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HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 03:25 PM

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Originally posted by freeadultcontent


The non exclusive site was updated two to three times a week, content was cheap so updating is easy. The exclusive sites are updated weekly at the very least (we do suprise updates on occassion).

We have played with plug ins and may add them again. Problem was finding a plug in that was used enough to justify the cost, had high enough quality, and did not cause more than the normal amount of member emails with problems.

Thanks, we do have an alternate design by dickman designs for the first site that we are testing now.

I guess it also depends on the niche you're in. If it's a niche where you have alot more competitors, then perhaps exclusive is your best bet. If you can shoot your own content, that much better.

I was wondering about plugins and if surfers are really looking for the extra bells and whistles and if you have a full enough site, are they really looking for more stuff?

How about chats? Have any of you added them to your sites? Are they busy?


Edit: Adding..........Dickman's Designs ROCK!! I like their work!

tayloryum 02-27-2004 03:32 PM

choose your payment processor very carefully - use recommendations.

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 03:34 PM

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Originally posted by tayloryum
choose your payment processor very carefully - use recommendations.
Who would you recommend?

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 03:36 PM

Im not a fan of bells and whistles, that of course is just a personal opinion. I have no hard data either way if members care which way it goes in regards to those.

I would say do the following no matter the route.

Provide the absolute best value for the dollar to your members. They will gladly pay more if the quality and value is present.

Worry more about keeping customers over aquiring new ones. Customer service should be a top priority.

Offer as many options as possible with the content you do have. A huge image size next to the reduced image size, 2-3 movie types, clips as well as the full length video ect.

Listen to your members requests. If they feel they have an impact with the site they will stick around.

Be very picky over quality. It is your money your spending and it will be your site associated with it, demand what you want when you buy.

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 03:55 PM

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Originally posted by freeadultcontent
Im not a fan of bells and whistles, that of course is just a personal opinion. I have no hard data either way if members care which way it goes in regards to those.

I would say do the following no matter the route.

Provide the absolute best value for the dollar to your members. They will gladly pay more if the quality and value is present.

Worry more about keeping customers over aquiring new ones. Customer service should be a top priority.

Offer as many options as possible with the content you do have. A huge image size next to the reduced image size, 2-3 movie types, clips as well as the full length video ect.

Listen to your members requests. If they feel they have an impact with the site they will stick around.

Be very picky over quality. It is your money your spending and it will be your site associated with it, demand what you want when you buy.


FAC, thanks a million, I appreciate those wise words.

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 04:56 PM

Came back from supper and was hoping I'd find some more advice.

So I'll just bumpity-bump-bump :)

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 04:58 PM

ask more questions :winkwink:

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 05:04 PM

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Originally posted by freeadultcontent
ask more questions :winkwink:
What is required - server-wise for a small paysite?
Is a mirror necessary right away? Or at all?
Protection? Who/What do you recommend?
What percentage, do you think, should go back into advertising?

Have any of you been sabotaged by competitors?

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 05:22 PM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia


What is required - server-wise for a small paysite?
Is a mirror necessary right away? Or at all?
Protection? Who/What do you recommend?
What percentage, do you think, should go back into advertising?

Have any of you been sabotaged by competitors?

1. The best hosting you can afford with a small dedicated server.
2. Not right away.
3. I like pennywize others like different programs. Reliable techs that should be at your hosting company help alot ... see 1.
4. Depends on when. I would devote at least 80-90% of the sites proceeds back into the site for the first few months at least (6 I would say).

Keep in mind you work for your affiliates they do not work for you.

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 05:25 PM

I'm really weary of getting affiliates right away so I'll really be working for myself - and I'm quite demanding.

RedShoe 02-27-2004 05:26 PM

Never be the 50th poster in a thread.

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 05:27 PM

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Originally posted by RedShoe
Never be the 50th poster in a thread.
Haha....shit I was just going to do that and finally say 50! and get it right.....ah well you fucked my plan....shit la merde!

Anna_O 02-27-2004 05:29 PM

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Originally posted by RedShoe
Never be the 50th poster in a thread.
Is it good to be #52 then? :winkwink:

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 05:30 PM

Well we have proof that any post is good....even if it's just a
:) Eventually they pay off :)

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 05:41 PM

Odds are you will end up with a camera out of this so now you can fix that custom content issue.

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 05:42 PM

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Originally posted by freeadultcontent
Odds are you will end up with a camera out of this so now you can fix that custom content issue.
I'll end up with a camera? How so?

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 05:44 PM

BTW, I'm sure others have a shitload of questions that I'm really not thinking of right now.

We have people nice enough to answer the questions (and not being offensive) how about asking some?

Trax 02-27-2004 05:49 PM

i think when opening a paysite you need to be able to send at least 5-10 signups a day on your own
do the math what a waste it would be if you cannot generate a decent number yourself

and starting out with an affiliate program from day 1 is just stupid
you are not experienced enough to do that.

promote it on your own and start learning how it works

hope this helps you :winkwink:
its a little thank you for the dmoz help you offered me hehe :thumbsup

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 06:10 PM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia


I'll end up with a camera? How so?

If you get thread of the day you get one. My bets say you will get it.

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 06:11 PM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia
BTW, I'm sure others have a shitload of questions that I'm really not thinking of right now.

We have people nice enough to answer the questions (and not being offensive) how about asking some?

I know enough to know I do not know enough so please everyone take my thoughts as mere opinions tested by myself with my own products.

tayloryum 02-27-2004 06:12 PM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia


Who would you recommend?

i used to use IBILL when i had a paysite years ago, and i don't have one anymore, so i can't recommend anyone. i'm sure someone here can.

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 06:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Trax
i think when opening a paysite you need to be able to send at least 5-10 signups a day on your own
do the math what a waste it would be if you cannot generate a decent number yourself

and starting out with an affiliate program from day 1 is just stupid
you are not experienced enough to do that.

promote it on your own and start learning how it works

hope this helps you :winkwink:
its a little thank you for the dmoz help you offered me hehe :thumbsup

I do not know if you "need" 5-10 a day or are you talking trials?

If I sent 10 a week at 30.00 each thats nearly 300.00 a week not counting rebills, (1200.00 a month) which may not be bad for someone looking to supplement their income.

Do limit promotion to yourself and maybe a few friends to work out the kinks instead of jumping into the affiliate arena.

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 06:17 PM

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Originally posted by freeadultcontent


I know enough to know I do not know enough so please everyone take my thoughts as mere opinions tested by myself with my own products.

FAC.....nobody's going to take your word to the bank.....help & advice is all we're asking for and thankfully, you're obliging.

I doubt it'll win thread of the day......there are a few posts regarding the big-sig sale :)

Actually - experience is good enough for me. Theory doesn't work well on the marketplace - people don't always react as the textbooks say.

Another question - is it wise to get 900 billing? & Do you think a secondary processor is a good idea?

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 06:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Trax
i think when opening a paysite you need to be able to send at least 5-10 signups a day on your own
do the math what a waste it would be if you cannot generate a decent number yourself

and starting out with an affiliate program from day 1 is just stupid
you are not experienced enough to do that.

promote it on your own and start learning how it works

hope this helps you :winkwink:
its a little thank you for the dmoz help you offered me hehe :thumbsup


I agree that I should test it with my traffic. It's the traffic I know - and I think the signups won't be a problem - I hope!

As for the DMOZ help - you asked for help....you got it. As long as you don't ask for listings - it's all good. :-))

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 06:21 PM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia
Another question - is it wise to get 900 billing? & Do you think a secondary processor is a good idea?
900 billing is alot like check billing. True you will get alot of returns or uncollected and it may cost you a little in bandwidth. Yet if you do not accept it your just leaving money sitting on the table.

Well a backup is good. I personally do not like cascading though.

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 06:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by freeadultcontent


I do not know if you "need" 5-10 a day or are you talking trials?

If I sent 10 a week at 30.00 each thats nearly 300.00 a week not counting rebills, (1200.00 a month) which may not be bad for someone looking to supplement their income.

Do limit promotion to yourself and maybe a few friends to work out the kinks instead of jumping into the affiliate arena.

FAC, as long as it pays it's own bills, grows in a stable fashion, surfers are happy and recurring, I'll be happy with that. If I don't forget anything or have taken care of all ends possible beforehand, it should grow. I'm just worried that something out of nowhere pops up that I hadn't taken into consideration beforehand.

Time will tell I guess.

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 06:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by freeadultcontent


900 billing is alot like check billing. True you will get alot of returns or uncollected and it may cost you a little in bandwidth. Yet if you do not accept it your just leaving money sitting on the table.

Well a backup is good. I personally do not like cascading though.

I think I should get that. I remember at one point EscortBiz had found a way for them not to fuck you over. I wonder if it's still that way and if he is going to put that out on the market.


Do you know if Europeans mind the USD billing? Do they prefer other methods of payment?


EDIT: FAC, sorry if I'm drilling you.....any time you want to stop, let me know......hopefully someone else will take some of the pressure off ya! Thanks, it's appreciated!

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 06:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Trixxxia
Do you know if Europeans mind the USD billing? Do they prefer other methods of payment?


EDIT: FAC, sorry if I'm drilling you.....any time you want to stop, let me know......hopefully someone else will take some of the pressure off ya! Thanks, it's appreciated!

Most for me have not said much and we have plenty of overseas members. I am sure other payment options would only help though. I know I been fiddling with the ccbill dialer now for a bit, figured why not.

Dont worry about asking questions. Its more fun than just being sarcastic in threads (which I am going to go do some more of now while you prep a few more).

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 06:56 PM

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Originally posted by freeadultcontent


Most for me have not said much and we have plenty of overseas members. I am sure other payment options would only help though. I know I been fiddling with the ccbill dialer now for a bit, figured why not.

Are you seeing better results? All US customers though, right?



How about processing companies, what has to be ready for them when they come to see it for compliance? The legal stuff, do they recommend it or do you need to get your lawyer to set that up for you first? The entire site has to be behind password protection or do they provide that for you?

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 07:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Trixxxia


Are you seeing better results? All US customers though, right?



How about processing companies, what has to be ready for them when they come to see it for compliance? The legal stuff, do they recommend it or do you need to get your lawyer to set that up for you first? The entire site has to be behind password protection or do they provide that for you?

Results are still out on dialer. We do already have a mix on non US members.

What needs to be ready (based on ccbill).
1. enough content to justify a members area.
2. title 18 info.
3. they password protect.

Lawyers are always a great idea.

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 07:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by freeadultcontent


Results are still out on dialer. We do already have a mix on non US members.

What needs to be ready (based on ccbill).
1. enough content to justify a members area.
2. title 18 info.
3. they password protect.

Lawyers are always a great idea.

What amount is considered enough content to justify a members area?

wyldblyss 02-27-2004 07:13 PM

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Originally posted by stev0
is custom content really all that important? i would think non-exclusive would work just as well, as long as it's not been spread around too much.
If money is tight I would go for a mixture. If it non-exclusive you have to make sure the quality is top-notch. None of the bargain basement 200,000 pics for $4.99 shit LOL

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 07:16 PM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia


What amount is considered enough content to justify a members area?

A shockingly low amount, actually it is very sick. I would never try to start anything on the lower end of the spectrum, though I am sure it hovers near what could pass on an AVS site.

VeriSexy 02-27-2004 07:25 PM

Biggest mistake is to pay too much for hosting and signing long contracts :(

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 07:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by freeadultcontent


A shockingly low amount, actually it is very sick. I would never try to start anything on the lower end of the spectrum, though I am sure it hovers near what could pass on an AVS site.

Actually, I've looked at a few sites 'new sites' lately and wasn't impressed with their content - or lack of.

Out of curiosity, do any of you recycle your content? After a year or so, or do you remove your updates? Anyone updating daily?

pussyluver 02-27-2004 07:30 PM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia
I'm really weary of getting affiliates right away so I'll really be working for myself - and I'm quite demanding.
How about hand picked affiliates! Talk to them on the phone! Know where they live! Get to know and trust them. Any doubts, skip 'em. That way you have some people pushing your site and you avoid the BS.

If I were one of your affiliates, I would have something to offer, that others didn't. that adds value to my site!

HS-Trixxxia 02-27-2004 07:30 PM

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Originally posted by VeriSexy
Biggest mistake is to pay too much for hosting and signing long contracts :(
What's considered a long contract? 1 Year? 2 Years?

Where the server is concerned, I think I'd be covered. I have great guys who have taken care of me since our initiation assfuck when we got in the biz 5 years ago. That was one fucking fiasco I'd never go through again!!

freeadultcontent 02-27-2004 07:31 PM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia


Actually, I've looked at a few sites 'new sites' lately and wasn't impressed with their content - or lack of.

Out of curiosity, do any of you recycle your content? After a year or so, or do you remove your updates? Anyone updating daily?

Once content goes up it stays up. I could use the script so that new members go through the old stuff first and get older updates ect, but see no reason in it. Maybe if I was doing cookie cutter front ends and redundant back ends I could understand the logic.

We working towards daily updates.

schiz 02-27-2004 07:31 PM

.htaccessing your front page ;)

pussyluver 02-27-2004 07:32 PM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia


What's considered a long contract? 1 Year? 2 Years?

Where the server is concerned, I think I'd be covered. I have great guys who have taken care of me since our initiation assfuck when we got in the biz 5 years ago. That was one fucking fiasco I'd never go through again!!

On hosting? Geeeeze, one month - been stung a time or two. Need a way out, incase something is wrong.


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