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mary34d · 07-11-2004, 06:23 PM

so, you've been dating a guy who you really like. you can't wait for him to call you, and you get all "gitty" just being around him. on your first date he buys you perfume and flowers and calls your mom for permission to take you out.

so after a few weeks of dating (everyother night for dinner) the "special" night comes and its a total disaster. to the point you both decide to sleep alone and you go and consult your girlfriends. now there is no gitty feeling when the phone ring and there is no looking forward to any sort of intimacy.

what do you do? see him again and maybe the intimate feeling will come back or move on?

Spunky · 07-11-2004, 06:24 PM

Do you date alot?

bad_girl · 07-11-2004, 06:27 PM

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Originally posted by mary34d
so, you've been dating a guy who you really like. you can't wait for him to call you, and you get all "gitty" just being around him. on your first date he buys you perfume and flowers and calls your mom for permission to take you out.

so after a few weeks of dating (everyother night for dinner) the "special" night comes and its a total disaster. to the point you both decide to sleep alone and you go and consult your girlfriends. now there is no gitty feeling when the phone ring and there is no looking forward to any sort of intimacy.

what do you do? see him again and maybe the intimate feeling will come back or move on?

You must mean giddy.

In any case, you stay friends and move on.

BG

RP Fade · 07-11-2004, 06:28 PM

stay friends and meet others thru each other. That's how I met my fiance

mary34d · 07-11-2004, 06:45 PM

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Originally posted by spunky1
Do you date alot?

haven't dated in over a year, because the guy i was dating is in "club fed" for racqueterring.

mary34d · 07-11-2004, 06:46 PM

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Originally posted by RP Fade
stay friends and meet others thru each other. That's how I met my fiance

i met him at the dog park

Peaches · 07-11-2004, 06:46 PM

It would all depend on why the "special night" was a disaster. If it was something that can be fixed, give it another go. If not, then part as friends.

Vitasoy · 07-11-2004, 07:04 PM

It's time to move on, if you feel like not wanting to see each other anymore.

detoxed · 07-11-2004, 07:11 PM

tell us what happened!

EviLGuY · 07-11-2004, 07:11 PM

I guess he was unimpressed after all that waiting?

mary34d · 07-11-2004, 07:27 PM

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Originally posted by EviLGuY
I guess he was unimpressed after all that waiting?

he wasn't all that but you can work on bad sex. the problem was is that he was having a bad day, but was feeling in a much better mood after we had dinner and our friends came over.

the problem was is that after sex he start freaking out because he was recently divorced and has 11 month old twin girls. and hasn't dated anyone since and is scared to have another female figure other than his ex wife raising his girls...

today he callled and appologized for his actions VIA VOICEMAIL

Herb Kornfield · 07-11-2004, 08:13 PM

I'd give it another shot and see whats up.

Joesho · 07-11-2004, 08:16 PM

ah Move on sounds like he is mental if one sex night f reaked him like that.......

GonZo · 07-11-2004, 09:01 PM

Ive been 2 timed!

Jason Fromm · 07-12-2004, 04:22 AM

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Originally posted by mary34d
he wasn't all that but you can work on bad sex. the problem was is that he was having a bad day, but was feeling in a much better mood after we had dinner and our friends came over.

the problem was is that after sex he start freaking out because he was recently divorced and has 11 month old twin girls. and hasn't dated anyone since and is scared to have another female figure other than his ex wife raising his girls...

today he callled and appologized for his actions VIA VOICEMAIL

Too much baggage...he is not going to get over that anytime soon.

mary34d · 07-12-2004, 07:06 AM

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Originally posted by Jason Fromm
Too much baggage...he is not going to get over that anytime soon.

plus he's the one that wanted me to cut my hair

Joesho · 07-12-2004, 07:09 AM

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Originally posted by mary34d
plus he's the one that wanted me to cut my hair

Just shave your crotch, and call it a day, your head hair looks just fine the way it is!

Phoenix · 07-12-2004, 07:12 AM

move on...dont they have a trailer for you to visit your man in?

im sure he woud like some attention right now

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 07-12-2004, 07:14 AM

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Originally posted by mary34d
plus he's the one that wanted me to cut my hair

you mean he wanted you to remove those nasty ass hair extensions?..can you blame the man.

mary34d · 07-12-2004, 07:22 AM

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Originally posted by Joesho
Just shave your crotch, and call it a day, your head hair looks just fine the way it is!

crotch has a new racing stipe, got sick of the diamond shape

Joesho · 07-12-2004, 07:30 AM

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Originally posted by mary34d
crotch has a new racing stipe, got sick of the diamond shape

hmmmmmmmmm

zanycash Pete · 07-12-2004, 07:32 AM

???? A disaster for some maybe! you gotta learn how to do it right?

DutchTeenCash · 07-12-2004, 08:22 AM

sounds like he needs to sort things out first, then start dating, youre more of a shoulder right now to him it seems imho...

mary34d · 07-12-2004, 08:31 AM

so after i left, me and my 2 girlsfriends that were their went back and had a girls night at their place

mindoza · 07-12-2004, 08:37 AM

you are the rebound girl..and he just realized he is not over his wife...give him another try if he is willing cause he seems like a better breed than you are use to..Be causious cause the rebound relationship usually just works out the kinks so you can move on.

Relationships take work you can't expect them to be all shits and giggles all the time!

QualityMpegs · 07-12-2004, 08:40 AM

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Originally posted by mary34d
so, you've been dating a guy who you really like. you can't wait for him to call you, and you get all "gitty" just being around him. on your first date he buys you perfume and flowers and calls your mom for permission to take you out.

so after a few weeks of dating (everyother night for dinner) the "special" night comes and its a total disaster. to the point you both decide to sleep alone and you go and consult your girlfriends. now there is no gitty feeling when the phone ring and there is no looking forward to any sort of intimacy.

what do you do? see him again and maybe the intimate feeling will come back or move on?

wtf is this about? did he try anal the first date? transvestite?

mary34d · 07-12-2004, 10:01 AM

just read above..i explained it in a reply

macho · 07-12-2004, 10:04 AM

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Originally posted by spunky1
Do you date alot?

Every week at least one time

okny · 07-12-2004, 10:09 AM

You should hook him up

and everything will go back into place.

Ice · 07-12-2004, 10:12 AM

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Originally posted by mary34d
haven't dated in over a year, because the guy i was dating is in "club fed" for racqueterring.

Why does this not suprise me

BradM · 07-12-2004, 10:13 AM

you sleep with him first and ask his name later?

mary34d · 07-12-2004, 10:31 AM

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Originally posted by BradM
you sleep with him first and ask his name later?

actually sucking dick is one thing, sex is another.

¹²³ · 07-12-2004, 11:50 AM

mary34d · 07-12-2004, 12:17 PM

the YNOT board agrees with me too

jade_dragon · 07-12-2004, 12:36 PM

You can either play "Captain Kirk" and save this one or tell him to be a friend of course and keep him as "dick in a glass jar/break in case of emergency" hoping one day he will recover from the soul sucking his X probably treated him to in court.

Either way you are going to have to deal with some baggage so I hope you have the emotional fortitude to deal with your life and now his as well as his X and his kids. First thing to do is find out as much information about his X as possible. Like did she cheat on him in the end and does that set up a trust issue with you and other women? Do you remind him of his X, do you resemble her in your actions or look? Is he looking for a relationship that is casual or is he looking to fill the void of mother and wife ASAP?

If he is a good guy you will be able to talk about all this, if he can not then he is not really ready for a relationship. You got some work ahead of you madam, good luck!

THE DRAGON HAS SPOKEN, SO IT IS WRITTEN, SO IT SHALL COME TO BE!

bad_girl · 07-12-2004, 01:39 PM

Are you really in university?

BG

07-11-2004, 06:23 PM	#1
mary34d Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Northern Cuba Posts: 3,358	sex/dating ? so, you've been dating a guy who you really like. you can't wait for him to call you, and you get all "gitty" just being around him. on your first date he buys you perfume and flowers and calls your mom for permission to take you out. so after a few weeks of dating (everyother night for dinner) the "special" night comes and its a total disaster. to the point you both decide to sleep alone and you go and consult your girlfriends. now there is no gitty feeling when the phone ring and there is no looking forward to any sort of intimacy. what do you do? see him again and maybe the intimate feeling will come back or move on? __________________ The guys at CJ Bucks will do absolutely anything to get your business. You owe it to yourself to at least ask! Free Hosting, Content, etc. CJ Bucks has it all. Sign up! I'll show you my tits now you show me your traffic.

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