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thecooze · 09-15-2004, 03:27 AM

i was goin out with the girl for five years
broke up with her like a week ago
and now i saw her at the watering hole with this total douche

that is kinda hard to swallow

project_naughty · 09-15-2004, 03:52 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thecooze
that is kinda hard to swallow

I wonder if she had any difficulty swallowing when she when back to his place afterwards.

thecooze · 09-15-2004, 03:58 AM

very good question

Pornweaver · 09-15-2004, 03:59 AM

move on.... sap.

thecooze · 09-15-2004, 03:59 AM

should i call her and let her have it or just go to the bar next week end with another girl

uchase/webpry · 09-15-2004, 04:00 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thecooze
i was goin out with the girl for five years
broke up with her like a week ago
and now i saw her at the watering hole with this total douche

that is kinda hard to swallow

... maybe after 5 years the bitch decided to have a real man.

btw: get a new chick and a new sig (that promo ended)

Pornweaver · 09-15-2004, 04:02 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thecooze
should i call her and let her have it or just go to the bar next week end with another girl

Let her "have it"??? WTF Psycho! You're BROKE UP! Move the fuck on and get over it.

Could it possibly be you broke up because you're a whackjob psycho-posessive-jealous stalker type and she "needed space"?

Paul Waters · 09-15-2004, 04:03 AM

Move forward man. Put thoughts of her on the back burner.

Get out and get laid.

fris · 09-15-2004, 04:04 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thecooze
i was goin out with the girl for five years
broke up with her like a week ago
and now i saw her at the watering hole with this total douche

that is kinda hard to swallow

they are probably fucking the shit out of each other and laughing at you

blazin · 09-15-2004, 04:13 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by fris
they are probably fucking the shit out of each other and laughing at you

She was probably fucking this guy before she split with you

Sagitta · 09-15-2004, 04:13 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Paul Waters
Get out and get laid.

That's talking!

Raf1 · 09-15-2004, 04:20 AM

I think she'll laugh at you if you call her. Just get a new chick

xclusive · 09-15-2004, 04:31 AM

For 5 years I grant you 6 months of nonstop banging with no apologies...

Crypt · 09-15-2004, 04:34 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by blazin
She was probably fucking this guy before she split with you

yup

thecooze · 09-15-2004, 04:40 AM

anyone had a bitch that was not who u thought she was after years

cool1 · 09-15-2004, 04:48 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thecooze
anyone had a bitch that was not who u thought she was after years

Hell ya
too many times, even married a couple of bitches like that.

thecooze · 09-15-2004, 04:50 AM

i am only 23
spent 5 years with her so i havent had a chance to realize all girls are just sluts

Crypt · 09-15-2004, 04:52 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thecooze
i am only 23
spent 5 years with her so i havent had a chance to realize all girls are just sluts

Get a new slut and next

Pleasurepays · 09-15-2004, 04:52 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thecooze
anyone had a bitch that was not who u thought she was after years

this does not happen at all. you just chose to close your eyes to all the warning signs.

thecooze · 09-15-2004, 04:53 AM

i spose

Pornweaver · 09-15-2004, 04:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thecooze
i am only 23
spent 5 years with her so i havent had a chance to realize all girls are just sluts

You've been with 1 girl for 5 years and this makes "ALL" girls SLUTS now? Oh boy do you have a long way to go kid.

Here are some tips...
#1... Listen to Tom Leykis. (You live in Washington)
#2... Date girls for how they treat you, NOT how they look with you.
#3... Stop picking up girls @ clubs or High School.
#4... Focus on making yourself a better person, and you'll find better women to go out with.

Always remember... If there is a problem with your life, the only solution is to look within, and change something about yourself.

thecooze · 09-15-2004, 05:04 AM

well lookin up but still feelin kicked in the nuts

ocho-ocho · 09-15-2004, 06:02 AM

maybe that guy shes dating with is better in bed than you...ouch!

thecooze · 09-15-2004, 06:03 AM

that was an awesome thing to say

thanx

notjoe · 09-15-2004, 06:06 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by fris
they are probably fucking the shit out of each other and laughing at you

And that happened even before they broke up

Alex From San Diego · 09-15-2004, 06:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thecooze
should i call her and let her have it or just go to the bar next week end with another girl

I think you should grow up.

The both of you are done. You are both free to do what you want.

Pleasurepays · 09-15-2004, 06:22 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by thecooze
that was an awesome thing to say

thanx

Time for some tough love....

Man up! stop being a pussy. Accept responsibility for yourself, your actions, your deeds, for everything you said and did not say and everything you did and did not do for those 5 years. 5 year relationships don't just evaporate overnight. you sound a little self centered... which explains both the break up, why it suprised you and why you now blame all women.

this will happen to you again and again until you accept responsibility for yourself. woman are easy. listen, make them laugh, compliment them, make them feel good about themselves and they will be your slave. it's not difficult.

if the girl left you for someone even before you broke up with her (obviously she did if she has a new boyfriend after 1 week), your relationship was already sucking for a long time and she was unhappy and you did not pull your head out of your ass long enough to notice.

MickeyG · 09-15-2004, 06:26 AM

just move on, she already has. It's over. Time to find something new.

sexyclicks · 09-15-2004, 06:29 AM

I fucked her

Spunky · 09-15-2004, 06:31 AM

She probably had this dude in mind 2 weeks ago

ezrydn · 09-15-2004, 06:32 AM

Why don't you just grow up and learn the definition of the word "NEXT! "

Sounds like she dumped you. If you dumped her, why would you be mooning over all of this?

Leave her alone. Find a new watering hole. There IS life after a breakup IF you ever learn to "walk away."

zvik · 09-15-2004, 06:36 AM

never swallow, spit and move on

Dirty F · 09-15-2004, 06:38 AM

She was probably fucking him when you were still together

beergood · 09-15-2004, 06:40 AM

Start fucking her friends. She'll hate you for it and you'll feel better.

thecooze · 09-15-2004, 06:40 AM

that is great advice

Dirty F · 09-15-2004, 06:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by beergood
Start fucking her friends. She'll hate you for it and you'll feel better.

Ah yes, thats a good idea.

Lykos · 09-15-2004, 06:43 AM

Isn't she a bich?

Move on bro...most of the girls are that way

....i realized that on time...

sexyclicks · 09-15-2004, 06:48 AM

or just fuck her mom

eiht_98 · 09-15-2004, 06:48 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by project_naughty
I wonder if she had any difficulty swallowing when she when back to his place afterwards.

thecooze · 09-15-2004, 06:49 AM

her mom is fuckin hot

Basic_man · 09-15-2004, 06:50 AM

Fuck, that's sad !

Webmaster_Logic · 09-15-2004, 06:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Pleasurepays
Time for some tough love....

Man up! stop being a pussy. Accept responsibility for yourself, your actions, your deeds, for everything you said and did not say and everything you did and did not do for those 5 years. 5 year relationships don't just evaporate overnight. you sound a little self centered... which explains both the break up, why it suprised you and why you now blame all women.

this will happen to you again and again until you accept responsibility for yourself. woman are easy. listen, make them laugh, compliment them, make them feel good about themselves and they will be your slave. it's not difficult.

if the girl left you for someone even before you broke up with her (obviously she did if she has a new boyfriend after 1 week), your relationship was already sucking for a long time and she was unhappy and you did not pull your head out of your ass long enough to notice.

Very nicely put....

jawanda · 09-15-2004, 06:53 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Battuss
She was probably fucking him when you were still together

Yep, she was man.

It's time to head down to the clinic and get an STD test before you hit the open market...

The SWAB will surely lift your spirits.

Sorry 'bout the luck.

-P

mandrake · 09-15-2004, 06:56 AM

As was once said to me...

If you love someone enough set them free.

If they dont come back hunt them down and kill them...

nah but seriously dude move on...plenty more fish in the sea.

Nicky · 09-15-2004, 06:57 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Pornweaver
You've been with 1 girl for 5 years and this makes "ALL" girls SLUTS now? Oh boy do you have a long way to go kid.

Here are some tips...
#1... Listen to Tom Leykis. (You live in Washington)
#2... Date girls for how they treat you, NOT how they look with you.
#3... Stop picking up girls @ clubs or High School.
#4... Focus on making yourself a better person, and you'll find better women to go out with.

Always remember... If there is a problem with your life, the only solution is to look within, and change something about yourself.

Amen

phogirl69 · 09-15-2004, 06:59 AM

Thecooze,

My ex boyfriend went out with a new girl 2 DAYS after we broke up, she was his dental assistant and he met her already while we were going out, but he "claimed" that he wasn't interested in her until we broke up. I think it's bullshit because he was already "eyeing" her. Anyways, I had no self-respect and very bad self-esteem, I would cry and bawl and beg to him over the phone and ask him how he could do this to me after so many years and begged him back. I was very pathetic and acted like a crazy "psycho" and asked him what her name was, how she looked like, what movie the went to go see, what she did for a living, if they fucked yet, and who was better in bed.... lol

So my advice is, DON'T BE LIKE ME! I lost absolutely all self-respect and had nothing left, not even my pride! I asked him why he would do this so fucken soon, it was only 2 days! And he was like "Wtf, there's no rule that says you have to wait a certain amount of time. Your the past and she's the future"...
That was fuckin' cold! But I went through the same shit, and the worst was losing my dignity, it was so bad that I didn't even have that left at the end.. I can't believe someone could bring me down that low and make me so crazy!

I'm a bit of weirdo tho, it took me over a year to get over him.. Even after a year I would still cry at night all the time and get mad over old shit from the past... But it does pass....

thecooze · 09-15-2004, 07:03 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by phogirl69
Thecooze,

My ex boyfriend went out with a new girl 2 DAYS after we broke up, she was his dental assistant and he met her already while we were going out, but he "claimed" that he wasn't interested in her until we broke up. I think it's bullshit because he was already "eyeing" her. Anyways, I had no self-respect and very bad self-esteem, I would cry and bawl and beg to him over the phone and ask him how he could do this to me after so many years and begged him back. I was very pathetic and acted like a crazy "psycho" and asked him what her name was, how she looked like, what movie the went to go see, what she did for a living, if they fucked yet, and who was better in bed.... lol

So my advice is, DON'T BE LIKE ME! I lost absolutely all self-respect and had nothing left, not even my pride! I asked him why he would do this so fucken soon, it was only 2 days! And he was like "Wtf, there's no rule that says you have to wait a certain amount of time. Your the past and she's the future"...
That was fuckin' cold! But I went through the same shit, and the worst was losing my dignity, it was so bad that I didn't even have that left at the end.. I can't believe someone could bring me down that low and make me so crazy!

I'm a bit of weirdo tho, it took me over a year to get over him.. Even after a year I would still cry at night all the time and get mad over old shit from the past... But it does pass....

the fucked up thing is this bitch is a dental assistant

and i feel ya with the pathetic shit

i broke up with her and i wasnt ready to see her another guy yet
so i was just like what the fuck myself

Herb Kornfield · 09-15-2004, 07:25 AM

The other guy had a better rap than you did. Straight up.

The number one rule for life as a man is this: Always keep you game tight.

Players are everywhere homing in on your babe, talking all kinds of smooth shit to get in their pants. If you game is truly tight at all times, she has no reason to shop around for a new dick since her man has it going on.

Examine your game for where you are lacking grasshopper.

Manga1 · 09-15-2004, 07:31 AM

If you show that this upset you she will get a big ego boost. If you ignore it she will wonder why you're not upset and it will burn her up. Act like it's no big deal and like you don't care and it will be the best way to get under her skin.

There's a reason she took that guy to the bar you hang out at. She wanted to upset you. Think. She could easily have gone somewhere else where you wouldn't be and avoid any problems. She didn't do that. She went out of her way to piss you off. And it worked.

Right now she has power over you. Ignore this and you take the power back. Simple.

And stop being such a fucking pussy.

iFliPcEss · 09-15-2004, 07:50 AM

you know what guys... what "thecooze" feel at this point of time is very normal and quite understandable... he is going through hell rite now... and its quite normal. Don't rush things... you'll get over in time... crying & sulking is normal but you have to know that crying & sulking must stop! you gotta bounce back into lifes mainstream... dont blame yourself if she found someone new... it wasn't your fault! remember this... you can never be the caused of someone else actions what she did is her fault not yours. just take it one step at a time... and before you know it... DENG! your healed!

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09-15-2004, 06:59 AM	#46
phogirl69 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,330	Thecooze, My ex boyfriend went out with a new girl 2 DAYS after we broke up, she was his dental assistant and he met her already while we were going out, but he "claimed" that he wasn't interested in her until we broke up. I think it's bullshit because he was already "eyeing" her. Anyways, I had no self-respect and very bad self-esteem, I would cry and bawl and beg to him over the phone and ask him how he could do this to me after so many years and begged him back. I was very pathetic and acted like a crazy "psycho" and asked him what her name was, how she looked like, what movie the went to go see, what she did for a living, if they fucked yet, and who was better in bed.... lol So my advice is, DON'T BE LIKE ME! I lost absolutely all self-respect and had nothing left, not even my pride! I asked him why he would do this so fucken soon, it was only 2 days! And he was like "Wtf, there's no rule that says you have to wait a certain amount of time. Your the past and she's the future"... That was fuckin' cold! But I went through the same shit, and the worst was losing my dignity, it was so bad that I didn't even have that left at the end.. I can't believe someone could bring me down that low and make me so crazy! I'm a bit of weirdo tho, it took me over a year to get over him.. Even after a year I would still cry at night all the time and get mad over old shit from the past... But it does pass.... Last edited by phogirl69; 09-15-2004 at 07:01 AM..

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Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	The other guy had a better rap than you did. Straight up. The number one rule for life as a man is this: Always keep you game tight. Players are everywhere homing in on your babe, talking all kinds of smooth shit to get in their pants. If you game is truly tight at all times, she has no reason to shop around for a new dick since her man has it going on. Examine your game for where you are lacking grasshopper.

09-15-2004, 07:31 AM	#49
Manga1 Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Malakiaville Posts: 952	If you show that this upset you she will get a big ego boost. If you ignore it she will wonder why you're not upset and it will burn her up. Act like it's no big deal and like you don't care and it will be the best way to get under her skin. There's a reason she took that guy to the bar you hang out at. She wanted to upset you. Think. She could easily have gone somewhere else where you wouldn't be and avoid any problems. She didn't do that. She went out of her way to piss you off. And it worked. Right now she has power over you. Ignore this and you take the power back. Simple. And stop being such a fucking pussy.

09-15-2004, 07:50 AM	#50
iFliPcEss Registered User Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 3,087	you know what guys... what "thecooze" feel at this point of time is very normal and quite understandable... he is going through hell rite now... and its quite normal. Don't rush things... you'll get over in time... crying & sulking is normal but you have to know that crying & sulking must stop! you gotta bounce back into lifes mainstream... dont blame yourself if she found someone new... it wasn't your fault! remember this... you can never be the caused of someone else actions what she did is her fault not yours. just take it one step at a time... and before you know it... DENG! your healed!