she's fucking him.

I know it is the hardest thing in the world...Sometimes i really feel like i hate her for fucking this guy.....But I love her...more than anything...I know i might sound a little pathetic...but...its hard

BigFrog
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Originally posted by jewcash
I know...but when i ask her she gets mad...
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she's fucking him.



How she has not seen him in 4 months...and thats a fact..i know this...so now what...he is a drive by fuck? but everytime i know she is supposed to see him...I feel like they could fuck...its a shitty feeling

Ouch!!!!! That's a bit much!!!!
Yes....she needs to tell him the way it is! And you shouldn't have a problem telling her to do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If she doesn't like it, too the fuck bad, stand up for yourself! You deserve better

jewcash.. would you mind if I asked you how old you are?

I'm asking you this because you strike me as a fairly young person

lol
dude, you guys live together and are in a relationship with each other. she wants to have a relationship with the last person she fucked and wants you to be ok with it and gets angry when you have a problem with it. she's fucking him. and if not at the moment, that's what she's going to do.
sorry

open your eyes and move on.

yeah! i definitely agree with you! what the hell she thinks? that the guy isn't affected for what she's doing? duh!

i like your insights. and i agree coz yes, it's really hard to deal with that kind of situation.. thanks

see! think about it man! the guy knows that the girl has a boyfriend! what will be the reason why she sent your girlfriend flowers? come on! this sounds bad! if the're just really friends,he'll understand why they need to avoid each other!

How do i tell her in a way that we wont fight? be honest spell it out...and by the way i am over 30

get over it... move on with life and find someone else for me. No time to worry about what she is doin now

50 people getting over it

jewcash.. let me tell you my thoughts on this..

it's a fact that people get what they want

The way this girl treats you is what you want or you wouldn't be with her... period

You may just not realise it, but it's true.

In other relationships you've had .. have you experienced the same type of treatment from other girls?

The one you have to look at here is you, and what you do and how you act.

You can change nothing about her, she will stay the same no matter what you do.. but you on the other hand.. well you can do something about how you act and what you're willing to accept and not accept.

Don't let infactuation lead you around by the balls, use your head and think about what you're letting happen here

It is amazing. My wife seems to find people all the time. all she has to do is walk outside...


Oh wait. I got you now. Kill them both and let god sort them out.

Exactly!! If he cared for her as a "friend" he wouldn't put the both of you through this!

you don't have to tell your girlfrriend what to do! she's supposed to know that! if not,she's immature! im sorry but i have to say it man! come on! you're being insulted by her! if i were you,let them go! don't hook yoursellf to her too much!

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GBTia - I just wanted to say that was awesome and so true:thumbsup

jewcash

this sounds funny but.... is she your first lovE?

why do people waste so much time living a miserable life??

I'll tell you why.. because they think they have plenty of time to become sure of themselves and get what they want out of life.

I'm no different.. it took me a long time to get where I am and into a situation where I am in control of what happens to me.

I just wish it hadn't taken so long.. I wasted a lot of my life dicking around when I could have been happy, or happier

I think if younger people were more aware of their mortality, they might live their lives differently... you don't have to be old to have your life taken away .. and you only get one chance at life.. so why not be as happy as you can be?

it only makes sense to me

It totally makes sense what you wrote. Your a very smart woman. Reading what you wrote almost made me cry! JewCash you should listen to her, she's there man.

thanks Arika,

I can only hope I've learned something in the years I've been on this earth, looking into yourself for truths is about the hardest thing in the world to do.. but dang.. it's worth it in the end :)

I totally mean it :)

I know I are getting kind of deep here but that is okay

It is very worth it and very rewarding to know in the end when you do realize everything and are past everything that you made it through it. It's nice to not have to worry and/or hold on anymore.

Find someone else.

move on jewcash! you deserve someone else! more better than her! you're too good!

yeah right! there are a lot of other guys and girls out there! :thumbsup

this is somehow right! just go and find your turn again!:)

Age old philosphy I found that works. If you think something is happening then something is prolly happening. She gets mad because you our worried that she still talks to the person she had sex with when your relationship was put on pause? If she was the girl of your dreams she would relate to your concerns and put them at ease instead of getting mad at you. Don't ever settle for less then you deserve which it sounds to me what is exactly happening.

very true:thumbsup

looks like we lost jewcash.. hope he's not getting raked over the coals :(

:( No Good

:( that's really sad especially if you really love the person. i guess it would take me sometime to accept the truth.

Jewcash is still here...taking some advice and talking to her...we made some headway

i just wish he would dissappear from here life compltely and find a girlfriend...

go straight to the point.. there's no way you can avoid the fight because for sure she will tell you fuckin' reasons why he have to get in touch with that guy. and will make you believe that she's not doin' anything wrong.. dont be that harsh though coz still, she's a girl.

SpikeHeel
What are these words under my name?

jewcash

this sounds funny but.... is she your first lovE?

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in someways yes...i was married once before and yes i have had girlfriends i have loved, but i am really in love with this one

i am never harsh with her...i actually try really hard to express how i feel without being a dick

That's all you can do but don't sell yourself short. You must love yourself before you can love anyone else.

irish your soo right...i wish she would just ease my concerns totally

Move on, theres more fishies in the sea. But first you need to get back at them :Graucho

i thought of that...but why? why get back at them...i really do wish he would find a nice girlfriend and get the fuck out of her life

I've been right where you our right now before. I spent three years with my last girl. There would be concerns and when confronted I was berated. That's not what I dedicated three years of my life for. I held her in highest regards I expect at least respect. We moved seprate ways and now she despises me for moving on. Though I am happy and would do it again. It has to be 100% both ways otherwise it will never work....If she doesn't ease your concerns I would move on that's just me though.