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sex/dating ?
so, you've been dating a guy who you really like. you can't wait for him to call you, and you get all "gitty" just being around him. on your first date he buys you perfume and flowers and calls your mom for permission to take you out.
so after a few weeks of dating (everyother night for dinner) the "special" night comes and its a total disaster. to the point you both decide to sleep alone and you go and consult your girlfriends. now there is no gitty feeling when the phone ring and there is no looking forward to any sort of intimacy. what do you do? see him again and maybe the intimate feeling will come back or move on? |
Do you date alot?
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You must mean giddy. In any case, you stay friends and move on. BG |
stay friends and meet others thru each other. That's how I met my fiance :)
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It would all depend on why the "special night" was a disaster. If it was something that can be fixed, give it another go. If not, then part as friends. :)
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It's time to move on, if you feel like not wanting to see each other anymore.
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tell us what happened!
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I guess he was unimpressed after all that waiting? :1orglaugh
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the problem was is that after sex he start freaking out because he was recently divorced and has 11 month old twin girls. and hasn't dated anyone since and is scared to have another female figure other than his ex wife raising his girls... today he callled and appologized for his actions VIA VOICEMAIL |
I'd give it another shot and see whats up.
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ah Move on sounds like he is mental if one sex night f reaked him like that.......:2 cents:
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Ive been 2 timed!
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Just shave your crotch, and call it a day, your head hair looks just fine the way it is!:) |
move on...dont they have a trailer for you to visit your man in?
im sure he woud like some attention right now |
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???? A disaster for some maybe! you gotta learn how to do it right?:1orglaugh :1orglaugh
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sounds like he needs to sort things out first, then start dating, youre more of a shoulder right now to him it seems imho...
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so after i left, me and my 2 girlsfriends that were their went back and had a girls night at their place
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you are the rebound girl..and he just realized he is not over his wife...give him another try if he is willing cause he seems like a better breed than you are use to..Be causious cause the rebound relationship usually just works out the kinks so you can move on.
Relationships take work you can't expect them to be all shits and giggles all the time! |
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just read above..i explained it in a reply
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You should hook him up :winkwink: and everything will go back into place.
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you sleep with him first and ask his name later?
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:1orglaugh
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the YNOT board agrees with me too
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You can either play "Captain Kirk" and save this one or tell him to be a friend of course and keep him as "dick in a glass jar/break in case of emergency" hoping one day he will recover from the soul sucking his X probably treated him to in court.
Either way you are going to have to deal with some baggage so I hope you have the emotional fortitude to deal with your life and now his as well as his X and his kids. First thing to do is find out as much information about his X as possible. Like did she cheat on him in the end and does that set up a trust issue with you and other women? Do you remind him of his X, do you resemble her in your actions or look? Is he looking for a relationship that is casual or is he looking to fill the void of mother and wife ASAP? If he is a good guy you will be able to talk about all this, if he can not then he is not really ready for a relationship. You got some work ahead of you madam, good luck! THE DRAGON HAS SPOKEN, SO IT IS WRITTEN, SO IT SHALL COME TO BE! |
Are you really in university?
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