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erika · 05-21-2001, 12:51 PM

I originally posted in hopes to find some kind of advice with this wacked out teenager(19)when i posted it i was so mad, as for social services, shes is an unstable person and what happened yesterday is not the first time shes been like this with anyone.

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Pagan · 05-21-2001, 01:02 PM

The woman is obviously insecure and unhinged. Nothing you do will help her, and may only harm her child more. Chalk it up to her unstable hormones, and stay as far away from her as possible! In addition, I would have a chat with her "source", and seriously consider avoiding that person, too.

The cops will take the action that there was no real harm done. You have no scars or broken bones. Social services will usually do the same. In fact, they may find that you instigated it, since her husband was right there, and may side with the psycho bitch.

Jamdin · 05-21-2001, 01:17 PM

I wouldn't be so quick to press charges. From what it sounds like, she could also get you for assualt & battery just by the kicking. Sounds like she wants to draw you out. Just chill for a bit & stay away from both of them for awhile.

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Hot Tropical Babes · 05-21-2001, 01:17 PM

You should of left when the name calling began. She is obviously pissed about something. Let her cool down and try later. By hiding behind her husband and kicking her, you pretty much asked for the hot chocolate, she told you she would do it. Calling childrens services is a low blow. Remember it takes two to tango. I have one hell of a temper myself and if i tell someone to get out of my face,, i mean it. Just remember if you do call the cops, you may be in trouble as well, for throwing the "first kick". It might be a good idea to walk away and forget it for a while.
Just my opinion.

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Wizzo · 05-21-2001, 01:33 PM

I agree with HTB!

Red · 05-21-2001, 01:38 PM

Erika,
Let it go. Her husband, who is supposidly your friend, obviously did nothing to stop her or stick up for you, so calling social services will only pit them both against you, put an innocent child through the mill and could end up dragging you into a nasty court battle. I would just disassociate myself from both of them. What kind of buddy is he if he allows his wife to verbally abuse you for no reason? My advice would be to just fuck 'em and find another source for goodies. Of course if this goodie is what I'm thinking, then to anonomously drop a dime might be one form of revenge.

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Tam · 05-21-2001, 02:19 PM

Must be something in the air today.... I just had the fucking cable guy in my house looking into why my cable receptioni s so so bad.. he first tried to tell me it was my TV's.... 4 brand new tvs? I fucking doubt it.

Ok so he goes on telling me my equipment is bad, and I told him very nicely, because my kids were standing there, not to worry abut it, I was only using their cable system for the cable modem access that I was told I'd have in March 2001, but since they pushed it back to 2002, I was going to go ahead and get a sattelite that my hubby has been wanting for 5 years.

So he goes on to tell me that the only trouble with this is I can only have 2 converter boxes and I have 4 tvs.... so I told him that my best friend has sattelite and that she has 4 boxes... he says there is no way........ I then tell him that I know how many boxes she has, for Christ's sake, I am there once a week, she is my best friend and I think I can count.

He looks me in my face right in front of my kids and tells me he is not calling me a liar but he does not believe what I am saying to him... so I then inform him I am old enough to know how to count, I told my son to tell him how many boxes Beth has in her house..... he is 12 and now knows how to count too...... he told the guy 4 and this guy STILL insists I am lying to him

I told him not to come into my home and call me a liar, he keeps working, I asked him to leave, he keeps working, I asked him to leave a second time........ he keeps working....... so I yelled at him to get his ass out of my fucking house. So he screams back at me that he is outta there........

He goes to my pole where my lines are, works there for 15 more minutes and then leaves........ my reception is now perfect....

So my tvs are all fucked, I am a liar and my cable is now clear as a bell...... So how in the hell did ALL my tvs start working in a matter of 15 minutes?

I swear people these days are out of their damn minds.

Sorry.. I had to vent too. LOL

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Phiber · 05-21-2001, 05:47 PM

Tam.

I would have kicked out that cabel guy so damn hard he didn't now what hit him. I sure admire one with that kind of patience.

erika · 05-21-2001, 06:20 PM

I also warned her that I would slap her if the verbal assault continued, Get this her hubby calls me up half an hour later and tells me that they are the garage and he really wants me to come over and beat the crap outta her, I declined, I have set things in motion for social services, the joy about them up here is they dont take any shit that could endanger a child. She is unstable and needs medical help desperatly, maybe this will help this 19 year old child grow up.

UnseenWorld · 05-21-2001, 07:27 PM

The fact remains that you escalated the situation from verbal (legal) to assault (illegal) when you kicked her. I think you'd better keep your mouth shut. If no charges have been pressed yet, you can count yourself as lucky.

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erika · 05-21-2001, 07:37 PM

Verbal assault may be legal in the usa but its not up here, its a chargable offense, just like the assault, as for the goodie, I was refering to my roller coaster tycoon game I lent him over 2 weeks ago and I wanted it back so I went over to my buddies place and picked up my goodie(I refer to all my personal possessions as goodies)

Tam · 05-21-2001, 08:18 PM

ok nevermind.... I am keeping my mouth shut. LOL

Tam

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Warphead · 05-21-2001, 09:11 PM

What do you mean by "to get myself a goodie"?

Didn't I see you guys on Springer?

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Mikey · 05-21-2001, 10:39 PM

Two words - Jerry Springer.

Hot Tropical Babes · 05-21-2001, 10:44 PM

ok so whats the "Rest" of the story? Something is missing here. Were you "Boinking" her hubby? Seems strange that she would go off for no reason at all? The names she called you would make one assume that one of the "goodies" may of been her husband.

mischief · 05-21-2001, 10:45 PM

cripes, only in Edmonton.

erika · 05-21-2001, 10:53 PM

As soon as I walked in their door she started calling me a whore, I said excuse me, she said your a backstabbing lying whore, I said Pardon me and please quit calling me a whore,Im not a whore, she then says You lying whore you told brian(her boyfriend the guy I was going over to pick up my game cd from- hes my hubbys friend of 18yrs)that I was stealing money from him, well this is a total shock to me as I havent
said a thing to her hubby, a few weeks back she mentioned to me that she was keeping the change from the things shes bought,shes also been threatening to leave him with the 2 kids, I mentioned something to hubby that she told me that she had a big bank account and this is what she was doing, lets just say hubby mentioned something to him and then the rest is well history now.
I never have nor will i ever boink him(iccky)

unijester · 05-22-2001, 01:56 AM

Settle this matter with some naked mud wrestling and have pictures taken and then sell it as content. At least if you don't win the match you'll make some cash. Sorry, just thinking like a porn webmaster.

Gemini · 05-22-2001, 10:48 AM

It's a no win situation when a breakup is going on or about to happen. And a bigger mess when a woman has male friends sometimes. I found out how 'nice' the male freinds can be when I was divorcing my ex.

They knew I was living with the old man yet insisted on calling and asking me out. Needless to say I dumped them as friends

A judge most likely would call it more or less a mutual combat and fine you both. lol IF it ever got to court. If your hubby keeps this guy as a friend... The friend enabled the whole thing it looks like.

Tam · 05-22-2001, 10:55 AM

Ok, well I am not understanding what Social Services had to be brought in this for? Are they abusing this child?

I'm sorry but this part of this is really REALLY bugging me in a powerful way. I have hit reply on this thread at least 5-6 times about this but haven't responded...... but it's killing me here........

If they are abusing the child, ok, but if not, why wreck this child's life with all this going on? I don't get it.... am I misunderstaning something here?

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Hot Tropical Babes · 05-22-2001, 12:12 PM

I agree Tam!!!! why cause hurt where it is not needed,, she may be stressed, but does that mean she is abusive? If she dont like you, stay away from her. I am a mother, very much like a mamma bear,,i'll hurt ya over my kids,,, In a NEW YORK minute. Now if you have seen abuse then i'd say go for it,, but if it is revenge you are after,, that is totally uncalled for.

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Hot Tropical Babes · 05-22-2001, 12:16 PM

ps.. i guess this is a touchy subject for me,, i was turned in one time because "a girl" was pissed at my sister for going out with her ex. She told me that was a perfect way to get back at my sis. Which nothing ever came from it because i am a good mom, but i did whip the shit out of her

and her boyfriend

Tam · 05-22-2001, 12:26 PM

Same here, my dad was walking around in front of my kids in a drunken stuper talking to my oldest son like he was a fucking dog, my oldest daughter was there and watching him walking around like this.... we were living with him until my apartment was ready.... I know it was HIS house but I had nowhere else to go and I was pregnant, it was late in Oct, so I couldn't very well take my babies out in that shit, my hubby was at work....... so I asked him nicely just to go to bed and sleep it off and it would all be cool........ but did he do it?

FUCK NO!! He goes and calls my brother and has him bring the fucking law.... my brother shows up with the law and Social Services and tries to have my kids taken away....... FORTUNATELY the people that came with him knew me and knew there was no way I'd ever abuse my kids.......... so what they did was tell my dad he was damn lucky for not being arrested his own danm self for doing this shit with my kids in the house...... but my brother as well for trying to use the system to his own revenge.....

It turned out they helped me get all my shit, I had called my hubby by this time and him and some biker friends shut the place down they were working in and came and got me and my kids, but the one cop told my hubby that my dad and brother could have been arrested in a snap....... but they helped me get all my shit out of there.

Bottom line is.. if you have some sort of problem with me fine........ come and half kill me, I don't care... but please GOD leave my babies out of it........ they are innocent and have done nothing wrong to no one.

If there is for real abuse going on........ I say go for it and have that baby removed.

I am pretty passionate about anything to do with my kids..... touch them in ANY way and someone gets hurt. LOL

Tam

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erika · 05-22-2001, 12:41 PM

The reason social services may be called is that this girl has no care for her children,shes abandoned them twice now and is consitantly telling brian(-hubbys friend not mine)that she will walk out the door again and leave the kids as they did nothing for her except wreck her teenage body, while she is in these tantrums of hers she even goes as far as to say(with her children in the room)that she was an hour away from aborting them and she should have gone through with it, they made her boobs sag, and stretched her skin.
Not a healthy enviroment for kids to grow up in where there mother is constantly throwing things and slamming doors and telling them that she wishes they were never born.

Tam · 05-22-2001, 01:12 PM

Well ok then.... by all means do something about it....... but I was just having a hard time with the argument with the mom and calling the SS on her ........ you have to admit girlfriend, that part was a bit unclear....... NOW I feel a bit better about it. Whew!! You scared me for a minute.

BUT I have to agree with some of the others here.. walking away from this situation would be better in the case of you and this girl..... sounds like there is a bigger problem than the both of you and you should just remove yourself before it gets any worse than it is. Revenge has a way of biting back babe... just watch yourself.

Tam

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05-21-2001, 12:51 PM	#1
erika Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: edmonton Posts: 246	What to do? I originally posted in hopes to find some kind of advice with this wacked out teenager(19)when i posted it i was so mad, as for social services, shes is an unstable person and what happened yesterday is not the first time shes been like this with anyone. [This message has been edited by erika (edited 05-22-2001).]

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05-21-2001, 01:02 PM	#2
Pagan Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Denver, CO USA Posts: 13	The woman is obviously insecure and unhinged. Nothing you do will help her, and may only harm her child more. Chalk it up to her unstable hormones, and stay as far away from her as possible! In addition, I would have a chat with her "source", and seriously consider avoiding that person, too. The cops will take the action that there was no real harm done. You have no scars or broken bones. Social services will usually do the same. In fact, they may find that you instigated it, since her husband was right there, and may side with the psycho bitch.

05-21-2001, 01:17 PM	#3
Jamdin Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Kansas Posts: 3,560	I wouldn't be so quick to press charges. From what it sounds like, she could also get you for assualt & battery just by the kicking. Sounds like she wants to draw you out. Just chill for a bit & stay away from both of them for awhile. ------------------ Moongem Erotica Moongem Fiction

05-21-2001, 01:17 PM	#4
Hot Tropical Babes Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Orlando FL Posts: 3,014	You should of left when the name calling began. She is obviously pissed about something. Let her cool down and try later. By hiding behind her husband and kicking her, you pretty much asked for the hot chocolate, she told you she would do it. Calling childrens services is a low blow. Remember it takes two to tango. I have one hell of a temper myself and if i tell someone to get out of my face,, i mean it. Just remember if you do call the cops, you may be in trouble as well, for throwing the "first kick". It might be a good idea to walk away and forget it for a while. Just my opinion. ------------------ Hot Tropical Babes

05-21-2001, 01:33 PM	#5
Wizzo 2011 GFY Hall of Fame! Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Back in Texas! Posts: 15,224	I agree with HTB!

05-21-2001, 01:38 PM	#6
Red Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: nomad Posts: 518	Erika, Let it go. Her husband, who is supposidly your friend, obviously did nothing to stop her or stick up for you, so calling social services will only pit them both against you, put an innocent child through the mill and could end up dragging you into a nasty court battle. I would just disassociate myself from both of them. What kind of buddy is he if he allows his wife to verbally abuse you for no reason? My advice would be to just fuck 'em and find another source for goodies. Of course if this goodie is what I'm thinking, then to anonomously drop a dime might be one form of revenge. Red ------------------ Red's Erotica You've never had story content on your site like this before. Original, funny, purely pornographic.

05-21-2001, 02:19 PM	#7
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	Must be something in the air today.... I just had the fucking cable guy in my house looking into why my cable receptioni s so so bad.. he first tried to tell me it was my TV's.... 4 brand new tvs? I fucking doubt it. Ok so he goes on telling me my equipment is bad, and I told him very nicely, because my kids were standing there, not to worry abut it, I was only using their cable system for the cable modem access that I was told I'd have in March 2001, but since they pushed it back to 2002, I was going to go ahead and get a sattelite that my hubby has been wanting for 5 years. So he goes on to tell me that the only trouble with this is I can only have 2 converter boxes and I have 4 tvs.... so I told him that my best friend has sattelite and that she has 4 boxes... he says there is no way........ I then tell him that I know how many boxes she has, for Christ's sake, I am there once a week, she is my best friend and I think I can count. He looks me in my face right in front of my kids and tells me he is not calling me a liar but he does not believe what I am saying to him... so I then inform him I am old enough to know how to count, I told my son to tell him how many boxes Beth has in her house..... he is 12 and now knows how to count too...... he told the guy 4 and this guy STILL insists I am lying to him I told him not to come into my home and call me a liar, he keeps working, I asked him to leave, he keeps working, I asked him to leave a second time........ he keeps working....... so I yelled at him to get his ass out of my fucking house. So he screams back at me that he is outta there........ He goes to my pole where my lines are, works there for 15 more minutes and then leaves........ my reception is now perfect.... So my tvs are all fucked, I am a liar and my cable is now clear as a bell...... So how in the hell did ALL my tvs start working in a matter of 15 minutes? I swear people these days are out of their damn minds. Sorry.. I had to vent too. LOL ------------------ May the Force Be With YOU!!

05-21-2001, 05:47 PM	#8
Phiber Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Sweden Posts: 137	Tam. I would have kicked out that cabel guy so damn hard he didn't now what hit him. I sure admire one with that kind of patience.

05-21-2001, 06:20 PM	#9
erika Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: edmonton Posts: 246	I also warned her that I would slap her if the verbal assault continued, Get this her hubby calls me up half an hour later and tells me that they are the garage and he really wants me to come over and beat the crap outta her, I declined, I have set things in motion for social services, the joy about them up here is they dont take any shit that could endanger a child. She is unstable and needs medical help desperatly, maybe this will help this 19 year old child grow up.

05-21-2001, 07:27 PM	#10
UnseenWorld Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Portland, OR, USA Posts: 5,279	The fact remains that you escalated the situation from verbal (legal) to assault (illegal) when you kicked her. I think you'd better keep your mouth shut. If no charges have been pressed yet, you can count yourself as lucky. ------------------ Producer of truly original teen/young woman-oriented adult content at Wonders of the Unseen World

05-21-2001, 07:37 PM	#11
erika Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: edmonton Posts: 246	Verbal assault may be legal in the usa but its not up here, its a chargable offense, just like the assault, as for the goodie, I was refering to my roller coaster tycoon game I lent him over 2 weeks ago and I wanted it back so I went over to my buddies place and picked up my goodie(I refer to all my personal possessions as goodies)

05-21-2001, 08:18 PM	#12
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	ok nevermind.... I am keeping my mouth shut. LOL Tam [This message has been edited by Tam (edited 05-21-2001).]

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Warphead Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Kiss my yankee dick. Posts: 994	What do you mean by "to get myself a goodie"? Didn't I see you guys on Springer? [This message has been edited by Warphead (edited 05-21-2001).]

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Mikey Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 665	Two words - Jerry Springer.

05-21-2001, 10:44 PM	#15
Hot Tropical Babes Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Orlando FL Posts: 3,014	ok so whats the "Rest" of the story? Something is missing here. Were you "Boinking" her hubby? Seems strange that she would go off for no reason at all? The names she called you would make one assume that one of the "goodies" may of been her husband.

05-21-2001, 10:45 PM	#16
mischief Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada Posts: 382	cripes, only in Edmonton.

05-21-2001, 10:53 PM	#17
erika Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: edmonton Posts: 246	As soon as I walked in their door she started calling me a whore, I said excuse me, she said your a backstabbing lying whore, I said Pardon me and please quit calling me a whore,Im not a whore, she then says You lying whore you told brian(her boyfriend the guy I was going over to pick up my game cd from- hes my hubbys friend of 18yrs)that I was stealing money from him, well this is a total shock to me as I havent said a thing to her hubby, a few weeks back she mentioned to me that she was keeping the change from the things shes bought,shes also been threatening to leave him with the 2 kids, I mentioned something to hubby that she told me that she had a big bank account and this is what she was doing, lets just say hubby mentioned something to him and then the rest is well history now. I never have nor will i ever boink him(iccky)

05-22-2001, 01:56 AM	#18
unijester Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Orlando, FL USA Posts: 51	Settle this matter with some naked mud wrestling and have pictures taken and then sell it as content. At least if you don't win the match you'll make some cash. Sorry, just thinking like a porn webmaster.

05-22-2001, 10:48 AM	#19
Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	It's a no win situation when a breakup is going on or about to happen. And a bigger mess when a woman has male friends sometimes. I found out how 'nice' the male freinds can be when I was divorcing my ex. They knew I was living with the old man yet insisted on calling and asking me out. Needless to say I dumped them as friends A judge most likely would call it more or less a mutual combat and fine you both. lol IF it ever got to court. If your hubby keeps this guy as a friend... The friend enabled the whole thing it looks like.

05-22-2001, 10:55 AM	#20
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	Ok, well I am not understanding what Social Services had to be brought in this for? Are they abusing this child? I'm sorry but this part of this is really REALLY bugging me in a powerful way. I have hit reply on this thread at least 5-6 times about this but haven't responded...... but it's killing me here........ If they are abusing the child, ok, but if not, why wreck this child's life with all this going on? I don't get it.... am I misunderstaning something here? ------------------ May the Force Be With YOU!!

05-22-2001, 12:12 PM	#21
Hot Tropical Babes Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Orlando FL Posts: 3,014	I agree Tam!!!! why cause hurt where it is not needed,, she may be stressed, but does that mean she is abusive? If she dont like you, stay away from her. I am a mother, very much like a mamma bear,,i'll hurt ya over my kids,,, In a NEW YORK minute. Now if you have seen abuse then i'd say go for it,, but if it is revenge you are after,, that is totally uncalled for. ------------------ Hot Tropical Babes

05-22-2001, 12:16 PM	#22
Hot Tropical Babes Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Orlando FL Posts: 3,014	ps.. i guess this is a touchy subject for me,, i was turned in one time because "a girl" was pissed at my sister for going out with her ex. She told me that was a perfect way to get back at my sis. Which nothing ever came from it because i am a good mom, but i did whip the shit out of her and her boyfriend

05-22-2001, 12:26 PM	#23
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	Same here, my dad was walking around in front of my kids in a drunken stuper talking to my oldest son like he was a fucking dog, my oldest daughter was there and watching him walking around like this.... we were living with him until my apartment was ready.... I know it was HIS house but I had nowhere else to go and I was pregnant, it was late in Oct, so I couldn't very well take my babies out in that shit, my hubby was at work....... so I asked him nicely just to go to bed and sleep it off and it would all be cool........ but did he do it? FUCK NO!! He goes and calls my brother and has him bring the fucking law.... my brother shows up with the law and Social Services and tries to have my kids taken away....... FORTUNATELY the people that came with him knew me and knew there was no way I'd ever abuse my kids.......... so what they did was tell my dad he was damn lucky for not being arrested his own danm self for doing this shit with my kids in the house...... but my brother as well for trying to use the system to his own revenge..... It turned out they helped me get all my shit, I had called my hubby by this time and him and some biker friends shut the place down they were working in and came and got me and my kids, but the one cop told my hubby that my dad and brother could have been arrested in a snap....... but they helped me get all my shit out of there. Bottom line is.. if you have some sort of problem with me fine........ come and half kill me, I don't care... but please GOD leave my babies out of it........ they are innocent and have done nothing wrong to no one. If there is for real abuse going on........ I say go for it and have that baby removed. I am pretty passionate about anything to do with my kids..... touch them in ANY way and someone gets hurt. LOL Tam ------------------ May the Force Be With YOU!!

05-22-2001, 12:41 PM	#24
erika Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: edmonton Posts: 246	The reason social services may be called is that this girl has no care for her children,shes abandoned them twice now and is consitantly telling brian(-hubbys friend not mine)that she will walk out the door again and leave the kids as they did nothing for her except wreck her teenage body, while she is in these tantrums of hers she even goes as far as to say(with her children in the room)that she was an hour away from aborting them and she should have gone through with it, they made her boobs sag, and stretched her skin. Not a healthy enviroment for kids to grow up in where there mother is constantly throwing things and slamming doors and telling them that she wishes they were never born.

05-22-2001, 01:12 PM	#25
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	Well ok then.... by all means do something about it....... but I was just having a hard time with the argument with the mom and calling the SS on her ........ you have to admit girlfriend, that part was a bit unclear....... NOW I feel a bit better about it. Whew!! You scared me for a minute. BUT I have to agree with some of the others here.. walking away from this situation would be better in the case of you and this girl..... sounds like there is a bigger problem than the both of you and you should just remove yourself before it gets any worse than it is. Revenge has a way of biting back babe... just watch yourself. Tam ------------------ May the Force Be With YOU!!