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Old 02-04-2004, 09:25 PM   #1
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Do you tell people that you are in the Porn industry?

In response to the post How old are you?

I've realized that alot of us are very young.

Alot of people I have talked to don't seem to realize how lucrative online porn can be. They say that there are "millions" of porn sites..can't make money... blah blah blah..

Do you tell people you are in the porn business?

So what do you say?
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:27 PM   #2
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Depends on who is asking. There is a time and a place for everything... and sometimes its not a great idea to tell people what you do for a living...
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:31 PM   #3
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my friends laugh at me

but than they always wounder howcome i always got money..
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:32 PM   #4
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Everyone i know is in the porn business as well

Its hard to hide it when they see my office!
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:32 PM   #5
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:33 PM   #6
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:35 PM   #7
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:35 PM   #8
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all of my friends laughed at me. BUT! Of course they are the ones that keep comming back to my web site at 3 in the morning... Hmmm..
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:36 PM   #9
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:37 PM   #10
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I was at a funeral this morning, and my mother was introducing me to many people that have not seen me since I was a child.

The work question seems to come up a lot. Not sure how i'd handle it if didnt still have my 9-5.
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:42 PM   #11
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I thought of many things you could say... Internet Business, Internet Marketing Business, Webmaster... but that's all gravy until they ask more about it in detail.
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Old 02-04-2004, 09:49 PM   #12
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well i tell them the truth, that i am a photographer. But that leads to "Oh what do you take pictures of". Then I say nude, and the shit hit's the fan from there....lol
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Old 02-04-2004, 10:01 PM   #13
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I just started dating this girl outside the biz and was honest with her from the start on what I do. (I was actually wearing my PornKings.com hat when I met her...haha..) She is always asking questions about it......I think she thinks its cool.
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Old 02-04-2004, 10:06 PM   #14
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There are some you tell and some you dont. When I dont want to tell that particular person, I tell them I am in the technology business.
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Old 02-04-2004, 11:17 PM   #15
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people who aren't in the industry usually make it out to be more than it is. even if your job is porn, it's still a job.
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Old 02-04-2004, 11:21 PM   #16
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It depends who ask's me! And if I care and if it will affect anybody I know. For example, I don't want to fuck with my roommates relationship with his parents, and since they are cool with me, I've never told them that I was in the adult industry. Number 1 reason, their Jahova's Witnesses (Spellcheck ).

There are a few reason why I won't tell a few people, but everybody in my family knows!

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Old 02-04-2004, 11:24 PM   #17
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I just started dating this girl outside the biz and was honest with her from the start on what I do. (I was actually wearing my PornKings.com hat when I met her...haha..) She is always asking questions about it......I think she thinks its cool.
Yea I know a few chicks that dig it and always ask things! But I've had to flip my pornkings backwards when my roommates parents came over one day!

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Old 02-04-2004, 11:26 PM   #18
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Old 02-04-2004, 11:28 PM   #19
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I love it. I'm sitting in a bar talking to some locals from the college here. it always comes up. especially when my wife is with me.


what do you do for a living?
wife: I'm a house wife
me: I'm a pornographer

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people at the bar: whats your url?
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Old 02-04-2004, 11:31 PM   #20
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Yea I know a few chicks that dig it and always ask things! But I've had to flip my pornkings backwards when my roommates parents came over one day!

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Hey JDog whats up....thanks for joining that chat the other day with me, Sean, & Matt....you answered a lot of questions for us....thanks.
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Old 02-04-2004, 11:31 PM   #21
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I tell people I'm an Internet marketing/advertising consultant.

That's it.

My family knows what I do. Hell, Mom works for Tev and I, who are in this business together...Tev being my honey guy.

But, the outside world? No.

Living in Georgia for three years taught me to shut up about what I do.
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Old 02-05-2004, 12:31 AM   #22
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Not if I can help it. It leads to too many questions.
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Old 02-05-2004, 12:34 AM   #23
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Old 02-05-2004, 12:34 AM   #24
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i just lie and tell people how many pounds of drugs i sell weekly and all the back taxes i have.
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Old 02-05-2004, 12:37 AM   #25
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i admint i'm into porn, except to my parents
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Old 02-05-2004, 12:38 AM   #26
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Never tried to really hide that fact from anyone.
same here, if somebody asks what I do I tell them.. most are more interested than offended
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Old 02-05-2004, 12:47 AM   #27
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I tell my friends what I do, but I tell other people that I am in the online entertainment business.
most of my friends want me to show them how to make money doing what i do.
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Old 02-05-2004, 12:50 AM   #28
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Discretion is the better part of valor.

I usually just tell people I run an advertising agency which of course is what I do.

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Old 02-05-2004, 01:29 AM   #29
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Depends on who is asking. There is a time and a place for everything... and sometimes its not a great idea to tell people what you do for a living...
What he said!

When I DO get asked, I usually am upfront and friendly about answering--sometimes, it gets me a free beer/coffee:-)

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Old 02-05-2004, 03:20 AM   #30
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Old 02-05-2004, 03:32 AM   #31
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well I do adult and mainstream stuff...I say "internet developer" "graphic designer" not lying but I would rather not go into detail...some people just dont get it, if I owned a video store and had an adult section nobody would say anything but promoting porn on the internet changes the way some people look at you
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Old 02-05-2004, 03:36 AM   #32
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I tell people when asked, most of my family know.

I hate it when i come across the whole 'its immoral' lectures some people give when they find out
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Old 02-05-2004, 03:49 AM   #33
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I find it's easier not to tell people what i do for a living..

You always get the stupid questions like....
Is that legal?, Can you get me laid? etc etc
sometimes i think it'd be easier to say 'i rob banks for a living'

plus the people who think it's immoral
(has anyone else got the emails, usually from an aol account, binding Satan from their souls.....
still, makes a change from Nigerian business opportunities.. lol )

I find if you start talking technical about scripting, servers and bandwidth
then they soon change the subject of what you do
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My friends know what I do for a living, but when someone else asks me I usually just say I work in the computer business. Most people change the subject because they don't know much technical stuff about computers
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Old 02-05-2004, 04:27 AM   #35
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I hate it when i come across the whole 'its immoral' lectures some people give when they find out
Ha ha, I get the same thing with a couple of people, now that they know what I do, every time I see them, they ask how the business is going to get back on the subject again, then they throw in the immoral bullshit all over again, ha ha ha.
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Old 02-05-2004, 11:28 AM   #39
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I hold nothing back if somebody asks i tell them i work in the adult industry, but some people get the wrong idea so i take minute to explain.
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Old 02-05-2004, 11:42 AM   #42
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I tell people I'm an Internet marketing/advertising consultant.

That's it.

My family knows what I do. Hell, Mom works for Tev and I, who are in this business together...Tev being my honey guy.

But, the outside world? No.

Living in Georgia for three years taught me to shut up about what I do.
thats my line as well. and my family knows to! shit i told my mom our best converting site is our Mom Bang and she was stoked to hear Moms are so popular
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Depends on who is asking. There is a time and a place for everything... and sometimes its not a great idea to tell people what you do for a living...
Exactly, most of my close friends know but I doubt they understand it. But then again my parents don't know, they think I'm a web designer, luckily they don't know how to use a computer!
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Contract web interfaces/sql designer - which is really what I've done for 10 years. Only my wife knows. Even my closest friends aren't told because they are all just stupid enough, or get drunk enough, to say something in front of my kids. Wife was really against it until I started making $200-$300 a day in just a month or 2.
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Alot of people here arent in the porn industry, they are in the online marketing industry. Thats why they get excited about naked pics posted or naked girls at industry shows. lol I see naked models up close at least once a week so its no big thrills for me lol. We tell everyone except my aunt and uncle and my parents friends out of respect for my parents.
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Old 02-18-2004, 04:24 PM   #46
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The reason I started this post is because I haven't figured out how to explain this to people. For one, I'm in college. So my friends don't see me as an entrepreneur they see me as someone who sits infront of the computer. They all doubt me simply because they don't understand. Now, I tell all my good buddies and half of them get on my site very often. Even at masturbation time (3 am)... They all think it's cool but it's kind of a joke too.

My parents know and support it strongly.

but, when I make new friends I'm afraid that if I tell them they might call me out about it infront of people that might become very judgemental towards me. I don't want to have a bad reputation because some people don't understand.
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Old 02-18-2004, 04:39 PM   #47
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The more religious or conservative the person is the more pornographic my job becomes. If it's a friend I just "sell porn", a religious zelout I "Sell naked titties, and hardcore gangbang video's to horny people worldwide".

I find it really gets rid of the losers quickly so I can concentrate on talking with the cool people.
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Old 02-18-2004, 04:40 PM   #48
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