hey spikeheel whats your ICQ?

actually hit me up i want to ask you something

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This has nothing to do with age, but with having bad self-esteem... Some people feel like there is no way they can get anyone else and they would much rather be in a miserable relationship, than be alone all by themselves and even compromise their own values and beliefs. Even though they can physically find someone else, in their mind they think that they actually can't and it really holds them down. I am not talking about Jewcash but more about what I have experienced, and I'm 26 btw... Sometimes people can feel so insecure and have such low self-worth that they will put up with anything, because it's better than being alone... But then again I crave drama... but I'm not really like this anymore... this was me around a year ago...

she does do little things to ease my mind like saying she would never fuck him again

how is that going to change anything??

hang in there jewcash, and stand up for yourself

:thumbsup all so true

phogirl69 Oh i do have a breaking point...i just havent reached it yet

Dude, wake up, take a hint and move on..

But do you believe this 100%? It doesn't sound like it to me....

you want so desparately to believe something you know in your heart of hearts isn't true

be honest with yourself

the one thing i can say is...she is a stubborn girl...she will never do anything she doesnt want to do...if i say it bothers me and i want reassurance..she wont do it she has to want to do it

but, i think her heart is in it...she just plays the hard ass role if you know what i mean

yeah.. too bad you're not more like her huh?

god if i was like her we would kill each other

so tell us.. what has she had to say about this thread?

she hasnt said anything...i didnt show her the thread

hehehe Imagine if she knew that she was being discussed about on a board called Go Fuck Yourself :Graucho

maybe you should

if i showed her the thread she would have a fucking cow

or maybe she would realize that i am not the only one that shares these views...it is hard to be in a situation like this...it feels good to air it out though...actually it felt really good

Has anyone read this article yet?

sorry to change the subject but i really want to know what everyone thinks about this article

Sometimes you need to vent bro. Also with online phams I stay away but thats me.

ok I see you want to change the subject, so I'm just going to say one more thing, then I'll shut up

think about this

She does what she wants no matter what you think.. she doesn't care if it hurts you

You lie to her (talking about her in this thread and not showing it to her is the same thing as lying in my opinion)

It seems to me that you guys are very far apart right now..

take my advice.. show her this thread, then sit her down, and say.. "let's talk" you may not be able to control what she does.. but you damn well sure can control what you do

one more thing.. if this were someone else in the same situation.. and they asked for your advice.. what would you tell them?

Who next???:winkwink:

forum was a big help last night

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