Is single life all that it's caught up to be? - GoFuckYourself.com

MetaMan · 07-14-2004, 12:00 AM

i have been single for a few months now and i am growing old of the party scene again. maybe i need a vacation maybe its time to settle for a little.

how about you? is single life all that it's cut out to be?

Babagirls · 07-14-2004, 12:07 AM

i dont know, im not single

80smetal · 07-14-2004, 12:08 AM

being married has never been better.

pxxx · 07-14-2004, 12:09 AM

Single life is ok, but just like relationships, it can get pretty common and boring.

graphicsbytia · 07-14-2004, 12:10 AM

you're talking about the single life, but say you're growing tired of the party scene.. if you keep that up you won't be single for long.. enjoy it for god's sake!

reynold · 07-14-2004, 02:25 AM

i dont know...but i know that i hate to be single cuz i hate being alone!!!

graphicsbytia · 07-14-2004, 02:42 AM

I think there's a definite difference between being single and being alone

If you achieve any goal in this life, to be able to be happy alone is a good one to shoot for. Some people say they don't like being alone, I can remember a time when I said that myself.. I don't know when it happened, but one day I found myself happier than I've ever been.. alone.. doing what I want to do, when I want to do it. I just wish I was younger, only because it'd mean I have a lot more time to enjoy this newfound state of mind.

I really believe you have to enjoy being alone to be happy ... especially if you ARE in a relationship

xenigo · 07-14-2004, 02:58 AM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia
I think there's a definite difference between being single and being alone

If you achieve any goal in this life, to be able to be happy alone is a good one to shoot for. Some people say they don't like being alone, I can remember a time when I said that myself.. I don't know when it happened, but one day I found myself happier than I've ever been.. alone.. doing what I want to do, when I want to do it. I just wish I was younger, only because it'd mean I have a lot more time to enjoy this newfound state of mind.

I really believe you have to enjoy being alone to be happy ... especially if you ARE in a relationship

Right on. I agree 100%, but only recently have I discovered this too. I think the more I focus on my business, the happier I become. Having a girlfriend never allowed me to focus like I'm focused now.

pure energy · 07-14-2004, 03:26 AM

single life rocks!!! no committment, no obligations...and no responsibilities!!!

Candice · 07-14-2004, 03:56 AM

Yes, the single life is fun for a while, I've been single almost a year now, but not for long. My new beau just appeared out of no where after two years of no contact....and yay, i'm not single for much longer, or at all, if you consider just the dating and not the marriage issue. Anyway, if you're tired of being single, just don't "look" for anyone, because trust me, they will come along and it will be when you least expect it. Don't try and make something happen, let it happen, it turns out the best that way. I've experienced it both ways.....please trust me. Good Luck sweetie!

Candice · 07-14-2004, 04:01 AM

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Originally posted by pure energy
single life rocks!!! no committment, no obligations...and no responsibilities!!!

yeah, it's fun to be tested every six months, never know who's going to sleep in your bed on the weekends.....isn't that how it goes? I dont remember....I never stay single long. Guys are pigs....they give NOT a shit about anyone but themselves.....except for a few, and i got one, we're having the time of our lives.. Maybe someday your ego will settle a little baby, and you'll find a great person to love and respect you and you won't want to party and fuck all the hoes at the clubs.....commitment isn't a bad thing....it is part of what makes you human. If you can manage a commited relationship, it will make you more successful in life, true statement! BTW, I'm being nice, not mean at all, i'm sure you're too young to think about settling down, just giving advice for future reference, if you can remember....xoxo, C

Candice · 07-14-2004, 04:06 AM

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Originally posted by Candice
Yes, the single life is fun for a while, I've been single almost a year now, but not for long. My new beau just appeared out of no where after two years of no contact....and yay, i'm not single for much longer, or at all, if you consider just the dating and not the marriage issue. Anyway, if you're tired of being single, just don't "look" for anyone, because trust me, they will come along and it will be when you least expect it. Don't try and make something happen, let it happen, it turns out the best that way. I've experienced it both ways.....please trust me. Good Luck sweetie!

Edit: Reynold this post was for you, not pure energy....sorry for the confusion.....it's late and i need some sleep...

italianninja · 07-14-2004, 04:11 AM

i kinda wish I was single again sometimes but then again I can still fuck other girls if i wanted to. life is "just fucked up", man (say is mexican voice, like hey essay).

Candice · 07-14-2004, 04:13 AM

Sure you can always cheat on your girl, it just makes you a scumbag piece of shit, that's all....nice title huh!

MetaMan · 07-14-2004, 04:58 AM

dont get me wrong, i love the single life, i think both sides have their pros and cons, its just good to have someone to fall on when needed, i hate hoes so going out screwing random bitches is old.

Candice · 07-14-2004, 05:03 AM

I can't even fathom having sex with a stranger, i've always been monogamous, and until recently i was going on 11 months without sex, and it was not fun. But I learned so much about myself....everything happens for a reason, and i have a great man now that i've known for a few years....so the bar scene has never been my thing. Monogomy all the way, just dont get a prude wife.

strobi · 07-14-2004, 05:21 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo
Right on. I agree 100%, but only recently have I discovered this too. I think the more I focus on my business, the happier I become. Having a girlfriend never allowed me to focus like I'm focused now.

Very true, business and GF don't mix that easily. Or you have to have the same frame of mind.

07-14-2004, 12:00 AM	#1
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	Is single life all that it's caught up to be? i have been single for a few months now and i am growing old of the party scene again. maybe i need a vacation maybe its time to settle for a little. how about you? is single life all that it's cut out to be?

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Candice Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: JUST CHILLIN' Posts: 1,149	Yes, the single life is fun for a while, I've been single almost a year now, but not for long. My new beau just appeared out of no where after two years of no contact....and yay, i'm not single for much longer, or at all, if you consider just the dating and not the marriage issue. Anyway, if you're tired of being single, just don't "look" for anyone, because trust me, they will come along and it will be when you least expect it. Don't try and make something happen, let it happen, it turns out the best that way. I've experienced it both ways.....please trust me. Good Luck sweetie! __________________ You judge me for being different, I laugh because you are all the same!

07-14-2004, 04:13 AM	#14
Candice Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: JUST CHILLIN' Posts: 1,149	Sure you can always cheat on your girl, it just makes you a scumbag piece of shit, that's all....nice title huh! __________________ You judge me for being different, I laugh because you are all the same!

07-14-2004, 12:08 AM	#3
80smetal Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 505	being married has never been better.

07-14-2004, 12:09 AM	#4
pxxx First African GFY Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,114	Single life is ok, but just like relationships, it can get pretty common and boring.

07-14-2004, 12:10 AM	#5
graphicsbytia Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Tennessee Posts: 2,618	you're talking about the single life, but say you're growing tired of the party scene.. if you keep that up you won't be single for long.. enjoy it for god's sake!

07-14-2004, 02:25 AM	#6
reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	i dont know...but i know that i hate to be single cuz i hate being alone!!!

07-14-2004, 02:42 AM	#7
graphicsbytia Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Tennessee Posts: 2,618	I think there's a definite difference between being single and being alone If you achieve any goal in this life, to be able to be happy alone is a good one to shoot for. Some people say they don't like being alone, I can remember a time when I said that myself.. I don't know when it happened, but one day I found myself happier than I've ever been.. alone.. doing what I want to do, when I want to do it. I just wish I was younger, only because it'd mean I have a lot more time to enjoy this newfound state of mind. I really believe you have to enjoy being alone to be happy ... especially if you ARE in a relationship

07-14-2004, 04:11 AM	#13
italianninja Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 564	i kinda wish I was single again sometimes but then again I can still fuck other girls if i wanted to. life is "just fucked up", man (say is mexican voice, like hey essay).

07-14-2004, 04:58 AM	#15
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	dont get me wrong, i love the single life, i think both sides have their pros and cons, its just good to have someone to fall on when needed, i hate hoes so going out screwing random bitches is old.

07-14-2004, 05:03 AM	#16
Candice Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: JUST CHILLIN' Posts: 1,149	I can't even fathom having sex with a stranger, i've always been monogamous, and until recently i was going on 11 months without sex, and it was not fun. But I learned so much about myself....everything happens for a reason, and i have a great man now that i've known for a few years....so the bar scene has never been my thing. Monogomy all the way, just dont get a prude wife. __________________ You judge me for being different, I laugh because you are all the same!