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Shonine · 05-28-2004, 07:16 PM

I have the legal release forms signed by her and me and a witness. I have paid her and have reciepts. Here is the email I got from her today.

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Ryan I have asked you every way I know how TAKE MY PICTURES OFF!!!! I'm tryin to work with you and I dont know why you keep messing around. All I want is to be off the site can you please respect that or I will have no choice but to go further with this. This is the last time I will ask PLEASE Ryan I really dont want to have to be a bitch you can take them off in a day I'm giving you 2. IN 48 hours if I'm not off I WILL file. Please do the right thing.

BeHeadR · 05-28-2004, 07:17 PM

Well if what you say is true tell her to

freeadultcontent · 05-28-2004, 07:18 PM

Sounds fun, offer to sell them back to her. If she refuses tell her to GFY.

Spunky · 05-28-2004, 07:19 PM

Tell her too bad...pay you double to take them down

doober · 05-28-2004, 07:19 PM

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Originally posted by freeadultcontent
Sounds fun, offer to sell them back to her. If she refuses tell her to GFY.

took the words right out of my mouth...

Boogie3 · 05-28-2004, 07:20 PM

Fuck her, she should have thought about that. Show us a pic.

LadyMischief · 05-28-2004, 07:22 PM

If you have a release and she signed it, too fucking bad chickie. The pics are yours and she signed off on them. It's not your fault if she didn't read the release. Tell her to get a lawyer, because she can't touch you, and a lawyer will tell her the same thing.

Sounds like another one of those golddigger models.. one who entertains dreams of getting rich by false lawsuits.

Shonine · 05-28-2004, 07:22 PM

The only reason I took pics of her was because she was bringing me some talent. I would have never worked with her otherwise. I actually would not even mind taking hers down, but she is in some girl/girl sets and I don't want to remove those.

nathan_f · 05-28-2004, 07:22 PM

has she said why she wants them down? new boyfriend? just changed mind? had a kid?

SpaceAce · 05-28-2004, 07:27 PM

If it won't really hurt your bottom line, why not take them down? At least consider offering to let her buy them back at cost.

SpaceAce

Shonine · 05-28-2004, 07:27 PM

She had a kid and her new husband wants them down.

Shonine · 05-28-2004, 07:29 PM

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If it won't really hurt your bottom line, why not take them down? At least consider offering to let her buy them back at cost.

If I take down her girl/girl sets it will hurt me.

scottie0779 · 05-28-2004, 07:29 PM

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Originally posted by Shonine
She had a kid and her new husband wants them down.

homeboy shoulda got a prenup. tough shit.

Easton · 05-28-2004, 07:29 PM

tell her to fuck off and enjoy her new fame... make sure you ruin her life !

grumpy · 05-28-2004, 07:30 PM

Let her pay back and take them down. If its for personal reasons respect it. If its for business reasons....fuk her.

Sambo · 05-28-2004, 07:32 PM

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Originally posted by freeadultcontent
Sounds fun, offer to sell them back to her. If she refuses tell her to GFY.

That sounds like a plan.........

Shonine · 05-28-2004, 07:32 PM

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Let her pay back and take them down. If its for personal reasons respect it. If its for business reasons....fuk her.

Like I said, she wants them all down including the girl/girl series and I just can not afford to do it right now.

boardersweetie · 05-28-2004, 07:32 PM

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Originally posted by Shonine
If I take down her girl/girl sets it will hurt me.

then tell her to either pay you what you would be losing in sales, etc plus the cost of the photos... or tell her to fuck off. she signed a release and she knew what she was getting into. Just because she decides she wants to be a goody two shoes all of a sudden, there's no reason you should suffer.

Easton · 05-28-2004, 07:32 PM

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Originally posted by grumpy
Let her pay back and take them down. If its for personal reasons respect it. If its for business reasons....fuk her.

there are greater costs involved than the pure content

always sell it back to them for at least double the production costs

eroswebmaster · 05-28-2004, 07:32 PM

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Originally posted by Shonine
She had a kid and her new husband wants them down.

I have posted this on this board numerous times...we are in a business that carries heavy stigmas.

If you can't bear them...then don't get involved.

This goes for you college weekenders who are doing this for extra beer money.

If you think that you can graduate go onto law school and start applying with firms and something like this biz not come back and haunt you...THINK AGAIN.

This is shit you will be worried about for years.

Work in porn chances are you'll never be....
President of the PTA.
City Councilman
Mayor
Congressman
Rotary Club member
President of a university.
Principal of a school
Teacher
the list goes on.

Get out while you can and don't look back.

I'm an old man...37 I've done the corporate thing and there is no chance I will be going back anytime soon.

merlin77 · 05-28-2004, 07:33 PM

Well, based on what you said there is nothing she can do. How many sets do you have of her up? Is it just the girl/girl? It there are others why not at least take those down? See if you guys can come to a compromise for now?
Any which way, from a legal standpoint I don't think she has much of a case if she signed everything over.

freeadultcontent · 05-28-2004, 07:33 PM

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Originally posted by Shonine
Like I said, she wants them all down including the girl/girl series and I just can not afford to do it right now.

That is why you offer her a set price to remove them. One that would cover your expenses and possible losses. She wont pay, you will sleep normally at night since you seem to care.

eroswebmaster · 05-28-2004, 07:35 PM

But seriously.

People take jumping into porn to casually.

Your concept of what the world will accept is warped.

Sitting here on GFY looking at pics of Goatse and ******* off and on has made you think this shit is acceptable.

GUESS THE FUCK WHAT? IT'S NOT.

I'm proud of what I do. But what I'm trying to emphasize here is the world does not favor what we do.

They love us secretely while they spank it to your sites...but they don't want to have anything to do with you.

Groove · 05-28-2004, 07:36 PM

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Originally posted by freeadultcontent
Sounds fun, offer to sell them back to her. If she refuses tell her to GFY.

This is the way to go

And if she gets nasty give the pics away on GFY

Kard63 · 05-28-2004, 07:37 PM

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Originally posted by Shonine
I have the legal release forms signed by her and me and a witness. I have paid her and have reciepts. Here is the email I got from her today.

Make her buy the rights back. If she can afford a lawyer she can afford the right. Tell her to shut the fuck up in the mean time. Oh yea, and post the pics before you sell the rights to compensate us for all this fee advice

Elli · 05-28-2004, 07:39 PM

If it's her hubby who wants them down, offer a fair price for them. If he says no, then he a) can't afford to go to court for very long and/or b) doesn't care that much. If he accepts, then you're compensated.

Jace · 05-28-2004, 07:40 PM

fuck her...she signed rights away

Shonine · 05-28-2004, 07:40 PM

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That is why you offer her a set price to remove them. One that would cover your expenses and possibly losses. She wont pay, you will sleep normally at night since you seem to care.

I will not lose any sleep over it. I will ask for the money back from her sets as well as what it cost me to do the girl/girl sets. I am sure she is stupid enough to have her husband threaten me through email as well so that will be another + for me

Easton · 05-28-2004, 07:41 PM

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Originally posted by Elli
If it's her hubby who wants them down, offer a fair price for them.

hell no... ask for a crazy price... make them regret it forever!

freeadultcontent · 05-28-2004, 07:41 PM

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Originally posted by Shonine
I will not lose any sleep over it. I will ask for the money back from her sets as well as what it cost me to do the girl/girl sets. I am sure she is stupid enough to have her husband threaten me through email as well so that will be another + for me.

add in replacement costs man.

StuartD · 05-28-2004, 07:42 PM

Too many girls don't understand the life span of this stuff. They figure they're young, need money... who cares... do this stuff, get some cash and live the happy life out with friends and booze.

Then they get older, settle down, get a new boyfriend/husband.. have a kid... and hey, their pics are still out there. Who'd a thunk it???

Then they start to regret the stupid mistakes they've made and think that they can just wipe them away with false threats.

It happens over and over and over again in this industry.

I almost feel sad for her but at the same time... learn to live with the choices you've made.

If everyone starts taking photos down of girls who suddenly realize that they made a mistake when they were younger... half the porn on the net would disappear.

VeriSexy · 05-28-2004, 07:42 PM

Yeah, first show us her tits then ask her to pay double for the photos back

wyldblyss · 05-28-2004, 07:43 PM

I agree that people getting into the business should think long and hard before doing so. Is it something that they can live with later on when the husband and kids come along? If you won't be able to handle it later on, then run away fast.

I do understand though how her life has changed and she wants to move on, this happens to a lot of people, even those outside of the adult industry....but......it comes at a price. She should at least have to pay you the production costs plus a reasonable amount for lost revenue (don't try to make a killing here, be reasonable)

TweetyBird · 05-28-2004, 07:44 PM

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Originally posted by VeriSexy
Yeah, first show us her tits then ask her to pay double for the photos back

lol, not such a bad idea

aSStig · 05-28-2004, 07:44 PM

tell her . . . . . .

pay me and i'll drop your pics . . . . .

Spunky · 05-28-2004, 07:50 PM

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Originally posted by eroswebmaster

Work in porn chances are you'll never be....
Rotary Club member

Dream killer

lagwagon · 05-28-2004, 07:50 PM

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Originally posted by Elli
If it's her hubby who wants them down, offer a fair price for them. If he says no, then he a) can't afford to go to court for very long and/or b) doesn't care that much. If he accepts, then you're compensated.

very reasonable solution.

Shonine · 05-28-2004, 07:52 PM

Ok it is the girl on the bottom. As you can see, I can live without her solo pics, but this girl girl series and several of her other ones are very popular to my members and I usually do good with their galleries.

freeadultcontent · 05-28-2004, 07:54 PM

Quazimoto in the corner?

Kard63 · 05-28-2004, 07:57 PM

Thanks for posting the pic. I wouldnt sell them back if could cause me to lose a member or two. I'd make some self serving offer such as:
"bring me some new models to replace the material I'll be losing and pay me back the money I paid you for the shoot in the first place"

my

MissGrim · 05-28-2004, 08:03 PM

When I shoot photos of my personal friends I'm willing to take their photos down merely for the fee that I paid them. If I were to shoot another girl, however, I would think it would be fair if she paid me back all of her modelling fees, all of the modelling fees of the other girls she was photographed with, an hourly wage for the time I spent shooting, developing, touching-up, cropping, organizing, and uploading the photos, and an additional wage for the time spent removing her photos. That way I would be in exactly the same situation I was before I ever took her photos.

Easton · 05-28-2004, 08:05 PM

make her pay thru the nose! teach her a fucking lesson...

stev0 · 05-28-2004, 08:07 PM

She made the decision and she can live with it... You can't turn back time, maybe she'll think twice next time.

LadyGardenSnake · 05-28-2004, 08:07 PM

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Originally posted by Shonine
She had a kid and her new husband wants them down.

fuck dat shit ! a deal is a deal make her husband pay you 3 times what there worth or beter yet tell her

with a rubber glove.

Easton · 05-28-2004, 08:08 PM

send them to her mother too!

serious · 05-28-2004, 08:09 PM

id go with the rough estimate of total cost it will take on your business to lose the sets + make new sets + whatever you paid her, then maybe add like a couple hundred for your aggrevation

and if she still threatens a lawyer tell her to gfy

Shonine · 05-28-2004, 08:11 PM

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send them to her mother too!

Lol now that would break the release contract.

SlickRick · 05-28-2004, 08:12 PM

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Originally posted by Shonine
I have the legal release forms signed by her and me and a witness. I have paid her and have reciepts. Here is the email I got from her today.

You know what you do. It may be really shitty. but she signed a release. Sell her pics and let a shit laod of other webmasters make galleires with her content...LOL sell it dirt cheap. She cant get everyone. you own the rights to the content and you can do with as you please

Easton · 05-28-2004, 08:13 PM

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Originally posted by Shonine
Lol now that would break the release contract.

oh really? maybe i should send you my model release contracts...

LMFAO *evil laugh*

neewwman · 05-28-2004, 08:15 PM

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Originally posted by eroswebmaster

Sitting here on GFY looking at pics of Goatse and ******* off and on has made you think this shit is acceptable.

So true

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Shonine Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: Memphis Posts: 201	The only reason I took pics of her was because she was bringing me some talent. I would have never worked with her otherwise. I actually would not even mind taking hers down, but she is in some girl/girl sets and I don't want to remove those. __________________ Exclusive Content - 50/50 ICQ# 325202258

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