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10-12-2004, 06:32 PM
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What do you think? (relationship problem!)
My xgirlfriend and I went out for 2 years, we lived together. We broke up a year ago and both moved back to our home states. Her NY me Boston. We visited each other a few times in the past year that we have been broken up. She started seeing a guy about 2 months ago. She slept over his house a dozen or so times and of course they fucked alot during their time together.
Well the guy freaked out on her last week and said she is too controling. She left his house and he didnt call her for over a week. She was upset, but said he was an asshole that drank to much anyway. She said she wasnt going to call him and it sure didnt look like he was going to call her ever again. Well we started talking again after they broke up, and she seemed like she realized things are better with me. Yesterday she said she left our dog Bellas toy over his house and that she needed to get it. I told her to just buy the dog a new one. Today during lunch she had her eyebrawls waxed and her car washed. She mentioned to me tonight that she called John and she was going over to get our dogs toy. She mentioned John hates high heels and she said she wore them purposely. Whats that about?? I told her to just buy the toy and she said its too late she already called him and said she is coming over. Its been 3 hours. I think she made up with the guy. What should I do? She will probably break up again and then come back to me. I dont want to deal with this shit. Is she a head case? Just wanted to get this off my chest. Shes probaby banging the guy as i type this. grrr! Women LOVE being ignored and assholes. If that guy was calling her off the wall and telling her he loved her, she would of dumped him after a week. |
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10-12-2004, 06:37 PM
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you should be banging other chicks
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10-12-2004, 06:56 PM
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Honestly....move on!!
First, she shouldn't go back for some dog toys...seriously, she could have just bought new one's!! Also wearing something he doesn't like....we play a lot of mind games.... Please...just move on!! You will probably meet a better women down the road!! Unless you want to live a ping-pong life... 
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10-12-2004, 08:40 PM
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You have an ex that comes by for some sex every now and then.
What's the problem? 
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10-12-2004, 08:42 PM
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I need a beer
 
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Too much head games..she is playing you...forget the whore
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10-12-2004, 08:43 PM
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yup, she misses him - the dog toy is an excuse and the fact that she was trying to upset him is just a tactic.
don't bother with her, you will probably notice when you start ignoring her, she'll even want you more. it's pathetic - i know, but you can't let it get to your head. use your noggin |
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10-12-2004, 08:45 PM
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Yep. I am sorry to say I think you were a ploy to get the guy jealous or something. She is still very in to him I am afraid.
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10-12-2004, 08:45 PM
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Save youself some pain, find a new girl and stay as far away from that one as you can
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10-12-2004, 08:45 PM
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10-12-2004, 08:51 PM
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Went back to get a dog toy? Come the fuck on. You must be young man. What a crock of shit
 Forget the woman and move the fuck on. Good luck.
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10-12-2004, 08:52 PM
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10-12-2004, 08:53 PM
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Move on and be happy that is what it's all about...
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10-12-2004, 09:24 PM
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10-12-2004, 09:33 PM
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women are wonderful. wonderful liars that is. The way they mold bullshit is an artwork. Dont get me wrong, Ive been married 8 years, and I can usually spot my wifes bullshit, but its still hard after 8 years, just look out and always expect the unexpected. I would say her story sounds a little funny to say the least, with only 2 years invested, give her a few months, but keep her in check, anything funny, ditch her fast.
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10-13-2004, 02:01 AM
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Well heres what happened. She went over there. He had the toy in a plastic bag for her. She saw a movie "the day after tommorow" on his table and she mentioned she wanted to see that. He said he was watching it now and she could stay to watch it. He had a few friends over. They went to the store down the street together to get beers. She says they didnt talk about anything, it was a quick drive. They came back she sat on a chair, he sat on the couch and they all watched the movie. After the movie was over she said she had to go home. He followed her out to the car. He asked if he could call her tommorow, she said yeah if he wants too. They kissed and she left.
WHAT THE FUCK! She told me this story when she got back like it was nothing. I said "so you guys are seeing each other again". She said he wont call. I said of course he will, he has a dick and he wants to get laid again. She said shes not going to have sex with him again. (bullshit). If she plans on seeing this guy and not having sex with him, he is going to kick her to the curb. He'll get mad at her, she will say sorry and have sex so he's not mad anymore. So it looks like she is back where she stared, with him. I told her im not going to sit back and talk to her while she is seeing that guy and that we sholdnt talk anymore for good. She said i was over reacting. She said she'd call tommorow and its upto me if I want to answer the phone or not. |
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10-13-2004, 02:12 AM
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I believe you better move on
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10-13-2004, 02:21 AM
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raise your standards and hold out until you meet a keeper
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10-14-2004, 10:51 AM
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10-14-2004, 11:18 AM
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If you can leave her now, then " your the real man ".
She needs, or probably you too, some space for some "breathing" You don't deserve to be treated that way at all. 
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10-14-2004, 11:30 AM
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I know that's hurts and especially if you've lived together but if you move on now, it will take some time but you will see all this situation completely different next few months, trust me..... She doesn't deserve guy like you, you seems like nice guy.... But remember it's your decision and it's only up to you, if you feel you don't want to broke up now, just don't do it and the time will show you what's the best for you.... good luck |
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10-14-2004, 11:33 AM
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My question to you is, why haven't u gotten over her and moved on already?
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10-14-2004, 11:36 AM
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She is playing head games and she's playing you. You are her "go to" guy when all else fails, so tell her to fuck off and grow up. Unless she'll blow ya first, then tell her to fuck off and grow up.
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10-14-2004, 11:39 AM
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Is she looking to get back with you how you guys once were? I wouldn't bother if you're looking for more than just sex.
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10-14-2004, 11:40 AM
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C'mon:
What fucking guy DOESN'T like HIGH HEELS? you are getting played......Play back my man..... |
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10-14-2004, 11:40 AM
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Let's do some business!
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What the fuck is an eyebrawl?
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10-14-2004, 11:42 AM
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You want to justify the terrorists and chop off all Korean's heads because "a few eat dogs and cats" citing collateral damage in the "war against animal cruelty" and yet you're giving this idiot the time of day?
Get real.
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10-14-2004, 12:26 PM
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She isn't even worth the time it took you to type this fucking post.
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10-14-2004, 12:36 PM
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kill her
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10-14-2004, 12:42 PM
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Also, she's just using you as something to fall back on. Bitches like this make me sick. Tell her multiple dick loving ass to take a hike.
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10-14-2004, 12:53 PM
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man,, not until siegfried and roy had i seen a pussy been whiped into shape as she has done to you. Leave her, enough of this crap and find a girl who will respect you - if she wanted anything over there, then you go with her to pick them up or make some more money to buy them again.
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10-14-2004, 12:57 PM
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I would say move on!!! Your hanging on to somthing that is hurting you more in teh long run. If you are one of those individuals that cant let go of things like that I suggest a rebound. I knwo alot of peopel say rebounds suck, but its usally the fastest easiest way to get over someone.
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by the way post us a pic of you. you may have girls in here looking
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by the way post us a pic of you. you may have girls in here lookinglol
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i am not even kidding,
fuck her in the ass, u dont need stupid bitches in your life, i would have $ over women anyday, next time she comes back tell her u r not a shoulder to cry on. |
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10-14-2004, 02:22 PM
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i think she's just playing with u but to judge her based only on the situation u described is quite hard. Justlive and see how it will go...
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10-16-2004, 04:57 AM
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Heres my pic. Thanks to everyone and their advice. Im just keeping myself busy working to keep my mind off of her. And a rebound sounds like a good idea.
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in a relationship there are 2 roles..
THE PERSON JOCKING and THE PERSON BEING JOCKED you want to be the latter
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man your first post really made me read the whole thread. i know how you feel.
i think an advice such as "move on, you will find someone else" is bullshit. you spent 2 years with this girl and i am sure she means a hell lot to you. from what i read you also still have feelings for her. i also understand how you felt when she was with this other guy. why did she want to watch this movie with him? we both know it. she wants him back. i was in this kind of situation myself. i'm not good with phone numbers, so i deleted all her numbers i had. i really had no chance to contact her, even if i wanted to. it's hard to move on and forget about her when you have her number in your cell phone saved.. trust me. try to make a cut. the relationship is over. there is no need to talk to her anymore at all - it will just hurt ya. |
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Dude for real how can you let yourself get walked on. She is using you man. Fuck your feelings for her do it for yourself man. She thinks of you as a cuddle bitch. The fact that you have the ability to care and put up with this shit means you'll find someone more deserving of your love and attention. Next time your in FL we go hit up ybor and get some pussy man...Move on and love yourself before you love a woman that will treat you like a doormat.
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Let's do some business.
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Make yourself hate her for her bullshit. Bang her silly one last time for good measure and don't answer the phone the next time.
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like monkies, they refuse to completely let go of one branch, before they have the next firmly secured. move on .. start living your life without her and forget her. When you realise it is a game she is playing, just refuse to play ..
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