Do you follow the 3 day rule? - GoFuckYourself.com

colpanic · 11-23-2004, 04:00 PM

There is a "rule" of sorts where you don't call a girl for 3 days after first meeting her; so as to not look too clingy or whatever. (I think this is dumb)

Do you follow that?

I had a blind date last night that went really well, and the girl is leaving tonight for thanksgiving, and not coming back for a week.

Let me hear your votes... should I call her today to set something up for when she gets back, or not talk to her until she returns?

PenetratinP · 11-23-2004, 04:01 PM

doesn't she have a cell phone?

Fake Nick · 11-23-2004, 04:01 PM

hmm, I thought this was going to be about , only jerking off once in 3 days,

and no I don't follow that rule

Jeff aka NIGHTfall · 11-23-2004, 04:02 PM

if you are interested, why wait?

just give her a single call and tell her you had a good time last night, wondering if she would wanna get together when she gets back... and leave it at that.. tell her to give you a call when she gets back if she wants to get together, and dont call her again until she calls you.. if she dont call you, forget her... girls hate being forgotten as much as we do, if she dont call you back, she isnt interested, if you call her before she calls you (after this last call tonight) then she will see you really are interested, and she will play games with your head

Marcus Aurelius · 11-23-2004, 04:03 PM

tranza · 11-23-2004, 04:17 PM

Call her...

LauraLee · 11-23-2004, 04:19 PM

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Originally posted by Jeff aka NIGHTfall
if you are interested, why wait?

just give her a single call and tell her you had a good time last night, wondering if she would wanna get together when she gets back... and leave it at that.. tell her to give you a call when she gets back if she wants to get together, and dont call her again until she calls you.. if she dont call you, forget her... girls hate being forgotten as much as we do, if she dont call you back, she isnt interested, if you call her before she calls you (after this last call tonight) then she will see you really are interested, and she will play games with your head

Agreed.

candyflip · 11-23-2004, 04:21 PM

Swingers is one of my most favorite flicks.

But...I don't follow the rule. If I like someone and can see that she's into me...there's no need to wait.

Kard63 · 11-23-2004, 04:22 PM

If she's going for a week you have to call the day after or the 8th day. I say the day after.

fantasycall · 11-23-2004, 04:28 PM

Be a man. Call her.

You'd be surprised how many women appreciate a guy who doesn't play immature, pointless mind games. Aaaaaaand if she's one of those self-absorbed ones who think you are soft for calling the next day, buddy, move on. You don't need that on your plate.

Addendum:
When you call, if she says something like "Wow, I'm surprised you called. Most guys don't call for a week!" Come back with "well i'm not like most .... " then give a long pause and say alarmingly: "A WEEK????? What the fuck is wrong with you?"

That'll really throw her off

Sylver7 · 11-23-2004, 04:30 PM

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Originally posted by mdcq

Awesome flick

colpanic · 11-23-2004, 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by fantasycall
Be a man. Call her.

You'd be surprised how many women appreciate a guy who doesn't play immature, pointless mind games. Aaaaaaand if she's one of those self-absorbed ones who think you are soft for calling the next day, buddy, move on. You don't need that on your plate.

Addendum:
When you call, if she says something like "Wow, I'm surprised you called. Most guys don't call for a week!" Come back with "well i'm not like most .... " then give a long pause and say alarmingly: "A WEEK????? What the fuck is wrong with you?"

That'll really throw her off

aaahhaha... Good plan!

oldnewbie · 11-23-2004, 04:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jeff aka NIGHTfall
if you are interested, why wait?

just give her a single call and tell her you had a good time last night, wondering if she would wanna get together when she gets back... and leave it at that.. tell her to give you a call when she gets back if she wants to get together, and dont call her again until she calls you.. if she dont call you, forget her... girls hate being forgotten as much as we do, if she dont call you back, she isnt interested, if you call her before she calls you (after this last call tonight) then she will see you really are interested, and she will play games with your head

Agreed.

Mike Okitch · 11-23-2004, 04:52 PM

Rules are meant to be broken every now and then.

It depends of the girl, how well you two got along and so on.

Do what your gut tells ya

andrej_NDC · 11-23-2004, 04:54 PM

there is no 3 day rule in this...

naitirps · 11-23-2004, 04:58 PM

regardless of what you do, she'll fuck an old boyfriend when she goes home to visit

sorry!

Quote:

Originally posted by colpanic
There is a "rule" of sorts where you don't call a girl for 3 days after first meeting her; so as to not look too clingy or whatever. (I think this is dumb)

Do you follow that?

I had a blind date last night that went really well, and the girl is leaving tonight for thanksgiving, and not coming back for a week.

Let me hear your votes... should I call her today to set something up for when she gets back, or not talk to her until she returns?

azguy · 11-23-2004, 05:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by colpanic
There is a "rule" of sorts where you don't call a girl for 3 days after first meeting her; so as to not look too clingy or whatever. (I think this is dumb)

Do you follow that?

I had a blind date last night that went really well, and the girl is leaving tonight for thanksgiving, and not coming back for a week.

Let me hear your votes... should I call her today to set something up for when she gets back, or not talk to her until she returns?

Call. Stop playing games.

azguy · 11-23-2004, 05:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by naitirps
regardless of what you do, she'll fuck an old boyfriend when she goes home to visit sorry!

LOL!! Probably!

Living For Today · 11-23-2004, 05:02 PM

Call her today for fucksake. Not calling would definitely indiciate no interest especially if she told you she was going away for that long.

ArkansasDave · 11-23-2004, 05:11 PM

Call her if you want and there are no stinking "rules" in love & war!

11-23-2004, 04:00 PM	#1
colpanic Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 1,007	Do you follow the 3 day rule? There is a "rule" of sorts where you don't call a girl for 3 days after first meeting her; so as to not look too clingy or whatever. (I think this is dumb) Do you follow that? I had a blind date last night that went really well, and the girl is leaving tonight for thanksgiving, and not coming back for a week. Let me hear your votes... should I call her today to set something up for when she gets back, or not talk to her until she returns? __________________ I like ducks.

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tranza ICQ: 197-556-237 Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: BRASIL !!! Posts: 57,559	Call her... __________________ I'm just a newbie.

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candyflip Carpe Visio Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: New York Posts: 43,064	Swingers is one of my most favorite flicks. But...I don't follow the rule. If I like someone and can see that she's into me...there's no need to wait. __________________ Spend you some brain. Email Me

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Kard63 Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: 237 619 975 Posts: 8,944	If she's going for a week you have to call the day after or the 8th day. I say the day after. __________________

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PenetratinP Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 2,689	doesn't she have a cell phone?

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Fake Nick So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: go troll goo! Posts: 7,708	hmm, I thought this was going to be about , only jerking off once in 3 days, and no I don't follow that rule

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11-23-2004, 04:28 PM	#10
fantasycall Registered User Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Toronto Posts: 72	Be a man. Call her. You'd be surprised how many women appreciate a guy who doesn't play immature, pointless mind games. Aaaaaaand if she's one of those self-absorbed ones who think you are soft for calling the next day, buddy, move on. You don't need that on your plate. Addendum: When you call, if she says something like "Wow, I'm surprised you called. Most guys don't call for a week!" Come back with "well i'm not like most .... " then give a long pause and say alarmingly: "A WEEK????? What the fuck is wrong with you?" That'll really throw her off

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andrej_NDC Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 7,760	there is no 3 day rule in this...

11-23-2004, 05:02 PM	#19
Living For Today Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 3,970	Call her today for fucksake. Not calling would definitely indiciate no interest especially if she told you she was going away for that long.

11-23-2004, 05:11 PM	#20
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