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psyko514 · 10-27-2004, 04:46 PM

I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why is it not a taxi? I once picked her cell up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

Really i'm in shock and I don't know what to do, I never thought the thing would rust on me like that!

stocktrader23 · 10-27-2004, 04:47 PM

WickedVenus · 10-27-2004, 04:47 PM

hehehe I think you should get some remover.

StuartD · 10-27-2004, 04:48 PM

rust is a bitch... I'd dump the car immediately.

AndrewKanuck · 10-27-2004, 04:48 PM

Warden · 10-27-2004, 04:49 PM

Yeah like old relationships, cars also start to get warn out, old and unreliable.

sickkittens · 10-27-2004, 04:49 PM

Wasn't this posted the other day or was that by someone else?

NoCarrier · 10-27-2004, 04:49 PM

Hire an investigator, don't do this shit yourself, you need pictures and proof. It's a good investment and it usually take less thand 4-5 days to get an answer.

If not, well, get another car.

Furious_Male · 10-27-2004, 04:50 PM

That is sad

Is it through? Or just on the surface?

detoxed · 10-27-2004, 04:54 PM

Ahh rust is a bitch!

Bigwilly · 10-27-2004, 04:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by NoCarrier
Hire an investigator, don't do this shit yourself, you need pictures and proof. It's a good investment and it usually take less thand 4-5 days to get an answer.

If not, well, get another car.

probably a good idea considering if there is a divorce involved you would have proof of her affair

Furious_Male · 10-27-2004, 04:58 PM

Nice edit

MattO · 10-27-2004, 04:59 PM

Better call this guy

Babagirls · 10-27-2004, 05:02 PM

Better sand the rust off

pxxx · 10-27-2004, 05:03 PM

Hehe, i really thought i was going to see you on Divorce Court.

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 10-27-2004, 05:07 PM

Who cares.
Get an investigator.

Fact is ya do not trust her now...

Its time to pitch her to the curb.

The facts of whats going on will help during divorce proceedings.

doober · 10-27-2004, 05:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sickkittens
Wasn't this posted the other day or was that by someone else?

Yes ScottMcd posted it like a week ago.....

Insert timeline here

Mr. Jim · 10-27-2004, 05:09 PM

WOW that is a tough situation

A replacement could be time consuming and you may never be as happy.....

It really is about how much you care and is this a deal breaker.

It is so hard to let go of something that you have spent so much time investing time, money, emotion........

First dont make a knee jerk decision as this could be something you could regret

Take some time and think of what options are available.....

You have to look long term and how is this going to effect your immediate and long term goals and even your everyday life.

It is difficult to try and fix things like this but its not impossible......

Ask around get suggestions.....

then if you still feel as strong....go ahead and have them throw some bon-dough on it and get it painted

the wife......clip her

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Mr. Jim Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 4,372	WOW that is a tough situation A replacement could be time consuming and you may never be as happy..... It really is about how much you care and is this a deal breaker. It is so hard to let go of something that you have spent so much time investing time, money, emotion........ First dont make a knee jerk decision as this could be something you could regret Take some time and think of what options are available..... You have to look long term and how is this going to effect your immediate and long term goals and even your everyday life. It is difficult to try and fix things like this but its not impossible...... Ask around get suggestions..... then if you still feel as strong....go ahead and have them throw some bon-dough on it and get it painted the wife......clip her Last edited by Mr. Jim; 10-27-2004 at 05:11 PM..