Why do you have rules ? Because one of you may feel hurt when this rule wouldn't exist ? Because it only doesn't hurt when you have sex with someone else at the same time and all this horniness supresses the pain ? So much for separating love and sex...go tell me I don't understand it, go tell me I wouldn't know what I'm talking about...it's all from my own experience.

NONE.. she also has to cover her face and ankles in public.

I know what you mean ... my ex gf lied when we started dating and had that talk she said 4... after 6 months together she fessed up that I was actually #13 ...and she was only 18 at the time ...sheesh :2 cents:

I like women who know what they are doing in bed, so the more the merrier.

I'm there to make love not give out lessons.

enough so she's good in bed, but not as much to make me feel like I'm dating a slut

I don't wanna know...

2 is the limit

how old are the women you date?

It is funny to see all these guys that only want virgins or girl that have been with 3 or less guys. I figured that would not be the case for porn site owners :1orglaugh

like they'll tell you anyways...

5+ is too much

any pics :Graucho

one thing i find funny, you guys just aren't being realistic. if you just date normally by like 25sh you'll sleep with on avg what 5-10 at least? i'm just guessing here, but some people just don't seem to be realistic.

5000

You are the man! :)

Rules just make it a level playing ground. Personally, I wouldn't mind if my wife slept with other guys but she doesn't feel the same way about me with other women. And that's fine me. I respect that and would never fool around on her. She is into swinging and having a good time, though. We have rules to make it fun for both of us and to ensure that both partners feelings are taken into full consideration at all times.

There's no pain being supressed .. if there was why would we swing? The fact is that we get off on seeing our partner being pleasured by someone else. It's like a fetish.. and not everyone understands other people's fetishes.

If you've given swinging a try and found out it wasn't for you then great, but you're only talking about your own experience and feelings. Swingers that seek the lifestyle for the long term do it because they truly enjoy it. Otherwise why would they if it hurts to see their partner with someone else?

Yep, though you can pump it to 6"5 in my case :winkwink: