had still posted in this thread. So yes, I proved my point. Now what.

Go back to school learn something. And who's whining? Not me. My original post here was a question no cared to respond to because it was drama free. Thus proving my point twice!

But I have to thank you not only did you prove my point, you added some drama to it. It should really take off now.


Next time, try to stay on topic and maybe you won't look so stupid.
Nice rebuttal.
You insult the board, then re-post to it.
Have I got that part right?

So no one responded the first time. You were adamant you were going to make your point so you post again. Again, no one seems to care.

So if you want to insult a board then why post to it?

But I agree to one thing: Drama has been added to your post. So now maybe your sad story will get the attention you obviously crave for it but posting it across boards.

Oh, and for you mr.bullet, a nice old GFY salut.



ps. "fucktard"? ok I confess I started the juvenile name-calling by refering to you as "fuckhead" ... but you call me "fucktard"? What are you 12 years old?

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Old 12-12-2004, 12:54 PM   #9
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Old 12-12-2004, 12:58 PM   #10
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And I quote AbulletAwayGoneBad:

"I posted this on gfy. I didn't expect anyone to respond because very few can actually read there. So I'm posting it on a couple of other boards to prove my point."

Full post here:
http://**********************/showthre...threadid=17251

Then why post here fuckhead?
Suggestion: Take your sob story to a board that gives a rats ass and stop whining to the people you insult.
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Old 12-12-2004, 01:00 PM   #11
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Old 12-12-2004, 01:08 PM   #12
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Old 12-12-2004, 01:10 PM   #13
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Add drama and it gets attention
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Old 12-12-2004, 01:13 PM   #14
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From 1 to 10, how would you rate your own PR skill?
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Old 12-12-2004, 01:14 PM   #15
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Nice rebuttal.
You insult the board, then re-post to it.
Have I got that part right?

So no one responded the first time. You were adamant you were going to make your point so you post again. Again, no one seems to care.

So if you want to insult a board then why post to it?

But I agree to one thing: Drama has been added to your post. So now maybe your sad story will get the attention you obviously crave for it but posting it across boards.

Oh, and for you mr.bullet, a nice old GFY salut.



ps. "fucktard"? ok I confess I started the juvenile name-calling by refering to you as "fuckhead" ... but you call me "fucktard"? What are you 12 years old?

You're kind of slow aren't you? I posted the thread here first. Why does anyone post anything? Because they have something to say or show that they want people to see. I don't see what wanting or craving attention has anything to do with it. It's the whole point to having a forum. I don't know if you noticed or not but every thread is started by someone. Most threads have responses. So by your dim witted logic the only reason people ever post is to get attention. I don't think so but obviously you do.

And, I didn't insult this board. I insulted the people who post here who can't read. You seem to be one of them as my original post was ignored by you and you went off on attacking me to make your own point. Who?s the attention whore? I know a lot of people in this biz and some of the smartest people I know post here and make the dumbest posts I have ever read. Hell, I've even done it. But you my friend. You're right up there. First you go off topic. Then you link to another board. Thanks for that though, I'm sure gfy loves you for that one. Then you say I insulted gfy another lie. I admit I took a shot at some of those that post here. But really, you know it, I know it. It's true; there are some stupid people that post here. Now, you can either go read my first post, learn from it, admit that you're wrong and move on. Or, you can continue to promote your own stupidity.

It's up to you. Choose wisely.
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From 1 to 10, how would you rate your own PR skill?

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pimpdog doesn't count. He's an artform. Besides he pays others for PR.
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Old 12-12-2004, 01:47 PM   #18
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You should be a politician, really. You backtrack like a pro.
Let's address this point by point:

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And, I didn't insult this board. I insulted the people who post here who can't read.
I believe your quote on that other board was I didn't expect anyone to respond because very few can actually read there. This sounds like whining because no one cared about your post. Honestly, am I wrong? If I said I'm not going to California because very few people have any brains there, would you expect most Californians to be insulted? I'd say yes.

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So by your dim witted logic the only reason people ever post is to get attention
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Who?s the attention whore?
You posted the same message to multiple boards, including this one at least twice. I've posted to this one thread, on this one board. See next point ...

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First you go off topic.
This is ironic and sad. In case you didn't notice, my first reply was a direct shot at your own PR skills ... insulting boards, IMO, is not good PR ... so, although it went straight over your head, I was on-topic.

Secondly, there was no topic, sad little child. Your 2nd thread on the same topic and it was obvious (the 2nd replier agreed) that, essentially, no one "gives a fuck".

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I realize everyone loves drama. Sure some claim they don't but they still read the threads. It's like a train wreck, you just can't help yourself.
Still like "drama"?

And just to clarify this whole sad situation, here's the approx. timeline:

1) You post your "Poor PR" story to GFY.

2) Nobody (or very few people) reply.

3/4) You post on another board because, in your own words, no one replied here as few of us can read.

3/4) You come back here and post the story again .. to the same board where in your opinion, very few people can read.

Is that far off what happened?

Although you are trying quite masterfully to twist and turn and spin and suggest i'm off-topic, you were mis-quoted, yadda yadda ... let's for a moment forget all that, okay?

When you reply to this post, why not just stick to the facts?
If there's anything that's not true about these 4 points, please correct.
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I'm not going to California because very few people have any brains there, would you expect most Californians to be insulted? I'd say yes.
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?I believe your quote on that other board was I didn't expect anyone to respond because very few can actually read there. This sounds like whining because no one cared about your post. Honestly, am I wrong? If I said I'm not going to California because very few people have any brains there, would you expect most Californians to be insulted? I'd say yes.?

I suppose the Californians that don?t have brains would be insulted.


?You posted the same message to multiple boards, including this one at least twice. I've posted to this one thread, on this one board. See next point ...?

I posted it here first. Then I posted it on another board. Then mine. I never whinned. I made a statement. There?s a difference. I didn?t even link the thread on my board. And the post is identical to the one on GFY I made on the second board. I never said in any of those threads to go to GFY and post in it and make me look important. You?re the one following me around I must be important. Are you like stalking me or something? Not to mention lots of people make multiple posts to multiple boards. I thought it was a good topic one that you still have failed to stay on. Go back to spanking to free porn noob!



?This is ironic and sad. In case you didn't notice, my first reply was a direct shot at your own PR skills ... insulting boards, IMO, is not good PR ... so, although it went straight over your head, I was on-topic.

Secondly, there was no topic, sad little child. Your 2nd thread on the same topic and it was obvious (the 2nd replier agreed) that, essentially, no one "gives a fuck".


Still like "drama"??

First off, what do I have to be PR about it. I wasn?t defending my business or anyone elses. I was making an observation that you have apparently missed. There?s more to reading than just knowing what the letters strung together say. You have to understand what they all mean once put together in sentences called paragraphs. This is called comprehension something you?re obviously lacking.

My second was called humor and sarcasm. If you knew me, you?d know I do that quite often. And, I really have to get back to the whole stalking thing. Why are you following me around any ways? It?s really creepy.



?And just to clarify this whole sad situation, here's the approx. timeline:

1) You post your "Poor PR" story to GFY.

2) Nobody (or very few people) reply.

3/4) You post on another board because, in your own words, no one replied here as few of us can read.

3/4) You come back here and post the story again .. to the same board where in your opinion, very few people can read.

Is that far off what happened?

Although you are trying quite masterfully to twist and turn and spin and suggest i'm off-topic, you were mis-quoted, yadda yadda ... let's for a moment forget all that, okay?

When you reply to this post, why not just stick to the facts?
If there's anything that's not true about these 4 points, please correct.?



Yes I did I post my Poor PR story here. You finally got something right.

Yes no one responded to it at least not until it dropped to near the bottom of the page and that sexy Fatal Attraction bumped it. You?re two for two now. I?m impressed.

Wrong! Damn you were doing so well to. No, I posted here first. Then I posted it elsewhere. People responded there. No one here had responded yet. No biggie. I kinda expected that as it was a long post with no drama.

Ok now here you lost me? ?You come back here and post the story again .. to the same board where in your opinion, very few people can read.? What? I only posted this thread once. Why would you say again. I?d like to say you were wrong again but really, to be fair I have no idea what you?re talking about. I just made this one thread.


?Is that far off what happened??

Well, no. Your timeline is wrong and full of missleading info. What exactly is it that has gotten your panties in a wad? Is it that you can?t stay on topic? That you crave attention? Trying to make a name for yourself or something? You sell short ICQ?s or something? What?s your point to all this?


I appreciate the compliment though about "trying quite masterfully" and all. But really, you deserve all the credit. You make it easy. I?m not twisting anything. Just calling it like I see it.
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Ok Ok ,sorry works, I am sorry, I read this thread......
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Well, no. Your timeline is wrong and full of missleading info. What exactly is it that has gotten your panties in a wad? Is it that you can?t stay on topic? That you crave attention? Trying to make a name for yourself or something? You sell short ICQ?s or something? What?s your point to all this?

Wow, that's quite a reply. I'm now a "stalker" a "free porn spanking noob" a "attention whore" and a "fucktard" among other things ... spin, twist, spin ... who's off-topic now?

And to top it all off you are now spinning your original remarks about GFY again (now it's called "sarcasm"). What will it be next? You were misquoted? Sorry, you already tried that.

Let's just kill this thread and save more juvenile - and evasive -insults from you by letting me ask you this:

If GFY is so full of people that can't read why are you here? And why post twice - did you think we all learned to read since the first post?

If I'm a stalker and you are really feeling "creepy" about my posts then just ignore me and go back to your other boards, where they are more literate, and I hope for you, stalker-free?





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