Should my girlfriend get a boob-job? (Sorry, no pic) - GoFuckYourself.com

jawanda · 07-02-2004, 08:46 PM

So my girlfriend wants to get a boob job.

One of her breasts is EVER SO SLIGHTLY smaller than the otherone, and she says that it has bugged her for so long that is ready to finally just 'fix' it.

Of course, while she's at it, she is going to increase her overall bust size from a larger B to a C.

Call me crazy, but I feel really weird about it. I am coming around, but ...

She's just so beautiful and perfect as is (Seriously, a gorgeous girl).

What do you guys think?

Thanks,

-Phil

PS- It's not the size of the boobs that bothers me, it's the idea of having surgery in order to change the way she looks. FUcking surgery!

Spudstr · 07-02-2004, 08:50 PM

sure it never hurts

ModelBuffet · 07-02-2004, 08:50 PM

now we can't really give you an answer without a pic...

PrivateIvy · 07-02-2004, 08:51 PM

It is normal to have one smaller than the other...

Don't fix it if it aint broke

Ivy

tyler86ed · 07-02-2004, 08:51 PM

I know where you coming from man. My gf is the same way. Shes so beautfiul as is and I don' t understand it. Its seems to me that she just wants more attention, which i don't like.

FuckFind · 07-02-2004, 08:56 PM

hell no, i guess i'm a "purity" kinda guy but you were made how you were made, and if she's beautiful, why ruin or falsify something other people love or admire.

will never understand it *shrug*

my 2

FF

jawanda · 07-02-2004, 09:03 PM

Wow,

amazing response.

My girlfriend didn't want to post pics because she was sure that you guys would all say really mean things like "Freak, get those fixed"

She has such a different perspective of her ta tas than what they really are. It makes me sad, I wish she realized how lovely they are ...

Unless you see her naked or in a bathing suit and STARE for a LONG time you would never ever notice the size difference. So minimal.

Thanks for the input people,

-Phil

Spunky · 07-02-2004, 09:06 PM

Fuck no!..next she will want Tats and piercings

doober · 07-02-2004, 09:12 PM

it would be ludicrous of her to go through with it imho.

wyldblyss · 07-02-2004, 09:20 PM

Hell no...like every 'set' on a human there is a slight difference...ears, hands, feet and yes, breasts. I have seen very few "excellent" boob jobs....many many more terrible ones. My friend had a boob job....had to have it "fixed" several times....first because she was disapointed in her size...she asked for a C and got a C...but it didn't seem big enough...so she got them bigger...but then one was higher than the other....then they were the same height...but looked different...then one went hard. So...after all of that....she is now saying her D is not big enough and she is considering going to at least a DD.

My opinion? She thought bigger boobs would solve some need to make her stand out...and maybe at first it did...but now it isn't getting her what she was looking for...so she is moving up..and up.

What she does is her own business...but man...she sounds awesome...you think she is the most beautiful thing there is....why change?

TweetyBird · 07-02-2004, 09:23 PM

Keep it natural

detoxed · 07-02-2004, 09:24 PM

If you have to ask.... then yes

tootie · 07-02-2004, 09:26 PM

I voted yes, if it makes her happy. I think she has the right to choose what she does.

BUT, I would like to add that I do NOT think women should get these just because they think they need to be larger or more firm or whatever. I think breasts are beautiful in all sizes and I think natural breasts of any size look much better than big fakies. In fact, I wish mine were smaller!

pure energy · 07-02-2004, 09:36 PM

If she wants to, why not? it will be an advantage to me anyway.

jawanda · 07-02-2004, 09:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tootie
I voted yes, if it makes her happy. I think she has the right to choose what she does.

BUT, I would like to add that I do NOT think women should get these just because they think they need to be larger or more firm or whatever. I think breasts are beautiful in all sizes and I think natural breasts of any size look much better than big fakies. In fact, I wish mine were smaller!

I am starting to swing towards this opinion too ...

IF it was just about making them bigger, there would be no question, I would be opposed. But the "uneven-ness" is a BIG deal to her. I think it's silly, but she is really set on it ... says it has been bugging her for years. So, I'm trying to take the stance of "If it makes you happy, who am I to say I disagree?".

It still makes me squirm, but I do love this girl, and I do like boobies, so I'm trying to be understanding. But I still flip back and forward on it daily ... I can sympathize, but then when I think of the reality of it I have to tell her that I just don't agree.

Sigh ... what are you gonna do. I'm torn.

-P

pimplink · 07-03-2004, 01:52 AM

If you think she's gorgeous then there's no need for any boob-job at all.

Tempest · 07-03-2004, 01:56 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PrivateIvy
It is normal to have one smaller than the other...
Don't fix it if it aint broke

Exactly what Ivy said.....

By the way... This thread is useless without pics....

TheSwed · 07-03-2004, 01:57 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PrivateIvy
It is normal to have one smaller than the other...

Don't fix it if it aint broke

Ivy

Mike Okitch · 07-03-2004, 01:57 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by pimplink
If you think she's gorgeous then there's no need for any boob-job at all.

What he said

phogirl69 · 07-03-2004, 02:03 AM

This has nothing to do with the topic really, but I'm pissed so I felt like posting this

My ex boyfriend once gave me an ultimatum, he told me that if I wanted to stay with him, I HAD to get a boob job. He told me that before he used to love me the way that I was when we first met, but that he is REALLY into big boobs now, and that if I got a boob job for him it would show him that I really loved him.

It wasn't even a request, or a suggestion, it was an ultimatum, if I didn't do it he would break up with me. But the thing was even though it was his idea, he wanted me to pay for ALL of it, he didn't even want to chip in because he claims he has no money.
He was 23 at the time, but he couldn't work because he had just gotten out of jail and his parents wanted him to go to college f/t.

I am surprised at a lot of guys not wanting their girls to get one, because mine gave me an ultimatum!! In order for me to be his perfect girlfriend, he also wanted me to gain weight so I could be more curvier a'la Carmen Electra, and to get some tattoos (because he thinks tattoos on girls are real hot) and he said only then I would be a perfect 10 and he would be proud to be seen with me.

We are no longer together, it's been a year since we broke up, but I'm still pissed and I hate him with a passion! I hope he never finds happiness and stays miserable forever!

What can I say, GFY is therapy for me!

Tempest · 07-03-2004, 02:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by phogirl69
He was 23 at the time, but he couldn't work because he had just gotten out of jail and his parents wanted him to go to college f/t.

I suspect that most of the guys that said "no boobjob" were quite a bit older than 23, and those that said "boobjob" are close to 23..

Libertine · 07-03-2004, 02:39 AM

In about 20% of all boobjobs, medium to severe encapsulation occurs. That's a one in five chance of boobs that feel like grapefruits.

Manowar · 07-03-2004, 02:42 AM

Yes, if it makes her feel better, she should do it

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Yes, if it makes her feel better, she should do it	4	21.05%
Yes, bigger boobs are never a bad thing	2	10.53%
No, she should play the hand she was dealt, and learn to be happy as is	8	42.11%
No, plastic surgery in general is wrong ... unless she's horrible disfigured	5	26.32%
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07-02-2004, 08:46 PM	#1
jawanda Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 6,040	Should my girlfriend get a boob-job? (Sorry, no pic) So my girlfriend wants to get a boob job. One of her breasts is EVER SO SLIGHTLY smaller than the otherone, and she says that it has bugged her for so long that is ready to finally just 'fix' it. Of course, while she's at it, she is going to increase her overall bust size from a larger B to a C. Call me crazy, but I feel really weird about it. I am coming around, but ... She's just so beautiful and perfect as is (Seriously, a gorgeous girl). What do you guys think? Thanks, -Phil PS- It's not the size of the boobs that bothers me, it's the idea of having surgery in order to change the way she looks. FUcking surgery! Last edited by jawanda; 07-02-2004 at 08:49 PM..

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PrivateIvy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: North Carolina Posts: 4,257	It is normal to have one smaller than the other... Don't fix it if it aint broke Ivy

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jawanda Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 6,040	Wow, amazing response. My girlfriend didn't want to post pics because she was sure that you guys would all say really mean things like "Freak, get those fixed" She has such a different perspective of her ta tas than what they really are. It makes me sad, I wish she realized how lovely they are ... Unless you see her naked or in a bathing suit and STARE for a LONG time you would never ever notice the size difference. So minimal. Thanks for the input people, -Phil

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doober Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: in yoOoo kitchen Posts: 6,984	it would be ludicrous of her to go through with it imho.

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wyldblyss Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Buck Starts Here Posts: 5,779	Hell no...like every 'set' on a human there is a slight difference...ears, hands, feet and yes, breasts. I have seen very few "excellent" boob jobs....many many more terrible ones. My friend had a boob job....had to have it "fixed" several times....first because she was disapointed in her size...she asked for a C and got a C...but it didn't seem big enough...so she got them bigger...but then one was higher than the other....then they were the same height...but looked different...then one went hard. So...after all of that....she is now saying her D is not big enough and she is considering going to at least a DD. My opinion? She thought bigger boobs would solve some need to make her stand out...and maybe at first it did...but now it isn't getting her what she was looking for...so she is moving up..and up. What she does is her own business...but man...she sounds awesome...you think she is the most beautiful thing there is....why change?

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tootie Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Planet Earp Posts: 6,041	I voted yes, if it makes her happy. I think she has the right to choose what she does. BUT, I would like to add that I do NOT think women should get these just because they think they need to be larger or more firm or whatever. I think breasts are beautiful in all sizes and I think natural breasts of any size look much better than big fakies. In fact, I wish mine were smaller! __________________

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07-03-2004, 02:03 AM	#20
phogirl69 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,330	This has nothing to do with the topic really, but I'm pissed so I felt like posting this My ex boyfriend once gave me an ultimatum, he told me that if I wanted to stay with him, I HAD to get a boob job. He told me that before he used to love me the way that I was when we first met, but that he is REALLY into big boobs now, and that if I got a boob job for him it would show him that I really loved him. It wasn't even a request, or a suggestion, it was an ultimatum, if I didn't do it he would break up with me. But the thing was even though it was his idea, he wanted me to pay for ALL of it, he didn't even want to chip in because he claims he has no money. He was 23 at the time, but he couldn't work because he had just gotten out of jail and his parents wanted him to go to college f/t. I am surprised at a lot of guys not wanting their girls to get one, because mine gave me an ultimatum!! In order for me to be his perfect girlfriend, he also wanted me to gain weight so I could be more curvier a'la Carmen Electra, and to get some tattoos (because he thinks tattoos on girls are real hot) and he said only then I would be a perfect 10 and he would be proud to be seen with me. We are no longer together, it's been a year since we broke up, but I'm still pissed and I hate him with a passion! I hope he never finds happiness and stays miserable forever! What can I say, GFY is therapy for me! Last edited by phogirl69; 07-03-2004 at 02:08 AM..

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Libertine sex dwarf Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 17,860	In about 20% of all boobjobs, medium to severe encapsulation occurs. That's a one in five chance of boobs that feel like grapefruits.

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Manowar jellyfish Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 71,528	Yes, if it makes her feel better, she should do it