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eroswebmaster 04-20-2004 10:32 AM

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Originally posted by Fletch XXX


no doubt they pierce ears, im talking about noses, belly buttons.

i know places like Hot Topic etc, dont even sell belly jewelery to kids, at least not in this state anyway.

its 18+ for anything aside from ears I believe.

Well tell that to the 12 year old that has the tongue...belly and nose piercings.

sperbonzo 04-20-2004 10:34 AM

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Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday


If you think the whole industry is based on this then you are very narrow minded and have yet to see the whole picture:2 cents:

First of all, it was a joke....

Secondly, where does the content come from? When you buy content to sell to surfers, how do you think those pictures are taken? The vast majority (not all), of the "talent" in the porn industry tend to be to be pretty sad cases of girls who are "materialistic, sex-obsessed sluts" who have nothing better going on in their lives than to do this. I don't think that any webmaster here, particularly on this thread, would want their daughter to do the things, and live the lifestyle that "content" girls do. I knew quite a few in LA, and I know quite a few in Miami, and they almost always have some history of emotional, or physical abuse, and are really unhappy in general.

I'm sorry if this is hard to hear, but this is what you are buying and selling.

Thirdly.....IT WAS A JOKE!

wdsguy 04-20-2004 10:35 AM

society is going downhill nuff said

cherrylula 04-20-2004 10:35 AM

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Originally posted by stev0
I know, it's insane!

I blame pop music like britney/christina for the slutty clothes...

ya know, I have thought about this myself. Blaming Britney etc because of her slutty outfits.

But, when I was like 10 and Madonna came out I didn't immediately want to dress like a slut, and Madonna was pretty slutty. My parents would have never ever let me dress like slutty though, even if I had wanted to.

blame bad parenting

eroswebmaster 04-20-2004 10:41 AM

Just got off the phone with pair a dice tatoo parlor and this is what the owner told me...
there are no current laws that require a person to be of a certain age to get any piercings in Vegas.

It is a personal choice for each shop owner...he will not do facials for anyone under 18 and will do bellies for 16...but he said he would not be surprised if someone in the area would do it...but would not call them reputable.

Raven 04-20-2004 10:51 AM

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Originally posted by eroswebmaster
Just got off the phone with pair a dice tatoo parlor and this is what the owner told me...
there are no current laws that require a person to be of a certain age to get any piercings in Vegas.

It is a personal choice for each shop owner...he will not do facials for anyone under 18 and will do bellies for 16...but he said he would not be surprised if someone in the area would do it...but would not call them reputable.

I'm not saying it's right. It isn't. Children should be children for as long as possible. They aren't ready for most of what comes down the pike, until they're at a certain age.

I've seen parents try real hard to keep their children age appropriate.

The results vary.

To blame television or parents totally isn't appropriate, either. I know how hard I tried and my son still did it. Does that make me a bad parent? Maybe. But, I know I tried like hell to keep his activities limited to what I thought was age appropriate. He had other ideas.

Still, he grew up, in spite of himself and is headed in a wonderful direction. But, that's my kid.

I've seen so many kids take wrong turns, through no fault of the parents and I've seen kids do it right, in spite of parents.

Sigh. Seems like a crap shoot sometimes.

C_U_Next_Tuesday 04-20-2004 10:55 AM

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Originally posted by sperbonzo


First of all, it was a joke....

Secondly, where does the content come from? When you buy content to sell to surfers, how do you think those pictures are taken? The vast majority (not all), of the "talent" in the porn industry tend to be to be pretty sad cases of girls who are "materialistic, sex-obsessed sluts" who have nothing better going on in their lives than to do this. I don't think that any webmaster here, particularly on this thread, would want their daughter to do the things, and live the lifestyle that "content" girls do. I knew quite a few in LA, and I know quite a few in Miami, and they almost always have some history of emotional, or physical abuse, and are really unhappy in general.

I'm sorry if this is hard to hear, but this is what you are buying and selling.

Thirdly.....IT WAS A JOKE!

lol.. you see, I am a content girl..

What I was trying to point out is that porn is not all about young girls waiting to turn 18 so you can prey upon them..

I have no history of emotional , physical or sexual abuse.. I must be the exception :winkwink:

sperbonzo 04-20-2004 11:03 AM

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Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday


lol.. you see, I am a content girl..

What I was trying to point out is that porn is not all about young girls waiting to turn 18 so you can prey upon them..

I have no history of emotional , physical or sexual abuse.. I must be the exception :winkwink:

That's great that you are the exception, but if you know other content girls, than you probably know what I was talking about. I'm not holding it up as some great thing to prey upon girls to get content, but to be honest, a lot of the girls are open to manipulation and that is what the content people take advantage of. I'm not saying that it's all one sided, but there is that tendency. I'm not shying away from it, people use each other all the time......I'm just pointing out how funny the post that jim_gunn put up was.

:glugglug

kmanrox 04-20-2004 11:04 AM

i'd still hit it?

tony286 04-20-2004 11:06 AM

The problem is parents want to be friends not parents. I go to the mall and these little girls are dressed like whores walking with their parents. Then they wonder why the kid is fucking around at 13 and with a kid at 15.

iFliPcEss 04-20-2004 11:11 AM

I guess the environment has something to do with it, what they see, what they here

Elli 04-20-2004 11:34 AM

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Originally posted by stev0
I know, it's insane!

I blame pop music like britney/christina for the slutty clothes... and I think there must be some sort of growth hormones in the food. Cuz none of the girls had fully developed tits when i was in elementry/jr high... now look at them!

There are hormones. It's been proven that the growth hormones in the beef and other foods we eat affects the hormones in growing children. Also, food is much more plentiful for kids now than in the 70's or 50's.

WHen I was in school, the first girl to get a training bra was 10 and got the hell bugged out of her. Poor Allison. Now they're getting them at 8.

Kimmykim 04-20-2004 11:38 AM

Anyone remember the AVN show in Vegas one summer a few years ago where our hall was just past the one where the tap dancing contestants were?

Talk about what should have been a wake up call for the parents, seeing their kids dressed in similar outfits and with similar makeup to all the porn stars cruising by...

tootie 04-20-2004 11:39 AM

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Originally posted by Elli


There are hormones. It's been proven that the growth hormones in the beef and other foods we eat affects the hormones in growing children. Also, food is much more plentiful for kids now than in the 70's or 50's.

WHen I was in school, the first girl to get a training bra was 10 and got the hell bugged out of her. Poor Allison. Now they're getting them at 8.

I had a B cup at 9 and a C by 11. I remember coming to school in 6th grade one morning without a bra because I forgot to put one on and I was freaked out. A friend of mine was in the bathroom crying when I got to school and I asked her why and she told me she forgot to wear hers that day, too. So we both wore our jackets all day. Nowadays I think some of the well-endowed girls go without a bra on purpose. :Oh crap

Elli 04-20-2004 11:43 AM

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Originally posted by tootie


I had a B cup at 9 and a C by 11. I remember coming to school in 6th grade one morning without a bra because I forgot to put one on and I was freaked out. A friend of mine was in the bathroom crying when I got to school and I asked her why and she told me she forgot to wear hers that day, too. So we both wore our jackets all day. Nowadays I think some of the well-endowed girls go without a bra on purpose. :Oh crap

Look, I had a good theory going. You didn't have to blast it out of the water so quickly. :winkwink:

Yeah I remember those days whenI forgot my bra, esp. on gym class days. Oh the horror! The embarrassment! How did we ever survive school, anyway?

tootie 04-20-2004 11:48 AM

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Originally posted by Elli


Look, I had a good theory going. You didn't have to blast it out of the water so quickly. :winkwink:

Yeah I remember those days whenI forgot my bra, esp. on gym class days. Oh the horror! The embarrassment! How did we ever survive school, anyway?

LOL! Well, I was the exception when I was in school There were only a couple of girls in my school bigger than a B by 6th grade. :)

C_U_Next_Tuesday 04-20-2004 11:55 AM

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Originally posted by sperbonzo


That's great that you are the exception, but if you know other content girls, than you probably know what I was talking about. I'm not holding it up as some great thing to prey upon girls to get content, but to be honest, a lot of the girls are open to manipulation and that is what the content people take advantage of. I'm not saying that it's all one sided, but there is that tendency. I'm not shying away from it, people use each other all the time......I'm just pointing out how funny the post that jim_gunn put up was.

:glugglug

I know alot of content girls as well as strippers and hookers...I have been in the adult business for 20 years now. I do know of girls that you refer to , but again you were missing what I was pointing out in the first place.. im just too tired to keep typing it..lol

pornJester 04-20-2004 11:57 AM

Not enough kids get smacked around now adays. Five fingers to the face may put some of these punks in check. :thumbsup

graphicsbytia 04-20-2004 12:03 PM

In my opinion, the raising of a child ends at around 12.. and really most of the values instilled in that child are way before that, from between 3 and 6 yrs old.

After that all you can do is offer guidance, the die is cast.. By YOU

eroswebmaster 04-20-2004 12:07 PM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia
In my opinion, the raising of a child ends at around 12.. and really most of the values instilled in that child are way before that, from between 3 and 6 yrs old.

After that all you can do is offer guidance, the die is cast.. By YOU

While I agree with what you are saying there are still things that are under a parent's control.

A piercing tattoo shop won't take a kid who walks in off the street without an adult especially if she's 12.

A 12 year old will have a difficult time to get to that shop if the parent isn't driving them and plopping down the $50+ it costs to get some of these piercings.

That's clearly a parental mistake IMO.

Kimmykim 04-20-2004 12:09 PM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia
In my opinion, the raising of a child ends at around 12.. and really most of the values instilled in that child are way before that, from between 3 and 6 yrs old.

After that all you can do is offer guidance, the die is cast.. By YOU

I don't agree one bit. When your kids hit the nearly teenager stage you need to spend even more time making sure they are doing the right thing.

graphicsbytia 04-20-2004 12:14 PM

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Originally posted by eroswebmaster


While I agree with what you are saying there are still things that are under a parent's control.

A piercing tattoo shop won't take a kid who walks in off the street without an adult especially if she's 12.

A 12 year old will have a difficult time to get to that shop if the parent isn't driving them and plopping down the $50+ it costs to get some of these piercings.

That's clearly a parental mistake IMO.

and what is this 12 yr old going to do when they get the big NO from the parents? By the time a child is that old, they are going to do what they're going to do whether you like it or not.. if I were in that situation.. (and I was) I would offer to pay for her to have it done in a professional manner instead of her going behind my back and getting a friend to do it.

My 14 yr old daughter taunted me a little by saying she wanted to get her nose pierced.. she thought I'd be mortified.. well.. actually I was.. but I said to her.. sure.. I'll make an appointment for you, and we'll get it done tomorrow.. she said.. well no, I don't want it done yet, I'm still thinking about it..

she never did it.. thank goodness..

See, I was relying on what I'd instilled in her when she was younger.. whew.. being a parent is hard!

graphicsbytia 04-20-2004 12:16 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim


I don't agree one bit. When your kids hit the nearly teenager stage you need to spend even more time making sure they are doing the right thing.

I think you missed my point KimmyKim, I said the raising ends.. not the guidance.. and you can't force a teenager to do anything, and have it work out well.. anyone with teenagers knows that already

eroswebmaster 04-20-2004 12:30 PM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia


and what is this 12 yr old going to do when they get the big NO from the parents? By the time a child is that old, they are going to do what they're going to do whether you like it or not.. if I were in that situation.. (and I was) I would offer to pay for her to have it done in a professional manner instead of her going behind my back and getting a friend to do it.

My 14 yr old daughter taunted me a little by saying she wanted to get her nose pierced.. she thought I'd be mortified.. well.. actually I was.. but I said to her.. sure.. I'll make an appointment for you, and we'll get it done tomorrow.. she said.. well no, I don't want it done yet, I'm still thinking about it..

she never did it.. thank goodness..

See, I was relying on what I'd instilled in her when she was younger.. whew.. being a parent is hard!

That's not the issue...I didn't start a thread about kids doing things behind their parents backs..that happens I did it we all did it..but we are talking about parents who enable their kids...parents are pussies now...that's the truth.
Fuck the time out bullshit..fuck the discussion bullshit...bullshit hippy logic has put us where we are now.

Jman 04-20-2004 12:33 PM

To much MTV

graphicsbytia 04-20-2004 12:57 PM

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Originally posted by eroswebmaster


That's not the issue...I didn't start a thread about kids doing things behind their parents backs..that happens I did it we all did it..but we are talking about parents who enable their kids...parents are pussies now...that's the truth.
Fuck the time out bullshit..fuck the discussion bullshit...bullshit hippy logic has put us where we are now.

do you have kids eroswebmaster?

Kimmykim 04-20-2004 01:16 PM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia


I think you missed my point KimmyKim, I said the raising ends.. not the guidance.. and you can't force a teenager to do anything, and have it work out well.. anyone with teenagers knows that already

Oh yes, you can. My son got caught skipping school one day last fall and I put his ass back in boarding school so fast it made his head spin.

Now he calls home to tell me his grades are fantastic and that he's being moved into harder classes...

This child didn't like school at 8, much less at 13, but he's coming around to my way of thinking now, and it's a good thing. Expensive but worth every dime.

AdultNex 04-20-2004 01:23 PM

What I think the reason for this is because many of the parents these days were raised during the "counterculture/hippy days" where many were exposed to drugs and sex.

C_U_Next_Tuesday 04-20-2004 01:25 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim

Oh yes, you can. My son got caught skipping school one day last fall and I put his ass back in boarding school so fast it made his head spin.

Now he calls home to tell me his grades are fantastic and that he's being moved into harder classes...

This child didn't like school at 8, much less at 13, but he's coming around to my way of thinking now, and it's a good thing. Expensive but worth every dime.

Good for you KK.. I wish I had that control over my youngest.. he is way out of control... the worst part is that Hubby is always there to praise his naughtyness and lets the child know that he really doesnt have to listen to me.. sucks.. my only option at this point is to chain him to the house somehow.. but we all know that would end me up in jail..little man is only 7 and he thinks he can do what he wants..

my teenagers are a blessing and I have no problems with them other than doing chores...of course the know hubby is an asshole and they hate how he treats the youngest..

Curious question, Do you have to share your authority with anyone else at the house.. if so ..do they undermine you when it comes to discipline?.. I'm ready to pack bags and leave the assholes here to live with themselves

AdultNex 04-20-2004 01:25 PM

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Originally posted by JMan
To much MTV
I'd like to mention that too... If you ever sit on a couch for a day and just watch MTV, you'd be amazed what goes on.

There is so much sexual innuendos in MTV, it's just crazy.

webseth 04-20-2004 01:25 PM

y'all are prudes.

SoBeGirl Video 04-20-2004 01:26 PM

I was at the nude beach the other day and two very young girls walked by...

brand0n 04-20-2004 01:27 PM

just becouse i wear the uniform of a cop, does not make me a cop

bopha 04-20-2004 01:37 PM

First of all we, didn't have MTV parenting us. Didn't have Cable until I was 14. Now,Every video shows men talking about bitches, ho's and bling. Kids have no concept of regular male /female relationships and are bombarded concepts that they don't even need to be worrying about for a long time.


We were at a 7 grade dance and the dj was playing music that was highly inappropriate.

"It's getting hot in here, so take off all your clothes."

"Going to have you naked by the end of this song."

"Girl you look good, won't ya back that ass up.


WTF? This school has a dress code and booty cooler shorts are allowed as LONG as they are Khaki.

You can argue that it's a generational thing, I'll agree some. I thought my parents were way too conservative, but there is so much more influence than we ever dreamed of coming at kids.

Parents don't parent much anymore.

Doing this job has opened my eyes to how easy it is to slide our business right into the mainstream. I always thought it should be separated. Kids should be kids for as long as they can.

Also. Laws in our state say you must be 18 to get pierced. (not ears). Our studios won't touch you, even with mom there saying it's ok.

:2 cents:

Lane 04-20-2004 01:38 PM

what's she gonna get to at 13? pierce her clit?
its fucking insane man

Creative 04-20-2004 01:38 PM

Sluts in Training

eroswebmaster 04-20-2004 02:37 PM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia


do you have kids eroswebmaster?

I've been raising my nieces on and off for almost 12 years now..so that doesn't fly with me.
Once again we're not talking about what kids will do behind your back...we're talking about what soft ass parents do for kids to "buy their love."

eroswebmaster 04-20-2004 02:45 PM

It's pretty apparent that's what this mom is doing...she feels like she can't provide in other ways so what does she do...let's her do pretty much as she pleases.

I speak from experience...I grew up with a mother exactly like that.

At the age of 12-13 years old me and my stepbrother were walking the streets of Fort Worth Texas at all hours of the night...I'm talking about 1-2-3 am.

I spent Holidays in bars with my mom tossing $20's my way to go spend on video games etc..if I wanted liquor I could have it...my mom was at that time smoking pot with my older brother..who before 18 was already in juvi halls and had robbed a 7-11 at gunpoint..stolen a car and robbed the local pot dealer.

On the other hand my father was way too strict...we'd go from hot to cold...a mother who let me have all the dirty mags I wanted and a dad who had me in church 3-4 times a week.

The thing is there has to be a middle ground...and appropriateness.

Parents need to set limits...we all know kids want them...we wanted them.

And if you punish them...it doesn't mean to beat them..but make it real..fuck the time out. If you tell them they lose a priviliege then make sure they lose that privilege until the agreed upon time...you let up one day...one hour...one minute that's a victory in a kids mind.

12 year old girls don't need tongue..nose or belly piercings. If she wants all that then make her earn it through responsible action. Like get a drivers license and a job and then pay for it.

ebonycoed1 04-20-2004 03:26 PM

Not lets forget the "new first base", girls 12 and up giving boys blowjobs, at school, on the bus and at their house. Because they seem to think that there is nothing wrong with it. It's not sex and it makes the guys like them more. Forget kissing or touching the tits, nowadays they go straight to the cock

Xplicit 04-20-2004 03:32 PM

Post pics :1orglaugh


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