Should I help this guy out? - GoFuckYourself.com

sillysillyme · 10-12-2004, 04:22 AM

When I met my girlfriend she had a female roommate and then this guy moved in with them saying he needed somewhere to stay while he was waiting on a settlement for an auto accident. So he moved in and doesn't help pay the first bill stays for 6 months and then his settlement comes in so he leaves without even giving either of the girls a thank you. I think it took him less than 3 months to spend all his money and then we ran into him at a club and he tells us he is selling pills to support his drug habit. I am not innocent but I know one thing for sure and that is if you are going to make money selling drugs you can't be addicted to what you are selling.But anyways he ends up going to jail for 6 months on an old warrant for drinking and driving.When he gets out he starts right back up on doing drugs , three months later he is arrested at a local strip club, it seems after a long night out parting he has run out of money and is trying to sell some pills to the DJ. His dad bonds him out and this is when he starts coming over to my house cuse he heard I was in the biz and is looking for a DUCK I guess. But after going to the clubs a couple of times I realize this is still a person who is always broke and always needs a ride I break contact with him. Well last week I see in the paper he has been picked up for selling drugs, public drunk and aggravated simple escape.Well I called a friend to see what happened cause I have never heard of that escape charge. They say at a local club he gets drunk tries to sell the bartender 2 xanax for some beer and and then gets arrested. So he called me today wanting money for bail saying he did nothing wrong. I told him I think it is best if he stays in jail for awhile to get sober and maybe learn his lesson. I really do not think this will help him but I think with all the charges coming at him that it will just be a waste to bond out, I am preety sure when and if he would go to court they would just put him back in. But my girlfriend thinks that we should give him a chance , her idea is to get him out and teach him the biz. AHHH I regret telling family and friends that I am in the biz. So am I wrong or not???

cool1 · 10-12-2004, 04:32 AM

Leave him in jail.
Do not teach him the biz
there are enough losers in the biz already

evanmorgan · 10-12-2004, 04:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by coolone
Leave him in jail.
Do not teach him the biz
there are enough losers in the biz already

thats me

uchase/webpry · 10-12-2004, 04:37 AM

When I met my girlfriend she had a female roommate and then this guy moved in with them saying he needed somewhere to stay while he was waiting on a settlement for an auto accident.

So he moved in and doesn't help pay the first bill stays for 6 months and then his settlement comes in so he leaves without even giving either of the girls a thank you. I think it took him less than 3 months to spend all his money and then we ran into him at a club and he tells us he is selling pills to support his drug habit.

I am not innocent but I know one thing for sure and that is if you are going to make money selling drugs you can't be addicted to what you are selling.But anyways he ends up going to jail for 6 months on an old warrant for drinking and driving.

When he gets out he starts right back up on doing drugs , three months later he is arrested at a local strip club, it seems after a long night out parting he has run out of money and is trying to sell some pills to the DJ.

His dad bonds him out and this is when he starts coming over to my house cuse he heard I was in the biz and is looking for a DUCK I guess. But after going to the clubs a couple of times I realize this is still a person who is always broke and always needs a ride I break contact with him.

Well last week I see in the paper he has been picked up for selling drugs, public drunk and aggravated simple escape.Well I called a friend to see what happened cause I have never heard of that escape charge. They say at a local club he gets drunk tries to sell the bartender 2 xanax for some beer and and then gets arrested. So he called me today wanting money for bail saying he did nothing wrong.

I told him I think it is best if he stays in jail for awhile to get sober and maybe learn his lesson. I really do not think this will help him but I think with all the charges coming at him that it will just be a waste to bond out, I am preety sure when and if he would go to court they would just put him back in.

But my girlfriend thinks that we should give him a chance , her idea is to get him out and teach him the biz. AHHH I regret telling family and friends that I am in the biz.

So am I wrong or not???

sillysillyme · 10-12-2004, 04:38 AM

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Originally posted by evanmorgan
thats me

Evan you have potential turn you icq back on.

Merrioc · 10-12-2004, 04:40 AM

if he didn't do anything wrong (selling perscription drugs is illegal) they will hold for up to 72 hours, then let him go on time served. He's a chronic case not your responsibility. Let him learn he needs to get a real job.

ExtremeRobyn · 10-12-2004, 04:43 AM

Are you serious??? The guy moves in with your girlfriend and leaves once he has some big settlement.. pisses the money away.. then keeps getting arressted for the same damn charge and you want to help him????? There are times when you being nice and hlepful is appreciated, and then there are times when you need to watch out for your own ass.

Fred Quimby · 10-12-2004, 06:05 AM

If this was my friend of 10 years,,,I'd still help him.

Since you don't even know this guy,,,the only thing he has to offer is trouble. Do you need more trouble in you life?

stocktrader23 · 10-12-2004, 06:17 AM

Girlfriend lets guy move in for 6 months free.

Girlfriend gets fucked when he leaves.

Girlfriend wants you to help him when he's arrested for the 5th time.

I would be grilling the girlfriend.

Doc911 · 10-12-2004, 06:31 AM

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I regret telling family and friends that I am in the biz

what does being in the "biz" have to do with this loser? It doesn't automatically qualify or require you to be his daddy any more than working in any industry.

I'd be checking your girlfriends motives

Basic_man · 10-12-2004, 06:37 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by coolone
Leave him in jail.
Do not teach him the biz
there are enough losers in the biz already

Yeah right, he fuckin' deserve to stay in jail !

10-12-2004, 04:22 AM	#1
sillysillyme Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: La La Land Posts: 156	Should I help this guy out? When I met my girlfriend she had a female roommate and then this guy moved in with them saying he needed somewhere to stay while he was waiting on a settlement for an auto accident. So he moved in and doesn't help pay the first bill stays for 6 months and then his settlement comes in so he leaves without even giving either of the girls a thank you. I think it took him less than 3 months to spend all his money and then we ran into him at a club and he tells us he is selling pills to support his drug habit. I am not innocent but I know one thing for sure and that is if you are going to make money selling drugs you can't be addicted to what you are selling.But anyways he ends up going to jail for 6 months on an old warrant for drinking and driving.When he gets out he starts right back up on doing drugs , three months later he is arrested at a local strip club, it seems after a long night out parting he has run out of money and is trying to sell some pills to the DJ. His dad bonds him out and this is when he starts coming over to my house cuse he heard I was in the biz and is looking for a DUCK I guess. But after going to the clubs a couple of times I realize this is still a person who is always broke and always needs a ride I break contact with him. Well last week I see in the paper he has been picked up for selling drugs, public drunk and aggravated simple escape.Well I called a friend to see what happened cause I have never heard of that escape charge. They say at a local club he gets drunk tries to sell the bartender 2 xanax for some beer and and then gets arrested. So he called me today wanting money for bail saying he did nothing wrong. I told him I think it is best if he stays in jail for awhile to get sober and maybe learn his lesson. I really do not think this will help him but I think with all the charges coming at him that it will just be a waste to bond out, I am preety sure when and if he would go to court they would just put him back in. But my girlfriend thinks that we should give him a chance , her idea is to get him out and teach him the biz. AHHH I regret telling family and friends that I am in the biz. So am I wrong or not???

10-12-2004, 04:32 AM	#2
cool1 sex is good Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Carman, MB Canada Posts: 24,939	Leave him in jail. Do not teach him the biz there are enough losers in the biz already __________________

10-12-2004, 04:43 AM	#7
ExtremeRobyn Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 73	Are you serious??? The guy moves in with your girlfriend and leaves once he has some big settlement.. pisses the money away.. then keeps getting arressted for the same damn charge and you want to help him????? There are times when you being nice and hlepful is appreciated, and then there are times when you need to watch out for your own ass. __________________ Extreme Paychecks.com

10-12-2004, 06:05 AM	#8
Fred Quimby Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Long Island, NY Posts: 5,430	If this was my friend of 10 years,,,I'd still help him. Since you don't even know this guy,,,the only thing he has to offer is trouble. Do you need more trouble in you life? __________________

10-12-2004, 06:17 AM	#9
stocktrader23 Let's do some business. Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: The dirty south. Posts: 18,781	Girlfriend lets guy move in for 6 months free. Girlfriend gets fucked when he leaves. Girlfriend wants you to help him when he's arrested for the 5th time. I would be grilling the girlfriend. __________________ Hands Free Adult - Join Once, Earn For Life "I try to make a habit of bouncing my eyes up to the face of a beautiful woman, and often repeat “not mine” in my head or even verbally. She’s not mine. God has her set aside. She’s not mine. She’s His little girl, and she needs me to fight for her by keeping my eyes where they should be."

10-12-2004, 04:37 AM	#4
uchase/webpry So Fucking Banned Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Do you use sex.com's XML feed, try ours and make double the money. Posts: 2,085	When I met my girlfriend she had a female roommate and then this guy moved in with them saying he needed somewhere to stay while he was waiting on a settlement for an auto accident. So he moved in and doesn't help pay the first bill stays for 6 months and then his settlement comes in so he leaves without even giving either of the girls a thank you. I think it took him less than 3 months to spend all his money and then we ran into him at a club and he tells us he is selling pills to support his drug habit. I am not innocent but I know one thing for sure and that is if you are going to make money selling drugs you can't be addicted to what you are selling.But anyways he ends up going to jail for 6 months on an old warrant for drinking and driving. When he gets out he starts right back up on doing drugs , three months later he is arrested at a local strip club, it seems after a long night out parting he has run out of money and is trying to sell some pills to the DJ. His dad bonds him out and this is when he starts coming over to my house cuse he heard I was in the biz and is looking for a DUCK I guess. But after going to the clubs a couple of times I realize this is still a person who is always broke and always needs a ride I break contact with him. Well last week I see in the paper he has been picked up for selling drugs, public drunk and aggravated simple escape.Well I called a friend to see what happened cause I have never heard of that escape charge. They say at a local club he gets drunk tries to sell the bartender 2 xanax for some beer and and then gets arrested. So he called me today wanting money for bail saying he did nothing wrong. I told him I think it is best if he stays in jail for awhile to get sober and maybe learn his lesson. I really do not think this will help him but I think with all the charges coming at him that it will just be a waste to bond out, I am preety sure when and if he would go to court they would just put him back in. But my girlfriend thinks that we should give him a chance , her idea is to get him out and teach him the biz. AHHH I regret telling family and friends that I am in the biz. So am I wrong or not???

10-12-2004, 04:40 AM	#6
Merrioc Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 249	if he didn't do anything wrong (selling perscription drugs is illegal) they will hold for up to 72 hours, then let him go on time served. He's a chronic case not your responsibility. Let him learn he needs to get a real job.