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Remove the skinny part with "dumbass" and I will believe you.

Well, you didn't refute Fletch's arguments. So he was right.. :glugglug

I'm 26 and I don't want kids for at least another 5 years!



I couldn't imagine being a father right now, eek

I think someone flunked sex ed class. A period lasts 28-30 days?? :1orglaugh

That's an excuse from his girlfriend/boyfriend..

"Sorry, we will have sex in 30 days only, I'm in my periods right now".

:glugglug

Most of you fuckers should dies or get stabbed in the eye with the rusted fork for all the shit you are saying.

I became a father @ 19.
I finished college with a 4.01 average and my GF is almost done with a 3.9 average. We are both intellegent people. We are now 21 with a 2 year old daughter. I have a Job that supports my family.

His life is not over, just start making choices that count. Step up a be a father. You wouldn't regret it. Life will get harder but after the first year it gets easier. For me life got easier after the first year because my daughter was born healthy, slept through the night etc.... So if you want to do something useful start taking care and responsibility for the unborn child now.

I'd like to see some of the people who are posting negative shit in real life so that I could just see the kind of useless fucks live on this earth.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Unfortunately, not everyone is mature enough to take their responsibilities.. Believing that everyone can do it is like believing that every kid can succeed in school, life, society...

That's an utopian world and not the world we live in..

Irresponsibility is still not a good reason to have an abortion.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by NoCarrier
Well you have 2 choices.


Choice # 1

http://www.suicidemethods.net/pix/suicide5.jpg

Choice # 2

http://www.zacharysmith.net/oct02/richard_simmons.jpg [/QUOTE


haha :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I say take her on the Maury show and get a paternity test, and really enjoy your night in New York city, because it will probably be your last vacation.

Damn.. 14 posts since 2001? That one was pure gold! Don't be shy! Post more often! :1orglaugh

Seriously,

I was the identical situation, I had to beg her to have all 3 of my kids. We were sucking wind back then, I was making like 15k per year doing manual labor etc.. I worked my ass off, taught myself computers / system administration / unix / networking / etc...

I now have 3 very smart, well adjusted kids in the world. Every time we go to resturants strangers stop at our table to compliment how well behaved the kids are.

No regrets...

my thoughts exactly . . . . time for an abortion before you compound your errors

I don't understand why so many americans who get pregnant think they must have the baby?

Why do none of you that are obviously completely unprepared to handle a baby on every level not have an abortion?

Have you been that brainwashed to think that abortion is killing? Think for a second about the life you can provide for the kid and how much of your own life you will lose in the deal!

YOUR IDIOCY ASTOUNDETH ME!

:helpme :helpme :helpme

This dude's a fucking genius.

Your brain needs an enema

fuck that shit . . . time to bail dude

Some of you fuckers are twisted assholes. I wouldn't suggest an abortion or adoption to anyone that wants their kid. If he wants to step up to the plate and take care of it then leave the guy alone.

What do you expect shes only 16.

damn bro..
not nice..
i wish you best of LUCK!

you ruined your life

Sad, but may be a smartest action to take for the kid.

18 and you're going for a GED? That hardly qualifies for much. If you care enough to save up $, I?m sure there is a way to start a trust or something.

As far as custody, depends on state law. Plus you?ll need bucks for legal help. I?d say it?s an uphill battle.

I suspect a couple of years from now; emotions about the event will change for both of you.

You screwed up. You know that. The most responsible thing I can think of standing back from the situation is to put the child that you probably already care about in a loving environment with people that will also love the child and may have the wealth and education to provide a hopeful future.

That?s my 2 cents.

A smarter action would be to get professional counseling rather than turning to us idiots on GFY. Second thought on the professional advice. Lets see Priest, Psychologist, Social Worker?. You?re better off here at GFY!!!

GO FUCKIN KILL YOURSELF
YOUR SCREWED !

I had a baby a week before my seventeenth birthday...and guess what...
I graduated with my class.
I went to college.
I never gave custody of my child to anyone else.
I've never had my child removed from my care.
I've never abused or neglected him, or any of my subsequent children, or been accused of such.

My first thought was adoption...abortion isn't an option I could live with.. But I grew up a lot while pregnant, and while I know I have made mistakes, every parent does, and my son is a healthy, fairly well-adjusted 10 year old.
My point is, it's possible to be a decent parent at your age. It's a fuck of a lot harder, but it is possible.

Good luck.

17 years of teaching HS and you still can't spell poor?

p.s. perfectiongirls (one of pornkings programs) SHAVES like a motherfucker! stay away!

He put his dick where it shouldn't have been....

Crap she's only 16???? Really sucks, good luck :(

Don't listen to all the abortion and kill yourself crap. Your life isn't over you're just starting a new chapter.

I had my daughter at 20, and realized that it was time to grow up... simple as that.

Where do you live because every state has different laws concerning custudy and child support. As long as you are seen by the court as a fit parent and you can support your child then they will not take your parental rights away. Make sure you get your name put on the birth certificate when the child is born.... that is extremely important if or when you go to court for custody.

You have plenty of time to get your shit straight... just make sure you cut yourself lose from any friends that will be a negative light on you, make sure you get a steady job with a paycheck and keep it, and if you still live at home you really need to get out and show that you can support yourself. The court will look at all of this as factors to custody when the time comes.

Oh and see sig.... mainstream opportunity that might help you.

:thumbsup

Wow, 16 and pregnant. I can't imagine having a child at 24! In any case, you need to get your shit together save save and plan!

You might not stay together with your woman, but you two need to own up and face up. Relationships always have their problems, this child will only compound your issues. Whether you stay together or not - you both have to live for the child.


As for some advice for custody - record any conversations as previously mentioned. Keep a log of EVERYTHING and keep your receipts - diapers food, clothes.

There may be shelters or churches that can help you with baby supplies - a lot of crips and other necessities are constantly being donated.


All the best


BG

Damn..that really sucks

dude, dont forget...

you better stay as close as possible to your baby's mamma, because unless she willingly gives you full custody, she will have you by the balls for the next 18 years

The girl who I was going to marry was born to a single mother at 18, her mother is now a lawyer who does lots of work for the poor and under privlidged in California (woman is damn near a saint).

I met her in my micro class when I was a pre-med freshmen at a private college. Her daughter entered into college at 16 as a sophomore, the girl is one of the smartest women I know.

Her mother said it was hard but she had to do it for her daughter, she had a responsibility to another human now and she did what she needed to do. Her daughter says that she wishes to thank her mother for all the hard work she did by working really hard herself and making it on her own. She is now in med school and doing well, talk to her everyday and we inspire and push each other.

It is possible for you to do it man, just gonna have to push hard, and you are welcome, hit me up sometime if you want.

you fucked up big time. :2 cents:

good luck man, Kids are the greatest gift from god, keep your cool with her she needs not to be upset right now so dont add fuel to the fire, think about that precious life and how wonderful it will be to see it flourish and save every penny you can, try to keep her as happy as possible until the baby is born and then be ready for the fight that might happen, get all the goals you said you would accomplished and more.

Both him and his girl we're fucking dumbasses for even getting pregant but where do YOU get off calling someone irresponsible? You are a fucking thief. Some responsible person you are.

which are you? the pot or the kettle?


Doesn't fucking matter. Both are fucking black.

BINGO


ProjectPat

It's not the end of the world. For many years women had kids at 18 in developped parts of the continent.. It was normal even at 13 until the turn of the century. Things are way different now but she can still be a mom and you can still be a dad. her life plans as well as yours will take a major leap but it's all for the best. just don't succumb tot his "im fucked" crap like a ghetto bitch would and raise a criminal. Get your shit in gear, talk some sense into the girl when need be and reassure her you'll be there no matter what she says or does. Everything will work out JUST FINE if you want it to.

Age means fuck all if you got your wits about you.

GOD I love the booty in your sig!!!