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Old 08-09-2004, 02:34 PM   #1
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Starting a business witha friend - good idea or bad?

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Old 08-09-2004, 02:36 PM   #2
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:37 PM   #4
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very bad idea rather do it with a stranger
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:37 PM   #5
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:37 PM   #6
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Usually mixing money and friends isn't a very good idea. But yes, it can work.
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:38 PM   #7
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I hate to say this, but the worst idea in the world. You enter into a partnership when you both NEED each other, not because you're friends. It's easier and often times better to just hire him or let him hire you to work for the other unless you need each other to accomplish your goals.

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Old 08-09-2004, 02:41 PM   #8
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I have tried to start businesses with several friends and it has never worked out. Once the money starts coming in people change and normally not for the good. If you can do it on your own you should try it alone.

If you must have a partner make sure every little detail about the partnership is in writing so you will cover your ass if it starts to fall apart.

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Old 08-09-2004, 02:43 PM   #9
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I'll say this... I've hired friends before and have since learned my lesson. A partnership with friends? Ahaha!
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:44 PM   #10
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Very bad idea. I learned the hard way, but I'll never make that mistake again.
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:45 PM   #11
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I think it's a good idea if you no them for a long time.
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:47 PM   #12
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If you value your friendship, don't do it. If you want to see your friendship turn to shit rather quickly, go for it.

I've also learned that the hard way. Never, ever again.
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:48 PM   #13
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I learned that the hard way, just stay friends because if you bring money into the relationship either the business will fail or your friendship will.

That's just my personal experience and opinion though
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:50 PM   #14
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:51 PM   #15
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I teamed up with a high school friend we werent very close until recently became neighboor...partnership working out good!
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Old 08-09-2004, 02:57 PM   #16
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Starting a business with ANYBODY else is a bad idea.
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Old 08-09-2004, 03:17 PM   #17
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Old 08-09-2004, 03:21 PM   #18
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It really depends on what the business is, and what you know about that persons work ethic.
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Old 08-09-2004, 03:22 PM   #19
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bad idea
Never do business with nor live with family members or friends.
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Old 08-09-2004, 03:22 PM   #20
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99% bad idea
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Old 08-09-2004, 03:27 PM   #21
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Best idea to work with family.
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Old 08-09-2004, 03:29 PM   #22
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It can work if you both define your roles clearly and if you both have the ability to communicate effectively.
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Old 08-09-2004, 03:35 PM   #23
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an extremely horrible idea. dont mix friends with business, period.
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Old 08-09-2004, 03:36 PM   #24
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Old 08-09-2004, 03:38 PM   #25
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:23 PM   #26
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Best idea to work with family.
that's even worse than friends

stick to solo unless he has a boatload of cash to get things rolling or excellent skills you don't have
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:28 PM   #27
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Only if you have the utmost trust in him/her.
Otherwise, bad idea.
Although, ive been in business with a friend for a while now and it works out wonderfully.
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Old 08-09-2004, 06:20 PM   #28
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Very bad idea . I don,t fuck arround with friends and money anymore
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Old 08-09-2004, 06:23 PM   #29
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Only if you have the utmost trust in him/her.
Otherwise, bad idea.
Although, ive been in business with a friend for a while now and it works out wonderfully.
WRONG ...

The only thing it can do is pretty much hurt your friendship .

I trust my friend 100 % ... I trusted him with 15 k cash b4 .

But I wouldn't do a long term bizz with him
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Old 08-09-2004, 06:26 PM   #30
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not a good idea, if you do it make sure everything is clear and signed
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Old 08-09-2004, 06:32 PM   #31
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Old 08-09-2004, 07:31 PM   #32
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keep it professional and have partnership papers drawn up. if both of you can truly seperate money and friendship then fine, but if not things could get nasty.
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Old 08-09-2004, 07:34 PM   #33
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It's unfair to say don't start a business with a friend. If your friend qualifies for being your partner it's a more preferable choice over someone unknown.
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Old 08-09-2004, 07:38 PM   #34
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I went into business with a friend.....

And it ended bad....real bad
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Old 08-09-2004, 07:39 PM   #35
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I think it's a bad idea.
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Old 08-09-2004, 07:41 PM   #36
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Never works out...Wind up lossing the friendship and the business if things go wrong.
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