Guys do you pay on the first or second date? - GoFuckYourself.com

Head · 12-01-2004, 05:02 PM

Ever when i was broke i saved quarters, dollars and not spend a dime just to save for that date. Some guys i know won't spring and they're still single.

spamofon · 12-01-2004, 05:03 PM

nobody likes cheap fucks

i pay on every date

quiet · 12-01-2004, 05:05 PM

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Originally posted by spamofon
nobody likes cheap fucks

i pay on every date

so do i

smack · 12-01-2004, 05:05 PM

yeah, i've always just considered it a social courtesy to pay on all dates.

Living For Today · 12-01-2004, 05:05 PM

I generally pay for the chicky unless she insists on paying for herself. Some chicks are touchy about that.

Screaming · 12-01-2004, 05:06 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by spamofon
nobody likes cheap fucks

i pay on every date

thats the way to be in my opinion

Ice · 12-01-2004, 05:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by spamofon
nobody likes cheap fucks

i pay on every date

Yup thats the way

infecto · 12-01-2004, 05:08 PM

I always pay....current gf I have been going out with for 7months and have payed for 99% of what we have done together. It pays off though when she makes me food, gives me sex, or just does anything for me.

xclusive · 12-01-2004, 05:09 PM

I've always paid for my dates...It's a whole being the man thing...

Libertine · 12-01-2004, 05:11 PM

I pay on every date, but girls who don't at least propose paying half sometimes can go fuck themselves. I don't mind paying, but spoiled chicks annoy the hell out of me.

I actually know one single a girl who, although she's the typical completely broke university student, insists on paying too whenever we go out. I think I should marry her

Kassidy · 12-01-2004, 05:16 PM

If a girl doesn't at least offer to pay her share, that tells you a LOT about the kind of person she is.

On the other hand, there's no bigger turn off than a cheap ass guy or one who makes likes to point out that HE paid, like you owe him something in return. UGH

It's definitely a delicate subject with a fine line of social acceptability.

cocky · 12-01-2004, 05:18 PM

i make my wife pay

tranza · 12-01-2004, 05:19 PM

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Originally posted by spamofon
nobody likes cheap fucks

i pay on every date

Samething here...

WiredGuy · 12-01-2004, 05:19 PM

If you're on a date, you should be paying.
WG

decrypted · 12-01-2004, 05:20 PM

i pay on all dates

Project-Shadow · 12-01-2004, 05:28 PM

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Originally posted by Kassidy
On the other hand, there's no bigger turn off than a cheap ass guy or one who makes likes to point out that HE paid, like you owe him something in return. UGH

Perfect evening involves your lady offering to pay her share, but you pay it of course. Everyone's a winner.

Head · 12-01-2004, 05:30 PM

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Originally posted by Living For Today
I generally pay for the chicky unless she insists on paying for herself. Some chicks are touchy about that.

That would be an exception. But would try to pay for her.

Libertine · 12-01-2004, 05:32 PM

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Originally posted by Project-Shadow
Perfect evening involves your lady offering to pay her share, but you pay it of course. Everyone's a winner.

The perfect date

pradaboy · 12-01-2004, 05:36 PM

I always pay for a lady... it's the right thing to do IMO

Kassidy · 12-01-2004, 08:36 PM

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Originally posted by Project-Shadow
Perfect evening involves your lady offering to pay her share, but you pay it of course. Everyone's a winner.

Yep.

Persius · 12-01-2004, 08:38 PM

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Originally posted by pradaboy
I always pay for a lady... it's the right thing to do IMO

Love Brokers · 12-01-2004, 08:43 PM

Radio Host Tom Lykus (speling?) will tell you to never pay for anyting!

latinasojourn · 12-01-2004, 10:00 PM

in courting the female the class guy pays on ALL dates.

MetaMan · 12-01-2004, 10:02 PM

the way it works with me is i dont ever let them pay, but the ones that sometimes will go out of there way to pay for things or even offer means alot, those girls i will give more to in the long run.

PissFunny · 12-01-2004, 10:02 PM

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Originally posted by punkworld
I pay on every date, but girls who don't at least propose paying half sometimes can go fuck themselves. I don't mind paying, but spoiled chicks annoy the hell out of me.

I actually know one single a girl who, although she's the typical completely broke university student, insists on paying too whenever we go out. I think I should marry her

i like this guy

PissFunny · 12-01-2004, 10:03 PM

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Originally posted by cocky
i make my wife pay

i like this guy even more

flashfire · 12-01-2004, 10:20 PM

I let her pay for me on both

fl_prn_str · 12-01-2004, 11:35 PM

I would love to do that and be a gentlemen about the whole thing in general?.but it?s either just me or all of the women I?ve seen aren?t acting like ladies anymore. So I really don?t think ?just because it?s a tradition? applies anymore

Sparks · 12-01-2004, 11:51 PM

Pay for every date, even if they insist. Always have to be a gentleman!!!

Vitasoy · 12-02-2004, 03:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by spamofon
nobody likes cheap fucks

i pay on every date

Same here, that's the way to do it.

DutchTeenCash · 12-02-2004, 05:27 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by spamofon
nobody likes cheap fucks

i pay on every date

beemk · 12-02-2004, 05:49 AM

i pay on every date, but she better at least offer to pay for herself and say thank you.

DEA - banned for life · 12-02-2004, 07:43 AM

Always pay.....unless shes filthy stinkijng rich..then order Filet and lobster and split for the mens room when its check time

Spunky · 12-02-2004, 07:48 AM

We all pay one way or another

Head · 12-02-2004, 08:25 AM

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Originally posted by beemk
i pay on every date, but she better at least offer to pay for herself and say thank you.

Yes that would be good manners. That would tell you something about her if she didn't.

Screaming · 12-02-2004, 08:26 AM

i thought you paid on every date?

howard · 12-02-2004, 08:37 AM

i have been with my current (jewish) gf for almost a year. She is the cheapest person I ever met. Never fucken even offers. When she gets up in the am she goes into my money to buy herself coffee. Here's the sad part-- she makes 60k a year and gets 3k a month from her x husband. Her cheapness makes me hate her and I will be done with her within a few weeks. And before anyone blasts me I'm jewish so I can say it.

howard · 12-02-2004, 08:38 AM

I think long term us men should pay for dinners and the girls should pay for breakfast or lunch...

Indica · 12-02-2004, 08:39 AM

Im married, so even if he pays, Im paying.

chodadog · 12-02-2004, 08:44 AM

Some women these days will go on and on about equality and how they feel patronized when men do things like paying for dinner or pulling their chair out for them, but god, you know if you doin't do it they're just going to go and bitch about it to all their friends. haha.

Personally, i'm kinda old fashioned and i will always pay. Luckily, the girls i'm interested seem to enjoy the perks of chivalry.

Doc911 · 12-02-2004, 09:18 AM

trust me a real man pays on every date.

You always pay in some form or the other!

howard · 12-02-2004, 09:31 AM

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Originally posted by Doc911
trust me a real man pays on every date.

You always pay in some form or the other!

on the first few dates yes i agree--after that the girls should cough up once in awhile

Nothing pisses us off more than chicks cash with cob webs all over it

I ain't with a chick to be her daddy...any guy who wants to be a chicks daddy--after awhile that realtionship will not work--u have to say no sometimes...

Katty4 · 12-02-2004, 05:05 PM

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Originally posted by Kassidy
On the other hand, there's no bigger turn off than a cheap ass guy or one who makes likes to point out that HE paid, like you owe him something in return. UGH

It's definitely a delicate subject with a fine line of social acceptability.

Sooo true!!

Irrum · 12-02-2004, 05:20 PM

this is a really sensitive issue, everybody has a different opinion on it. For me, I will always offer and say thank you, but if I asked someone on a date I will insist on paying, I asked them, my treat.

by the way, nothing is a bigger turn off then a cheap man.

lib · 12-02-2004, 05:52 PM

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Originally posted by Irrum
this is a really sensitive issue, everybody has a different opinion on it. For me, I will always offer and say thank you, but if I asked someone on a date I will insist on paying, I asked them, my treat.

by the way, nothing is a bigger turn off then a cheap man.

I've definitely found myself a little weirded out in that sort of situation.. where I was asked out by the girl, and then she insists on paying. Sort of a nice change, but still shocking.

Guess I'm an asshole though, because the last time that happened I left on a business trip a few days later, and never called her again (this was 6 weeks ago). I still owe her a nice dinner (she spent a good $300 on our dinner).

Semi-Retired-Dave · 12-02-2004, 05:58 PM

You can be mean to them, be an asshole but make sure you pay on every date.

That is the worst thing you can do is pay your own and make her pay for hers. I have seen it happen many times and I think its so wrong.

Could just be me but I think a lot of people agree with me here on this one.

sixxxthsense · 12-02-2004, 05:59 PM

i pay on every fucking date!

Its the way i was tought,
and its what women expect!

Webasic · 12-02-2004, 08:52 PM

every date

boner 2.0 · 12-02-2004, 08:54 PM

I fuck on first date

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boner 2.0 · 12-02-2004, 08:55 PM

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infecto Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,697	I always pay....current gf I have been going out with for 7months and have payed for 99% of what we have done together. It pays off though when she makes me food, gives me sex, or just does anything for me.

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MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	the way it works with me is i dont ever let them pay, but the ones that sometimes will go out of there way to pay for things or even offer means alot, those girls i will give more to in the long run.

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fl_prn_str Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Tampa, FL Posts: 5,736	I would love to do that and be a gentlemen about the whole thing in general?.but it?s either just me or all of the women I?ve seen aren?t acting like ladies anymore. So I really don?t think ?just because it?s a tradition? applies anymore

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