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Prowler · 04-05-2001, 06:58 PM

Last night i had it out.... She sayz your always on the computer all day and night!!

Im tired of going to bed by myself..

Ive tried to teach her html so she could get off my back, but it didnt work !!!

I told her this is my hobbie and i make alot of money and have fun..So DEAL with it.

Anyone here loose a partner over computers?

Prowler

AzteK · 04-05-2001, 07:36 PM

fuck man, my computer gives me sex, money, fun, music, art, skills, friends and last but not least, IT DOESN'T PMS OR BITCH!

ladies don't yell at me please

hehe

AzteK

Prowler · 04-05-2001, 07:43 PM

I hope its that good ..cause im in deep shit.....
not even five minutes ago, i told her..Bitch GO FUCK YOURSELF.....

X-Web · 04-05-2001, 07:46 PM

my girlfriend doesnt mind.. i do give her lots of attention.. shes busy girl too... (full time college student) so we both are busy.. but we both do find free time for eachother.. ( i think everyhting will be sweet for both of us)

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AzteK · 04-05-2001, 07:50 PM

allright be nice to her

get off the comp for a little, take her out for dinner have a glass of wine, maybe some good sex and tell her how much you love her and it should be better

they need attention and sometimes you just gotta give it to them!

AzteK

X-Web · 04-05-2001, 07:51 PM

yep i agree with ya.. (but i love giving them attention.. so its good)

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aprilkorova · 04-05-2001, 08:12 PM

Ouch Prowler!,

That's a toughie. What I think the guys that have responded so far, understand..is women HAVE to have attention. What a lot of men don't understand is it doesn't take that much time.

All a woman needs is to know that she is loved and that you want to spend time with her and you want her around. You can do this with even as little as an hour of your time a day...spread out if need be.

A gentle rub on her back while you say how beautiful she looks followed by a kiss..15 seconds. Later, a call at work asking her how her day is going..30 seconds. Brushing her hair from her face telling her how soft it is...5 seconds. You get the picture LOL.

It's not just women, my man gets like that too. What I've found is it's not the amount of time on the puter as much as it's them feeling like they are competing for your time with the puter.

Try to set aside an hour a day, or even a half hour for things completely related to her. She will never bitch again.

And, I know you won't object to this

, make time for good ol'fashioned love making. Nothing heals relationships like good lovin' LOL.

Maybe 2 or 3 times a week give her a good romp for an hour or more. The other days you should be able to get away with quickies

.

Don't give up on her, especially if you really like/love her. She's just feeling neglected. You would be surprised how little it takes to assure someone you want them around and have them be OK with it.

If she is the "needy" type..than scrap it. Our lives cannot sustain anyone who needs that much time, unfortunately

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paparoach · 04-05-2001, 08:13 PM

I have had the same problem in the past.
You will probably lose her to somebody else who gives her more attention.
Been there and done that 3 years ago.
I finally met my wife on the net and we both made sure that we love the same types of stuff.
Well at least the most important ones.
We bot enjoy time on the computer as much as the other,
We always talk out things before a problem gets to big.
We do share most common interest.
So maybe your girl is'nt the one for you.
I found out the hard way after 7 years and a kid later.
She found another guy who is just like her.
Neither one of them like computers or the net.
So be prepared for when she leaves.
But don't sacrafice your happiness in life just to suit someone else.
And if you have kids don't let that keep you hangin on.
Wish you the best of luck.
My life is great now that I found another like me and married.

aprilkorova · 04-05-2001, 08:14 PM

Could I have put more smilies in my post? Sorry, how annoying.

April

RedShoe · 04-05-2001, 08:30 PM

Hey Prowler, I think our wives hang out at the same place.

I sometimes hear the same thing from my wife. But don't listen to the words she's saying. Just think about how long she's felt that way.

Maybe it's time to take her out, or just try change things just a little. Spend a little more time with her. Just you two. A little attention will go a long way.

AzteK · 04-05-2001, 09:03 PM

good points...I hope their making love as we speak..

Corpsie · 04-05-2001, 09:08 PM

Ya'll need to learn how to having civil conversations instead of screaming and nagging. Don't have arguments when you're angry, it accomplished nothing.

I'm not good at writing this kinda crap, so I'll put it briefly

Re-fucking-lax

Hot Tropical Babes · 04-05-2001, 09:50 PM

well first of all, if he told her to go fuck herself, I doubt they are making "LOVE" ,,Second, to be called a "Bitch" aint cool at all. Third if you are spending night and day on the computer, That sucks! She is trying to make a life with you, Ya need Balance. plain and simple. If i were her, i'd say C YA

Mikey · 04-05-2001, 09:53 PM

Teach her how to make websites. Who knows maybe she might have some weird fetish and it will come out in her sites. When she starts making some serious coin, she will be addicted to her computer too.

Slick · 04-06-2001, 12:58 PM

Me and my wifey go through the same stuff sometimes. I feel bad sometimes because it's like I do sit on my computer a hell of a lot. At night, we don't even sit together anymore, I'm on here, while she's sitting watching tv.

It's tough though because though because this is like an addiction, it's hard to pry myself off of it sometimes.

We're getting buy just fine though, we don't have big arguments over it because she's used to it by now, we've been together for over 10 years now and I started my first site over 5 years ago, so she's gotten used to me being on here, I know that it probably does bug her sometimes and I try to make time for her to keep her happy. The thing is that once I get off of here, she jumps on it to get some time in, he he he.

One thing though as far as going to bed goes, she always expects me to go to bed with her, so at least we go to bed together. On a rare occasion if I have a lot going on, I'll stay up after she goes to bed, but most of the time I do.

Hang in there and listen to her, give her some time and understand where she's coming from. Is this just a side thing or is it your job ??? I always rub in the fact that this IS my full time job, so I have to be on here making money, he he he.

Chalingo · 04-06-2001, 03:01 PM

dead girls can't complain

04-05-2001, 06:58 PM	#1
Prowler Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: East County San Diego Posts: 217	Computer = Divorce? Last night i had it out.... She sayz your always on the computer all day and night!! Im tired of going to bed by myself.. Ive tried to teach her html so she could get off my back, but it didnt work !!! I told her this is my hobbie and i make alot of money and have fun..So DEAL with it. Anyone here loose a partner over computers? Prowler

04-05-2001, 07:36 PM	#2
AzteK Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Northern Cali, USA Posts: 3,446	fuck man, my computer gives me sex, money, fun, music, art, skills, friends and last but not least, IT DOESN'T PMS OR BITCH! ladies don't yell at me please hehe AzteK

04-05-2001, 07:43 PM	#3
Prowler Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: East County San Diego Posts: 217	I hope its that good ..cause im in deep shit..... not even five minutes ago, i told her..Bitch GO FUCK YOURSELF.....

04-05-2001, 07:46 PM	#4
X-Web Banned Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Langley, BC, Canada Posts: 357	my girlfriend doesnt mind.. i do give her lots of attention.. shes busy girl too... (full time college student) so we both are busy.. but we both do find free time for eachother.. ( i think everyhting will be sweet for both of us) ------------------ X-Webmasters.com (50/50 percent parntership + 5 percent referals!!) [email protected]

04-05-2001, 07:50 PM	#5
AzteK Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Northern Cali, USA Posts: 3,446	allright be nice to her get off the comp for a little, take her out for dinner have a glass of wine, maybe some good sex and tell her how much you love her and it should be better they need attention and sometimes you just gotta give it to them! AzteK

04-05-2001, 07:51 PM	#6
X-Web Banned Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Langley, BC, Canada Posts: 357	yep i agree with ya.. (but i love giving them attention.. so its good) ------------------ X-Webmasters.com (50/50 percent parntership + 5 percent referals!!) [email protected]

04-05-2001, 08:12 PM	#7
aprilkorova Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: SoCal Posts: 649	Ouch Prowler!, That's a toughie. What I think the guys that have responded so far, understand..is women HAVE to have attention. What a lot of men don't understand is it doesn't take that much time. All a woman needs is to know that she is loved and that you want to spend time with her and you want her around. You can do this with even as little as an hour of your time a day...spread out if need be. A gentle rub on her back while you say how beautiful she looks followed by a kiss..15 seconds. Later, a call at work asking her how her day is going..30 seconds. Brushing her hair from her face telling her how soft it is...5 seconds. You get the picture LOL. It's not just women, my man gets like that too. What I've found is it's not the amount of time on the puter as much as it's them feeling like they are competing for your time with the puter. Try to set aside an hour a day, or even a half hour for things completely related to her. She will never bitch again. And, I know you won't object to this , make time for good ol'fashioned love making. Nothing heals relationships like good lovin' LOL. Maybe 2 or 3 times a week give her a good romp for an hour or more. The other days you should be able to get away with quickies . Don't give up on her, especially if you really like/love her. She's just feeling neglected. You would be surprised how little it takes to assure someone you want them around and have them be OK with it. If she is the "needy" type..than scrap it. Our lives cannot sustain anyone who needs that much time, unfortunately .

04-05-2001, 08:13 PM	#8
paparoach Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Wheelersburg,Ohio Posts: 404	I have had the same problem in the past. You will probably lose her to somebody else who gives her more attention. Been there and done that 3 years ago. I finally met my wife on the net and we both made sure that we love the same types of stuff. Well at least the most important ones. We bot enjoy time on the computer as much as the other, We always talk out things before a problem gets to big. We do share most common interest. So maybe your girl is'nt the one for you. I found out the hard way after 7 years and a kid later. She found another guy who is just like her. Neither one of them like computers or the net. So be prepared for when she leaves. But don't sacrafice your happiness in life just to suit someone else. And if you have kids don't let that keep you hangin on. Wish you the best of luck. My life is great now that I found another like me and married.

04-05-2001, 08:14 PM	#9
aprilkorova Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: SoCal Posts: 649	Could I have put more smilies in my post? Sorry, how annoying. April

04-05-2001, 08:30 PM	#10
RedShoe 赤い靴 call me 202-456-1111 Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: The Valley Posts: 14,831	Hey Prowler, I think our wives hang out at the same place. I sometimes hear the same thing from my wife. But don't listen to the words she's saying. Just think about how long she's felt that way. Maybe it's time to take her out, or just try change things just a little. Spend a little more time with her. Just you two. A little attention will go a long way.

04-05-2001, 09:03 PM	#11
AzteK Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Northern Cali, USA Posts: 3,446	good points...I hope their making love as we speak..

04-05-2001, 09:08 PM	#12
Corpsie Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: detroit, mi, usa Posts: 474	Ya'll need to learn how to having civil conversations instead of screaming and nagging. Don't have arguments when you're angry, it accomplished nothing. I'm not good at writing this kinda crap, so I'll put it briefly Re-fucking-lax

04-05-2001, 09:50 PM	#13
Hot Tropical Babes Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Orlando FL Posts: 3,014	well first of all, if he told her to go fuck herself, I doubt they are making "LOVE" ,,Second, to be called a "Bitch" aint cool at all. Third if you are spending night and day on the computer, That sucks! She is trying to make a life with you, Ya need Balance. plain and simple. If i were her, i'd say C YA

04-05-2001, 09:53 PM	#14
Mikey Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 665	Teach her how to make websites. Who knows maybe she might have some weird fetish and it will come out in her sites. When she starts making some serious coin, she will be addicted to her computer too.

04-06-2001, 12:58 PM	#15
Slick Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Houghton, MI Posts: 7,338	Me and my wifey go through the same stuff sometimes. I feel bad sometimes because it's like I do sit on my computer a hell of a lot. At night, we don't even sit together anymore, I'm on here, while she's sitting watching tv. It's tough though because though because this is like an addiction, it's hard to pry myself off of it sometimes. We're getting buy just fine though, we don't have big arguments over it because she's used to it by now, we've been together for over 10 years now and I started my first site over 5 years ago, so she's gotten used to me being on here, I know that it probably does bug her sometimes and I try to make time for her to keep her happy. The thing is that once I get off of here, she jumps on it to get some time in, he he he. One thing though as far as going to bed goes, she always expects me to go to bed with her, so at least we go to bed together. On a rare occasion if I have a lot going on, I'll stay up after she goes to bed, but most of the time I do. Hang in there and listen to her, give her some time and understand where she's coming from. Is this just a side thing or is it your job ??? I always rub in the fact that this IS my full time job, so I have to be on here making money, he he he.

04-06-2001, 03:01 PM	#16
Chalingo Registered User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Posts: 59	dead girls can't complain