Premarital sex is wrong

[JamesCrawshaw]

What do you guys think of premarital sex?
I've been thinking about this, and as guys, we always wanna' marry lgirls who are virgins (or girls who havn't slept around). But what I think is, how can we expect to find those kind of girls, if men won't be prepared to do the same?

Think about it, some men (usually those of lesser intellect and lesser morals, drunkards, rugby players, clubbers, drug-takers) just sleep around to impress their friends, so they can boast at the pub on a FRiday night about how much "nookie" they've had. Any man who just does things to impress their friends is a worthless fool, and if they don't grow outta' that by the time they reach 18 or 19, then it'll take years to change.

I tell you this, it says in the Bible:
2 Timothy 3


Godlessness in the Last Days

1But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. 2People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, 4treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God-- 5having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them.

It says, have nothing to do with them!! So we have friends like that is a sin.

If this applies to you, then change, for the better, and be your own person. You're the only guy who will suffer in the long term.

To me, those kind of guys are the most insecure, worthless dregs you can imagine.
And then, they guys get to their 20s and want to marry a virgin. Talk about hyprocrisy!!!

2 Timothy 3:6-9
These kind of people will never be happy, but as it also says:
6They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over weak-willed women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires, 7always learning but never able to acknowledge the truth. 8Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so also these men oppose the truth--men of depraved minds, who, as far as the faith is concerned, are rejected. 9But they will not get very far because, as in the case of those men, their folly will be clear to everyone.

These men will never get very far in life, these people populate the polytechnic and lesser-universities, doing silly courses. Future employers will hardly want to know them, especially when 2/3 of people who leave university don't get jobs that they originally wanted.
"You reap what you sow" and I tell you, the the reaping of some men, and some women, will be catastrophic, economically and financially.

These guys will pay the price for their actions, and it will be a heavy price.

and if I've just convinced afew of you guys, then I've done my job

[LauraLee]

ohhh goodness, me thinks this thread ought to get interesting...

[LadyMischief]

Go choke yourself on the nearest bible, idiot.

[ocho-ocho]

i gOt pregnant right before marriage....for meeh...
it doesn't really mattah, as long as you love the person...why NOT?

[pussyluver]

Not sure this is the right board for this poster.

[Corleone]

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[TheLegacy]

actually I prayed and am engaged to that girl you were talking about who is a virgin who saved herself for the right guy.

Being in the seminary for 7 years I do think I have some qualifications for speak up here.

Why not take the approach of not sleeping with every piece of carpet out there? Simply put, not too many people want commitment anymore and prefer the "fast food" approach to relationships. Those who do want commitment are smart enough to first find a 'friend' - someone who is compatable outside the bedroom (*since marriage means more than free sex)

Is premarital sex wrong? If you are a religious person, then 'yes', if you simply want to avoid std's then wear a friggin condom and practise safe sex. Biblical opinion on premarital sex had nothing to do with diseases in as much as the social stigmatism of not being pure - and the females value in land / cattle etc. would decline if she wasnt pure.

remember, when the bible was written, women were treated as property and could easily be divorced by saying it 3x's "I divorce you" - today, it is a good idea only to show the person you really feel is "the one" for you that you are not the person to cheat on them and be unfaithful in marriage simply because when you were not married, you were able to control yourself.

And we all know how many marriages today are broken up by sleeping around. But please, do not throw the bible at us pushing ethics and morals without understanding it...especially when the more important issue is not whether someone is sleeping around - but whether they beleive the bible and God to begin with


baby steps

[SABAI]

anyone is gonna boot this troll?

[JamesCrawshaw]

return to God and become chaste, or burn, choice is yours

repent or perish you pornogrpahic eveil people

[LadyMischief]

Originally posted by JamesCrawshaw
return to God and become chaste, or burn, choice is yours

repent or perish you pornogrpahic eveil people

I'm a witch so by your standards I'm already damned. Shoo before I infect you with my demonic ways.

[JamesCrawshaw]

troll?
all you guys are knee deep in sin, and I'm a troll. I'm a good man tryng to save some worthless assholes like you, I'm no troll..and I'm not threatening or harassing anyone, so I;m no troll

[Spunky]

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[TheLegacy]

do you even have a clue on what your saying??


Sin and the forgiveness of it - even pointing fingers is not your job to do!!! You are not God, nor anyone's judge... so leave it