Is Cyber-Sex CHEATING? - GoFuckYourself.com

Babagirls18 · 01-29-2001, 04:45 PM

For those who have "cyber sex" <not sure how THAT one works...but...> and if you are in a serious relationship, IS CYBER SEX CHEATING?? Hmmm....

Dirtypainter · 01-29-2001, 04:54 PM

Cyber sex. hell what drive do you use. I can't to my harddrive. and I sure the hell isn't going to stick it into the floppy drive or the automatic cup holder.

[This message has been edited by Dirtypainter (edited 01-29-2001).]

TobeRmorY · 01-29-2001, 05:38 PM

I think cybersex is great. Clean, Safe, and free! My girlfriend gets a bit jealous though! Don't understand it.

misterwalrus · 01-29-2001, 07:33 PM

It all depends on where your head is!!

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FUCK ALL Y'ALL

Tam · 01-29-2001, 07:37 PM

There are people who think that an affair of the heart and mind is every bit as much cheating as is a physical affair. While I am tossed with this one.... I think it largely depends on the state of mind between you and the person you are having cybersex with and the people each of you are with.

I am a woman, and women tend to take a bit more to heart when it comes to having an affair of sorts involving the heart or mind. So I think this would involve talking to all parties involved before making this conclusion and seeing how each of you feel about it.

There are several different types of affairs and each person will view them differently. Not sure if this answered you really, but we had this discussion in a chathouse a long time ago and came to these conclusions.

Tam

WEBDUDE · 01-29-2001, 07:38 PM

I LUUUUUUUUUUUUURVE CYBERSEX!!!

I don't class it as cheating, coz it gets all the desires of doing it with someone else right out of your system.

AND THE BEST THING IS, YOU DON'T WAKE UP IN THE MORNING, LOOK WHOS IN THE BED WITH YOU AND SAY TO YOURSELF "JESUS! DID I REALLY DO IT WITH THAT!!!!!!!!"

hehehehe

angelduster · 01-29-2001, 09:00 PM

nothing is cheating as long as you don't get caught, but i am against cheating.sorry had to get some morals in there.

Bexman · 01-30-2001, 04:00 AM

Yeah, think its cheating, if you really imagine, you had sex with someone else...
but, what the f**k does your partner do with you, if you have the desire to rather sit in front of your computer wenkin' than to do something funny with your partner ??

Henrik · 01-30-2001, 07:24 AM

Since I only see my girlfriend once or twice a week, I think it's fair that I spank the monkey when she's not around. If I happen to be thinking of some random hot chick, I don't think that qualifies as cheating.

Bexman · 01-30-2001, 08:04 AM

Right Henrik,
if you randomly think of any chick it's no cheating, but if you have cybersex with a real chick on the other side and you tell her, what you usually should tell your girlfriend and think of her as a special sex partner, then i think it's kind of cheating...

Gemini · 01-30-2001, 08:20 AM

Judging by the way you brought it up... sounds as if the SO didn't have a clue that you were doing it and that in itself is cheating no matter how you delude yourself. Anytime you go behind your better halves back it had better be doing something for them such as a gift. lol
Fiddling around in any form is a sudden way to the single set. And men take it alot more to heart than you think! Its not just women. <S> Men just will go kick the others butt if they can find them. lol And of course that is their ticket to get even usually.
I learned morality from an American Indian after a long life of doing what I wanted. Want some culture shock?!?!

Tam · 01-30-2001, 08:32 AM

Gemini, I totally agree with you... sex, and lovemaking is a very sacred thing to ALOT of people.... and if it is hidden on any level from your partner then to me it is cheating. If you are just jerking off to a pic you see in a book or on the net, I don't see that as that bad of a thing... but if you are on a level where you are dealing with real feelings and real emotions then this is cheating unless the other parties know about it.

Of all the people we deal with in life, we, as humans, expect total trust and honesty from our partners and when that honesty and trust is broken, whether it is on a sexual level or any other level.... it puts a strain on the relationship. Anyone else in the world can work you over, and often do.. but when we give of our hearts and minds, we kinda wanna think that is rock solid and unshakable.

Maybe I am old fashioned, but this is the way I see things.

Tam

sickkittens · 12-11-2003, 01:00 PM

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01-29-2001, 04:45 PM	#1
Babagirls18 Banned Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Milwaukee, WI USA Posts: 4	Is Cyber-Sex CHEATING? For those who have "cyber sex" <not sure how THAT one works...but...> and if you are in a serious relationship, IS CYBER SEX CHEATING?? Hmmm....

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01-29-2001, 04:54 PM	#2
Dirtypainter Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Boondocks, Iowa Posts: 425	Cyber sex. hell what drive do you use. I can't to my harddrive. and I sure the hell isn't going to stick it into the floppy drive or the automatic cup holder. [This message has been edited by Dirtypainter (edited 01-29-2001).]

01-29-2001, 05:38 PM	#3
TobeRmorY Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Notts, England Posts: 11	I think cybersex is great. Clean, Safe, and free! My girlfriend gets a bit jealous though! Don't understand it.

01-29-2001, 07:33 PM	#4
misterwalrus Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Burbank, Ca Posts: 270	It all depends on where your head is!! ------------------ FUCK ALL Y'ALL

01-29-2001, 07:37 PM	#5
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	There are people who think that an affair of the heart and mind is every bit as much cheating as is a physical affair. While I am tossed with this one.... I think it largely depends on the state of mind between you and the person you are having cybersex with and the people each of you are with. I am a woman, and women tend to take a bit more to heart when it comes to having an affair of sorts involving the heart or mind. So I think this would involve talking to all parties involved before making this conclusion and seeing how each of you feel about it. There are several different types of affairs and each person will view them differently. Not sure if this answered you really, but we had this discussion in a chathouse a long time ago and came to these conclusions. Tam

01-29-2001, 07:38 PM	#6
WEBDUDE Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Essex, United Kingdom Posts: 64	I LUUUUUUUUUUUUURVE CYBERSEX!!! I don't class it as cheating, coz it gets all the desires of doing it with someone else right out of your system. AND THE BEST THING IS, YOU DON'T WAKE UP IN THE MORNING, LOOK WHOS IN THE BED WITH YOU AND SAY TO YOURSELF "JESUS! DID I REALLY DO IT WITH THAT!!!!!!!!" hehehehe

01-29-2001, 09:00 PM	#7
angelduster Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: madison, al, usa Posts: 117	nothing is cheating as long as you don't get caught, but i am against cheating.sorry had to get some morals in there.

01-30-2001, 04:00 AM	#8
Bexman Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cologne, germany Posts: 105	Yeah, think its cheating, if you really imagine, you had sex with someone else... but, what the f**k does your partner do with you, if you have the desire to rather sit in front of your computer wenkin' than to do something funny with your partner ??

01-30-2001, 07:24 AM	#9
Henrik Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Non cheating area, Denmark Posts: 228	Since I only see my girlfriend once or twice a week, I think it's fair that I spank the monkey when she's not around. If I happen to be thinking of some random hot chick, I don't think that qualifies as cheating.

01-30-2001, 08:04 AM	#10
Bexman Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cologne, germany Posts: 105	Right Henrik, if you randomly think of any chick it's no cheating, but if you have cybersex with a real chick on the other side and you tell her, what you usually should tell your girlfriend and think of her as a special sex partner, then i think it's kind of cheating...

01-30-2001, 08:20 AM	#11
Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	Judging by the way you brought it up... sounds as if the SO didn't have a clue that you were doing it and that in itself is cheating no matter how you delude yourself. Anytime you go behind your better halves back it had better be doing something for them such as a gift. lol Fiddling around in any form is a sudden way to the single set. And men take it alot more to heart than you think! Its not just women. <S> Men just will go kick the others butt if they can find them. lol And of course that is their ticket to get even usually. I learned morality from an American Indian after a long life of doing what I wanted. Want some culture shock?!?!

01-30-2001, 08:32 AM	#12
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	Gemini, I totally agree with you... sex, and lovemaking is a very sacred thing to ALOT of people.... and if it is hidden on any level from your partner then to me it is cheating. If you are just jerking off to a pic you see in a book or on the net, I don't see that as that bad of a thing... but if you are on a level where you are dealing with real feelings and real emotions then this is cheating unless the other parties know about it. Of all the people we deal with in life, we, as humans, expect total trust and honesty from our partners and when that honesty and trust is broken, whether it is on a sexual level or any other level.... it puts a strain on the relationship. Anyone else in the world can work you over, and often do.. but when we give of our hearts and minds, we kinda wanna think that is rock solid and unshakable. Maybe I am old fashioned, but this is the way I see things. Tam