do you care / want to find out about your girlfriends past? - GoFuckYourself.com

10-28-2004, 09:01 PM

its a dilemma I'm faced with...

I am gay
what about you? is it important for you to know your boyfriends past?

or do you not care? as long as he is good and loyal to you?
try to keep a blind eye, that sorta thing...

anyways, just a confused dude looking for enlightenment here

TheMob · 10-28-2004, 09:04 PM

Good question.

I'll just listen to what people have to say on the topic.

media · 10-28-2004, 09:04 PM

I already know about my wifes sexual past.. I was her first.. Everything from there is new writing in the book....

wes · 10-28-2004, 09:04 PM

bdjuf, I know where your coming from. I use to get mad about my gf's past. Then I asked her about it and it wasnt much. I felt a lot better when I found out. I mean of course I was mad first when she told me some things but then I told her the things i've done and it made her so sad. Haha. But its good to know the past. If you wanna chat about it anytime icq me bro: 289816531

TheMob · 10-28-2004, 09:05 PM

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Originally posted by media
I already know about my wifes sexual past.. I was her first.. Everything from there is new writing in the book....

Ignorance is bliss isn't it

KRL · 10-28-2004, 09:07 PM

A girl I dated for a couple years told me she used to be a lesbian when she was in college. It weirded me out at first, because she didn't seem like one at all and was a big flirt with guys. She said it was just a phase she went through and wasn't into women any more.

Persius · 10-28-2004, 09:07 PM

some things are better left unsaid

Spunky · 10-28-2004, 09:07 PM

Put it this way..If she knew about my past ,she would freak...so I don't ask about hers

Lonny · 10-28-2004, 09:09 PM

nope not Insecure to let shit like that get to me.

wes · 10-28-2004, 09:10 PM

In fights some stuff comes out. But my gf was my first and thats all that matters. My dick wouldnt fit the first couple times, But after trying and patience I got it in. Blood was all over my sheets. Was kinda gross, but then pretty pimp to tell your friends its the 4th virgin you've landed.

:: Don't let my gf read this ::

10-28-2004, 09:11 PM

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Originally posted by ikonworx
nope not Insecure to let shit like that get to me.

hmmm, in that case I guess I am pretty insecure when it comes to girls and their pasts...

wes · 10-28-2004, 09:11 PM

Let me phrase this in a better way. I was her first.

wes · 10-28-2004, 09:12 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
hmmm, in that case I guess I am pretty insecure when it comes to girls and their pasts...

I am like that too man. I have her on check. Make the girl need you. And think about this. Just think that its her loss if anything man. Not yours.

sickkittens · 10-28-2004, 09:12 PM

If it bothers you, find out now before you find out later.

10-28-2004, 09:13 PM

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Originally posted by wes
Let me phrase this in a better way. I was her first.

much better... I added you on ICQ btw

but I mean, I want to find out if my girl was a "good girl". but if i were to find out that she wasn't, that she slept with a guy she just met or something, I don't even know how I would react, it would kill me inside

wes · 10-28-2004, 09:14 PM

bdjuf, has any of your past ex-gf's cheated on you? That could be why you are insecure. I know damn right thats why I am. My ex cheated on me with some chump. I told myself she would be back. What do you know when I found a new gf she tried talking to me. I ignored her. When I was with her she kept telling me break up with her come back with me. Of course I hit it on the side. You know how we do.

10-28-2004, 09:14 PM

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Originally posted by wes
I am like that too man. I have her on check. Make the girl need you. And think about this. Just think that its her loss if anything man. Not yours.

the whole reason I decided to actually have this girl as a girlfriend is because I care for her enough to say no to all the other girls, and I am talking about enough girls to give me at least 10 cheating opportunities since we started going out... (bout 3 weeks)

with that care and attachment, comes everything else I feel and think about...

EscortBiz · 10-28-2004, 09:15 PM

who cares it wont last anyways enjoy for now and dont stress

10-28-2004, 09:15 PM

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Originally posted by wes
bdjuf, has any of your past ex-gf's cheated on you? That could be why you are insecure. I know damn right thats why I am. My ex cheated on me with some chump. I told myself she would be back. What do you know when I found a new gf she tried talking to me. I ignored her. When I was with her she kept telling me break up with her come back with me. Of course I hit it on the side. You know how we do.

never, I have only had 2 "relatively serious" relationships in the past and 1 lasted 2 weeks and the other lasted 3 weeks

Im all about fooling around with 3 different girls a week

Kimmykim · 10-28-2004, 09:16 PM

If you're not Catholic and about to be ordained as a secular priest from some obscure sect that still believes in it, then I'd suggest you skip the self-flagellation.

The things that are important will come out over time, especially if you let her tell you her past in her own way.

CybermedAndy · 10-28-2004, 09:16 PM

Ya I definetly get curious from time to ttime

10-28-2004, 09:16 PM

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Originally posted by EscortBiz
who cares it wont last anyways enjoy for now and dont stress

interesting, but how can I "go against myself" and try not to think about stuff, when these stuff are important to me and to my own personal growth?

how can you keep a blind eye to a matter that is important to you?

EscortBiz · 10-28-2004, 09:19 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
interesting, but how can I "go against myself" and try not to think about stuff, when these stuff are important to me and to my own personal growth?

how can you keep a blind eye to a matter that is important to you?

you sound like a 18 year old girl thats new to the dating game

get over it

GTS Mark · 10-28-2004, 09:19 PM

As Chris Rock always says

"just be glad she's fucking you now, you don't wanna know shit!!"

"Everygirl has a 5 dick curve, if she says only 2 guys she means 7. She only counts boyfriends not one night stands or the time she fucked Bobby Brown in Jamaica".

LOL!

DH

EscortBiz · 10-28-2004, 09:20 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
these stuff are important to me and to my own personal growth?

for that god invented

10-28-2004, 09:21 PM

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Originally posted by EscortBiz
you sound like a 18 year old girl thats new to the dating game

get over it

haha, well I am sorry I am not as evolved as you are in this aspect

but it appears as if alot of people on the board so far, regardless of their age, understand my feelings

10-28-2004, 09:21 PM

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Originally posted by EscortBiz
for that god invented

detoxed · 10-28-2004, 09:22 PM

have you ever hooked up with a girl one night stand? I fucked some chick that I just met just two hours before by her coming over to watch a movie. I found out she was getting married like two months later lol. But anyway.. if you recently got married I might have fucked your girl. This goes to anyone reading

10-28-2004, 09:23 PM

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Originally posted by detoxed
have you ever hooked up with a girl one night stand? I fucked some chick that I just met just two hours before by her coming over to watch a movie. I found out she was getting married like two months later lol. But anyway.. if you recently got married I might have fucked your girl. This goes to anyone reading

yes yes many times, I have done alot of shit for someone like myself...

but to me, IT DOESNT MATTER what Ive done, but it DOES matter what she has

hehe, I'm fucked up

Kimmykim · 10-28-2004, 09:26 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
interesting, but how can I "go against myself" and try not to think about stuff, when these stuff are important to me and to my own personal growth?

how can you keep a blind eye to a matter that is important to you?

Honey, it is not a matter of your personal growth.

It's a matter of your own morbid curiousity, measured against how many times you stopped to watch a train wreck.

Leave it alone, it really doesn't matter. You'll get to the end of the road eventually, just take your time and make sure you follow the road signs.

SinSational · 10-28-2004, 09:27 PM

just think of how she would feel if you told her about your past. i agree "some things are better left unsaid". you don't want to find out that she used to get double teamed every weekend.

10-28-2004, 09:28 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim
Honey, it is not a matter of your personal growth.

It's a matter of your own morbid curiousity, measured against how many times you stopped to watch a train wreck.

Leave it alone, it really doesn't matter. You'll get to the end of the road eventually, just take your time and make sure you follow the road signs.

thanx alot Kim

Kard63 · 10-28-2004, 09:29 PM

Women are hoes, they have a long nasty history and you are supposed to know it. If she tries to live it down and wants you to forget tear her asshole apart for old times sake and kick her to the curb.

10-28-2004, 09:29 PM

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Originally posted by SinSational
just think of how she would feel if you told her about your past. i agree "some things are better left unsaid". you don't want to find out that she used to get double teamed every weekend.

but I want to know that my girlfriend, the girl I really care about, is a good clean girl... I don't like the fact that I (MIGHT) be dating a slut, and I don't know about it...

Kimmykim · 10-28-2004, 09:29 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
thanx alot Kim

Just remember that every relationship is different

vixm · 10-28-2004, 09:30 PM

FROM MY EXPERIENCE

YOU are better off not knowing. What's in the past . . . leave in the past. You're WAY better off that way dude.

Kimmykim · 10-28-2004, 09:30 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
but I want to know that my girlfriend, the girl I really care about, is a good clean girl... I don't like the fact that I (MIGHT) be dating a slut, and I don't know about it...

Might I also suggest you that rethink your classifications when deciding you are in a position to judge other people.

10-28-2004, 09:31 PM

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Originally posted by vixm
FROM MY EXPERIENCE

YOU are better off not knowing. What's in the past . . . leave in the past. You're WAY better off that way dude.

probably...

thanx for sharing your experience

but I can't say no to curiosity.... (curiosity killed the cat!)

Kard63 · 10-28-2004, 09:32 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
probably...

thanx for sharing your experience

but I can't say no to curiosity.... (curiosity killed the cat!)

Just ask her about her sluttyness and compensate by violating her like no one else. If she complains choke her.

10-28-2004, 09:34 PM

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Originally posted by Kard63
Just ask her about her sluttyness and compensate by violating her like no one else. If she complains choke her.

its easy to do that when you dont CARE ABOUT THE PERSON

Theo · 10-28-2004, 09:34 PM

hell no

Kard63 · 10-28-2004, 09:38 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
its easy to do that when you dont CARE ABOUT THE PERSON

Choking is cool as long as it is not consensual. You should show her how much you care and share the pain.

Ok, I need to know things and I'm perverted so I'll stop responding but I wish you luck

SureFire · 10-28-2004, 09:38 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
its a dilemma I'm faced with...

I am always curious to know what my GF did in the past, but many times the information i recieve hurts me... I wish I didn't know

what about you? is it important for you to know your girlfriends past?

or do you not care? as long as she is good and loyal to you?
try to keep a blind eye, that sorta thing...

anyways, just a confused dude looking for enlightenment here

From a female. A lot guys want to know the past. It really doesn't matter; it is the past. If she likes you, she will share her past and hope for trust.

10-28-2004, 09:40 PM

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Originally posted by Kard63
Choking is cool as long as it is not consensual. You should show her how much you care and share the pain.

Ok, I need to know things and I'm perverted so I'll stop responding but I wish you luck

thanx for the good luck I guess

SongRider · 10-28-2004, 09:42 PM

Knowing about her past has NOTHING to do with HER. Its ALL got to do about YOU and YOUR ego and curiosity. If you dig who she is today then leave it at that.

Opening doors that are none of your business can only cause trouble. And if it happened BEFORE she met you then its none of your concern. You cant judge her by her yesterdays anyway. All you can get out of it is bothered at best.

I've lived and I have learned.... I didnt invent the rainy day. I just happen to own a GREAT umbrella!!!

10-28-2004, 09:44 PM

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Originally posted by SongRider
You cant judge her by her yesterdays anyway

hmmm, interesting POV, I will have to think about that one...

vixm · 10-28-2004, 09:48 PM

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Originally posted by Kard63
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Dude (Kard63 ) . . . Plz get rid of that nasty ass sig. of yours: 'MyAssUnderGlass.JPG'

StacyCat · 10-29-2004, 08:33 AM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
but I want to know that my girlfriend, the girl I really care about, is a good clean girl... I don't like the fact that I (MIGHT) be dating a slut, and I don't know about it...

Then you dont really care about her like you are saying that you do.

Who cares about her past? If shes with you now, and you are into her, what does it matter if shes a slut or a good girl?

If you dont want to date sluts, then be a prick and ask about it up front. Dont do the crap of "oh, I really care about you, but oh, you had a threesome 4 years ago> I cant date a slut like you, bye"

Pussy. Get over it or get out of the relationship. You didnt go into it saying "i'll only fall for you if you are a good girl." You fell, now deal with the good things you have now, dont dwell in the past when she didnt know you.

ItBurnsWhenIpee · 10-29-2004, 08:36 AM

More mystery, less history

LadyMischief · 10-29-2004, 08:38 AM

If you are so very worried about her past, you should be looking for a virgin straight from the seminary. Unless you can handle it, don't ask... and if you're letting the PAST eat away at you, you need to do some soul-searching, because that's a sure indication of self-confidence issues. Someone who's confident in themselves doesn't let the past dictate the present, no matter how sordid they might find it.

10-28-2004, 09:01 PM	#1
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10-28-2004, 09:04 PM	#3
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10-28-2004, 09:04 PM	#4
wes Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Vegas/Pacific Palasades Posts: 3,150	bdjuf, I know where your coming from. I use to get mad about my gf's past. Then I asked her about it and it wasnt much. I felt a lot better when I found out. I mean of course I was mad first when she told me some things but then I told her the things i've done and it made her so sad. Haha. But its good to know the past. If you wanna chat about it anytime icq me bro: 289816531 __________________ Hot Mom Blog : Tempting Teens : Spicy Tacos : Smutx Free Porn

10-28-2004, 09:07 PM	#6
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10-28-2004, 09:07 PM	#8
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10-28-2004, 09:04 PM	#2
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10-28-2004, 09:07 PM	#7
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10-28-2004, 09:09 PM	#9
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10-28-2004, 09:10 PM	#10
wes Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Vegas/Pacific Palasades Posts: 3,150	In fights some stuff comes out. But my gf was my first and thats all that matters. My dick wouldnt fit the first couple times, But after trying and patience I got it in. Blood was all over my sheets. Was kinda gross, but then pretty pimp to tell your friends its the 4th virgin you've landed. :: Don't let my gf read this :: __________________ Hot Mom Blog : Tempting Teens : Spicy Tacos : Smutx Free Porn

10-28-2004, 09:11 PM	#12
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10-28-2004, 09:12 PM	#14
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10-28-2004, 09:14 PM	#16
wes Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Vegas/Pacific Palasades Posts: 3,150	bdjuf, has any of your past ex-gf's cheated on you? That could be why you are insecure. I know damn right thats why I am. My ex cheated on me with some chump. I told myself she would be back. What do you know when I found a new gf she tried talking to me. I ignored her. When I was with her she kept telling me break up with her come back with me. Of course I hit it on the side. You know how we do. __________________ Hot Mom Blog : Tempting Teens : Spicy Tacos : Smutx Free Porn

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10-28-2004, 09:16 PM	#20
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	If you're not Catholic and about to be ordained as a secular priest from some obscure sect that still believes in it, then I'd suggest you skip the self-flagellation. The things that are important will come out over time, especially if you let her tell you her past in her own way.

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10-28-2004, 09:19 PM	#24
GTS Mark Vrume Mark Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 20,912	As Chris Rock always says "just be glad she's fucking you now, you don't wanna know shit!!" "Everygirl has a 5 dick curve, if she says only 2 guys she means 7. She only counts boyfriends not one night stands or the time she fucked Bobby Brown in Jamaica". LOL! DH

10-28-2004, 09:22 PM	#28
detoxed vip member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 17,798	have you ever hooked up with a girl one night stand? I fucked some chick that I just met just two hours before by her coming over to watch a movie. I found out she was getting married like two months later lol. But anyway.. if you recently got married I might have fucked your girl. This goes to anyone reading

10-28-2004, 09:27 PM	#31
SinSational Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Boston, MA Posts: 1,723	just think of how she would feel if you told her about your past. i agree "some things are better left unsaid". you don't want to find out that she used to get double teamed every weekend. __________________ ICQ# 273099174 - monthly specials - 2 Month Free Credit on All Plans - 100% Referrals - chris@ for details Virtual from $14.95/month, Dedicated from $149.95/month Dual-Core Xeon > 1000GB @ $149.95 \| 1500GB @ $169.95 \| 10Mbps @ $269.95

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Kard63 Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: 237 619 975 Posts: 8,944	Women are hoes, they have a long nasty history and you are supposed to know it. If she tries to live it down and wants you to forget tear her asshole apart for old times sake and kick her to the curb. __________________

10-28-2004, 09:30 PM	#36
vixm Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: USA Posts: 605	FROM MY EXPERIENCE YOU are better off not knowing. What's in the past . . . leave in the past. You're WAY better off that way dude.

10-28-2004, 09:34 PM	#41
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10-28-2004, 09:42 PM	#45
SongRider Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: KY- The state not the jelly Posts: 648	Knowing about her past has NOTHING to do with HER. Its ALL got to do about YOU and YOUR ego and curiosity. If you dig who she is today then leave it at that. Opening doors that are none of your business can only cause trouble. And if it happened BEFORE she met you then its none of your concern. You cant judge her by her yesterdays anyway. All you can get out of it is bothered at best. I've lived and I have learned.... I didnt invent the rainy day. I just happen to own a GREAT umbrella!!!

10-29-2004, 08:36 AM	#49
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10-29-2004, 08:38 AM	#50
LadyMischief Orgasms N Such! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Oakville, Ontario Posts: 18,135	If you are so very worried about her past, you should be looking for a virgin straight from the seminary. Unless you can handle it, don't ask... and if you're letting the PAST eat away at you, you need to do some soul-searching, because that's a sure indication of self-confidence issues. Someone who's confident in themselves doesn't let the past dictate the present, no matter how sordid they might find it. __________________ ICQ 3522039 Content Manager - orgasm.com [email protected]