I think I'm finally getting tired of this industry - GoFuckYourself.com

ronaldo · 12-09-2004, 03:00 PM

Not the money or frankly any of the people in it that I've met or dealt with personally.

But wherever you go, it's a constant barrage of drama and hatred.

Business competition and rivalries are one thing, but the backstabbing, attacks, and outright slanderous statements I see on a day to day basis are getting worse by the day.

It's getting impossible to say you like or respect someone to another person without fearing the possible backlash.

NaughtyINC · 12-09-2004, 03:01 PM

Sly · 12-09-2004, 03:02 PM

I love you.

ytcracker · 12-09-2004, 03:04 PM

lets be friends

NaughtyINC · 12-09-2004, 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly
I love you.

i love you 2...

very few people i am open and candid with.. its sad some of the stuff that goes on inside of our biz.. but like any other biz its cut throat...

my reply to ron is simple.. u make someone sad or u make someone mad.. its pretty sad that people cant realize that even though this is a biz there are ethics and ways to do biz..

NaughtyINC · 12-09-2004, 03:05 PM

Not expecting people to be giving each other hugs and so forth but there is a professonalism that has to kick in at some point.. sad part is not alot of people realize this..

ronaldo · 12-09-2004, 03:09 PM

lol, I wasn't sure which one of your statements to quote AJ.

The funny thing is, is it's never even happened to ME (knock on wood).

Just seeing everyone piss on each other everyday is getting really tiring.

This isn't limited to GFY or messageboards as a whole either.

Manowar · 12-09-2004, 03:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by NaughtyINC
Not expecting people to be giving each other hugs and so forth but there is a professonalism that has to kick in at some point.. sad part is not alot of people realize this..

lets get married.

Nicky · 12-09-2004, 03:10 PM

I dont like this biz when I get low sales

Paco, of Large Cash. · 12-09-2004, 03:19 PM

I worked many different jobs and found the adult industry to be no different, from most.

I simply view it as company politics (whether or not we are actually one big company, people treats us all the same).

Sales, fabrication, auto body & customisation, pleasure dealer, yadda-yadda ... they more or less all have good days and bad, assholes and nice peeps.

I do not take work nor money very seriously as I believe they are not important in life (and this around the time when most will tell me to shut it), but they are nice.

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 12-09-2004, 03:20 PM

Have another beer.

Honest advice?

Who gives a fuck all what others say and do and stab.
If your not the target of bullshit...

Just step aside of it or even just fucken ignore it.
Ya got a choice really and the choice is simple.

Fill your life with events you choose, not what others choose.

If you got game and honest game your untouchable and its your fault for letting others get in your head and ruin your mindset.

Your choice.

Dalai lama · 12-09-2004, 03:21 PM

I love this business and i'm good at it ( i think )

liquidmoe · 12-09-2004, 03:22 PM

I think to an extent its no different than other forms of business, just that in adult we have a lot of individuals working for themselves so their attacks are more open, but in a company setting these attacks also occur, except they are behind closed doors and behind peoples backs because you arent in a position of power to fire the individual you are attacking and will have to work with them on a day-to-day basis. Just a thought.

r3ap3r · 12-09-2004, 03:25 PM

Every industry Adult or not experiences something negative. I currently work at an ATM company and it is filled with drama on a daily basis. A company takeover is threating my employment.
Stay tough and remember that I love you

FredIsMe · 12-09-2004, 03:28 PM

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Originally posted by ronaldo
Not the money or frankly any of the people in it that I've met or dealt with personally.

But wherever you go, it's a constant barrage of drama and hatred.

Business competition and rivalries are one thing, but the backstabbing, attacks, and outright slanderous statements I see on a day to day basis are getting worse by the day.

It's getting impossible to say you like or respect someone to another person without fearing the possible backlash.

Nobody are true friends. Friends are those who want something from one another in some form. When someone no longer needs a person, a friend, they grow apart. In reference to this industry, people become friends because of business opportunities of one another, and once one business is far more successful than the other that successful business no longer needs the other and grows apart.

jabula · 12-09-2004, 03:29 PM

Don't give up

MaDalton · 12-09-2004, 03:33 PM

can i tickle your balls?

xclusive · 12-09-2004, 03:37 PM

screw the haters man just go with a few trusted people...

Silent_Thunder · 12-09-2004, 04:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by FredIsMe
Nobody are true friends. Friends are those who want something from one another in some form. When someone no longer needs a person, a friend, they grow apart. In reference to this industry, people become friends because of business opportunities of one another, and once one business is far more successful than the other that successful business no longer needs the other and grows apart.

It sucks to think so

Dont think that way

Furious_Male · 12-09-2004, 04:05 PM

Mainstream is just as bad and if anything more cut throat.

ustc9507 · 12-09-2004, 05:08 PM

Let's see...

You think mainstream is any different?

I have an uncle who used to be an economics professor says the same thing...cut throat competition and school politics. Hated his job.

I have a cousin who works for U.S senator....says the same thing.

Sames goes for people I know who is a CPA, doctor, ... even church pastor.

Welcome to the real world of people.

DutchTeenCash · 12-09-2004, 05:11 PM

its not that different in this biz as it is in others really...

Goose · 12-09-2004, 05:12 PM

I agree in most of your points but perhaps I'm still not long enough in this biz to realize it the way you do...

ustc9507 · 12-09-2004, 05:12 PM

One thing I learned.... People are people.

ustc9507 · 12-09-2004, 05:17 PM

I think depends on who you meet. I have met some assholes and made some good friends in this biz.

Fred Quimby · 12-09-2004, 05:21 PM

Thats why I keep my mouth shut and no one knows my business but me and my dog

Icon · 12-09-2004, 05:33 PM

The last time I saw you.....you were sucking on a bottle of Jager like it had a rubber nipple. Good or Bad thing?

I thought it was funny as hell.....

media · 12-09-2004, 05:34 PM

I get burned out and tired every other month... welcome to life =( grass is always greener on the other side...

smack · 12-09-2004, 05:34 PM

like it would be possible for me to get tired of making money while sitting around in my underwear drinking.

Sagitta · 12-09-2004, 05:40 PM

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Originally posted by smack
like it would be possible for me to get tired of making money while sitting around in my underwear drinking.

That's a nice perspective

Doctor Dre · 12-09-2004, 05:40 PM

This is what happen when people are behind a computer and don't have to face the person .

ArkansasDave · 12-09-2004, 05:43 PM

Why cant we all just wear Nike's...

12-09-2004, 03:00 PM	#1
ronaldo Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: ICQ#: 272000271 Posts: 5,475	I think I'm finally getting tired of this industry Not the money or frankly any of the people in it that I've met or dealt with personally. But wherever you go, it's a constant barrage of drama and hatred. Business competition and rivalries are one thing, but the backstabbing, attacks, and outright slanderous statements I see on a day to day basis are getting worse by the day. It's getting impossible to say you like or respect someone to another person without fearing the possible backlash.

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NaughtyINC Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Toronto Posts: 1,288	Not expecting people to be giving each other hugs and so forth but there is a professonalism that has to kick in at some point.. sad part is not alot of people realize this.. __________________ meh

12-09-2004, 03:09 PM	#7
ronaldo Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: ICQ#: 272000271 Posts: 5,475	lol, I wasn't sure which one of your statements to quote AJ. The funny thing is, is it's never even happened to ME (knock on wood). Just seeing everyone piss on each other everyday is getting really tiring. This isn't limited to GFY or messageboards as a whole either.

12-09-2004, 03:10 PM	#9
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12-09-2004, 03:19 PM	#10
Paco, of Large Cash. Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: --> . <-- Posts: 2,267	I worked many different jobs and found the adult industry to be no different, from most. I simply view it as company politics (whether or not we are actually one big company, people treats us all the same). Sales, fabrication, auto body & customisation, pleasure dealer, yadda-yadda ... they more or less all have good days and bad, assholes and nice peeps. I do not take work nor money very seriously as I believe they are not important in life (and this around the time when most will tell me to shut it), but they are nice.

12-09-2004, 03:20 PM	#11
AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE best designer on GFY Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: IALIEN.COM - High Definition Video and Photographic Productions -ICQ 78943384 Posts: 30,307	Have another beer. Honest advice? Who gives a fuck all what others say and do and stab. If your not the target of bullshit... Just step aside of it or even just fucken ignore it. Ya got a choice really and the choice is simple. Fill your life with events you choose, not what others choose. If you got game and honest game your untouchable and its your fault for letting others get in your head and ruin your mindset. Your choice. __________________ NAKED HOSTING FTW!11 I'm On The INSANE PLAN $9.95/mo! \| The Alien Blog Adult News Worth Reading Updated Daily \| Content For Sale! 641 PICS 216 MINUTES OF VIDEO $350.00 \|ICQ: 78943384 \|

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12-09-2004, 03:22 PM	#13
liquidmoe Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NY Posts: 4,994	I think to an extent its no different than other forms of business, just that in adult we have a lot of individuals working for themselves so their attacks are more open, but in a company setting these attacks also occur, except they are behind closed doors and behind peoples backs because you arent in a position of power to fire the individual you are attacking and will have to work with them on a day-to-day basis. Just a thought. __________________ Take Luck!

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r3ap3r Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 3,535	Every industry Adult or not experiences something negative. I currently work at an ATM company and it is filled with drama on a daily basis. A company takeover is threating my employment. Stay tough and remember that I love you __________________ Fuck My Sig Good ICQ - 203744959 Last edited by r3ap3r; 12-09-2004 at 03:27 PM..

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12-09-2004, 05:08 PM	#21
ustc9507 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 204	Let's see... You think mainstream is any different? I have an uncle who used to be an economics professor says the same thing...cut throat competition and school politics. Hated his job. I have a cousin who works for U.S senator....says the same thing. Sames goes for people I know who is a CPA, doctor, ... even church pastor. Welcome to the real world of people. __________________ contact

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ustc9507 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 204	I think depends on who you meet. I have met some assholes and made some good friends in this biz. __________________ contact

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