Tell ya what...Let's stick with the numbers you are providing.....


You are throwing out 60% and 75%......Either way, this is how it works.


60%....... 2 people = 100%. If one of them NEVER cheats then the odds are that the guilty one is cheating 10% of the time.

haha, nice

Honesty vs. ignorance. I have made my choice...And clearly, so have you.

well, with what I always see...i always assume 9 out of the 10 people around me are cheating on someone.....it's fucked up huh?

An honest, trusted, LOYAL man would have fired the maid himself.

what is my choice? monogamy?

jesus, i don't know how I do it!!!...LOL

point for you :Graucho

Yes, it is fucked up....But it's still fact.

The choices listed were Honesty and Ignorance. Monogamy was not in the list. Some opf your posts suggest that you think it is a perfect world and that there is no possiblilty that he was cheating. Other posts are different.

You may not cheat but I assure you....You are an exception to the rule. That's a cold hard fact.

Yes, this went through my mind at first. But then I felt bad for her. Maybe it is because her mother worked for us before.
She started to have health problems and that is why Katy came to work for us.

Who knows? maybe in Hungary it is acceptable to have women on the side. Maybe that is where she is comming from. If it is socially accepted where she's from, I can't get mad at her for trying if she didn't know any better.

All I can do is tell her I don't like it, then if she procedes, she can't be accused of not knowing any better.

Then it's time for the big guns, although I'll have to borrow some 'cause I don't have any of my own!


:ak47:

List Copy?

It's comprised of people that neither of us would have a chance in hell of ever hitting!
For example, Edgar Allen Poe is on my list!
And Ayn Rand is on his!

He did. He told her to take her shit and go home.
He's the one that felt uncomfortable and want's her gone.

I sure would hate being your man I'd be pissed that you were going through all of this shit on here talking about paying her money to tell you the truth as if you don't already have the truth from your man. But you say you trust him. You feel bad for her and bla bla bla, you obviously trust her more than him and that's because you said she's ugly and poor. You don't trust him and you're willing to pay a woman in bad need of money to give you information so you're compromising her honesty.

Sucks to your husband is all I can say, I'd kick you to the curb at this point if i was him. But hell he's probably as jealous as you if not more and would do the same thing so you might belong together after all.

:1orglaugh

That's an awesome maid! Will she take a steamer in the mouth?
lol j/k
:Graucho
DS

If he already fired her then tell me again what this thread is all about.

He doesn't want her around 'cause he thinks it's disrespectful to me. Since our decisions are made by both of us, it's up to me now if we keep her or not. That's what I previously stated....he want's her gone, but I'm still out on what to do.

my cleaning lady is over 50 years old! but she cleans good. the most important thing is sh edoesn't steal! but her curiosity once found my magic box open! and asked about the green stuff but get no replies and not fired at all... Yeah maybe she's trying not to die of hunger. did Evelyn said she's from hungary? ironic?

He is absolutely correct!.. you are being way too naive if you think she gives a rats ass about you. She would move into your house and take your place in a heartbeat if she could get away with it.

maids arent that hard to find.. if you are still feeling sorry for her as she goes from house to house cleaning and fucking on the side (not everyone refuses her offer I am sure)then you are the fool in this case.:2 cents:

And as I have also previously stated:

An honest, trusted, LOYAL man would have fired the maid himself.

sounds like a bullshit story, think your mates pulling your pisser

It could always be true, but it's not likely.

1.) Fire the maid
2.) Get a new legit one

Why?

a.) Don't get yourself into trouble over some Hungarian moneyhunter. I'm not sure what you think of your neighbours but suppose she's vacuum cleaning the floor near a hahahahahaha. I wouldn't want my neighbours to see that. It will make you look bad and the word will spread. If you have no problem with this go for it.

b.) These East-European women will do anything for money. They earn less then shit back home. She WILL offer more nude services to our husband again. Maybe try to seduce him. I know that your husband is probably faithful but do you really want a woman in your house who tries to seduce your husband every time. Is it worth taking the risk? I don't think so. There are plenty of other maids around who can clean and don't act like shit the way she does.

c.) Do you really think she is desperate for the money? No. She just wants to buy Calvin Klein and Louis Vitton with the extra money. She's not feeding her 30 babies at home with the extra nude money. I bet she doesn't even tell her mom about it.

So... I would drop the bitch. No matter how bad her situation is.



And AaronM.. You've got a negative attitude man. I guess you've been in porn way to long. You should spend the time you bash people online, with finding a nice girl who doesn't cheat on you. They still exist.

Seb.

I love the contradiction in this statement. You say he is brutally honest then go on to say if you suspect one funny thing you will offer her money for the truth.

If you are going to take the word of a chick that just offered to get naked for your man for money over him then it sounds like your relationship had problems before she came along.

Mike is gay, but I still like him anyways, in a non gay way.

Evelyn (by the way, I'm originally from Evelyn, Louisiana),

Has Mikey ever given you a reason to not trust him. If he hasn't, then, don't sweat the dumb shit! If he has, well, a leopard can't change his spots!! Besides, even if she is a teen maid, if she's ugly, funk that! You wouldn't want an ugly man fucking you so why would Mike want to fuck an ugly, illegal alien maid who probably has illegal alien kooties! LOL!

:thumbsup

If you have a problem with my attitude and what I say around here then why did you make it a point to introduce yourself to me last week? Personally, I make it a point to ignore assholes. I will be sure to keep that in mind the next time I see you.

Sorry that you can not see reality. Porn has nothing to do with this issue.

Eat a dick Seb. :321GFY

this thread is useless without pics.

How does one properly eat a dick? I should w-r-i-t-e Miss Manners with this question .
:1orglaugh

My :2 cents:

It does not seem to me that you have complete trust in this maid. I would not have someone wandering through my home that I did not have complete trust in unless they were naked, and even then, I would want to do a complete body cavity search before they left.

if that was the case, why would she wait for you to leave?

LOL! It's been 9 years now and I've never had a reason not to trust him. I don't believe in having an intimate relationship with someone you don't completely trust.

I think your probably hitting the nail right on the head there?
this so call mom isn't her mom, and the younger maid isn't a experienced maid at all just some illegal hooker the madam brought over to your hubby this hooker is probably doing other guys in other houses on her route Aaron is right this time I think?

this happened sorta in our house seeing there was 5 of us boys living at home and my oldest brother was pumping the maid..

I was far to young to get any. but she was pretty hot lookin!

I'll betcha this is all a set up job the old lady is putting her hoes in different locations and bring more in as time goes by..I really don't think mom is really pimping her daughters out. they work for grandma pimp!

*my opinion*:2 cents:

Exactly my thoughts! Thats what made me question if her intentions were just for money or not.

Anyways I've decided to have her come on thursday and finish her shit, and then I'm gonna give her two weeks pay and tell her good by. It's not worth it if it made Mike or me uncomfortable.

I know her mother is gonna call and ask why and I have no idea what to tell her.

I hope you took it as more money for more nude services (ie: sex)

duh... of course

cuz it seems like what you have now is an ugly prostitute trying to clean your house

Yikes! you are a necrophiliac? cool :thumbsup

Very true!!!

If she is offering this shit behind your back, she can't be trusted to work in your house! Tell her, listen I know you and my husband/
boyfriend had sex, would you be interested in having sex with both of us for X amount of dollars? There are usally two sides to every story and then the real story....I'm sorry, I find really strange she didn't finish her work!

Something is real fishy around this story!

I would pull some money out of his account......but that's me!

Good Luck!!

:2 cents:

I believe him to be brutally honest. I'm not so naive as to say "no, it can never happen to me". People you've trusted your whole life still have the capability to turn around and do something stupid. And just because you offer someone money to tell the truth, you still have no way of confirming it. Hell, if someone offered me enough money, I'd tell them I like to have sex with apes if that's what they wanted to hear.

sounds fair to me!:winkwink:

Wow I guess I upset you, didn't I? lol

I don't have a problem with your attitude. Listen I'm just saying that your perception about cheating men or women may be influenced by an industry where alot of ppl aren't faithful to their spouses. So take it easy man. And I'd rather not eat a dick, thank you very much.

I happen to one of those faithful suckers. :winkwink:

Think about your heart man. :)

I think you shoule let Mike handle that phone call.

My perception is influenced by life, not porn.

I am not familiar with the stats for non-married people but here is a quote from usmarriagelaws.com

"It's hard to watch the news or read the paper without coming across some mention of infidelity, either by an elected official or some famous personality. What are the facts on infidelity? Is everybody cheating on their spouses? And how can we affair-proof our marriages? First, the facts. It's tough to get a handle on marital affairs, but according to recent polls, 22 percent of married men have strayed at least once during their married lives, and 14 percent of married women have had an affair at some time. Younger people are more likely to have an affair; in fact, younger women are as likely as younger men to cheat on their spouses. Seventy percent of married women and 54 percent of married men did not know about their spouses' affair. Seventeen percent of divorces in America are caused by infidelity. These statistics are in spite of the fact that 90 percent of Americans believe adultery is morally wrong."

Now...I firmly believe that you can never have a 100% honest poll aobut something like this. My guess is that one out of every 3 people actually tells the truth, even in an anon poll. That would make 66% of married men and 42% of married women guilty of cheating. These are roughly the same numbers that I have seen time after time in the media.

I am 30 years old and as far as I know....I have been cheated on by 2 women. I am also faithful when involved...However...Since my last GF decided to cheat and I am currently single....I am a regular slut myself. :thumbsup

An honest, trusted, loyal, UNDERSTANDING man would not have fired the maid. :2 cents:

You have a lot of growing up to do. It was kinda cool seeing you in Phoenix. I love to see people when they get their first taste of this biz off these boards and you can see that it hits them like a ton of bricks. It's a real eye opener.

Life is the same way. If I was the wife and I heard this story from my husband, I would question why he did not fire her on the spot. She was in their house, she violated that trust.

End of story.

hahaha, hell yeah

Bad naked:1orglaugh

Being single and a regular slut is nothing to be ashamed of.. I'm back in the market myself since three weeks. :Graucho

If she doesn't steal from you and does a good job cleaning, keep her. If she does a shitty job, fire her ass. :2 cents:

If she does her job real good, you can keep her but let her know that's all she needs to do for you. If she sucks at her job, fire her!