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girl_next_door · 07-15-2004, 05:51 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I just recently broke up with my ex (Monday). We both still love each other, and was a very clean break up. We just decided that we fight too much and wanted to stop it and thought breaking up was the only way. The fights were nothing major, but consumed our minds and affected all the other aspects of our lives negatively. I still love her very much, she says she still loves me.

The first couple of days after the break up were really hard. My friends had to literally drag me out of bed, lol. It's only been 3 days and I feel so much better. I am also trying to decide whether or not to get back together. I'm going to give it about a month before I consider getting back together or not.

The hardest part is picturing her with someone else. Someone else's arms around her instead of mine etc. I've already had five girls try to "get with me" since the breakup, but I had to decline because I would still feel like I'm cheating on her.

Anyways enough babble... lol.

why would you wait that long (1 month) if both of you still love each other, i guess a week or 2 is enough to have a rest and unwind then have a serious talk on matters affecting both of you

Joesho · 07-15-2004, 06:00 PM

You can never go back, young grasshoppa!

FuckFind · 07-15-2004, 06:04 PM

my immediate X (dated for 2 years, broke up 6 months ago) is currently in my kitchen making me tortolini.

no joke!

FF

shann · 07-15-2004, 06:07 PM

My ex just went out to buy us groceries! I love happy endings!

Depends on the ex though, one ex I would kick in the nuts, one I would ask for his number and one I would laugh at. Most of the, i would pretend I didn't recognize them, works like a charm. ;)

JDog · 07-15-2004, 06:11 PM

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Originally posted by girl_next_door
why would you wait that long (1 month) if both of you still love each other, i guess a week or 2 is enough to have a rest and unwind then have a serious talk on matters affecting both of you

It's been a year for me!

Is that way too long?

jDoG

JDog · 07-15-2004, 07:17 PM

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Originally posted by shann
My ex just went out to buy us groceries! I love happy endings!

Depends on the ex though, one ex I would kick in the nuts, one I would ask for his number and one I would laugh at. Most of the, i would pretend I didn't recognize them, works like a charm. ;)

So you live with your ex?

jDoG

reynold · 07-15-2004, 07:19 PM

I guess it's okay...i'm content and confident about my life right now so i guess a little reunion would'nt hurt!

rhon23 · 07-15-2004, 08:03 PM

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Originally posted by JDog
I'm trying to, but a lot has changed since the last year and I'm not as big of an asshole as I use to be because of work I had.

jDoG

You may not be as big of an ass anymore but is she still as much a user as she was. Remember I know the story of this one and talked to you about it daily. Now what did I tell you then because its the same I will tell you now. People break up for a reason, why would you want to put yourself back in a situation that you were not happy with in the first place.

pure energy · 07-16-2004, 04:29 AM

holy shit...i'll run for my life...and fast!!!

JDog · 07-18-2004, 03:46 PM

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Originally posted by rhon23
You may not be as big of an ass anymore but is she still as much a user as she was. Remember I know the story of this one and talked to you about it daily. Now what did I tell you then because its the same I will tell you now. People break up for a reason, why would you want to put yourself back in a situation that you were not happy with in the first place.

But it was my work life that contributed to everything that made me an asshole. But nothing is going to happen, I was too big of a asshole for her to take me back.

jDoG

r3ap3r · 07-18-2004, 04:05 PM

What do you have to loose? You already feel like shit and it will stay like that until you go something about it. Pick up your balls and try a second run at it.

JDog · 07-18-2004, 04:05 PM

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Originally posted by Jesus H Christ
Never recycle your trash bro! You got your deposit move on. Besides she is going to do all she can to get you sucked in to drop your ass..for a little payback.

Probably the best answer on here!

jDOG

reynold · 07-18-2004, 08:43 PM

too good i haven't encountered my ex this weekend...

baddog · 07-18-2004, 10:01 PM

this should help

sicone · 07-18-2004, 10:04 PM

what did you boot her for in the first place... if the reason was good enough then... its good enough now

pure energy · 07-19-2004, 03:33 AM

i'd run for my life...and FAST

JDog · 07-19-2004, 09:27 AM

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Originally posted by sicone
what did you boot her for in the first place... if the reason was good enough then... its good enough now

It was a stupid over reacted reaction I dont' recall now.. It was a overaction after I came home from 3 hrs in traffic.

jDoG

Jennie · 07-19-2004, 09:34 AM

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Originally posted by JDog
from over just about a year ago, and you still had feelings would you go for it. I feel bad and I still have some feelings for her. I was an asshole and kicked her out just over a year ago.

Today I saw her, and I can't stop thinking about the time's we had now. And don't know if I should try to get her back, do you think it would be worth it?

jDoG

better to talk to her for a while and ask her if he still had feeling for you... beacuse if your the only one have feeling from both of you it doesn't work anymore...specially your the man!

JDog · 07-19-2004, 10:08 AM

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Originally posted by Jennie
better to talk to her for a while and ask her if he still had feeling for you... beacuse if your the only one have feeling from both of you it doesn't work anymore...specially your the man!

Well, she still does have feelings for me.

jDoG

Screaming · 07-19-2004, 10:09 AM

never hurts to ask

JDog · 07-19-2004, 10:56 AM

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Originally posted by Screaming
never hurts to ask

Yea it doesn't hurt, now she just wants to be friends, guess I waited too long!

jDOG

Adultnet · 07-19-2004, 11:00 AM

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Originally posted by Fizzgig
Ask her.

yes this will be a very good idea..

GspotDana · 07-19-2004, 11:00 AM

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Originally posted by JDog
from over just about a year ago, and you still had feelings would you go for it. I feel bad and I still have some feelings for her. I was an asshole and kicked her out just over a year ago.

Today I saw her, and I can't stop thinking about the time's we had now. And don't know if I should try to get her back, do you think it would be worth it?

jDoG

TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT, IF THEY ARE INTERESTED IM SURE YOU'LL KNOW

Za Ha · 07-19-2004, 11:05 AM

Move on. She is happy now... why would she get rid of this guy now if she is happy?

Plus a chick who breaks up with a guy for another guy is likely to do it again...

Plus you will fuck up that guys life....

Plus once that guy is broken up with her he might want to "get back together" like you do now, and the cycle will never ever ever end!

JDog · 07-19-2004, 02:50 PM

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Originally posted by Za Ha
Move on. She is happy now... why would she get rid of this guy now if she is happy?

Plus a chick who breaks up with a guy for another guy is likely to do it again...

Plus you will fuck up that guys life....

Plus once that guy is broken up with her he might want to "get back together" like you do now, and the cycle will never ever ever end!

She's not with another guy at the moment, she want's to stay single. The guy after me beat her, which I never did! And she just wants to be friends right now, and see what happens, guys know what it means when they say friends.

jDoG

Slickcash Lisa · 07-19-2004, 03:25 PM

I think you should go for it one hundred percent! If you saw her and still have some type of feeling, then she must have made you happy. Follow your heart, but dont act to, to eager to get her back. Just take it slow, and see how she reacts.

wyldblyss · 07-19-2004, 03:41 PM

I split up with someone over something stupid. I too overreacted and basically kicked him out...not thinking he would actually go for good....but he left.

I realized I fucked up big time....and he holds a grudge...so I thought it was hopeles. But I kept thinking about all the good times and knew he was the one for me...and I couldn't let go.

I didn't give up and gave it that second shot. End result? We got married 6 years ago....we both couldn't be happier.

So....if you have feelings go for it...there is nothing worse in life than gonig through it thinking "What if". If it is over for good...then find it out for sure...get that closure....you might be surprised though and find out that there is a future for you both...but unless you give it that chance you will never know.

korzon · 07-19-2004, 03:43 PM

Honestly, post a pic.

baddog · 07-19-2004, 03:43 PM

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Originally posted by JDog
She's not with another guy at the moment, she want's to stay single. The guy after me beat her, which I never did! And she just wants to be friends right now, and see what happens, guys know what it means when they say friends.

jDoG

you are sounding more and more needy . . . do like her, prove you can survive without having a partner

baddog · 07-19-2004, 03:44 PM

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Originally posted by Slickcash Lisa
I think you should go for it one hundred percent! If you saw her and still have some type of feeling, then she must have made you happy. Follow your heart, but dont act to, to eager to get her back. Just take it slow, and see how she reacts.

typical chick response . . . misery loves company

JDog · 07-19-2004, 03:48 PM

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Originally posted by wyldblyss
I split up with someone over something stupid. I too overreacted and basically kicked him out...not thinking he would actually go for good....but he left.

I realized I fucked up big time....and he holds a grudge...so I thought it was hopeles. But I kept thinking about all the good times and knew he was the one for me...and I couldn't let go.

Yea same thing here, but I don't know if it'll go past that.

jDoG

JDog · 07-19-2004, 03:50 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
you are sounding more and more needy . . . do like her, prove you can survive without having a partner

I can survive with out a partner, I have for a long while!

jDoG

JDog · 07-23-2004, 09:31 AM

Well, I've just said fuck that bitch! Not going back! Just an update!

jDoG

TheMob · 07-23-2004, 09:34 AM

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Originally posted by Turboface
Follow your hard ... er ... heart.

sweetsally · 07-23-2004, 09:36 AM

If I saw my ex, I'd smack him

Sifu · 07-23-2004, 09:37 AM

dont be a pathetic bitch! The best thing to do is walk away real far far away, you must have left the bitch for a good reason. Cuz if you tap it and try to be a playa about it most likely she will own you ass all over again but this time you will be her bitch!
Give it some thought.

baddog · 07-23-2004, 02:57 PM

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Originally posted by JDog
Well, I've just said fuck that bitch! Not going back! Just an update!

jDoG

congrats . . . . she return your balls?

JDog · 07-23-2004, 04:27 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
congrats . . . . she return your balls?

She never had my balls! I had her lips for the longest time tho!

jDoG

punker barbie · 07-23-2004, 04:47 PM

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Originally posted by JDog
from over just about a year ago, and you still had feelings would you go for it. I feel bad and I still have some feelings for her. I was an asshole and kicked her out just over a year ago.

Today I saw her, and I can't stop thinking about the time's we had now. And don't know if I should try to get her back, do you think it would be worth it?

jDoG

never go back and i mean never!

if you kicked her out then it freaken serves her right. you shouldnt start feeling sorry and all lovely dovey again.
you made a decion to kick her out stick to it.
soon enough another girlie will come by and you will forget she even exsisted

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FuckFind Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 1,188	my immediate X (dated for 2 years, broke up 6 months ago) is currently in my kitchen making me tortolini. no joke! FF

07-15-2004, 07:19 PM	#57
reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	I guess it's okay...i'm content and confident about my life right now so i guess a little reunion would'nt hurt!

07-18-2004, 04:05 PM	#61
r3ap3r Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 3,535	What do you have to loose? You already feel like shit and it will stay like that until you go something about it. Pick up your balls and try a second run at it.

07-18-2004, 08:43 PM	#63
reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	too good i haven't encountered my ex this weekend...

07-18-2004, 10:01 PM	#64
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	this should help

07-19-2004, 10:09 AM	#70
Screaming I can change this!!!!! Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 18,972	never hurts to ask __________________

07-19-2004, 11:05 AM	#74
Za Ha Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Still lost Posts: 5,112	Move on. She is happy now... why would she get rid of this guy now if she is happy? Plus a chick who breaks up with a guy for another guy is likely to do it again... Plus you will fuck up that guys life.... Plus once that guy is broken up with her he might want to "get back together" like you do now, and the cycle will never ever ever end!

07-19-2004, 03:25 PM	#76
Slickcash Lisa Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Toronto Posts: 233	I think you should go for it one hundred percent! If you saw her and still have some type of feeling, then she must have made you happy. Follow your heart, but dont act to, to eager to get her back. Just take it slow, and see how she reacts. __________________ [email protected]

07-19-2004, 03:41 PM	#77
wyldblyss Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Buck Starts Here Posts: 5,779	I split up with someone over something stupid. I too overreacted and basically kicked him out...not thinking he would actually go for good....but he left. I realized I fucked up big time....and he holds a grudge...so I thought it was hopeles. But I kept thinking about all the good times and knew he was the one for me...and I couldn't let go. I didn't give up and gave it that second shot. End result? We got married 6 years ago....we both couldn't be happier. So....if you have feelings go for it...there is nothing worse in life than gonig through it thinking "What if". If it is over for good...then find it out for sure...get that closure....you might be surprised though and find out that there is a future for you both...but unless you give it that chance you will never know.

07-19-2004, 03:43 PM	#78
korzon Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,524	Honestly, post a pic. __________________

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Sifu Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: So Cal Posts: 1,791	dont be a pathetic bitch! The best thing to do is walk away real far far away, you must have left the bitch for a good reason. Cuz if you tap it and try to be a playa about it most likely she will own you ass all over again but this time you will be her bitch! Give it some thought. __________________ ICQ: 317-769-855