Will you tell YOUR kids what you worked as? - GoFuckYourself.com

Ross · 10-01-2004, 05:23 AM

In years to come, if you are out of the biz or maybe still in it and you are married with kids will you tell them what you worked as?

If I ever have kids I wouldn't tell them what I done. NO WAY.

Reading Donovan Phillips thread about the Mom who brought her Daughter to him and offered her other daughter also made me think about this...

uchase/webpry · 10-01-2004, 05:24 AM

no, they will never find out that I was delivering pizzas for 2 years of my life, no chance.

... and yes, don't believe all the crap DP is telling here, he has a sick phantasie.

srikanth79 · 10-01-2004, 05:27 AM

Nope i won't tell them

bluff · 10-01-2004, 05:35 AM

no reason to

Jakke PNG · 10-01-2004, 06:38 AM

Sure if I ever get to insert my penis in a vagina and create a small human.
..unless I'm still doing this when they grow up.. in which case I'll hire them to be my slaves and do shit I'd otherwise outsource.

nofx · 10-01-2004, 06:43 AM

no, i'm too 1337

Ross · 10-01-2004, 06:46 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by TeenGodFather
Sure if I ever get to insert my penis in a vagina and create a small human.
..unless I'm still doing this when they grow up.. in which case I'll hire them to be my slaves and do shit I'd otherwise outsource.

groark · 10-01-2004, 06:47 AM

Why not

TheLegacy · 10-01-2004, 06:47 AM

Im not ashamed at what I do - and I hope I raise my kids to know whats right and wrong - allow them to decide for themselves.

Tired of these threads that imply, "porn is something to be hidden" and "its wrong" - fuck that... PORN IS GOOD!!

Im getting married next year, and her parents know about what I do - after knowing me - they realize that its a job and not a license to bang every chick around.

Tam · 10-01-2004, 06:58 AM

My oldest kids already know what I do and I wanted it that way. My younger ones will know when they are old enough to know. Why? Because I would rather them hear it from me than to go out and hear it from someone else and be left standing there looking like an idiot and in shock.

BUT I have raised my kids to know that there is nothing wrong with our bodies, sexuality or anything to do with it. We are a pretty realistic family and we talk about things together, we don't hide things. Porn is NOT illegal (ok some of it is, but not the parts I do) and I am not ashamed of it. The way I see it, I am not a drug dealer and I am not on Welfare, so the money I make from porn is honest and hurting no one.

NOW, had you asked do I want my kids to do porn? HELL NO!!! I don't mind them building the websites and all of that but I never ever would promote them to the ideas of actually doing porn movies and so on, that part, as a Mom, I don't know if I could handle, simply because when I look in their faces, I still see them locked in at 5 years old..... I wouldn't disown them, and I would support them if it is something they REALLY wanted, but I am certainly not going to help them get into it.

Would I hire my kids to work for me? THAT one I haven't really had to face yet, so I am not sure. It's not something I would go after and try and get them to do as a living, simply because, again, I still see them as 5 yr olds.... LOL

My youngest two will know when they are old enough to know or talk about sex and all that goes with that and they can understand this whole thing. But for now, they just know mom runs websites and so on.

I don't lie to them, I just only give them what their minds can handle.

mardigras · 10-01-2004, 07:14 AM

I won't be having kids, so this will not have to be an issue

StuartD · 10-01-2004, 07:16 AM

I'll be telling them that I was actually a stunt cock... doing many many porn stars all over the world.

That sounds better to me.

slickcashlisa · 10-01-2004, 07:19 AM

Nope..........Wouldnt want my kids to know I worked in the industry

Slick · 10-01-2004, 07:20 AM

I'm not ashamed at what I do, so my family knows. As far as my kids, my 12 year old pretty much knows what I do for a living, although, I don't work in front of him, he just knows. My other children 2 and 6 of course, don't really have a clue.

I know that if I found out that my dad did this and made good money at it, I'd be proud of him

Raf1 · 10-01-2004, 07:24 AM

I'm not sure. I'll worry about it when the time comes

hova · 10-01-2004, 07:26 AM

ofcourse, this is just another business

Va2k · 10-01-2004, 07:34 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by TheLegacy
Im not ashamed at what I do - and I hope I raise my kids to know whats right and wrong - allow them to decide for themselves.

Tired of these threads that imply, "porn is something to be hidden" and "its wrong" - fuck that... PORN IS GOOD!!

Im getting married next year, and her parents know about what I do - after knowing me - they realize that its a job and not a license to bang every chick around.

A FUCKING MEN

I have a 8 year old and a 5 year old when its timeI will tell them. Why be ashamed of what you do? If you are ashamed then go packing I hear wendys is always hiring.
Tom

coolfuck · 10-01-2004, 07:45 AM

i think u can do porn as a main income ..
and u can find a job that u like to do to get extra money .
that way when people ask u what do u do for a living u can tell them that extra job .. and u wont need to think of it ..

SmutGiant · 10-01-2004, 08:07 AM

Well i don't consider myself to be in "the porn industry". I'm a pimp (professional internet marketing person)

Besides, I run more mainstream stuff than adult

Ross · 10-01-2004, 08:09 AM

Please don't confuse my question with the way I feel guys. I am in no way ashamed at what I do. Hell why would I be? I earn a lot of money, I work when I want and I take as many vacations as I want.

The reason for this thread was because of the one where the Mom took her daughter to a content producer and then also told him she had another daughter she wanted to be in the business.

I don't think this is right. Hence the reason I asked if you would or wouldn't tell your kids.

Kassidy · 10-01-2004, 08:16 AM

My kids are 9, 6, and 3, so they only know that Mommy works on the computer but when they're old enough, I'll tell them.

I would never want my children to be treated any differently because of what I do for a living. I don't go to the PTA meetings and advertise what I do to the other parents from their school, but many people do know what I do. It's nothing to be ashamed of, it's a legitimate business just like any other. The generic 'internet marketing' works great for those who wouldn't be so open-minded.

polish_aristocrat · 10-01-2004, 08:18 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ross
In years to come, if you are out of the biz or maybe still in it and you are married with kids will you tell them what you worked as?

If I ever have kids I wouldn't tell them what I done. NO WAY.

I will email your kids the link to this thread

polish_aristocrat · 10-01-2004, 08:19 AM

And seriously, I would see no reason to hide my involvement in this business.
If you are shame of what you are doing, you shouldn't be doing it.

NinjaSteve · 10-01-2004, 08:24 AM

I'll let my kids know when they get old enough.

Trixie Racer · 10-01-2004, 08:51 AM

I don't plan to ever have children. However, if that changed, I would tell the truth. It's important to establish credibility with your children.

Doc911 · 10-01-2004, 08:55 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
And seriously, I would see no reason to hide my involvement in this business.
If you are shame of what you are doing, you shouldn't be doing it.

Everyone already knows I'm in the adult industry. Its kinda hard to hide....

I agree 100% Own up or get out.

Its never a good idea to represent your children by lying.

fr33s3x · 10-01-2004, 08:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Tam
My oldest kids already know what I do and I wanted it that way. My younger ones will know when they are old enough to know. Why? Because I would rather them hear it from me than to go out and hear it from someone else and be left standing there looking like an idiot and in shock.

BUT I have raised my kids to know that there is nothing wrong with our bodies, sexuality or anything to do with it. We are a pretty realistic family and we talk about things together, we don't hide things. Porn is NOT illegal (ok some of it is, but not the parts I do) and I am not ashamed of it. The way I see it, I am not a drug dealer and I am not on Welfare, so the money I make from porn is honest and hurting no one.

NOW, had you asked do I want my kids to do porn? HELL NO!!! I don't mind them building the websites and all of that but I never ever would promote them to the ideas of actually doing porn movies and so on, that part, as a Mom, I don't know if I could handle, simply because when I look in their faces, I still see them locked in at 5 years old..... I wouldn't disown them, and I would support them if it is something they REALLY wanted, but I am certainly not going to help them get into it.

Would I hire my kids to work for me? THAT one I haven't really had to face yet, so I am not sure. It's not something I would go after and try and get them to do as a living, simply because, again, I still see them as 5 yr olds.... LOL

My youngest two will know when they are old enough to know or talk about sex and all that goes with that and they can understand this whole thing. But for now, they just know mom runs websites and so on. I don't lie to them, I just only give them what their minds can handle.

That answer is great. It's just how I think about it too. I don't have kids (yet). But this answer is how I would do too.

Magg · 10-01-2004, 08:59 AM

Sure, I'd have no problem telling them... depending on what my wife thought..

zentz · 10-01-2004, 09:04 AM

why not ? daddy is selling porn...

chase · 10-01-2004, 09:15 AM

My oldest knows...he's sneaky and sorta found out on his own and when he asked me about it, I told him that I handle some marketing for some adult entertainment companies, and I stressed the ADULT part. My next child is only 14 months younger in years, but waaaayyyy more immature, so he doesn't know, and my girls are just 3 and 15 months, so they have no clue, of course.
I will tell them, when they are older and more mature, but on a need to know basis....

GiantGnome · 10-01-2004, 09:18 AM

my kids know i do it and understand its a job and that i am helping my wife pay the bills.

Vitasoy · 10-01-2004, 11:01 AM

Nope, no way in hell. I would do that.

gdog · 10-01-2004, 11:08 AM

I just like using "Internet Marketer", I even have that on my tax returns as my occupation and also my corporations type of business is Internet Marketing.

Grandparents are the best to explain this one too. Basically I sell products and service on the Internet and use auction sites to sell shit.

I don't feel it is necessary to give ourselves the porn pusher label, even though we are all good at pushing porn.

10-01-2004, 05:23 AM	#1
Ross Ik ben een aap Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Traffic Force Towers, Canada! Posts: 18,874	Will you tell YOUR kids what you worked as? In years to come, if you are out of the biz or maybe still in it and you are married with kids will you tell them what you worked as? If I ever have kids I wouldn't tell them what I done. NO WAY. Reading Donovan Phillips thread about the Mom who brought her Daughter to him and offered her other daughter also made me think about this...

10-01-2004, 05:24 AM	#2
uchase/webpry So Fucking Banned Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Do you use sex.com's XML feed, try ours and make double the money. Posts: 2,085	no, they will never find out that I was delivering pizzas for 2 years of my life, no chance. ... and yes, don't believe all the crap DP is telling here, he has a sick phantasie. Last edited by uchase/webpry; 10-01-2004 at 05:26 AM..

10-01-2004, 05:27 AM	#3
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Jakke PNG ex-TeenGodFather Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Suomi Finland Perkele Posts: 20,306	Sure if I ever get to insert my penis in a vagina and create a small human. ..unless I'm still doing this when they grow up.. in which case I'll hire them to be my slaves and do shit I'd otherwise outsource. __________________ ..and I'm off.

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groark So Fucking Banned Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Germany Posts: 1,966	Why not

10-01-2004, 06:47 AM	#9
TheLegacy SEO Connoisseur Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Brantford, Ontario Posts: 17,104	Im not ashamed at what I do - and I hope I raise my kids to know whats right and wrong - allow them to decide for themselves. Tired of these threads that imply, "porn is something to be hidden" and "its wrong" - fuck that... PORN IS GOOD!! Im getting married next year, and her parents know about what I do - after knowing me - they realize that its a job and not a license to bang every chick around. __________________ SEO Connoisseur Microsoft Teams: Robert Warren SEO Telegram: @TheLegacy54 RobertWarrenSEO.com Last edited by TheLegacy; 10-01-2004 at 06:49 AM..

10-01-2004, 06:58 AM	#10
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	My oldest kids already know what I do and I wanted it that way. My younger ones will know when they are old enough to know. Why? Because I would rather them hear it from me than to go out and hear it from someone else and be left standing there looking like an idiot and in shock. BUT I have raised my kids to know that there is nothing wrong with our bodies, sexuality or anything to do with it. We are a pretty realistic family and we talk about things together, we don't hide things. Porn is NOT illegal (ok some of it is, but not the parts I do) and I am not ashamed of it. The way I see it, I am not a drug dealer and I am not on Welfare, so the money I make from porn is honest and hurting no one. NOW, had you asked do I want my kids to do porn? HELL NO!!! I don't mind them building the websites and all of that but I never ever would promote them to the ideas of actually doing porn movies and so on, that part, as a Mom, I don't know if I could handle, simply because when I look in their faces, I still see them locked in at 5 years old..... I wouldn't disown them, and I would support them if it is something they REALLY wanted, but I am certainly not going to help them get into it. Would I hire my kids to work for me? THAT one I haven't really had to face yet, so I am not sure. It's not something I would go after and try and get them to do as a living, simply because, again, I still see them as 5 yr olds.... LOL My youngest two will know when they are old enough to know or talk about sex and all that goes with that and they can understand this whole thing. But for now, they just know mom runs websites and so on. I don't lie to them, I just only give them what their minds can handle.

10-01-2004, 07:14 AM	#11
mardigras Bon temps! Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: down yonder Posts: 14,194	I won't be having kids, so this will not have to be an issue __________________ .

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slickcashlisa Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 447	Nope..........Wouldnt want my kids to know I worked in the industry __________________ [email protected] 317-145-089

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Slick Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Houghton, MI Posts: 7,338	I'm not ashamed at what I do, so my family knows. As far as my kids, my 12 year old pretty much knows what I do for a living, although, I don't work in front of him, he just knows. My other children 2 and 6 of course, don't really have a clue. I know that if I found out that my dad did this and made good money at it, I'd be proud of him

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coolfuck Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 2,440	i think u can do porn as a main income .. and u can find a job that u like to do to get extra money . that way when people ask u what do u do for a living u can tell them that extra job .. and u wont need to think of it .. __________________ WANT TO PLACE YOUR TEXT/BANNER HERE? MSG ME:ICQ Number :43-420-088

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SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	Well i don't consider myself to be in "the porn industry". I'm a pimp (professional internet marketing person) Besides, I run more mainstream stuff than adult

10-01-2004, 08:09 AM	#20
Ross Ik ben een aap Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Traffic Force Towers, Canada! Posts: 18,874	Please don't confuse my question with the way I feel guys. I am in no way ashamed at what I do. Hell why would I be? I earn a lot of money, I work when I want and I take as many vacations as I want. The reason for this thread was because of the one where the Mom took her daughter to a content producer and then also told him she had another daughter she wanted to be in the business. I don't think this is right. Hence the reason I asked if you would or wouldn't tell your kids.

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Kassidy Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Vancouverish... ICQ# 111432084 Posts: 1,219	My kids are 9, 6, and 3, so they only know that Mommy works on the computer but when they're old enough, I'll tell them. I would never want my children to be treated any differently because of what I do for a living. I don't go to the PTA meetings and advertise what I do to the other parents from their school, but many people do know what I do. It's nothing to be ashamed of, it's a legitimate business just like any other. The generic 'internet marketing' works great for those who wouldn't be so open-minded. __________________ The ORIGINAL micro niche program- All Original and exclusive content. Paying 60% recurring through CCBill, FHG, free content & gallery templates Well researched niches with on-target content. SUBSTANCE SELLS!

10-01-2004, 08:19 AM	#23
polish_aristocrat Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 40,377	And seriously, I would see no reason to hide my involvement in this business. If you are shame of what you are doing, you shouldn't be doing it. __________________ I don't use ICQ anymore.

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NinjaSteve Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 11,089	I'll let my kids know when they get old enough. __________________ ...

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Trixie Racer Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: varies Posts: 2,328	I don't plan to ever have children. However, if that changed, I would tell the truth. It's important to establish credibility with your children. __________________ Make a Red Cross Donation!

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Magg Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: ICQ: 132497047 Posts: 4,467	Sure, I'd have no problem telling them... depending on what my wife thought..

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zentz Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 8,053	why not ? daddy is selling porn... __________________ Programs that owe me money ---- Epassporte.com ~ $2700 \| Protraffic.com ~ $2600 \| XonDemand.com ~ $3000 Email: [email protected]

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chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	My oldest knows...he's sneaky and sorta found out on his own and when he asked me about it, I told him that I handle some marketing for some adult entertainment companies, and I stressed the ADULT part. My next child is only 14 months younger in years, but waaaayyyy more immature, so he doesn't know, and my girls are just 3 and 15 months, so they have no clue, of course. I will tell them, when they are older and more mature, but on a need to know basis.... __________________ Need Hosting? Reality Check Network services me purrrfectly!

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Vitasoy GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 58,202	Nope, no way in hell. I would do that. __________________ [email protected]

10-01-2004, 11:08 AM	#33
gdog Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: San Diego Posts: 1,550	I just like using "Internet Marketer", I even have that on my tax returns as my occupation and also my corporations type of business is Internet Marketing. Grandparents are the best to explain this one too. Basically I sell products and service on the Internet and use auction sites to sell shit. I don't feel it is necessary to give ourselves the porn pusher label, even though we are all good at pushing porn. __________________ Busty Amateurs is Back - Meet the Girls \| Read the BLOG \| See the UPDATES High conversions and high retention, almost 1000 hosted galleries 995 PAYS Samples Big Boobs \| Busty Babes \| Strap Ons \| Hardcore \| Amateurs \| Videos