cheating on a significant other - a big deal or accepted these days? - GoFuckYourself.com

quiet · 11-14-2004, 11:57 PM

i was having a conversation about this with someone the other day... what do you think?

BradM · 11-14-2004, 11:58 PM

421Fill · 11-14-2004, 11:59 PM

unfortunately, it seems that alot of people do not think it's a big deal nowadays. To me, it's a huge deal.

WiredGuy · 11-15-2004, 12:01 AM

Huge deal for me. Been on the cheated end twice and it really sucks.

WG

Shortbread · 11-15-2004, 12:03 AM

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Originally posted by turbo
unfortunately, it seems that alot of people do not think it's a big deal nowadays. To me, it's a huge deal.

GTS Mark · 11-15-2004, 12:05 AM

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Originally posted by WiredGuy
Huge deal for me. Been on the cheated end twice and it really sucks.

WG

I thought we were on a "break"?

DH

KRL · 11-15-2004, 12:06 AM

I don't believe in cheating and never have.

sextoyking · 11-15-2004, 12:08 AM

I have never cheated before, and I guess if someone wants to get with another partner, why not break up first with who they are with now??

Steen2 · 11-15-2004, 12:08 AM

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Originally posted by quiet
i was having a conversation about this with someone the other day... what do you think?

A big deal.

BradM · 11-15-2004, 12:09 AM

It's a big deal.

Steen2 · 11-15-2004, 12:09 AM

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Originally posted by sextoyking
I have never cheated before, and I guess if someone wants to get with another partner, why not break up first with who they are with now??

The answer is obvious.

They want to either play both sides or test the goods and then make a decision.

That or they don't have the balls to come forward.

sextoyking · 11-15-2004, 12:10 AM

Yeppers Steen

Marcus Aurelius · 11-15-2004, 12:10 AM

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Originally posted by turbo
unfortunately, it seems that alot of people do not think it's a big deal nowadays. To me, it's a huge deal.

WiredGuy · 11-15-2004, 12:12 AM

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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
I thought we were on a "break"?

DH

You know I saw Magnus first!!
WG

SleazyDream · 11-15-2004, 12:12 AM

don't judge someone till you've walked a day in their shoes.

your relationship past may be totally different than someone else's

datatank · 11-15-2004, 12:13 AM

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Originally posted by quiet
i was having a conversation about this with someone the other day... what do you think?

Cheat all you want but KNOW that if you really have the one you lose interest to cheat..

Trixxxia · 11-15-2004, 12:21 AM

I think it's a big deal - others may not think so - but I do.

If you're dating someone & want to dip your stick in someone else's oil - make sure you break up first. If you're married for 20 years, revive the sex between the two of you or break it up to prevent hurting the one you once loved.

I do, however, think that in the case of couples married/together xxx amount of years where the only thing they share is a residence - no love, no conversation & no sex life - just that document that says they're attached, this in some cases, is understandable (not necessarily acceptable but understandable) if due to financial reasons or family reasons they can't get divorced. If the other half tries their darned best to please the other in anyway and the other still goes fucking around, they're inconsiderate and a twit.

J$tyle$ · 11-15-2004, 12:23 AM

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Originally posted by datatank
Cheat all you want but KNOW that if you really have the one you lose interest to cheat..

TOTALLY!

pornguy · 11-15-2004, 12:25 AM

Definitely a big deal.
I cheated once on someone and it didn't end up pretty.

I'm faithful now (I still look, and dream, but I'm really faithful)

Holly · 11-15-2004, 12:33 AM

Bite my ass...

SleazyDream · 11-15-2004, 12:34 AM

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Originally posted by Holly
Bite my ass...

hard or softly with some tongue?

sextoyking · 11-15-2004, 12:34 AM

Nice sig Holly

quiet · 11-15-2004, 12:35 AM

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Originally posted by sextoyking
Nice sig Holly

agreed.

Holly · 11-15-2004, 12:45 AM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream
hard or softly with some tongue?

Both.

sextoyking: I meant to add Obama to that. I have sigs turned off so I keep forgetting since I hardly ever see it, lol.

Varius · 11-15-2004, 12:46 AM

I don't believe in cheating, however I do agree with the following thoughts:

- Love and Sex can be seperated. ie. if you do cheat on your spouse, it doesn't mean you love them any less.

- Monogamy isn't natural. It was pushed upon people by religion.

volante · 11-15-2004, 01:20 AM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream
don't judge someone till you've walked a day in their shoes.

Then you can judge as harshly as you like without them being able to do anything - after all, you're now a day's walk from them and you've got their shoes

sextoyking · 11-15-2004, 01:23 AM

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Originally posted by Holly
Both.

sextoyking: I meant to add Obama to that. I have sigs turned off so I keep forgetting since I hardly ever see it, lol.

Holly,

Obama is a great addition to the Senate and our national party. I don't see him doing much in 08, but mabey after 1 or 2 terms in the Senate you never know.

Doctor Dre · 11-15-2004, 01:25 AM

It all depends in wich kind of relationship you are ... and how you feal with the other person .

Holly · 11-15-2004, 01:31 AM

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Originally posted by sextoyking
Holly,

Obama is a great addition to the Senate and our national party. I don't see him doing much in 08, but mabey after 1 or 2 terms in the Senate you never know.

I would *love* to see him on the ticket with Hillary.

CET · 11-15-2004, 01:58 AM

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on a significant other - a big deal or accepted these days?

It's not a big deal to be untrustworthy?

quiet · 11-15-2004, 01:59 AM

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Originally posted by CET
It's not a big deal to be untrustworthy?

you tell me.

Libertine · 11-15-2004, 02:07 AM

This is one of those topics where almost everyone will say the same thing, but many will do completely different things than they say.

Actions speak louder than words

smack · 11-15-2004, 02:08 AM

fuck that cheating is wrong. period.

CET · 11-15-2004, 02:09 AM

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Originally posted by quiet
you tell me.

I thought I said enough to make my position clear. I think the question itself is absurd, but only because it needs to be asked. I see qualities such as trustworthiness being timeless. If cheating is not a big deal, then that means that society doesn't hold trust and loyalty to almost any degree.

CET · 11-15-2004, 02:19 AM

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Originally posted by Holly
I would *love* to see him on the ticket with Hillary.

Let's not hi-jack this thread, if you don't mind. If you want to talk about Hillary '08, try using this thread.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...hreadid=388756

Holly · 11-15-2004, 02:27 AM

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Originally posted by CET
Let's not hi-jack this thread, if you don't mind. If you want to talk about Hillary '08, try using this thread.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...hreadid=388756

Fuck off. I'm not hi-jacking shit. The thread is about me. And regardless, I'll talk about it any goddamn where I want. Shove your thread up your ass.

Vitasoy · 11-15-2004, 03:09 AM

Cheating is definitely a big deal to me.

Paul Markham · 11-15-2004, 04:23 AM

Is it cheating if your other half is there joining in?

Jakke PNG · 11-15-2004, 04:26 AM

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Originally posted by charly
Is it cheating if your other half is there joining in?

No, and you know it.

Anyways, cheating is a HUGE deal for me. If you need to cheat, then the relationship is in the shitter. If you need to get unfamiliar cock/pussy then break up FIRST then go get a new one.

I know a few that cheat, but stay with their old GF because they're too 'scared' to be alone. So they find a new girl first then break up with the old one, I think it's sickening.

kenny · 11-15-2004, 04:47 AM

It's a big deal.. it violates anything real between two people

it will never be the same after that

bluff · 11-15-2004, 04:59 AM

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Originally posted by charly
Is it cheating if your other half is there joining in?

stop the lowlife trolling

bizmak · 11-15-2004, 05:16 AM

It's big deal for me. Don't wanna end up on the cheated side believe me...

Ross · 11-15-2004, 05:32 AM

Don't cheat, won't cheat.

My girl would NEVER cheat on me so she deserves the same respect back

Peaches · 11-15-2004, 05:59 AM

It's not called "cheating" for nothing!

Whenever I've been in a committed relationship, I've never cheated and I expect the same.

IMHO, if you're cheating on your spouse, you are extremely weak because you don't have the guts to be single and you don't have the fortitude to be married.

Jer · 11-15-2004, 07:12 AM

It's an über massive deal.

Goatse · 11-15-2004, 07:28 AM

It depend on the kind of relationship you have. If it's understood that you're both just testing the waters with each other, then it's no big deal. If there are serious discussions about your future together, along with declarations of undying love, then it is indeed a huge deal.

sternyduke · 11-15-2004, 07:35 AM

it happens...

caught my dad cheating on my mom when i was a kid and hated him ever since.

yeah i think it's a big deal and for those who believe in karma know deep down when they fall in love shit could hit the fan at any moment.

webmaster x · 11-15-2004, 07:39 AM

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Originally posted by quiet
i was having a conversation about this with someone the other day... what do you think?

it depends on what you 2 are talking about

webmaster x · 11-15-2004, 07:41 AM

if you're talking bout banging each other yes.

Babagirls · 11-15-2004, 08:07 AM

its more common these days unfortuantly, but still doesnt make it right.

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pornguy Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Homeless Posts: 62,911	Definitely a big deal. I cheated once on someone and it didn't end up pretty. I'm faithful now (I still look, and dream, but I'm really faithful) __________________ PornGuy skype me pornguy_epic AmateurDough The Hottes Shemales online! TChicks.com \| Angeles Cid \| Mariana Cordoba \| MAILERS WELCOME!

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Ross Ik ben een aap Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Traffic Force Towers, Canada! Posts: 18,874	Don't cheat, won't cheat. My girl would NEVER cheat on me so she deserves the same respect back

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Peaches Old broad Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Away Posts: 13,933	It's not called "cheating" for nothing! Whenever I've been in a committed relationship, I've never cheated and I expect the same. IMHO, if you're cheating on your spouse, you are extremely weak because you don't have the guts to be single and you don't have the fortitude to be married.

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Goatse Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,086	It depend on the kind of relationship you have. If it's understood that you're both just testing the waters with each other, then it's no big deal. If there are serious discussions about your future together, along with declarations of undying love, then it is indeed a huge deal.

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