Tam

Hey, I have been wondering about a few things and maybe it's time I just brought it up.

Until I started doing porn sites, I never had surfed porn, hadn't really watched alot of porn movies, was always raised to believe sex was a bad thing. Well in doing porn, I have learned ALOT about the sexual needs and desires and the differences people have in their sexual needs. I am probably one of the very few that can sit here all day and work on it and not be in the least bit turned on by it.. ok maybe there are times some of it does. LOL

But what I am wondering is how you all deal with this? Like for instance, now when I go out shopping, to a bar with my hubby when he plays his music, or just to dinner.. I look at people in a different light..... like "Woohoo, could I seel that chick's body" or wouldn't he make for some great content?" I am always thinking of new names for a new site and working it thru in my head. When I go to a bar, I watch their behavior with each other, how they interact, and then there comes the business side again...... damn wouldn't I like to have the content from what they are about to do......

Is this normal or does anyone and everyone who does porn sees things? Like it's all in the name of business and such. Or am I taking my damn job a bit too seriously? LMAO

I would like to get both male and female thoughts on this?

Tam

Keyser

I look at naked people all day. So it's awesome when my wife wears something sexy! I'm like "Damn baby! Put it on! Yeah! Woohoo!" Kind of like reverse stripping I guess! I think being sexy is better than just going from everyday life to these pics of people going straight to doin' their thing!

As far as how I look at the world. I look at chicks and go hmmm... I wonder if she'd pose for me, I wonder how nasty she can be! But the thing is I don't look at women thinking I want to do stuff with them, I just think about how pretty they are and how many people would buy memberships and how much money I can make. $$ cha-ching!

Now I tend to smile at people more when I pass them.

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Tam

Oh no way, I never ever look at anyone like I'd want to "do" them....... I have all that I need and then some at home. LMAO

But I do know what you mean, I smile alot more than I ever have and my hubby will look at me and say "No babe, she will not pose for you, or he will not send you picks of his dick". He says it HAS improved my outlook though...... rotfl

Tam

ms69

I hadn't surfed alot of porn either before I got started. I am looking at porn 8-12 hours a day and don't get turned on by it. But I will admit that I look at women in a whole different light when I am out in Public, i.e. I've seen her before at such and such site, she would be perfect for my next adventure, things like that. That's my thought on this.

blakkfrogg

I was always intrigued by human nature and have always been what I like to call a 'Watcher'. People are the damn funniest of creatures when they're 'trying to get some'. They'll lie, cheat, steal, deceive and sell their own kinfolk for a piece of the action... and by action, I mean the item that they are in pursuit of; be it money, sex, a new job, love, acceptance, or whatever. It's the best damn soap opera I've ever seen and it USUALLY doesn't have any commercials.

THEN throw in the fact that pornslinging has given me the ability to picture everyone naked. This not always a good thing, though. There are a lot of ugly people out there and sometimes the thoughts just happen. Yuck.

I'm a lot more open-minded about sexuality than I used to be. That is one thing vieing unGodly amounts of human skin has done for me.

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fredicus

I was at a friends place the other day ( a fellow smutspreader ), and we were discussing recent content aquisitions... solely by the quality & size of the pic ...

Hhmmm....

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adsproul

i think seeing so many porn pics have desensitized me to their effect... I still get turned on by the actual woman though. And for some reason Stories still do it for me... <shrug> I guess I am just too deep a thinker.. or maybe I really am fucked up...

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Tam

Well I was never a porn surfer, I live with ne of them, but I'm not... but it's funny when I sit here with him when he is looking around, especially at one of my sites..... he'll ask me when I got pics of that hot little number, and I will have no idea..... I just get them, clean them up a bit and post them.......... depending on the quality, I do different things with them.... but it's not often I actually see the people that are in them anymore.

Blakk... I know what you mean...... I never used to picture people naked, now I do and before I know it I am all but laughing in their damn faces..... LMAO

Tam

Rictor

I've seen so much porn in my short life that most of it fails to turn me on in the least, especially the mass-produced mainstream stuff. I don't really think about my porn sites when I'm out in public. When I see an attractive woman in public, I think the same thing I've always thought, "wow, I'd like to fuck her."

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blakkfrogg

Having known, hung out with and associated with 'strippers', 'exotic dancers', 'lingerie models' and the like for a few years (4) now, I can say that my outlook is quite different. I used to get called by girls I knew because it was dead inthe 'titty bar' and they wanted someone to talk to. Drinks for my friends and I were dirt cheap, if not free, and the girls we didn't know never bothered us for money because we rarely ever watched the stage when they performed and because we were 'guests' of other girls. Cheap booze and good conversations with interesting(?) people we knew. Cool deal.

What? There were titties all over the place? Hmmm... Must've missed them. Oh well.

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Mikey

I definitely see people in a different light. Sometimes I see a girl and wonder what she would look like covered in jizz. Must come from promoting so many jizz related sights. Good thing I don't promote any butt plugging sites!

My girlfriend knows about my sites but still can't understand why I know all the different women's panty styles!

TheFLY

a lot of girls ask my if having a porn site "desensitizes me" -- the answer is always no -- of course I don't get turned on by an ankle like I did when I was 10 ;) but my appreciation for the female form will never die -- but why do girls always ask that? I have some ideas but I will leave the question open.

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blakkfrogg

Viewing gobs of porn on a rgular basis has changed me, no doubt, and here's one of those ways: I now wonder about 'odder things' instead of 'simple things' when I see a woman in public... things like:

- does she perform oral sex, and if so, has she ever had a facial? Does she .... or does she ....... ? I often get a quick mental image of the woman with various anatomical parts in or near her face, too.

- is she wearing that style of dress because she wants male attention or FEmale attention? Or both?

- at a bar/club: is she talking to him because she wants him and is she liberal enough to 'do it' tonight, or make him wait? And what is her overall motivation for being here; social, sexual, monetary, attention?

- in a restaurant: the woman over there.... she does not seem to be wearing a bra or panties and is not careful to conceal herself.... is she merely making herself 'comfortable' or is she flashing people because she wants them to look?

- in a restaurant: this sexy waitress.... I wonder if there is anything I could say to get her into the coatroom with my digital camera....

- and last but not least, is she a freak in bed or just one that lays there? has she ever had sex in a public place? and what makes me think one way or the other about her?

I am the complete and total antithesis of a Player (by choice, thank you!), but oh how I love to watch the game and all those in it.

Yours truly,

Blakk "Freaky" Frogg




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Dreamman010

Well maybe you should'nt have gotten into the industry?

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Beastiepoo

Me too. And my hubby. Both of us do porn sites beacuse it makes money. Desensitised? Definitely! I suppose its a good thing we still turn each other on! Although something was said about stories.....yep, they get things going too.

ursella3

I am to agree with TAm... I am doing this all day and not turned on... think about better way to make sites all the time and always look at peoples as if they would be good at sex or not... but I love to do this...

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a1ka1ine

i see pron

.. or dead people? =p arrrgh!

TDF

for me its a job with perks...personally i think that i only sponsor sites that i would personally wanna wack off to!! they have to have 2 spurts up!

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UnseenWorld

When I first started shooting nekkid girls, it got to me (yeah, that way). Now, I can shoot a really attractive girl all day and it's just business. On the other hand, if she were there and obviously wanting to get randy with me, THEN I'd get excited.

Wanting to see girls with their clothes off is quite natural MALE behavior. Thinking about business follows pretty close behind.

One downside to making girlie pics is that my standards of physical beauty are higher than the average 40-ish, 50-ish gal can meet. I'm used to seeing girls nekkid that were (or could have been) a high school cheerleader one or two years before.

I saw Diane Lane in a movie today and she was hot, and Renee Russo still does it for me (she's in her late 40's, I think). However, Kirsten Dunst and Natalie Portman are much more appealing to me than the average gal at or approaching my own age of 55.

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Dawgy

very little of it turns me on, but when some does, u can bet i buy the photo set on the spot. i figure if it turns me on, itll get everyone else going as well.

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Sly_RJ

I don't see porn, sex, ass, pussy, titties, or blow jobs. I see money.

If any of us were to sit here and actually see porn all day, we'd be spending much more then we're making.

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Not into porn but I push the fuck out of it. Way into sex though, ones a fantasy of the other, I think when you have one, it doesnt matter about the other. Live in hotties rule.

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Nysus

Tam, it's a great feeling isn't it? When your mind just flows with ideas.. That happens to me a lot.. It ends up saddening me though, when I realize I can't actual implement the majority of what I think up. Try not too get caught up too much, and make sure to give yourself a mental break, at least I needed to/should have many times, otherwise you'll burn out.

Cheers,
Matt

Sly_RJ

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Scootermuze

I think there are two separate issues with this situation. One being the constant exposure to it which desensitizes you, as well as looking at it as a business/responsibility and not just a casual gander at some hot bods..

As far as how you see people in general.. I think it's just the fact that you are in the business, and you look at people through the eyes of a webmaster.. as I bet the hubby 'listens' to people through the ears of a musician, whereby someone could say something in a general conversation and say a few words where he'd probably said, "Wow.. there's a song in that!"....

I build houses, so instead of passing a house and thinking, "That's a nice house." I'm thinking , "That would look better with a dormer on the roof." or something that is due to me being in the business and dealing with houses differently than everyone else.

Photographers, many times, look at people through a mental lens and think, "they'd do well in front of a camera."

I think it happens in all businesses, so you're just fine. You still have your tingly moments so all isn't lost..

Tam

Look at the date I posted this thread guys......... rotfl

1-16-2001......... Dreamman010 decided to go digging up bones tonight I guess............ rotfl

I am ALOT more well adjusted with this whole thing than I was 14 months ago...... LMAO

Scootermuze

Dayem!! Didn't look at the date.. I never look at dates...

All of that typing for nothin..

Think I'll just go to bed...

Tam

The only reason I knew this is because I hadn't posted at ALL today so I knew damn well I didn't start this thread, I popped in here to see if someone was posting under my name and one look at it, I knew I had posted it, just not today.............

Dreamman is just dragging up threads from LAST January for some damn reason. lol