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Rantan · 10-02-2004, 09:28 PM

So im in love with this girl, been going out for almost two years, it's awesome. Recently one of our friends comes out and says he likes her. now, that just isnt cool, he's beena acting like a dofus for a few weeks since him and his gf broke up, i was scared something like this was gunna happen.

Anyway, my girl doesn't seem to have a problem with it, "i love you and that's all that matters" and he's just the same, acting like i should just get over it, WTF? i really dont think i should just let this pass. the fact that shes just wants to drop it, and he's acting like im being imature about is pissing me off...

hydro · 10-02-2004, 09:29 PM

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Rantan · 10-02-2004, 09:31 PM

no thanks, i trust her, and if something does happen, ill beat him into a coma.

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hydro · 10-02-2004, 09:35 PM

Just ignore it. To women it shows how insecure you are and that you don't think your good enough for her. Next time it comes up make a joke about how she would be begging to have you back after a date with him or something along those lines.

jennym · 10-02-2004, 09:54 PM

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Originally posted by hydro
Next time it comes up make a joke about how she would be begging to have you back after a date with him or something along those lines.

Wrong! Then you look like a stupid tool who thinks she is not worthy of you.

If you trust her, and she says she's not interested, then just leave it at that. It was kinda "dickish" of him to reveal that though.

chase · 10-02-2004, 10:05 PM

Yeah, what did he expect? You to hand her over on a silver platter? Duh.
But don't act all mental about it to her, it does make you look like a dumbass. i hate when my husband gets all possessive...it makes me feel like he doesn't trust me.

xclusive · 10-02-2004, 10:07 PM

Just kick his ass and get it over with...

hydro · 10-02-2004, 10:26 PM

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Originally posted by jennym
Wrong! Then you look like a stupid tool who thinks she is not worthy of you.

If you trust her, and she says she's not interested, then just leave it at that. It was kinda "dickish" of him to reveal that though.

women wan't what they can't have and what other women want. If you make a girl think lots of other girls want you then she'll want you even more. It shouldn't be used under certain conditions, this may or may not be one of them depending how long they have been together.

jennym · 10-02-2004, 10:46 PM

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Originally posted by hydro
women wan't what they can't have and what other women want. If you make a girl think lots of other girls want you then she'll want you even more. It shouldn't be used under certain conditions, this may or may not be one of them depending how long they have been together.

The reason women will sometimes "want what someone else already has" is because the good men are usually taken. So, when we find a good man, we don't want him because he's "taken", he is taken because he's good.

As for women who want what they can't have....those are just women looking for a challenge. They will usually get bored with you very quickly, so you really don't want them anyway.

hydro · 10-02-2004, 10:52 PM

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Originally posted by jennym
The reason women will sometimes "want what someone else already has" is because the good men are usually taken. So, when we find a good man, we don't want him because he's "taken", he is taken because he's good.

As for women who want what they can't have....those are just women looking for a challenge. They will usually get bored with you very quickly, so you really don't want them anyway.

yea thats more what i ment to say, but my theory is that all woman like a challange. Who would you rather go out with, a guy who knows he's better than other guys who are intrested in you or a guy who's clingy, calls 5 times a day to see if your "ok" and does whatever you say as soon as you snap your fingers?

jennym · 10-02-2004, 11:00 PM

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Originally posted by hydro
yea thats more what i ment to say, but my theory is that all woman like a challange. Who would you rather go out with, a guy who knows he's better than other guys who are intrested in you or a guy who's clingy, calls 5 times a day to see if your "ok" and does whatever you say as soon as you snap your fingers?

Guys who KNOW they're better?? Bleh! But, I cannot stand a clingy guy either. There are men who are somewhere in between. As a matter of fact, I have one waiting in bed......goodnight.

Rantan · 10-02-2004, 11:07 PM

we got a bit off-topic..but atlest i started a conversasion

Goatse · 10-03-2004, 01:21 AM

What would an alpha male do? He would be so above it all, so sure of himself, that he wouldn't even acknowledge the situation. After all, he is at the top of the food chain. Even if you're not an alpha, you have to pretend that you are and project that mentality.

stocktrader23 · 10-03-2004, 01:30 AM

A guy telling you that he likes your girl is disrespectful.

A girl saying you are psycho for being pissed about is being disrespectful.

10-02-2004, 09:28 PM	#1
Rantan Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Portland ,OR Posts: 714	interesting problem So im in love with this girl, been going out for almost two years, it's awesome. Recently one of our friends comes out and says he likes her. now, that just isnt cool, he's beena acting like a dofus for a few weeks since him and his gf broke up, i was scared something like this was gunna happen. Anyway, my girl doesn't seem to have a problem with it, "i love you and that's all that matters" and he's just the same, acting like i should just get over it, WTF? i really dont think i should just let this pass. the fact that shes just wants to drop it, and he's acting like im being imature about is pissing me off... __________________ www.jesusjohnson.com

10-02-2004, 09:31 PM	#3
Rantan Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Portland ,OR Posts: 714	no thanks, i trust her, and if something does happen, ill beat him into a coma. __________________ www.jesusjohnson.com

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chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	Yeah, what did he expect? You to hand her over on a silver platter? Duh. But don't act all mental about it to her, it does make you look like a dumbass. i hate when my husband gets all possessive...it makes me feel like he doesn't trust me. __________________ Need Hosting? Reality Check Network services me purrrfectly!

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10-02-2004, 09:35 PM	#5
hydro Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Dirty 3rd Posts: 4,216	Just ignore it. To women it shows how insecure you are and that you don't think your good enough for her. Next time it comes up make a joke about how she would be begging to have you back after a date with him or something along those lines.

10-03-2004, 01:21 AM	#14
Goatse Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,086	What would an alpha male do? He would be so above it all, so sure of himself, that he wouldn't even acknowledge the situation. After all, he is at the top of the food chain. Even if you're not an alpha, you have to pretend that you are and project that mentality.

10-03-2004, 01:30 AM	#15
stocktrader23 Let's do some business. Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: The dirty south. Posts: 18,781	A guy telling you that he likes your girl is disrespectful. A girl saying you are psycho for being pissed about is being disrespectful. __________________ Hands Free Adult - Join Once, Earn For Life "I try to make a habit of bouncing my eyes up to the face of a beautiful woman, and often repeat “not mine” in my head or even verbally. She’s not mine. God has her set aside. She’s not mine. She’s His little girl, and she needs me to fight for her by keeping my eyes where they should be."