Is Cyber-Sex considered 'cheating' on your partner? - GoFuckYourself.com

Rhino22 · 05-21-2004, 05:23 PM

The question is simple... Do you consider Cyber-Sex to be cheating on your partner? Discuss.

JDog · 05-21-2004, 05:24 PM

Let them play any fucking fantasies on the internet with whom ever they want. Just as long they don't go and meet up some night!

jDoG

AsylumN · 05-21-2004, 05:24 PM

Yes, you did cheat. You should feel guilty.

Rhino22 · 05-21-2004, 05:26 PM

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Originally posted by AsylumN
Yes, you did cheat. You should feel guilty.

hahaha. no no, I find cyber-sex quite boring actually. However, my girlfriend thinks its cheating. I don't.

I want the peoples opinion!

05-21-2004, 05:26 PM

not this question again

BRING BACK THE SEARCH FUNCTION!

Rhino22 · 05-21-2004, 05:29 PM

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Originally posted by bdjuf
not this question again

BRING BACK THE SEARCH FUNCTION!

LoL

BRISK · 05-21-2004, 05:31 PM

Only if you're a woman

reynold · 05-21-2004, 05:38 PM

Guys will say its fun. Girls will say its cheating. ;)

Trixie Racer · 05-21-2004, 05:47 PM

Only if emotions are involved.

Digipimp · 05-21-2004, 05:49 PM

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer
Only if emotions are involved.

i can do it without getting emotionally involved, icq me

Rhino22 · 05-21-2004, 05:50 PM

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Originally posted by Digipimp
i can do it without getting emotionally involved, icq me

hahahaha

PrivateIvy · 05-21-2004, 06:27 PM

only in the bible

Ivy

Nysus · 05-21-2004, 06:28 PM

I would just rather anyone I'm with to spend their time with me, instead of using their energy for someone else.

Cheers,
Matt

StRoGE · 05-21-2004, 06:33 PM

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer
Only if emotions are involved.

Couldnt agree more!

EviLGuY · 05-21-2004, 06:54 PM

My first instict would be to say NO... but then turn it around.. how would you feel if you found out your boyfriend or girlfriend was doing that?

I wouldn't like it all.. there would be words.

Trixie Racer · 05-21-2004, 06:57 PM

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Originally posted by EviLGuY
My first instict would be to say NO... but then turn it around.. how would you feel if you found out your boyfriend or girlfriend was doing that?

I wouldn't like it all.. there would be words.

I wouldn't mind. As long as it's purely sexual and not emotional, what's the big deal? Especially if it's just online.. I don't see much difference between that and someone jacking off to a porno.

chodadog · 05-21-2004, 07:12 PM

I think it's cheating. It's just that betrayal of trust. I guess if he/she gives the okay, then it's alright. But if you're doing it behind her back, then yeah, it's cheating.

Oberon · 05-21-2004, 08:24 PM

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer
Only if emotions are involved.

Assuming that's your understanding with the S.O. anyway.

Me, I simplify. Anything you have to hide from your S.O. or can't be honest about is wrong.

HAPPYPEEKERS · 05-21-2004, 08:27 PM

Not Kewl

Elli · 05-21-2004, 08:49 PM

It depends on your agreement with your significant other. If they would be hurt by it, then don't do it.

tootie · 05-21-2004, 09:00 PM

Yes, I absolutely consider it cheating. For one thing, it can sometimes lead to offline cheating. For another thing, even if it doesn't, it's kind of a mental/emotional cheating. If it bothers your significant other, it's wrong. If it doesn't bother them, then it doesn't really matter if it's cheating or not. You should never deliberately do anything that you know would hurt your partner if you can avoid it.

stephanie m. · 05-21-2004, 09:01 PM

absolutely not!

stephanie m. · 05-21-2004, 09:02 PM

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Originally posted by deeprubs' wife
Not Kewl

Hey, ur from arkansas? I agree, that is HELL! Move to cancun like me

NaughtyAlysha · 05-21-2004, 09:02 PM

Depends on if you're trying to set something up for later... in person.

tootie · 05-21-2004, 09:17 PM

I'm in Arkansas

We went to the Greek Food Festival in Little Rock today. That was fun, but CROWDED!

smokingdawn · 05-21-2004, 09:19 PM

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Originally posted by AsylumN
Yes, you did cheat. You should feel guilty.

lol

stephanie m. · 05-21-2004, 09:19 PM

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Originally posted by tootie
I'm in Arkansas

We went to the Greek Food Festival in Little Rock today. That was fun, but CROWDED!

No shit? Where, college in Fayetteville (for me)! And I went to high school near Clinton.

Illicit · 05-21-2004, 09:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AsylumN
Yes, you did cheat. You should feel guilty.

dirty slut

merlin77 · 05-21-2004, 09:21 PM

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer
Only if emotions are involved.

Do you also consider having sex with someone else ok as long as emotions are not involved?
To me it's all the same. Sex, cybersex, it's like saying that if you give someone a blowjob it's not cheating. WTF?

stephanie m. · 05-21-2004, 09:21 PM

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Originally posted by tootie
I'm in Arkansas

We went to the Greek Food Festival in Little Rock today. That was fun, but CROWDED!

No shit? I went to that a few years ago!! You dont know David Lower do u?

NikkiNevada · 05-21-2004, 09:21 PM

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer
I wouldn't mind. As long as it's purely sexual and not emotional, what's the big deal? Especially if it's just online.. I don't see much difference between that and someone jacking off to a porno.

Nicely said

tootie · 05-21-2004, 09:22 PM

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Originally posted by stephanie m.
No shit? Where, college in Fayetteville (for me)! And I went to high school near Clinton.

We're in Little Rock. Just moved here a couple of years ago. I'm originally from Georgia, but my husband is from Little Rock. We met over the internet, he moved to Georgia to live with me for a few years, then we moved to Arkansas to be closer to his elderly father.

tootie · 05-21-2004, 09:24 PM

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Originally posted by stephanie m.
No shit? I went to that a few years ago!! You dont know David Lower do u?

No. I haven't met anyone since we moved here. I have no friends.

LOL

stephanie m. · 05-21-2004, 09:25 PM

Cybersex is risk free! I really dont think of it as cheating. I dont think that masturbating while thinking about brad pitt is cheating either. Having sex, kissing, or fondling another HUMAN is cheating. Typing words into a keyboard is not!

stephanie m. · 05-21-2004, 09:27 PM

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Originally posted by tootie
No. I haven't met anyone since we moved here. I have no friends. LOL

Yeah, its really hard to make freinds when you work online and dont go to school. This may sound laughable, but have you considered getting a partime job just to make friends? It worked for me!

tootie · 05-21-2004, 09:33 PM

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Originally posted by stephanie m.
Yeah, its really hard to make freinds when you work online and dont go to school. This may sound laughable, but have you considered getting a partime job just to make friends? It worked for me!

Can't. I've got kids and babysitting while I worked would cost a fortune. That's why I don't get out much, babysitting costs toooooo much.

newsdude · 05-21-2004, 10:54 PM

Your partner will never understand and will always say it is still cheating.

pimplink · 05-21-2004, 11:05 PM

It's not cheating. It's just in the net and nothing is actually happening.

graphicsbytia · 05-22-2004, 08:58 PM

if you're girlfriend says it's cheating.. then it is.. simple

if you don't like that, get another girlfriend

05-21-2004, 05:23 PM	#1
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chodadog Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 9,736	I think it's cheating. It's just that betrayal of trust. I guess if he/she gives the okay, then it's alright. But if you're doing it behind her back, then yeah, it's cheating. __________________ 26 + 6 = 1

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05-21-2004, 09:00 PM	#21
tootie Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Planet Earp Posts: 6,041	Yes, I absolutely consider it cheating. For one thing, it can sometimes lead to offline cheating. For another thing, even if it doesn't, it's kind of a mental/emotional cheating. If it bothers your significant other, it's wrong. If it doesn't bother them, then it doesn't really matter if it's cheating or not. You should never deliberately do anything that you know would hurt your partner if you can avoid it. __________________

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tootie Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Planet Earp Posts: 6,041	I'm in Arkansas We went to the Greek Food Festival in Little Rock today. That was fun, but CROWDED! __________________ Last edited by tootie; 05-21-2004 at 09:18 PM..

05-21-2004, 09:25 PM	#34
stephanie m. Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: cancun~~~~~~~~~ ICQ 292 580 143 Posts: 2,484	Cybersex is risk free! I really dont think of it as cheating. I dont think that masturbating while thinking about brad pitt is cheating either. Having sex, kissing, or fondling another HUMAN is cheating. Typing words into a keyboard is not! __________________ One of Six new Reality Sites in RealityCash - Coming soon.

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05-22-2004, 08:58 PM	#39
graphicsbytia Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Tennessee Posts: 2,618	if you're girlfriend says it's cheating.. then it is.. simple if you don't like that, get another girlfriend