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BradM · 06-09-2004, 01:34 PM

Yeah yeah I am a fresh little boy. Shush.

I need to know something that has been bothering me for like 2 weeks.

I met my parents up at a market and I did some shopping with them because it was the last day I was going to be around for a little while and wanted to spend time with them.

When I got there I saw a girl at the till that was REALLY familliar but I couldn't place her. All I knew was she was absolutely stunning gorgous and I couldn't stop looking back while shopping. I noticed she kept doing the same thing.

Anyways I got up to the till and when I was about to leave I said:
"I know you... you went to ABC Highschool?"
Her: "Yeah! And so did you!"
Me: "Lauren?"
Her: "Brad?"

Then after that she said "yeah I thought that was you but I was too shy to ask" and I just replied "Ahhh it was driving me crazy I had to know. Well have a good one."

And I left.

The problem is that she has been on my mind 24/7 since then (2 weeks ago) because I had the worlds biggest crush on her in highschool. I used to skip math and go to her sewing class. She was in the popular crowd but for some reason we really got along and were good friends. But this was the first time I saw her in 3-4 years.

My question. Should I go back up to the market when I am back in town and ask her to coffee or something to catch up?
Or do you think I would be too forward.

I am sure she is not single.. I mean shes gorgous. But I just want to find out I guess.

What do you think? Go back up? Or just forget about it?

twistyneck · 06-09-2004, 01:35 PM

Go beat off and get her out of your system. Chicks are bad news.

BradM · 06-09-2004, 01:36 PM

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Originally posted by twistyneck
Go beat off and get her out of your system. Chicks are bad news.

Already tried that, she's still on my mind and I am now less probably 2 pints of cum.

zzgundamnzz · 06-09-2004, 01:37 PM

Go back that is if you can find her again...

Ask her to some coffee to catch up on old times

Doctor Dre · 06-09-2004, 01:37 PM

I dunno about chicks from highschool seriously ... maybe but most of them would have the reaction of "it was in high school" ... :P

BradM · 06-09-2004, 01:38 PM

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Originally posted by Doctor Dre
I dunno about chicks from highschool seriously ... maybe but most of them would have the reaction of "it was in high school" ... :P

Granted and I agree normally. But I mean there is always after highschool, which to some people is just a "new beggining with old ties".

I'm not looking for first date sex... I just really liked her and wouldn't mind having her somewhere in my life again. She was a kind person.

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 06-09-2004, 01:38 PM

duh, ask her out !

mindoza · 06-09-2004, 01:39 PM

if you want to keep thinking what could of been then do nothing..other wise take a chance see what happens.

Doctor Dre · 06-09-2004, 01:40 PM

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Originally posted by BradM
Granted and I agree normally. But I mean there is always after highschool, which to some people is just a "new beggining with old ties".

I'm not looking for first date sex... I just really liked her and wouldn't mind having her somewhere in my life again. She was a kind person.

look ... what the fuck you got to loose ???

If you see her again, go hit it ... if it doesn't work then move on . People care too much or are too shy ... I mean you aiin't got NOTHING to loose, you don'T even talk to her anymore. It's not like she was your best friend

=^..^= · 06-09-2004, 01:41 PM

GO and ask!!!!!!!!

maybe she liked you in highschool too you never know - she did say she was "too shy to ask" even now - perhaps she was shy then too.

BradM · 06-09-2004, 01:41 PM

Heh, thanks folks... all I needed was a couple people to say it. And shit, if Dre can talk to chicks so can I.

Kitty: Good point buddy...

TheLegacy · 06-09-2004, 01:42 PM

dude.. start treating women like friends first. whether shes single or not.. if she likes you enough, maybe she will drop her boyfriend and start up with you.

dont take it too seriously... crush or not.. treat her like a human being..

Lauren · 06-09-2004, 01:42 PM

seize the moment, ask her out. you said it yourself, you got along during your HS days. so why not reminisce?? that's a good way to start. goodluck

BradM · 06-09-2004, 01:43 PM

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Originally posted by TheLegacy
dont take it too seriously... crush or not.. treat her like a human being..

Absolutely, I always do. I mean why would I treat her any differently?

HeatherF · 06-09-2004, 01:44 PM

You should go back and see if she would like to go for coffee... nothing wrong with having a friend to hang out with.... you don't have to date her to be around her... and if you both enjoyed each others company once before without problems, why can't you do it again....

Jer · 06-09-2004, 01:44 PM

Ask her out for a coffee or anything if you can find her again.

Tam · 06-09-2004, 01:46 PM

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Originally posted by zzgundamnzz
Go back that is if you can find her again...

Ask her to some coffee to catch up on old times

Yup, I would completely agree with this. No harm in having a cup of coffee and if she is married or taken, then you are old friends from High School and meeting for coffee in a public place, no harm done.

bdld · 06-09-2004, 01:46 PM

get some balls and ask her out, the worst thing that can happen is she'll say no.

BradM · 06-09-2004, 01:47 PM

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Originally posted by bdld
get some balls and ask her out, the worst thing that can happen is she'll say no.

I'll need to borrow yours for the day... you mind?

Marie · 06-09-2004, 01:53 PM

Yes! Yes!! Go back!! You should have done that even earlier! Kitty is right. Oh and you haven't seen her for all that time so if she says no, it's not a big deal.

Good luck Brad!! And keep us posted.

BradM · 06-09-2004, 01:58 PM

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Originally posted by Maria M.
Yes! Yes!! Go back!! You should have done that even earlier! Kitty is right. Oh and you haven't seen her for all that time so if she says no, it's not a big deal.

Good luck Brad!! And keep us posted.

Thanks Marie

Lucy · 06-09-2004, 02:06 PM

go back and ask her out, after her reaction on the first meeting in the shop, I guarantee you that she is thinking about you like you do about her right now. Remember, if you don't try you won't ever know, so I wish you good luck and let us know....
Crossing the fingers for you!!!

B Sandwich · 06-09-2004, 02:11 PM

put a sock or two in your pants and wear tight pants when u go back in. She's sure to say yes!

PBucksLauren · 06-09-2004, 02:32 PM

If you're starting an entire thread about this lady... she must be pretty special. Get your ass back there and ask her out! The worst thing she can say is no.

Holly · 06-09-2004, 03:21 PM

Right. Worst case is no and/or she has a boyfriend. If you're too embarrassed to go back, do some social engineering, get her phone number, and call her instead.

But remember this- even if she has a boyfriend, she will probably still be flattered and it could set you up for the future. I have 3 or 4 friends who are with someone now that they ran into after not seeing him for awhile, but had a boyfriend at the time and had to turn him down. Just as soon as their relationships ended, they were immediately thinking about him and tracked him down.

Elli · 06-09-2004, 03:35 PM

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Originally posted by Holly
Right. Worst case is no and/or she has a boyfriend. If you're too embarrassed to go back, do some social engineering, get her phone number, and call her instead.

But remember this- even if she has a boyfriend, she will probably still be flattered and it could set you up for the future. I have 3 or 4 friends who are with someone now that they ran into after not seeing him for awhile, but had a boyfriend at the time and had to turn him down. Just as soon as their relationships ended, they were immediately thinking about him and tracked him down.

Yup. Go for it, Brad. No fear, as they say.

silent moan · 06-09-2004, 03:43 PM

there's no bad in tring, so go back and look for her

The Heron · 06-09-2004, 04:00 PM

This one time at band camp....

Jill_J · 06-09-2004, 04:06 PM

if she`s still in your mind, go ahead - find her

Mr. Marks · 06-09-2004, 07:20 PM

what the mind dwells upon, the body acts upon.

two pints of cum, huh? youre totally crazy about her.

give it a shot.

Jman · 06-09-2004, 08:14 PM

You do what you have to do to make number 1 happy.

If you really want to see her again go for hit.

530riders · 06-09-2004, 08:16 PM

u are a idiot for not getting her info when u talked to her.

yes definitly go back.

don't live life with regrets bro

CBytch · 06-09-2004, 08:26 PM

Nothing wrong with taking her out for a coffee

Catch up on what you've each been doing and see where it goes from there.

Screaming · 06-09-2004, 08:30 PM

why not go ask her, all she can do is say no, and then you will rest easy knowing you tried, and maybe you could leave her with something like well if you ever wanna go out give me a call or something like that i dunno

PiTaAnGeL · 06-09-2004, 09:23 PM

"Carpe Diem"- sieze the day

reynold · 06-09-2004, 09:43 PM

I was once told that you better act now and see the results, rather than not doing anything and missing what could've been the best thing in your life. Goodluck!

tranza · 06-09-2004, 09:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by twistyneck
Go beat off and get her out of your system. Chicks are bad news.

Lol... Typical GFY answer...

06-09-2004, 01:34 PM	#1
BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	Ok gotta ask a question about women (help?) Yeah yeah I am a fresh little boy. Shush. I need to know something that has been bothering me for like 2 weeks. I met my parents up at a market and I did some shopping with them because it was the last day I was going to be around for a little while and wanted to spend time with them. When I got there I saw a girl at the till that was REALLY familliar but I couldn't place her. All I knew was she was absolutely stunning gorgous and I couldn't stop looking back while shopping. I noticed she kept doing the same thing. Anyways I got up to the till and when I was about to leave I said: "I know you... you went to ABC Highschool?" Her: "Yeah! And so did you!" Me: "Lauren?" Her: "Brad?" Then after that she said "yeah I thought that was you but I was too shy to ask" and I just replied "Ahhh it was driving me crazy I had to know. Well have a good one." And I left. The problem is that she has been on my mind 24/7 since then (2 weeks ago) because I had the worlds biggest crush on her in highschool. I used to skip math and go to her sewing class. She was in the popular crowd but for some reason we really got along and were good friends. But this was the first time I saw her in 3-4 years. My question. Should I go back up to the market when I am back in town and ask her to coffee or something to catch up? Or do you think I would be too forward. I am sure she is not single.. I mean shes gorgous. But I just want to find out I guess. What do you think? Go back up? Or just forget about it?

06-09-2004, 01:37 PM	#4
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06-09-2004, 01:35 PM	#2
twistyneck So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Hanging by the neck until dead. Posts: 4,660	Go beat off and get her out of your system. Chicks are bad news.

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bdld $100,000 Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 11,452	get some balls and ask her out, the worst thing that can happen is she'll say no.

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Marie Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: Netherlands Posts: 3,024	Yes! Yes!! Go back!! You should have done that even earlier! Kitty is right. Oh and you haven't seen her for all that time so if she says no, it's not a big deal. Good luck Brad!! And keep us posted. __________________ Maria - maria at photorama.nl - Photorama International CONTENT LOADS of content in various niches - many photo/video combinations! CONTENT

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Lucy Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 3,969	go back and ask her out, after her reaction on the first meeting in the shop, I guarantee you that she is thinking about you like you do about her right now. Remember, if you don't try you won't ever know, so I wish you good luck and let us know.... Crossing the fingers for you!!! __________________ http://www.adultczechcontent.com ICQ: 288414057 email: [email protected]

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Holly Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Jesusland Posts: 10,017	Right. Worst case is no and/or she has a boyfriend. If you're too embarrassed to go back, do some social engineering, get her phone number, and call her instead. But remember this- even if she has a boyfriend, she will probably still be flattered and it could set you up for the future. I have 3 or 4 friends who are with someone now that they ran into after not seeing him for awhile, but had a boyfriend at the time and had to turn him down. Just as soon as their relationships ended, they were immediately thinking about him and tracked him down. __________________ War National Damn Champions Eagle

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silent moan Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 1,908	there's no bad in tring, so go back and look for her

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530riders Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 184	u are a idiot for not getting her info when u talked to her. yes definitly go back. don't live life with regrets bro

06-09-2004, 08:26 PM	#33
CBytch Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Toronto Posts: 257	Nothing wrong with taking her out for a coffee Catch up on what you've each been doing and see where it goes from there.

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