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blakkfrogg · 01-17-2001, 11:41 AM

Here's a question: Given your liberal attitudes regarding sexuality, how many of you out there could see yourselves dating a man or woman that worked as a stripper, lingerie model, etc.? I'm not saying a person that performs sexual favors for money or a full-blown pornstar, but a person that removes clothing so that others can pleasure themselves or get a good mental image to take home... and pleasure themselves later.

I ask this because I have been dating a lingerie model for nearly two years and I wanna' know what all of you think about the people in the pics we so generously distribute to the rest of the world and those that work on a more personal (again, without touching the client/patron in a sexual manner) level.

Are they a lower class of person because they get naked and let people watch them or take photographs of them? Do they deserve the slutty labels society pins on them? Are they just T'n'A or C'n'B and nothing else?

I'm really curious. We post their 'faces' all over the Internet but what do WE think of them? Are they people or just objects/tools we use to make a few dollars and thus we don't ever really think about them?

For the record, my gf and I did NOT meet in a club/shop/whatever. She was the roommate of a mutual acquaintance. So there.

Heh-heh-heh... Squash those rumors REAL fast.

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Rictor · 01-17-2001, 01:34 PM

I think it would be a turn-on. I like the idea of others guys getting off to pics of my wife or g/f. As long as I get the real thing...there's no harm done.

It's sort of like when your woman dresses up in skintight, cleavage bearing clothes to go club hopping and gets all the guys drooling. She can flirt with them all she wants because she's going home with you.

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titmowse · 01-17-2001, 01:57 PM

I wouldn't know all the models/dancers that I would be attracted to are gay :0)

I guess the closest comparison for me would be musicians and actors. I have some rules when it comes to that:

1)Never date a musician
2)Never never date an actor
3)Never never never date a bartender

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blakkfrogg · 01-17-2001, 02:02 PM

Well, Mowse.... A good number of male musicians and actors are gay as well. Several male bartenders that I know happen to be of that persuasion as well.

Hmmm. Sounds to me like you're not attracted to gay guys at all. That's no fun! Don't you like.... A CHALLENGE?!? LOL

j/k Mowse... well, sort of.

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TheFLY · 01-17-2001, 08:14 PM

what is this Jerry Springer?

hehe

blakkfrogg · 01-17-2001, 08:22 PM

Hmmmm.... I don't think so.

I do have a friend, though, who drunkenly called their 'hotline' one night and spilled the details of his life. They've called him back twice so far for more information.

And no, I'm not kidding. He's even telling the truth!

LOL

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Jamdin · 01-17-2001, 11:32 PM

If I was dating a woman, I wouldn't care what she did for a living. I would treat the woman I was dating as a goddess as all woman should be treated

Lingerie model...hmmm, lucky stiff (mumbling obscenties in the wind).

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basschick · 01-18-2001, 02:58 AM

blakkfrogg: i used to manage a nude club. none of the girls fucked or dated the customers, nor did any of them let themselves be touched in any way.

i know two strippers who are putting themselves through college (one is going for her masters) - and one who is finishing chiropractic school. low class? only in some man's dirty little mind.

i know secretaries who fuck anyone after 2 drinks, and some who don't fuck anyone. how are they any better or worse than strippers or lingerie models?

most men i've met would never say no to an attractive horny woman - even if these men have wives. is that higher class somehow than a woman paying for her master's degree at ucla by stripping?

maybe i don't understand what you mean by "class". i mean a well-informed, well-spoken, well-groomed person with a genuine interest in others and the world around them, cultural interests (music, art, literature, for example), who takes care of themselves and has a caring heart.

why would a person being naked change those other attributes?

blakkfrogg · 01-18-2001, 10:15 AM

Bass...

I personally don't see how a person's decision to strip for a living or to make ends meet or for whatever reason makes them a lower 'class' of person. If a person can make money by taking their clothes off and they enjoy doing it, then more power to them.

There is one thing you said that I feel the need to comment on, though.

"only in some man's dirty little mind."

Actually, I've found that more women than men put strippers/dancers/models down and also that it is done more out of cattiness (is that really a word?) and jealousy than anything else.

One problem in this area (Upstate NY) is that a good number of the girls in these places have started 'touching' when they can get away with it -- and if the money is right. Girls like these make the adult entertainment industry look bad.

Isolated events make for widespread accusations and in the end, as usual, innocent people get the shit end of the stick.

Case in point: I actually had a guy in a bar ask me if I thought my own girlfriend (of nearly two years now) was a whore because of what she does for a living.

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I shot the sheriff... but the fucking deputy got away.

Scraper · 01-18-2001, 11:34 AM

When do we get to see a pic of this mystery lingerie model?

basschick · 01-19-2001, 03:43 AM

sure, lots of strippers turn tricks, too. but more don't. and lots of secretaries fuck their bosses and anyone who asks if they drink.

i know some "normal" women (not well!) who fuck almost anyone that asks - NOT because they enjoy it, but because they don't know how to say no.

some girls who strip for a living DON'T like stripping - they don't hate it. it's a job that pays well - my friend mel makes $600 a night, and is paying her way through a most expensive university. not too many other jobs open to cute 21 year olds pay $600 a night - legally or otherwise.

the fact is, most people are sexual, which is not a bad thing. the sad thing is that women who appear openly sexual are judged as low-class sluts... men are often admired for doing the same thing.

but then, this is the morality that allows us to make our living. if everyone had a fair and healthy attitude toward sex, we wouldn't make as much money.

go figure!

Wizzo · 01-19-2001, 11:45 AM

Gee, I don't know if I could date a stripper

salo18 · 12-13-2003, 04:26 AM

01-17-2001, 11:41 AM	#1
blakkfrogg Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: South of sobriety Posts: 582	Models/Dancers R People 2, But Could You See Yourself.... Here's a question: Given your liberal attitudes regarding sexuality, how many of you out there could see yourselves dating a man or woman that worked as a stripper, lingerie model, etc.? I'm not saying a person that performs sexual favors for money or a full-blown pornstar, but a person that removes clothing so that others can pleasure themselves or get a good mental image to take home... and pleasure themselves later. I ask this because I have been dating a lingerie model for nearly two years and I wanna' know what all of you think about the people in the pics we so generously distribute to the rest of the world and those that work on a more personal (again, without touching the client/patron in a sexual manner) level. Are they a lower class of person because they get naked and let people watch them or take photographs of them? Do they deserve the slutty labels society pins on them? Are they just T'n'A or C'n'B and nothing else? I'm really curious. We post their 'faces' all over the Internet but what do WE think of them? Are they people or just objects/tools we use to make a few dollars and thus we don't ever really think about them? For the record, my gf and I did NOT meet in a club/shop/whatever. She was the roommate of a mutual acquaintance. So there. Heh-heh-heh... Squash those rumors REAL fast. ------------------ I shot the sheriff... but the fucking deputy got away. [This message has been edited by blakkfrogg (edited 01-17-2001).]

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01-17-2001, 01:34 PM	#2
Rictor Old Timer Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 12,208	I think it would be a turn-on. I like the idea of others guys getting off to pics of my wife or g/f. As long as I get the real thing...there's no harm done. It's sort of like when your woman dresses up in skintight, cleavage bearing clothes to go club hopping and gets all the guys drooling. She can flirt with them all she wants because she's going home with you. ------------------ "Beware of all enterprises that require new clothes."

01-17-2001, 01:57 PM	#3
titmowse Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: TEXAS Posts: 5,320	I wouldn't know all the models/dancers that I would be attracted to are gay :0) I guess the closest comparison for me would be musicians and actors. I have some rules when it comes to that: 1)Never date a musician 2)Never never date an actor 3)Never never never date a bartender ------------------ tit, Mowsebytes Porn Newsletter: Webmasters submit your sites here.

01-17-2001, 02:02 PM	#4
blakkfrogg Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: South of sobriety Posts: 582	Well, Mowse.... A good number of male musicians and actors are gay as well. Several male bartenders that I know happen to be of that persuasion as well. Hmmm. Sounds to me like you're not attracted to gay guys at all. That's no fun! Don't you like.... A CHALLENGE?!? LOL j/k Mowse... well, sort of. ------------------ I shot the sheriff... but the fucking deputy got away.

01-17-2001, 08:14 PM	#5
TheFLY So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: http://www.thefly.net/ --- Quit your job and live off steady traffic. Posts: 11,856	what is this Jerry Springer? hehe

01-17-2001, 08:22 PM	#6
blakkfrogg Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: South of sobriety Posts: 582	Hmmmm.... I don't think so. I do have a friend, though, who drunkenly called their 'hotline' one night and spilled the details of his life. They've called him back twice so far for more information. And no, I'm not kidding. He's even telling the truth! LOL ------------------ I shot the sheriff... but the fucking deputy got away.

01-17-2001, 11:32 PM	#7
Jamdin Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Kansas Posts: 3,560	If I was dating a woman, I wouldn't care what she did for a living. I would treat the woman I was dating as a goddess as all woman should be treated Lingerie model...hmmm, lucky stiff (mumbling obscenties in the wind). ------------------ Moongem Erotica Moongem Fiction Shemp's Categorist

01-18-2001, 02:58 AM	#8
basschick Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: el lay, ca usa Posts: 2,540	blakkfrogg: i used to manage a nude club. none of the girls fucked or dated the customers, nor did any of them let themselves be touched in any way. i know two strippers who are putting themselves through college (one is going for her masters) - and one who is finishing chiropractic school. low class? only in some man's dirty little mind. i know secretaries who fuck anyone after 2 drinks, and some who don't fuck anyone. how are they any better or worse than strippers or lingerie models? most men i've met would never say no to an attractive horny woman - even if these men have wives. is that higher class somehow than a woman paying for her master's degree at ucla by stripping? maybe i don't understand what you mean by "class". i mean a well-informed, well-spoken, well-groomed person with a genuine interest in others and the world around them, cultural interests (music, art, literature, for example), who takes care of themselves and has a caring heart. why would a person being naked change those other attributes?

01-18-2001, 10:15 AM	#9
blakkfrogg Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: South of sobriety Posts: 582	Bass... I personally don't see how a person's decision to strip for a living or to make ends meet or for whatever reason makes them a lower 'class' of person. If a person can make money by taking their clothes off and they enjoy doing it, then more power to them. There is one thing you said that I feel the need to comment on, though. "only in some man's dirty little mind." Actually, I've found that more women than men put strippers/dancers/models down and also that it is done more out of cattiness (is that really a word?) and jealousy than anything else. One problem in this area (Upstate NY) is that a good number of the girls in these places have started 'touching' when they can get away with it -- and if the money is right. Girls like these make the adult entertainment industry look bad. Isolated events make for widespread accusations and in the end, as usual, innocent people get the shit end of the stick. Case in point: I actually had a guy in a bar ask me if I thought my own girlfriend (of nearly two years now) was a whore because of what she does for a living. ------------------ I shot the sheriff... but the fucking deputy got away.

01-18-2001, 11:34 AM	#10
Scraper Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Rainforest Posts: 182	When do we get to see a pic of this mystery lingerie model?

01-19-2001, 03:43 AM	#11
basschick Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: el lay, ca usa Posts: 2,540	sure, lots of strippers turn tricks, too. but more don't. and lots of secretaries fuck their bosses and anyone who asks if they drink. i know some "normal" women (not well!) who fuck almost anyone that asks - NOT because they enjoy it, but because they don't know how to say no. some girls who strip for a living DON'T like stripping - they don't hate it. it's a job that pays well - my friend mel makes $600 a night, and is paying her way through a most expensive university. not too many other jobs open to cute 21 year olds pay $600 a night - legally or otherwise. the fact is, most people are sexual, which is not a bad thing. the sad thing is that women who appear openly sexual are judged as low-class sluts... men are often admired for doing the same thing. but then, this is the morality that allows us to make our living. if everyone had a fair and healthy attitude toward sex, we wouldn't make as much money. go figure!

01-19-2001, 11:45 AM	#12
Wizzo 2011 GFY Hall of Fame! Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Back in Texas! Posts: 15,224	Gee, I don't know if I could date a stripper