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p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:22 PM

what would you do...

ok, short version..

I bought this house i live in now with my brother cause he needed help with a place to stay so i offered to buy a palce with him...

problem is, is he is a fucking shit head selfish cocksucking useing piece of shit that doesnt care about anyone but himself and wouldnt do anything for you unless there was something in it for him...

im considering just giving him this house and walking away clear..

he cant afford to pay for this house on his own i know, so he would be forced to sell unless he finds some idiot to agree to move in with him and pay him rent...

before I either kill him or disown him as a brother, i want to get out of here while i still slightly care for him because he is blood and pretty much the only family i have left...

only reason i have put up with it this long is because of that fact...

wtf would you do if you were in this situation? I have left a ton of shit out, but this is enough info to base a decission on...

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pornstar2pac · 07-27-2004, 09:23 PM

get your own place man. you'll come up with more ideas and make more money without the stress

Oracle Porn · 07-27-2004, 09:24 PM

a) tell him to pay you rent....
b) kick him out, someone needs to teach him a lesson....

thekebie · 07-27-2004, 09:25 PM

Try and guilt trip him and offer to buy him out for some amount that is why less then he is intitled to under law. Like $10,000 or something.

Sly_RJ · 07-27-2004, 09:26 PM

Kick him out. You paid for the place. It's yours, not his. Sometimes tough love is what's needed to get people in check.

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pornstar2pac
get your own place man. you'll come up with more ideas and make more money without the stress

exactly.. i KNOW for a fact I will eliminate 60% of the stress in my life if i leave, but believe it or not i am a humna being and I do care about other people.. I will be leaving him high and dry, but he brought it on himself.. he will NEVER change and that is a fact..

I need to think about my health and my own life i know, i just dont like the fact I am about to lose the rest of my family because of thier own actions, not mine..

im tired of being used.. i have had it, im almost to the point where I can see myself about to snap, and thank god i recognise it, or I would be in jail in a few months i bet

robfantasy · 07-27-2004, 09:26 PM

make him learn the hard way, dont baby him, he will never learn

Evil1 · 07-27-2004, 09:27 PM

Make his life hell until he runs out the fucking door, don't shower, if he likes rap, crank metallica all day, if he likes rock, crank (insert rap name here) all day.. develop a habit of setting off fireworks in the house @ 3am, tell him you've decided to become a nudist, whenever he has a chick over, practice being a nudist.. i could go on for hours.

thekebie · 07-27-2004, 09:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ
Kick him out. You paid for the place. It's yours, not his. Sometimes tough love is what's needed to get people in check.

It sounds like his brother name is on it.

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Oracle Porn
a) tell him to pay you rent....
b) kick him out, someone needs to teach him a lesson....

you dont read very well do you?

he OWNS 50% of this house, i cant kick him out.

crockett · 07-27-2004, 09:27 PM

man, sounds like my brother..
we would only hear from him when he needed something and everything was always everyone else fault. I believe he finally got his act together as last time I talked to him he has his own business but that's going on 2 years ago..

You can't pick your family you can only deal with them, but if he is a leach now he always will be. If you have the extra money just pay the house off and hook him up.. Maybe someday he will realize what you did for him .. if not fuck him.

[Brian] · 07-27-2004, 09:28 PM

pour gasoline on him and ...

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:28 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by thekebie
Try and guilt trip him and offer to buy him out for some amount that is why less then he is intitled to under law. Like $10,000 or something.

I am also considering buying him out...

nap · 07-27-2004, 09:28 PM

tell him that he needs to get his shit together and stop living off of you. if he doesnt respond then sell the house and make him fend for himself. he will never change if you take care of him.

Jace · 07-27-2004, 09:29 PM

if the house is bought and paid for then get the fuck out and get yourself a new place...if there are payments left make sure you get him to take over the payments...

regardless, get the fuck away from him, sounds like he can really drain someones life out

xclusive · 07-27-2004, 09:29 PM

kick his ass out why should he benifit from your hard work?

Sly_RJ · 07-27-2004, 09:29 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by thekebie
It sounds like his brother name is on it.

Ahh... so buy him out.

Spunky · 07-27-2004, 09:29 PM

Tell him how you feel and say you want out and we should sell the house

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by [Brian]
pour gasoline on him and ...

lol

Rankings · 07-27-2004, 09:31 PM

family is so hard to deal with. I'd leave now

pornstar2pac · 07-27-2004, 09:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by p1mpdogg
exactly.. i KNOW for a fact I will eliminate 60% of the stress in my life if i leave, but believe it or not i am a humna being and I do care about other people.. I will be leaving him high and dry, but he brought it on himself.. he will NEVER change and that is a fact..

I need to think about my health and my own life i know, i just dont like the fact I am about to lose the rest of my family because of thier own actions, not mine..

im tired of being used.. i have had it, im almost to the point where I can see myself about to snap, and thank god i recognise it, or I would be in jail in a few months i bet

yeah get out.

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JSA Matt · 07-27-2004, 09:33 PM

If you like the house, buy him out. If not, get a better place of your own, something that would make him really jealous.

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:36 PM

the thing is, is he does have his shit together sort of.. like he meets his responsibilities.. nills job etc..

he just likes to use me to buy shit and not pay me back, he already took out a 50k equity loan to pay off all his bills and the funny thing is, is he would have never gotten that loan if it wasnt for me, i found the loan for him and did all the paper work for him lol

im such a fucking sap

he is my older brother 30 yrs old and has a 7yr old kid divorced.. but she has custody..

he uses his daughter to get close to this c u n t he is fucking that uses him... he actually picks up his daughter to take her over to his GF's house just to spend time with her, otherwise she wouldnt have anything todo with him unless she wanted some dick.. it makes me sick to see him use his kid like that...

I have done so many favors for this guy i cant even count.. and I have never asked for ANYTHING in return other than to pay me back when i loan him money which is often...

jesus, i am about to explode im so frustrated with this situation..

I have no idea why i am so intimidated by him... he has this character FLAW that makes him hard to talk to.. he is so defensive and moody its impossible to tlak to him unless he is fucked up on something..
GOD!!!!!!!!

Oracle Porn · 07-27-2004, 09:36 PM

shit this thread got me thinking....
im gonna move in with my brother in a month to his place, and after a month we are getting a new place together....
hopefully he wont be a fuck up case....

enter » · 07-27-2004, 09:38 PM

Buying him out or leaving him there to lose the house on his own both leave him with nothing in the long run. The only difference is you lose also.

BUT, I'd still just walk away if I were you. Let him fail alone and relieve yourself of all that stress.

Sosa · 07-27-2004, 09:38 PM

I don't think I could live with another family member like that. I have a hard enough time living with roommates that are my friends.

Oracle Porn · 07-27-2004, 09:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by p1mpdogg
the thing is, is he does have his shit together sort of.. like he meets his responsibilities.. nills job etc..

he just likes to use me to buy shit and not pay me back, he already took out a 50k equity loan to pay off all his bills and the funny thing is, is he would have never gotten that loan if it wasnt for me, i found the loan for him and did all the paper work for him lol

im such a fucking sap

he is my older brother 30 yrs old and has a 7yr old kid divorced.. but she has custody..

he uses his daughter to get close to this c u n t he is fucking that uses him... he actually picks up his daughter to take her over to his GF's house just to spend time with her, otherwise she wouldnt have anything todo with him unless she wanted some dick.. it makes me sick to see him use his kid like that...

I have done so many favors for this guy i cant even count.. and I have never asked for ANYTHING in return other than to pay me back when i loan him money which is often...

jesus, i am about to explode im so frustrated with this situation..

I have no idea why i am so intimidated by him... he has this character FLAW that makes him hard to talk to.. he is so defensive and moody its impossible to tlak to him unless he is fucked up on something..
GOD!!!!!!!!

gotta change ur sig dude....its not completly true

crockett · 07-27-2004, 09:41 PM

why dosen't he do adult and make his own money? Even if he didn't work under your company, I'm sure he could have a fairly easy road at getting started.

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JSA Matt
If you like the house, buy him out. If not, get a better place of your own, something that would make him really jealous.

I f i choose to buy him out (cause i do like this place.)

what if he wants something rediculous?

he already took 50k out to pay off his debt... so im thinking i would only be willing togo another 40k tops in cash to get rid of him..

he could say he wants 60k and im not going to give that much, then im scrwed, i have to leave cause he wont

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:44 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by crockett
why dosen't he do adult and make his own money? Even if he didn't work under your company, I'm sure he could have a fairly easy road at getting started.

he is not smart enough todo this.. he likes to be told what todo by his bosses.. he has no imagination, and he is too lazy to make anything happen for himself. as i said, he was too fucking lazy to get the loan himself to pay his shit off... i had todo the paperwork for him and find the place to get the loan from lol

it is so hard to explain the type of person he is, he has this ability to make you feel bad without even doing anything wrong...

i wish i could explain it properly

Evil1 · 07-27-2004, 09:44 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by p1mpdogg jesus, i am about to explode im so frustrated with this situation..[/B]

Go drop a massive shit on his pillow, this will do 2 things, you'll feel better and theres a good chance he'll be disgusted enough to leave, at least for the night.

JSA Matt · 07-27-2004, 09:44 PM

But if you leave and he can't pay the bills, you will most likely never see a dime from him right?

Oracle Porn · 07-27-2004, 09:45 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Evil1
Go drop a massive shit on his pillow, this will do 2 things, you'll feel better and theres a good chance he'll be disgusted enough to leave, at least for the night.

or he might kick the shit out of pimppuppy....

Dagwolf · 07-27-2004, 09:45 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by p1mpdogg
I am also considering buying him out...

Buy him out. He's not fucked, you don't lose your investment, and you walk away with a clean conscience. If he doesn't want to sell, point out to him that he won't be able to make the payments... and explain to him that your only option is to sell your interest to someone else.

I don't know your life, so I don't know if that will work for you for sure... I'm betting you'll know what to do, though. Sounds like your heart's in the right place.

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JSA Matt
But if you leave and he can't pay the bills, you will most likely never see a dime from him right?

if he cant pay the bills when i leave which i know he cant, he will HAVE to sell, and i have to trust him to pay me what i am owed... im pretty much willing to just write it off and let him take all the equity just to get rid of him, but its hard to swallow 50k+ in cash as a loss

Spunky · 07-27-2004, 09:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by p1mpdogg
he could say he wants 60k and im not going to give that much, then im scrwed, i have to leave cause he wont

60 k is peanuts for a big spender like yourself...shit give him 80 or 100

DrewKole · 07-27-2004, 09:48 PM

Who's name is it in?

Both of you guys?

Spunky · 07-27-2004, 09:49 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Evil1
Go drop a massive shit on his pillow,

Time for a couple bowls of lucky charms

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by DrewKole
Who's name is it in?

Both of you guys?

yea.... hit me up man, i need to talk to you

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:52 PM

wow, you know something, i feel so much better just being able to vent a little and tell people how im feeling...

thanks you fucks

tical · 07-27-2004, 09:53 PM

move to Vegas.. duh

pornstar2pac · 07-27-2004, 09:55 PM

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iwantchixx · 07-27-2004, 09:55 PM

I'd kick his ass to the curb. Family or not, if he's a lazy sack of shit that needs to be bribed to do things, he's not worth it. Family has to earn respect just like anyone else.

Morgan · 07-27-2004, 09:55 PM

why dont you just have him buy your share out? if he cant afford it, give him a little dough and let him free. im sure someone already said that... oh well..

pussyluver · 07-27-2004, 09:56 PM

Trey,

There are some details that make the mess a bit hard to deal with.

Walking away) If there is a mortgage, you have first deed of trust responsibilities. You did say, he took 50K out.

He owns half) Kinda hard to enforce rent payments.

Kick his ass) Legal problems for openers.

So what do ya do. Really for you to decide, but sounds like some tuff love is in order. You could quick claim it to him and walk away. Hire an attorney to do that in this situation.
You could also file a suite in partition. That would let the court decide and would cost a bit and cause some family ill will.

From what little you?ve shared, I?d quick claim it to him and take the hit. Ask the lawyer about indemnification and other issues. That would be a hit emotionally and financially.

Don?t see him for a while and hope that he grows up a bit and you can have a family relationship sometime down the road.

Not an attorney or Dear Abbey. Good luck with it.

PL

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 09:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by iwantchixx
I'd kick his ass to the curb. Family or not, if he's a lazy sack of shit that needs to be bribed to do things, he's not worth it. Family has to earn respect just like anyone else.

If i was a heartless prick(which alot of you think i am because you really dont know me) I would.. but im not a heartless prick. despite how much he has used me and caused so many problems for me, I still cant do that to someone. I am a lover not a fighter believe it or not..

besides, he is on the note i cant kick him out anyways

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 10:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pussyluver
Trey,

There are some details that make the mess a bit hard to deal with.

Walking away) If there is a mortgage, you have first deed of trust responsibilities. You did say, he took 50K out.

He owns half) Kinda hard to enforce rent payments.

Kick his ass) Legal problems for openers.

So what do ya do. Really for you to decide, but sounds like some tuff love is in order. You could quick claim it to him and walk away. Hire an attorney to do that in this situation.
You could also file a suite in partition. That would let the court decide and would cost a bit and cause some family ill will.

From what little you?ve shared, I?d quick claim it to him and take the hit. Ask the lawyer about indemnification and other issues. That would be a hit emotionally and financially.

Don?t see him for a while and hope that he grows up a bit and you can have a family relationship sometime down the road.

Not an attorney or Dear Abbey. Good luck with it.

PL

damn that is some good advice.. can you hit me up? i have some questions?

141588569

thank you, i mean that

GTS Mark · 07-27-2004, 10:08 PM

Tough situation... Have you talked to him about this yet?

That would be my advice to you, if he doesn't want to talk about it. Let your lawyer talk to him....

He will probably listen then.

DH

baddog · 07-27-2004, 10:10 PM

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Originally posted by p1mpdogg
problem is, is he is a fucking shit head selfish cocksucking useing piece of shit that doesnt care about anyone but himself and wouldnt do anything for you unless there was something in it for him...

seems rather ironic . . . hard to believe anyone with your genes would be like that

baddog · 07-27-2004, 10:18 PM

you can't just split, because as long as there is money owed on it, your credit is at risk . . .if it is foreclosed on, you will suffer for several years as a result

07-27-2004, 09:22 PM	#1
p1mpdogg Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 16,714	serious post... what would you do... ok, short version.. I bought this house i live in now with my brother cause he needed help with a place to stay so i offered to buy a palce with him... problem is, is he is a fucking shit head selfish cocksucking useing piece of shit that doesnt care about anyone but himself and wouldnt do anything for you unless there was something in it for him... im considering just giving him this house and walking away clear.. he cant afford to pay for this house on his own i know, so he would be forced to sell unless he finds some idiot to agree to move in with him and pay him rent... before I either kill him or disown him as a brother, i want to get out of here while i still slightly care for him because he is blood and pretty much the only family i have left... only reason i have put up with it this long is because of that fact... wtf would you do if you were in this situation? I have left a ton of shit out, but this is enough info to base a decission on... and if you dont care, atleast click my sig 'help a nigga out' foundation sponsored by pimpd0g __________________ A fast fortune is easy to earn! Just go with a winner!

07-27-2004, 09:23 PM	#2
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07-27-2004, 09:25 PM	#4
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07-27-2004, 09:27 PM	#8
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07-27-2004, 09:27 PM	#11
crockett in a van by the river Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 76,806	man, sounds like my brother.. we would only hear from him when he needed something and everything was always everyone else fault. I believe he finally got his act together as last time I talked to him he has his own business but that's going on 2 years ago.. You can't pick your family you can only deal with them, but if he is a leach now he always will be. If you have the extra money just pay the house off and hook him up.. Maybe someday he will realize what you did for him .. if not fuck him. __________________ In November, you can vote for America's next president or its first dictator.

07-27-2004, 09:28 PM	#12
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07-27-2004, 09:28 PM	#14
nap Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: midwest Posts: 2,765	tell him that he needs to get his shit together and stop living off of you. if he doesnt respond then sell the house and make him fend for himself. he will never change if you take care of him.

07-27-2004, 09:29 PM	#15
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07-27-2004, 09:29 PM	#16
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07-27-2004, 09:29 PM	#18
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07-27-2004, 09:33 PM	#22
JSA Matt So Fucking Banned Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 5,464	If you like the house, buy him out. If not, get a better place of your own, something that would make him really jealous.

07-27-2004, 09:36 PM	#23
p1mpdogg Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 16,714	the thing is, is he does have his shit together sort of.. like he meets his responsibilities.. nills job etc.. he just likes to use me to buy shit and not pay me back, he already took out a 50k equity loan to pay off all his bills and the funny thing is, is he would have never gotten that loan if it wasnt for me, i found the loan for him and did all the paper work for him lol im such a fucking sap he is my older brother 30 yrs old and has a 7yr old kid divorced.. but she has custody.. he uses his daughter to get close to this c u n t he is fucking that uses him... he actually picks up his daughter to take her over to his GF's house just to spend time with her, otherwise she wouldnt have anything todo with him unless she wanted some dick.. it makes me sick to see him use his kid like that... I have done so many favors for this guy i cant even count.. and I have never asked for ANYTHING in return other than to pay me back when i loan him money which is often... jesus, i am about to explode im so frustrated with this situation.. I have no idea why i am so intimidated by him... he has this character FLAW that makes him hard to talk to.. he is so defensive and moody its impossible to tlak to him unless he is fucked up on something.. GOD!!!!!!!! __________________ A fast fortune is easy to earn! Just go with a winner!

07-27-2004, 09:38 PM	#25
enter » Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: -- arizona --» Posts: 2,362	Buying him out or leaving him there to lose the house on his own both leave him with nothing in the long run. The only difference is you lose also. BUT, I'd still just walk away if I were you. Let him fail alone and relieve yourself of all that stress. __________________ «-- offer extended through New Years (icq286487452)

07-27-2004, 09:38 PM	#26
Sosa In Tushy Land Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Nebraska Posts: 40,149	I don't think I could live with another family member like that. I have a hard enough time living with roommates that are my friends.

07-27-2004, 09:41 PM	#28
crockett in a van by the river Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 76,806	why dosen't he do adult and make his own money? Even if he didn't work under your company, I'm sure he could have a fairly easy road at getting started. __________________ In November, you can vote for America's next president or its first dictator.

07-27-2004, 09:44 PM	#32
JSA Matt So Fucking Banned Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 5,464	But if you leave and he can't pay the bills, you will most likely never see a dime from him right?

07-27-2004, 09:48 PM	#37
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07-27-2004, 09:53 PM	#41
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07-27-2004, 09:55 PM	#43
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07-27-2004, 09:56 PM	#45
pussyluver Clueless OleMan Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ICQ - 169903487 Posts: 11,009	Trey, There are some details that make the mess a bit hard to deal with. Walking away) If there is a mortgage, you have first deed of trust responsibilities. You did say, he took 50K out. He owns half) Kinda hard to enforce rent payments. Kick his ass) Legal problems for openers. So what do ya do. Really for you to decide, but sounds like some tuff love is in order. You could quick claim it to him and walk away. Hire an attorney to do that in this situation. You could also file a suite in partition. That would let the court decide and would cost a bit and cause some family ill will. From what little you?ve shared, I?d quick claim it to him and take the hit. Ask the lawyer about indemnification and other issues. That would be a hit emotionally and financially. Don?t see him for a while and hope that he grows up a bit and you can have a family relationship sometime down the road. Not an attorney or Dear Abbey. Good luck with it. PL

07-27-2004, 10:08 PM	#48
GTS Mark Vrume Mark Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 20,912	Tough situation... Have you talked to him about this yet? That would be my advice to you, if he doesn't want to talk about it. Let your lawyer talk to him.... He will probably listen then. DH

07-27-2004, 10:18 PM	#50
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	you can't just split, because as long as there is money owed on it, your credit is at risk . . .if it is foreclosed on, you will suffer for several years as a result