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SleazyDream · 09-30-2004, 11:59 PM

when you're out with a crowd - do you work them or just be yourself?

personally I've done both - and i find just being myself works 100X better than pretending to be anything i'm not.

Persius · 10-01-2004, 12:00 AM

being yourself

smack · 10-01-2004, 12:00 AM

It depends on what kind of mood I am in. I tend to stay quiet and stick to the people i know the best. But if i've had a few drinks or am feeling odd i will shmooze.

Lane · 10-01-2004, 12:01 AM

Adapting and acting are different things though.

reynold · 10-01-2004, 12:22 AM

of course im just being myself.

Doctor Dre · 10-01-2004, 12:26 AM

Actually I try to be myself the most I can ... sometimes you get in situations where you can't really be yourself because everybody else is trying to play their games and you gotta stept up so you don't look like the looser of the bunch

D-Money · 10-01-2004, 12:34 AM

It depends.

If KB's with me, I can't get a word in.

If I fly solo, I'm 100% me, just talking more then if KB were next to me.

If I'm on a stage infront of people, I slide into my pimp persona.

D-Money · 10-01-2004, 12:36 AM

But my pimp persona is still a part of me that is really me as well.

Just stays quiet most of the year.

Once in a while, it comes out.

It's like, Superman needs to be in costume to be Superman, or else he's Clark Kent.

I'm D-Money in a pimp suit, at the moment I'm just D. Or Darren for those who like to call people by their real names.

Or Darren Blatt if you talk to AaronM or Luke Ford.

AaronM · 10-01-2004, 12:39 AM

jade_dragon · 10-01-2004, 12:52 AM

My natural personality is to adapt to the crowd actually, unless they are a crowd of people that I do not really want to be around.

I tend to lay back till I figure everyone out then I test and go from there. Works well, I am a very agreeable and enjoyable person to be around I am told

nofx · 10-01-2004, 12:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by smack
It depends on what kind of mood I am in. I tend to stay quiet and stick to the people i know the best. But if i've had a few drinks or am feeling odd i will shmooze.

I'm the exact same way

Goatse · 10-01-2004, 03:18 AM

It's better to remain quiet. You exude mystery when you leave more to the imagination. If you try to put on a show, you'll usually come off as a phony blowhard. As being yourself... who the hell likes the real you anyway?

Ross · 10-01-2004, 03:21 AM

I be myself. No point trying to be something I'm not, and if I try to be people would probably see through it.

I think being yourself in most situations is the best way to act in public.

People can either like me or hate me, I won't loose any sleep over the fact. But if I try to be someone else and then they hate me that would piss me off.

Nicky · 10-01-2004, 03:24 AM

I try to be my self......it works best almost everytime

Living For Today · 10-01-2004, 03:33 AM

Be myself I guess. Although like someone said if booze is involved well things may get interesting!

Tricksy · 10-01-2004, 05:39 AM

It happens not very oftem when I'm with a big crowd of ppl....but if yes....I'm trying to be myself

Adultnet · 10-01-2004, 05:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Persius
being yourself

yes it is always the best.

dennisthemenace · 10-01-2004, 06:02 AM

I'm always myself.

I gave up working people in my early 20's.

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smack Push Porn Like Weight. Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Inside .NET Posts: 10,652	It depends on what kind of mood I am in. I tend to stay quiet and stick to the people i know the best. But if i've had a few drinks or am feeling odd i will shmooze. __________________ Cry havoc and let slip the dogs of war.

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Lane Will code for food... Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Buckeye, AZ Posts: 8,496	Adapting and acting are different things though. __________________

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D-Money Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Player Del Ray Posts: 9,716	It depends. If KB's with me, I can't get a word in. If I fly solo, I'm 100% me, just talking more then if KB were next to me. If I'm on a stage infront of people, I slide into my pimp persona. __________________ Still Ballin'

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D-Money Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Player Del Ray Posts: 9,716	But my pimp persona is still a part of me that is really me as well. Just stays quiet most of the year. Once in a while, it comes out. It's like, Superman needs to be in costume to be Superman, or else he's Clark Kent. I'm D-Money in a pimp suit, at the moment I'm just D. Or Darren for those who like to call people by their real names. Or Darren Blatt if you talk to AaronM or Luke Ford. __________________ Still Ballin'

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Persius Tap into MOBILE! Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Hollywood Posts: 11,779	being yourself

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reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	of course im just being myself.

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jade_dragon Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: NEW ORLEANS/Baton Rouge BABY! Posts: 1,737	My natural personality is to adapt to the crowd actually, unless they are a crowd of people that I do not really want to be around. I tend to lay back till I figure everyone out then I test and go from there. Works well, I am a very agreeable and enjoyable person to be around I am told __________________ even ADULTS need TOYS icq: 3 6 3 2 6 6 6 7 \| aim: conglomorateman open for business, affiliates and friendships

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Goatse Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,086	It's better to remain quiet. You exude mystery when you leave more to the imagination. If you try to put on a show, you'll usually come off as a phony blowhard. As being yourself... who the hell likes the real you anyway?

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Ross Ik ben een aap Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Traffic Force Towers, Canada! Posts: 18,874	I be myself. No point trying to be something I'm not, and if I try to be people would probably see through it. I think being yourself in most situations is the best way to act in public. People can either like me or hate me, I won't loose any sleep over the fact. But if I try to be someone else and then they hate me that would piss me off.

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Nicky Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Sweden Posts: 30,070	I try to be my self......it works best almost everytime __________________ gfynicky @ gmail.com

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Living For Today Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 3,970	Be myself I guess. Although like someone said if booze is involved well things may get interesting!

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dennisthemenace Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: In the present moment Posts: 2,668	I'm always myself. I gave up working people in my early 20's. __________________ All the best to you