"Does Pornography Degrade Women?" From a Woman's Perspective... - GoFuckYourself.com

Donny · 06-17-2004, 02:18 PM

One of my models wrote:

Women Posing Nude

I have to tell you, when someone says posing nude degrades women it infuriates me. Even more so if they mention something about making women "sex objects".

MEN once tried to force women into hiding their sexuality, with a lot of success. SOME women still let that policy run their life. I can't stand the thought of women letting the policy of men dictate what they do in life.

So... on to posing nude. Does nudity make a woman a "sex object"? Let's see... we were born naked, we take our clothes off every day to bathe, and we can't take our clothes with us when we leave this planet. I don't understand why people in this country can't figure out what most of Europe has realized for years: there is NOTHING wrong with being naked.

So what about posing erotically? Does THAT make a woman a "sex object"? No way! The fact is, women are sexual BEINGS. Hiding that simply gives power to the men who have told women over the years that they must behave in certain ways in order to be a "lady". The SAD thing is: even today WOMEN FALL FOR THAT LINE OF BULLSHIT!!

So WHAT if posing nude turns a man on ?!? Sometimes a BLOWING BREEZE turns a man on. It's NOT hard to do. Have you noticed how STUPID men act when they're really turned on? So WHO is in control? The man? Absolutely NOT! A woman could tell him to do ALMOST ANYTHING at that point and he'd do it JUST TO MAKE HER HAPPY.

I have to admit, I was nervous the first time I posed nude. I was also a little excited by the thought. Once I "pulled the trigger" and did it, I loved it! It was strangely liberating! I realized that the insecurities I had about my body were ridiculous. Why should I WANT to fit the mold that men say is the "PERFECT WOMAN"? And why did I let those ideas make me feel insecure about myself? Why?

My final thoughts on posing nude: more women need to break free from the ignorant rules our ultra conservative society says we must follow and JUST DO IT!

Meta Ridley · 06-17-2004, 02:35 PM

I think a better question is:

Where did she find the time between getting naked and her kitchen duties to write this?

Holly · 06-17-2004, 02:45 PM

Degrade *all* women? No.

Degrade *some* women? Yes. But only the ones who allow it.

bluff · 06-17-2004, 02:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Meta Ridley
I think a better question is:

Where did she find the time between getting naked and her kitchen duties to write this?

hahahhahaha

No, seriously, thanks for the good article

bluff · 06-17-2004, 02:48 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Holly
Degrade *all* women? No.

Degrade *some* women? Yes. But only the ones who allow it.

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LOOOOOL!

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aimeesweet · 06-17-2004, 02:52 PM

I competely agree with what your model wrote...personally I found posing nude to be a sexually liberating experience. Although there are many vocal critics of my chosen career, I love my job and I am very proud of who I am both personally and professionally. The people who matter most to me do not let societies puritanical views about posing nude shape their opinion of me as a person...God bless them for that!!!

Holly · 06-17-2004, 03:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by bluff
sexeducatoon?

LOOOOOL!

That's a very serious and well respected sexual education site. It's cited in the works of some of the most premier minds in sex education, you know.

FlyingIguana · 06-17-2004, 03:21 PM

lets all go run around the street nekked

Mr Pheer · 06-17-2004, 04:09 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by FlyingIguana
lets all go run around the street nekked

no fucking way... most people in the USA are overweight

Kimmykim · 06-17-2004, 04:22 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by aimeesweet
I competely agree with what your model wrote...personally I found posing nude to be a sexually liberating experience. Although there are many vocal critics of my chosen career, I love my job and I am very proud of who I am both personally and professionally. The people who matter most to me do not let societies puritanical views about posing nude shape their opinion of me as a person...God bless them for that!!!

As cute as you are Aimee, you've got nothing for people to be critical of!

As for the rest of it, if there were not girls that would pose nude among other things, everyone here who actually works in the industry would be working somewhere else...

NakedBo · 06-17-2004, 04:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Holly
Degrade *all* women? No.

Degrade *some* women? Yes. But only the ones who allow it.

I totaly agree with you

wyldblyss · 06-17-2004, 04:34 PM

Well, posing nude...couple of toys...no

Some of the shit I have seen? Hell ya!! The video where the guy calls this chick a bitch and shoves her head in a toilet? Some of the video content is in my opinion made to degrade women to appeal to those men who get off on shit like that.

FlyingIguana · 06-17-2004, 04:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MrPheer
no fucking way... most people in the USA are overweight

fat people need lovin too!

maybe people would take care of themselves a bit more, i doubt it tho

samuel · 06-17-2004, 04:56 PM

your model is stupid... fuck her.. why she was doing that?

Samuel

warlock5 · 06-17-2004, 04:57 PM

If porn is degrading to women, why isn't it degrading to men?

lazycash · 06-17-2004, 05:54 PM

Maybe not posing, but I tend to think a woman getting slapped around on a double anal gang bang is being degraded.

MiSsBeHeaDReSs · 06-17-2004, 05:59 PM

Good article, poorly written...
I like what she has to say though, it's all a question of context. Some porn is degrading to women, but hey, the women allow themselves to be degraded.
Either way, everyone in the united states is just waaaay too uptight about nudity. When i first moved here I was shocked.

aimeesweet · 06-17-2004, 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Kimmykim
As cute as you are Aimee, you've got nothing for people to be critical of!

As for the rest of it, if there were not girls that would pose nude among other things, everyone here who actually works in the industry would be working somewhere else...

Thanks Kimmy, you're an angel like always!

xoxo

SureFire · 06-17-2004, 06:48 PM

"Does Pornography Degrade Women?" From a Woman's Perspective...

Posing nude doesn?t degrade a female.

However, just think you are a naïve gorgeous female and you pose nude for a few bucks and your pictures are all over the internet, Victoria Secrets tells you that you are perfect but you exposed yourself in the wrong area?just lost a very good paying gig.

Or another scenario, in college you do a porn shots for some money and go into corporate land. Your job is secure and you are loving it till your boss says he/she needs to talk to you and gives you a glowing recommendation (male or female)?out of job.

Once again, there is nothing wrong with posing nude, but one takes the responsibility of their choices in the society they live in.

BTW, seeing a female choking on a cock and being fucked in both holes, IMO, is degrading for the female and the males.

Kimmykim · 06-17-2004, 06:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by aimeesweet
Thanks Kimmy, you're an angel like always!

xoxo

Let's hang out some this weekend my little chickadee

Babaganoosh · 06-17-2004, 06:54 PM

The women's lib movement invented the cumshot.

the indigo · 06-17-2004, 07:12 PM

This is an entertainment industry. Stop taking everything so seriously.

A double anal + gagging might look degrading if you take the film and all the actors seriously... THE EXACT SAME WAY as if you go see an action film from hollywood tonight and take every murders or hard scene seriously.

It's degrading in the eyes of the someone who likes to degrade. A porn film presents nothing but acting, and girl(s) in each scene are only doing their jobs as actors. Males buy porn to satisfy their male instincts. It's all natural. Do you prefer them to cheat on you and go get their blowjob somewhere else?

Do you think getting paid 30k per year to do paperwork is different? No... you're still 'exploited' in some way. If they pay you 30k per year, it's only because they make 40k with you.

We are all exploited in a way or another, so chill out, and remember, the adult industry is an entertainment industry.

MakeMeGrrrrowl · 06-17-2004, 07:14 PM

It's not degrading to me. Only the actions of the women in the porn could make it degrading...and that's their choice.

06-17-2004, 02:18 PM	#1
Donny As you wish... Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 13,754	"Does Pornography Degrade Women?" From a Woman's Perspective... One of my models wrote: Women Posing Nude I have to tell you, when someone says posing nude degrades women it infuriates me. Even more so if they mention something about making women "sex objects". MEN once tried to force women into hiding their sexuality, with a lot of success. SOME women still let that policy run their life. I can't stand the thought of women letting the policy of men dictate what they do in life. So... on to posing nude. Does nudity make a woman a "sex object"? Let's see... we were born naked, we take our clothes off every day to bathe, and we can't take our clothes with us when we leave this planet. I don't understand why people in this country can't figure out what most of Europe has realized for years: there is NOTHING wrong with being naked. So what about posing erotically? Does THAT make a woman a "sex object"? No way! The fact is, women are sexual BEINGS. Hiding that simply gives power to the men who have told women over the years that they must behave in certain ways in order to be a "lady". The SAD thing is: even today WOMEN FALL FOR THAT LINE OF BULLSHIT!! So WHAT if posing nude turns a man on ?!? Sometimes a BLOWING BREEZE turns a man on. It's NOT hard to do. Have you noticed how STUPID men act when they're really turned on? So WHO is in control? The man? Absolutely NOT! A woman could tell him to do ALMOST ANYTHING at that point and he'd do it JUST TO MAKE HER HAPPY. I have to admit, I was nervous the first time I posed nude. I was also a little excited by the thought. Once I "pulled the trigger" and did it, I loved it! It was strangely liberating! I realized that the insecurities I had about my body were ridiculous. Why should I WANT to fit the mold that men say is the "PERFECT WOMAN"? And why did I let those ideas make me feel insecure about myself? Why? My final thoughts on posing nude: more women need to break free from the ignorant rules our ultra conservative society says we must follow and JUST DO IT!

06-17-2004, 02:35 PM	#2
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06-17-2004, 02:45 PM	#3
Holly Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Jesusland Posts: 10,017	Degrade all women? No. Degrade some women? Yes. But only the ones who allow it. __________________ War National Damn Champions Eagle

06-17-2004, 05:54 PM	#17
lazycash Troll Patrol Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Local Socal Posts: 15,214	Maybe not posing, but I tend to think a woman getting slapped around on a double anal gang bang is being degraded. __________________ "WTF, on google you can find the answer to every question in human history, EXCEPT how to convert cams.. Its crazy..." VenusBlogger

06-17-2004, 05:59 PM	#18
MiSsBeHeaDReSs Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: I'm the girl next door ;) ICQ~ 338579597 Posts: 534	Good article, poorly written... I like what she has to say though, it's all a question of context. Some porn is degrading to women, but hey, the women allow themselves to be degraded. Either way, everyone in the united states is just waaaay too uptight about nudity. When i first moved here I was shocked. __________________ Why geeks like computers: unzip, strip, touch, finger, grep, mount, fsck, ram, more, yes,fsck,fsck,fsck,umount, sleep.

06-17-2004, 02:49 PM	#6
bluff Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Bluffville Posts: 6,253	Pulled from sexeducatoon.com: Everything else - is just an Ass Fucking. ; ) Viewer Discretion Advised sexeducatoon.com ... Begins- promoting ABEN.com live fishing streams as they have begun to fight CIRCADIA a company which appears would want sexeducatoon.com to give all of it's 20 members to them, without any payment. This situation is unacceptable to a website that MUST remain 100% ambiguous - like it has since inception. [email protected] FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Thursday, October 30, 2003 CIRCADIA ? and ABEN.com ?Challenging CIRCADIA?s claims are in the best interest of our bottom line.? Source: ABEN Inc. - ABEN ? - Anal Boffing and Eating Network, the smallest provider of adult Fishing and Jerk Off content on the Internet, has joined the Immediate Promotion of Masturbation Association (IPMA) in a legal defense against CIRCADIA. IPMA employs Fish & and other small amphibians in it's pursuit of satisfaction and represents some of the strangest folks you will ever meet in this action. For more information on CIRCADIA: http://www.circadiatechnologies.com - CIRCADIA http://www.ipma.org - Internet Promotion of Maturbation Association http://www.fishfuck.com - Fish & Other Small Amphibians http://www.imsa.tv - Internet Masturbation and Sucking Alliance http://www.fuckthepatient.com - FuckThePatient.com http://www.firstanalfuck.com - FirstAnalFuck.com For more information on ABEN.com ABEN.net (http://www.aben.net)

06-17-2004, 02:52 PM	#7
aimeesweet Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Southern California Posts: 2,917	I competely agree with what your model wrote...personally I found posing nude to be a sexually liberating experience. Although there are many vocal critics of my chosen career, I love my job and I am very proud of who I am both personally and professionally. The people who matter most to me do not let societies puritanical views about posing nude shape their opinion of me as a person...God bless them for that!!!

06-17-2004, 03:21 PM	#9
FlyingIguana aspiring banker Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: toronto Posts: 10,870	lets all go run around the street nekked

06-17-2004, 04:34 PM	#13
wyldblyss Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Buck Starts Here Posts: 5,779	Well, posing nude...couple of toys...no Some of the shit I have seen? Hell ya!! The video where the guy calls this chick a bitch and shoves her head in a toilet? Some of the video content is in my opinion made to degrade women to appeal to those men who get off on shit like that.

06-17-2004, 04:56 PM	#15
samuel Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: email address Posts: 1,986	your model is stupid... fuck her.. why she was doing that? Samuel

06-17-2004, 04:57 PM	#16
warlock5 Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Uranus Posts: 2,808	If porn is degrading to women, why isn't it degrading to men?

06-17-2004, 06:48 PM	#20
SureFire Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: internet Posts: 4,398	"Does Pornography Degrade Women?" From a Woman's Perspective... Posing nude doesn?t degrade a female. However, just think you are a naïve gorgeous female and you pose nude for a few bucks and your pictures are all over the internet, Victoria Secrets tells you that you are perfect but you exposed yourself in the wrong area?just lost a very good paying gig. Or another scenario, in college you do a porn shots for some money and go into corporate land. Your job is secure and you are loving it till your boss says he/she needs to talk to you and gives you a glowing recommendation (male or female)?out of job. Once again, there is nothing wrong with posing nude, but one takes the responsibility of their choices in the society they live in. BTW, seeing a female choking on a cock and being fucked in both holes, IMO, is degrading for the female and the males.

06-17-2004, 06:54 PM	#22
Babaganoosh ♥♥♥ Likes Hugs ♥♥♥ Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: /home Posts: 15,841	The women's lib movement invented the cumshot. __________________ I like pie.

06-17-2004, 07:12 PM	#23
the indigo Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: North America Posts: 2,016	This is an entertainment industry. Stop taking everything so seriously. A double anal + gagging might look degrading if you take the film and all the actors seriously... THE EXACT SAME WAY as if you go see an action film from hollywood tonight and take every murders or hard scene seriously. It's degrading in the eyes of the someone who likes to degrade. A porn film presents nothing but acting, and girl(s) in each scene are only doing their jobs as actors. Males buy porn to satisfy their male instincts. It's all natural. Do you prefer them to cheat on you and go get their blowjob somewhere else? Do you think getting paid 30k per year to do paperwork is different? No... you're still 'exploited' in some way. If they pay you 30k per year, it's only because they make 40k with you. We are all exploited in a way or another, so chill out, and remember, the adult industry is an entertainment industry. __________________ "There he goes. One of God's own prototypes. A high-powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die." -Hunter S. Thompson

06-17-2004, 07:14 PM	#24
MakeMeGrrrrowl Grrrrrrrrr Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Dreamland Posts: 4,974	It's not degrading to me. Only the actions of the women in the porn could make it degrading...and that's their choice.