Touching on something KRL posted yesterday... - GoFuckYourself.com

eroswebmaster · 05-31-2004, 03:26 PM

I would bump it or link to it but the fucking search is down so here it goes.

It's about doing biz on this board and your behavior as a representative of you and your business.

I've been posting on this board since 2001, July will be 3 years.

In the beginning I came on this board looking to mingle, do biz but soon I got caught up in the shit flinging, the pissing matches etc.

I made some friends, but also made some unnecessary enemies.

I did't take a lot of what I said seriously, some people took it a bit too serious...why hell the motto has always been..."It's GFY what do you expect?"

Anyway, I focused on myself, made some changes toned it down on the boards tried to stay away from political debates that served no purpose other than to create animosity...I avoided drama and pissing matches..and guess what happened?

Doors opened. People took time to find out who I really was and what I had to offer this industry and vice versa.

Did I change who I really am? Hell no...I still speak my mind if it's necessary and warranted and I stand up for what I think is right.

However I have learned to pick and choose my battles.

KRL brought up some valid points. It's not that you should be kissing some of the bigger webmasters asses...but there's no reason to go around and start pissing with them it will serve no purpose other than to slow your growth in this biz.

jm_247live · 05-31-2004, 03:28 PM

well said and I agree

StuartD · 05-31-2004, 03:30 PM

absotively correct

freeadultcontent · 05-31-2004, 03:32 PM

Shhh your letting the secrets out.

MrIzzz · 05-31-2004, 03:42 PM

stfu n00b

much love for ya eros.......and well said. i read that post too, and i totally agree with approaching certain people with good manners in business.

unless someone fucks with me, i wont go out of my way to be a prick on the boards

eroswebmaster · 05-31-2004, 03:48 PM

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Originally posted by MrIzzz
stfu n00b

No sweet love you for long time.

MrIzzz · 05-31-2004, 03:49 PM

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Originally posted by eroswebmaster
No sweet love you for long time.

Ross · 05-31-2004, 03:50 PM

Nice post, so true. Why make life harder than it needs to be? Thats what I live by

Nysus · 05-31-2004, 03:51 PM

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Originally posted by jm_247live
well said and I agree

Cheers,
Matt

EviLGuY · 05-31-2004, 03:55 PM

Good advice. You can waste so much time in pointless internet pissing contests.. and when you are done, no matter who "won" you are both covered in urine.

MrIzzz · 05-31-2004, 04:00 PM

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Originally posted by EviLGuY
Good advice. You can waste so much time in pointless internet pissing contests.. and when you are done, no matter who "won" you are both covered in urine.

soo true, when i read drama threads i usually dont take sides, but i look at the 2 posters and i think that they are only tarnishing their names. unless they have legitimate proof, of course

FlyingIguana · 05-31-2004, 04:03 PM

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Originally posted by EviLGuY
Good advice. You can waste so much time in pointless internet pissing contests.. and when you are done, no matter who "won" you are both covered in urine.

actually, that turns some people on...

KRL · 05-31-2004, 04:17 PM

Thanks Eros.

Hey all I'm saying is life is really really short. I wake up sometimes, look in the mirror and just say holy fuck I'm going to be labeled a senior citizen in 9 more years, how did my youth go by so fast? It really solidifies the perspective that every minute counts and those minutes should be made as productive as possible.

Hell yeh, fun is fun too, so is horsing around, getting into verbal skirmishes just for the drama of it and all the other craziness that goes on in here.

But at the same time some people take things way too seriously and you develop some real evil like hostilities. That's not what life was made for. We have to watch it on the TV all day and night, it shouldn't be brought in here like that if we can avoid it as much as possible. Where genuine hate and bitterness evolves between people past the joking around levels. Where you're insulting people intensely and meaning it.

You guys are so lucky to be young. I would give anything to be just starting out again in my 20's and having the Net as a tool for business. When I was your age we didn't even have PC's yet for christ's sakes. Our coolest game was fucking Pong and we thought that was impressive technology at the time.

So it kills me to see so many people go at each other when we could be having fun and helping strategize together, develop new ideas, defend the industry from the conservatives that want to destroy it, making our businesses grow through alliances, etc.

Positive energy is so fucking great. There's nothing like it. Negative energy is just plain awful. I hate seeing it and I hate feeling it on myself like anyone. So the point of my post was just too chill out when things get intense, think about the words you post before you hit submit. Some people do have a genuine weight problem, myself included, and nobody likes being made fun of and insulted when its for real and not just kidding around.

Peace and good vibes.

eroswebmaster · 05-31-2004, 04:25 PM

Hey KRL if you have that thread bookmarked please bump it...it had some good points I wanted to touch on but was out for most of the day.

Sly_RJ · 05-31-2004, 04:28 PM

I've toned it down quite a bit as well. Not EXACTLY sure why, but I think being too busy for silly little arguments is one of them.

Tala · 05-31-2004, 04:29 PM

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Originally posted by jm_247live
well said and I agree

Fletch XXX · 05-31-2004, 04:29 PM

I always bookmark KRL threads.

here you go.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...hreadid=304289

eroswebmaster · 05-31-2004, 04:54 PM

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Originally posted by Fletch XXX
I always bookmark KRL threads.

here you go.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...hreadid=304289

Thx man.

05-31-2004, 03:26 PM	#1
eroswebmaster March 1st, 2003 Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Seat 4 @ Venetian Poker Room Posts: 20,295	Touching on something KRL posted yesterday... I would bump it or link to it but the fucking search is down so here it goes. It's about doing biz on this board and your behavior as a representative of you and your business. I've been posting on this board since 2001, July will be 3 years. In the beginning I came on this board looking to mingle, do biz but soon I got caught up in the shit flinging, the pissing matches etc. I made some friends, but also made some unnecessary enemies. I did't take a lot of what I said seriously, some people took it a bit too serious...why hell the motto has always been..."It's GFY what do you expect?" Anyway, I focused on myself, made some changes toned it down on the boards tried to stay away from political debates that served no purpose other than to create animosity...I avoided drama and pissing matches..and guess what happened? Doors opened. People took time to find out who I really was and what I had to offer this industry and vice versa. Did I change who I really am? Hell no...I still speak my mind if it's necessary and warranted and I stand up for what I think is right. However I have learned to pick and choose my battles. KRL brought up some valid points. It's not that you should be kissing some of the bigger webmasters asses...but there's no reason to go around and start pissing with them it will serve no purpose other than to slow your growth in this biz. __________________ For rent - ICQ 127-027-910 Click here for more details

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05-31-2004, 03:50 PM	#8
Ross Ik ben een aap Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Traffic Force Towers, Canada! Posts: 18,874	Nice post, so true. Why make life harder than it needs to be? Thats what I live by

05-31-2004, 03:55 PM	#10
EviLGuY So Fucking Banned Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: malta Posts: 12,745	Good advice. You can waste so much time in pointless internet pissing contests.. and when you are done, no matter who "won" you are both covered in urine.

05-31-2004, 04:17 PM	#13
KRL Entrepreneur Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: USA Posts: 31,429	Thanks Eros. Hey all I'm saying is life is really really short. I wake up sometimes, look in the mirror and just say holy fuck I'm going to be labeled a senior citizen in 9 more years, how did my youth go by so fast? It really solidifies the perspective that every minute counts and those minutes should be made as productive as possible. Hell yeh, fun is fun too, so is horsing around, getting into verbal skirmishes just for the drama of it and all the other craziness that goes on in here. But at the same time some people take things way too seriously and you develop some real evil like hostilities. That's not what life was made for. We have to watch it on the TV all day and night, it shouldn't be brought in here like that if we can avoid it as much as possible. Where genuine hate and bitterness evolves between people past the joking around levels. Where you're insulting people intensely and meaning it. You guys are so lucky to be young. I would give anything to be just starting out again in my 20's and having the Net as a tool for business. When I was your age we didn't even have PC's yet for christ's sakes. Our coolest game was fucking Pong and we thought that was impressive technology at the time. So it kills me to see so many people go at each other when we could be having fun and helping strategize together, develop new ideas, defend the industry from the conservatives that want to destroy it, making our businesses grow through alliances, etc. Positive energy is so fucking great. There's nothing like it. Negative energy is just plain awful. I hate seeing it and I hate feeling it on myself like anyone. So the point of my post was just too chill out when things get intense, think about the words you post before you hit submit. Some people do have a genuine weight problem, myself included, and nobody likes being made fun of and insulted when its for real and not just kidding around. Peace and good vibes. __________________ If you would like to develop your domains, you can lease inexpensive foreign labor from the leaders in the field at iWebmasters.com TO LOWER YOUR COSTS AND INCREASE YOUR PRODUCTION! * * * * * * * * * * * * Domains Adult News KRL's Newsletter Biz Tips Just Listed Domains

05-31-2004, 04:25 PM	#14
eroswebmaster March 1st, 2003 Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Seat 4 @ Venetian Poker Room Posts: 20,295	Hey KRL if you have that thread bookmarked please bump it...it had some good points I wanted to touch on but was out for most of the day. __________________ For rent - ICQ 127-027-910 Click here for more details

05-31-2004, 04:28 PM	#15
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05-31-2004, 04:29 PM	#17
Fletch XXX GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: that 504 Posts: 60,840	I always bookmark KRL threads. here you go. http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...hreadid=304289 __________________ Want an Android App for your tube, membership, or free site? Need banners or promo material? Hit us up (ICQ Fletch: 148841377) or email me fletchxxx at gmail.com - recent work - About me