Your wife has got to be one happy woman, Kevin. You're one of the most pulled together men around. :)

How do you get rid of her if you realize very early in the date you wanna slash you wrists because she was not at all what you thought?

:1orglaugh

They need to be more concerned with impressing me on the first date.

I hear MrIzzz wraps his penis with a bow.... That's how he won Juicylink's heart!:Graucho :Graucho

I didn't want to say it, but that too.
Or give her gifts until you get one.

its a catch 22 :feels-hot

:1orglaugh

:thumbsup

do something to surprise her. pay for everything. make em laugh ;]

when you are saying goodbye, tell her you have a secret to tell her, and when you lean up to her ear, give it a nice little lick and maybe a nibble, bling bling :Graucho

Blushes. Thanks Kimmy. :winkwink:

you just got to be funny but not trying too hard. You also can't seem too needy like answering the phone after just 1 ring or rushing to the door within 5 seconds after they ring it. You need to pull away and mildly push thier buttons :winkwink:

Oh and...

If your cell phone rings, don't answer it. That is the rudest thing in the world.

playing with your rifle and blowing out the rear window of the truck you are laying in the back of goes over pretty well too

If being yourself doesn't impress her, and vice versa it's not much of a match. Assuming you're not just playing some try to get laid game that is:glugglug

Make her orgasm.

I think just be yourself. Listen to what she says and don?t brag something that will make her think you?re a arrogant.:thumbsup

I'm nice, I listen to what she was to say, ask questions about her. take her somewhere nice and quite, and talk and get to know one another.

That's my problem :1orglaugh

Yup, 100% correct, if you are too nice she'll lose any sex interested in you.:2 cents:

Dude have you ever been with a chick? Not all chicks like it when you pay for everything, some even hate it and insist to pay as well :glugglug

:1orglaugh

At the beginning of the date, tell her you're going to have her in the sack by the end of the night. This always goes over really well.

Get her in a private place...

Take your left hand and grab her by the throat and start choking her... with the right hand pull out your stiffy...

Don't forget the flowers, before or after..

You're SO right!

you sir, do not need advice. you have the knowledge needed to accomplish a great first date. :thumbsup

If someone brings me flowers or a gift on the first date, I run like hell. That's someone trying WAY too hard and making a first date into a production when all it is is people getting to know each other.

It's the third date when you do that stuff because if you can make it to the 3rd date, chances are you really like each other :)

And DON'T take a girl to the movies on a first date - again, you're supposed to be getting to know each other so sitting in a theater where you can't talk pretty much nullfiies that :thumbsup

Damn, being raised by a man really skewed my opinion on these things, didn't it? :winkwink:

I have to say after reading the entire thread, I'm siding with Dave over KRL on this dating stuff. :)

I have to agree on the too nice thing. let them know you have an edge it helps.

Now you have the right idea!!!! It may be too much to quick but it def would pull at our heart strings..a gift at the first date is uncomfortable to say the least

get someone to play her favorite song. while taking her dinner.

I just need to tell them my name.

Go at a big restaurant, and show her how rich you are ! :1orglaugh

You all forgot the most important thing of all.


What type of woman are your date.

One of the carrier pointed or beautiful women -- Go for Dave

The shy beauty-- KRL/Dave 50/50


I think it depends a lot on what type of girl.

If she have confident and are used to get what she want--- dont give her what she want. Make fun of her instead.

If she is shy-- try to be open and warm so
she feel comfortable.


Remember, there is a different between dating 50+ women and 20 year old girls.

Good advice in this thread. Just need to
figure out what tactics you need to use on what woman.

ok Im done.
:glugglug

on another note, its pointless to date girls that are
not like you, if you want a long term relationship.

If you need to play headgames all the time make her stay intrested, then it might not be worth it.

:2 cents:

tip her :Graucho

Both replies are great additional advice - I was waiting for someone to say it too. :)

Also, KRL is married (I don't know about Dave or the others, or their life circumstances so this may actually have no bearing at all) but KRL being married shows that being a big gentlemen right away can lead to a long-term relationship; though for all I know KRL's been married for 8 months, and only knew the girl 2 months prior to that. ;)

Matt

It's easy being a canadian and picking up all these american chicks, cause most american guys are dumbasses..

The car door opening is golden and has got me alot of girls, They are always like "you are so sweet" or "such a gentleman" and I reply "well I'am a canadian" or "if I didnt do this, my mom would kick my ass" haha.

Definitely need to use all of our reasons for being so nice is "I'm Canadian" - all of the girls will be moving to Canada soon enough. :)

Matt

Same with Southern boys in the US. :thumbsup

Don't talk about yourself. If you absolutely have to talk about some accomplishment do it in a manner that she has to press you for the details and never make out like its a big deal (works esp well when it is a big deal).

Don't talk about past relationships.

If you are going to be the nice guy and be respectful and bring flowers etc, be careful not to fall into the trap of being the nice asexual guy. Those are the guys that chicks call to talk to when their MAN is being difficult. You can be the nice guy but at the same time communicate to her that you want to sex her and that you know wtf you are doing in that regards.

On first dates one of the best ways to communicate that is to establish touch in a non threatening way, early. Like touching their hands, brushing the hair off their faces, sitting close up and speaking close to them when it is loud with music etc.

Listen to what they tell you. Women will tell you what they want and how they want it, the key i think is to listen and ask the right questions that ask them to reveal themselves.